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Melvyn11:
Harsh

Parents with deformities or illness that can easily be passed down to offspring should not reproduce.

semid4lyfe:
On this burial stuff, make I yarn una one story.

Mid 2022 - Early 2023, inexplicable things begin dey sup for our family.

Me, dem hold my promotion for office. This was despite acing the appraisal assessment and being recommended for promotion.

Business wey I establish as additional side hustle to my 9 - 5 run down.

Pregnancy wey my sister carry after years of TTC drop.

A cousin in Okitipupa commot for house to go work and never returned back.

A niece in the university, a very brilliant gal studying Nursing Science woke up one morning and begin dey kolo.

Popsy sef dey get incessant health issues that time.

E even reach my elder bro side for Cany, as hin lose hin good paying job.

etc etc

As in, everything just dey go wrong that time with all of us

Na so mumsy dream that period and in the dream, our paternal grandpa appeared to her and admitted to being behind our travails because popsy, our uncles and aunts no give am befitting burial when him kpai.

According to how she take narrate am, hin spirit dey aggrieved and is not at rest because he was buried dishonourably, and na why hin dey afflict us.

Keep in mind, that grandpa kpai in the late 90's.

She begin dey disturb and pile pressure on popsy and we the children say make we do the traditional burial rites and give grandpa a befitting sendforth to the great beyond.

Initially we refused but after unrelenting pressure from her, incessant calls and impressing it on us the children that popsy was aged, and may be called home soon, and customarily, we are barred from giving him a "befitting burial" because he didn't do such for grandpa, we caved and in and agreed to give grandpa a befitting burial in the form of a thanksgiving/remembrance.

Popsy being the oldest son called a family meeting and convinced his brothers, sisters and cousins. Dem pick date wey be last week of December 2023, do budget, share responsibilities and the bills.

Me, I don know say I no go travel go villa because wifey was due in January, and I couldn't leave her cos na me be her only support system.

Elder bro in Cany on PR visa was due for citizenship in January, and was solely focused on that and did not want to elongate his eligibility days by travelling to Nigeria.

Two cousins abroad in UK on care work visa were not coming too.

Everybody sent money and our cousins back in the villa did the logistics and running around.

We collect Aso-ebi. Bought two cows. Booked the community secondary school field and hired a traditional highlife musician with his band for the all-night party.

The traditional rites to appease grandpa's soul were done, Church thanksgiving/remembrance was done too,

The all night party was well attended, People ate, drank to their fill and danced merrily. Everything went well. Na so we take run the thing and everyone went back to base and their normal lives afterwards.

As we enter January 2024, my promotion came through and was backdated to October 2022 when I was originally due. All the arrears of the salary increment was paid to me with my January salary.

My cousin wey go work in Okitipupa and disappeard was found wandering in Oshodi in tattered clothes and bathroom slippers and clearly in a dishevelled state. He underwent rehabilitation and has fully recovered today.

My sister took in again in January 2024, carried the pregnancy to term and delivered a bouncing baby boy in September.

My niece studying Nursing Science in University deferred her programme for a session, underwent treatment & rehabilitation, and is now fully recovered, back in school and in her final year.

My ekder bro's cany citizenship came through and he got a better paying job than the one he lost.

Popsy after being in and out of hospital in 2023 did not visit the hospital once in 2024.

And so on and so on...........

I no dey put stock for this kind spiritual stuff but these na things wey we experience for our family. and shey na just coincidence say things begin dey pick up for us after we buried grandpa "right", comments?

Why did it take more than 20years before he realized he wasn't given a befitting burial?Those are just superstitions.

Leyqute:
You can ask Mourinho what kind of players he wanted after he finished second and he was crying at every press conference. Same for Rangnick when he went on the open heart surgery diatribe during a press conference.

During Ten Hag’s era, it was very clear we needed an Eriksen profile but much younger after his first season. Do you know what we did? We went to Chelsea and splashed 60m on Mason Mount , even though he hadn’t kicked a ball for months.

We keep making rookie mistakes that we’re still suffering from.

Personally, I think our last summer TW wasn’t that bad. But we need to build on that window with more quality signings. Else, we’ll be back to square one.

If Erik wanted a player of that profile he would have gotten it. He was the one that asked for Mount.

Our spending should be compared with actual clubs like Arsenal and Liverpool not even City that are being bankrolled by a nation state and even at that we are still outspending or spending similar numbers. How much has Liverpool and Arsenal spent on their various squads over the last 4 to 5 seasons? Arteta took over Arsenal in a bad position and they are currently fighting for titles spending only about 120 millon more than Erik did despite coaching for 2 seasons more. Klopp was fighting and winning titles under Fsg that are very strict when it comes to spending. Anybody saying we are penny pinching is just being Mischievous. Years of ridiculous spending without getting value from them is hunting us currently.

