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Do u av to disturb urself unneccesary? ur guy will take u if u re fat or slim, is just a flimsy excuse to tell u that he is fed up with u.

U do the right thing.

My joy come true

OYINBOGOJU:
IT IS OVER

SAYS THE LORD GOD OF HOST.

JUST LIKE THAT.

put urself in that shoe then u will know that is not just like that.

I know is not ur intention. Sometimes it happen before we realise that it has happened and it can happen to anybody.

You repent sincerely and ask for ur wife forgiveness, if she is an understanding woman am sure she will forgive u.

for the new girl involve let her know how special she is and tell her to understand with u, dat it can't work between u both.  She is human with feelings so, do not hurt her by handling d issue in an uncivil way.

I know is not ur intention. Sometimes it happen before we realise that it has happened and it can happen to anybody.

You repent sincerely and ask for ur forgiveness, if she is an understanding woman am sure she will forgive u.

for the new girl involve let her know how special she is and tell her to understand with dat it can't work between u both. She is human with feelings so, do not hurt her by handling d issue in uncivil way.

eh ya, man is not a crime to be faithful aslo is not ur fault for u to meet the unfaithful.

however, is ur fault dat the unfaithful is still adamant in her unfaithfulness cos do nothing to change the situation.

Still keep trying, someday u will find d faithful one.

Hello u don't need to disturb urself that much. Just fall asleep over the whole issue and allow God to take control .

190:
pls run away from the princess shes your age mate 4 cryin out loud

just sleep wit her and send her packin and stay hooked wit the hausa babe

dats ma advice~

Haba how can you say he sleep with princess and send are paciking, is she a toy to be treated that way? what if it happen to be ur sitser? the guy will just fian her and clean his mouth like nothing happened.   guy you no try at all.

Which one are we to take? cos somebody said the form is 1600 and u re saying 4500.

Well, one thing i will say, the shit have to happen so that there can be story, you see, you now have a story to tell time after and after again.

Also you don't let a guy stolen and shattered your heart to bug u that much because you have no control over that emotion.

Girl, feel free, put smile on the face because is more audible than laughter.  get going, dress up and show off like never before.

The last is that don't put that stupid notion in your mind that guys are all the same, there is  still good one among them, if you keep thinking about negative that guys are bad then you keep on meeting the bad guys.  But be very careful and sensitive in handling them.

The fact is that people know what to do to resolve this ASUU strike but nor want to do it because of their selfish interest.

We the student what are we going to do now, that is the question?

please i want to which of the department will rewrite the lasu post-jamb and also if it is only for indigenes ?

Please i need someone to hlep me with waec gce time table for nov/dec through my email ekrigbode@yahoo.co.uk

thanks.

A MAN OPEN IS FREEZE DOWN WHEN ASKED HE SAID IS BECAUSE HE WANT TO LISTEN COOL FM.

HAHAHHA! HAAAAA! HAAAAAAAA! HAHAAHAHHHAAAH! HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

The reason why men get bored on their wives after wedding are many but to say few.

1) When a woman lost her beauty when she was a single which attracted her to the man, definitely the man is sure to get bored cos he could not find that particular quality that cling him to the wife. For instance, a girl is sexy, smart, neat, and etc. but because she is now married or given birth to one or two she decieded to live like an old woman, men if at all am a man boring is an understatement. that is why women need to maintain thierselves and always keep thier body kinkin and neat and to act like some old rag.

2) In marketing we have what we called consumer desonaice whereby a buyer or consumer always feel dissatisfy or bored with the stuff he has gotten either feeling too costly, the qualityand other stuffs even if that stuff he bought is 100% ok the feeling always comes that apply to marriage too is just a common feeling but the husband have to accept the good which is wife he has gotten the way it .

3) while some husbands face that because the wife they married cannot satisfy them like the girl they ones hard. that boreness will creep in.

That is a nice description of how a home should be but a foundation lay not on God's ground will likely collapse any time .

pls i need an update of when oou post-jamb will take place and thier cutoff mark.

salsera:
now u are the close pal to the guy


abeg go to some other forum and stop wasting ppl's time.

if am the close pal to the guy does it stop you from saying your own view? I don't waste peoples time ok.

arramyjay:
I dont really dont knw wht to say,but 11yrs is not a joke,and 4 11yrs u guys cudnt work out the reason it wont work.Do u believe in divorce?

I do not believe in divorce but i do not intend to hurt her

Bossman:
LOL! This is too funny. Go back and start from scratch. You have confused just about everyone here and probably yourself.

I see nothing funny there for me trying to explain the feelings of a man so that you can offer your opinion.

Akinagirl:
This would have been a believeable story IF we knew what gender you are and what role you play in this story. Are you male or Female. Or are you both? I'm just saying. Please be more clear so that you can get some reasonable, sound, mature advice. Thank you.

I want your sincere opinion. So my been girl or boy does not have to stop you from giving a sound and mature advice.

MRbrownJAY:
if you cant explain the reason why you cant marry number 1 then you shouldnt put half stories in here.
there is no way someone can give you a mature advice UNLESS they know the WHOLE story.

The reason been that her parents her Christian (Evangelist for that matter) while my parents are moselems and besides that the mum takes me as her own son but the truth is that she does not know that am having her fair with her daughter.

Also the girl in Question is having a temper that is beyound control and i sat down with elders to present this case, they all have one voice that it will not be good if i go ahead to marry her that it will be disaster.

ifyalways:
@Poster,ur profile says female and u are here yarning abt girlfriends?are u a lebian 
Plus,are you not the one who wrote this  :ois this some super story?

It is not a super story neither am I a lesbian but i just want to position myself as the guy in question to know ur view concerning this issues.

I am old enough for marriage and the girls in question too.

Well am a graduate.

At least a year plus.

I think the both of them but when am with #2 i feel like a man. she has this kind of spirit i found so captivating.

Well, for that i can't even explain is complicated more than i thought.

It will not be new if am poured with words of insult but i just need to express what am feeling right now.

I have been going out with this girl for the past 11yrs, i love her but the truth is that i can't marry her due to some circumstances beyound my control. she knows that too but she keeps on saying that it will work out.

Is never in me to have plunged into another relationship but because of this problem i found my self in the arms of another who infact loves me dearly and in return i love her too to the extend of telling her that i would have married her immediately if she was the one i first met. She is my Idea of wife, she is a wife material, having the qualities of not just a woman but a wife.

Sometimes i feel she is disguising but i realise she is not, just been her real self and very very understanding.

Here comes my problem, i don't want to hurt my first girl because of the time she has invested in the relastionship aslo i do not want to hurt my present girl because of how good she is to me.

I have never been confused in my life but this am really confused.

What do i do and how do i go about it cos i don't want to let go of my present girl and i don't want to hurt old girl too.

Is it ur dad that want spend the rest of his life with ur wife or u?

man wake up i stop day dreaming,

For 6yrs ur dad did not know that you guys are not compatible he just suddenly realise that.

Well is too bad.

but follow ur heart.

Pls can someone update on when they will write post-jamb in Lasu and OOU.

From the outset he told me he has a girl friend then i foolishly accepted cos he promise as time goes on everything we be normal that i should pls bear with him and as that time thier link was not close also is not my wish for him to gilt another girl for my sake.

I traveled and i return for him to tell me that so many things happen between his other girl . He does not want to lose me neither his other girl.

He humiliated me on several ocassions.

for instance denying me in front her,

Not wanting the other girl to know about our relationship.

To the extend he ask is mum to wallk me out of is house cos is other girl is coming to see him or that i should have call before coming with that flamsy excuse.

Yet he comes back begging that i should understand that he does not need confrontations that is why he is acting that to me and that am the one who understand better. he does not want to lose me.


He always ask me to be patient that he knows what is doing. The fact is that is always honest, even knowing well that it hurt he rather present you the truth than lies may be that is why am so blinded by him that i know the right thing to do but i can't do it.

The truth of the matter is that the girl is there before me and i am woman with feelings that want her to be hurt neither do want myself to be hurt too.

However, i do not want to lose him. Am confuse i don't know what to do.

Why Not?
If the husband accept to pound yam for his wife i see no big deal about it.

Is just that we Nigerians are filled up with tradition that some might kick against it.

for me i see it as a way of building love .