Leyqute:
You don’t need to spend when you’re winning.

What happened when Citt discovered the eir attack was okay and that defense was their problem? They bought defenders worth close to 400m in one transfer window.

Before they won the league, they investead ateadily for years.

United is in shambles and instead of reinforcing steadily, we keep penny pinching. One injury to Hojlund and Ugarte and we will land in big trouble.

Do you like things the way they are? You enjoy us being 1-2 injury away from playing academy players and entering relegation form? What am I saying sef? We’re already in relegation form and are relying heavily on academy players.

Just don’t be among those complaining when we lose the next EPL game.

Bro over the past 10 seasons we have spent more money than City. Over the past 4 to 5 years we have spent more money than Arsenal and Liverpool. How can we be penny pinching and still outspending our rivals? Any United fan saying we haven't spent Money on players is being mischievous. The problem has never been about spending money, it's getting value for the money spent. We just spent close to 700million under Ten hag in 3 seasons which was more than Pep spent in first 3 seasons at City and you are talking about penny pinching.

A40:
I like that she has stayed true to herself. I have a soft spot for her and I love that she didn't resort to singing pangolo riddims just to conform like Yemi Alade did.

They shamed her to showing her bumbum which she later did, we are not complaining but the fact that she remained her sultry self and never went full rachet is very pleasing to see

I wonder why Ayra is not getting the same popularity and applaud like Tems. She has
better vocals and stage performances.

Leyqute:
Jeez. Man City just paid 60m for a new midfielder today. Buyout clause.

They’ve bought around 5-6 new players this January TW alone. Damn.

This is a team in disarray. They’ve got a good coach and know they need new players. And they are splurging.

United, on the other hand, “ don’t want to make past mistakes ” 🤣

When some teams “make mistakes”, they spend more to correct it. At United, we make mistakes and lick our wounds.

Our suffering go long walahi. There’s no need getting worked up at bad performances or results. I’m only waiting for when Amorim will tell us the suffering is over— if he hasn’t been sacked yet.

They are buying because they only spent 25million in the summer. We spent 200million in the summer alone. We have spent more money on transfer than City over the last 4 to 5 seasons. Spending money on players has never been the issue.

We have a coaching and system problem.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
This is an invalid question because the agency allowed the Foursquare members to conduct religious activities. They also came for training.

The question is valid. They came for training not to observe prayers.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Nope. They were refused praying inside the church premises.
Why will the church host such training in the first place knowing fully well there are staffs from other religious groups in attendance?

Did they come for religious activities or training?

Melvyn11:
Bro is asking if he should confront her. Wetin man do man .

Nigga is just insecure. Insecurity in any relationship is a terrible thing.

ouzo1:

This guy looks 30.

Boniface is just 24 going to Saudi Arabia.

Ballzproblem2:
JUST IN 🔴

President Donald Trump is set to sign an executive order today to develop a U.S. missile defense system modeled after Israel’s Iron Dome. - CNN

Israel is nothing without America crew won't see this .

Indeed they are nothing.

raumdeuter:
Chioma don choose to carry her cross early in life, She no complete Uni as she dropped out of Babcock, so cant really go get a 9-5 job like that.

Unless she ready humble go back to school and start working like regular girls, enter regular BRT, fly regular economy to UK, Have to deal with place of work shenanigans, kiss asss of oga at appraisal for what Davido pays his Gateman a month

Otherwise she is comfortable with her golden handcuffs

Boss na you dey think am deep. For many of these girls the comfort outweighs any philandering. There are approximately 100M young females willing to take Chiomas place if she lose guard

Chioma parents are fully loaded. She's not with Davido strictly for the money. If she's tired she will leave. Annie too is not poor by any standard.

yewit37486:
Wow, let me go and check.

He might just be a boytoy. The guy looks young.

yewit37486:
Nah, she actually left her husband for 2face, it was public knowledge then. She didn't remarry again. And to be honest, I don't know what he sees in her but anyway, different strokes for different folks.

She said it herself.

yewit37486:
Pero was married briefly before she got involved with tuface, she had a child from that union. But after that, she didn't remarry although some claim she and Tuface got married lowkey (I doubt though). She's got 4 kids, 3 of which are for 2face.

She married after getting involved with 2face. What kind of simp marries a woman with 2kids for a different man.

raumdeuter:
There is childhood love or can I say infatuation, we all had one girl we "loved" in primary and JS class. As we grow older we realize say our parents were right when they were telling you that
"Leave women face your book, when you are successful, women go come"

High school relationships are just for fun. I don't think there's anything meaningful attached to it.

raumdeuter:
Bros leave that thing. 90% of women do not marry their childhood love. Make childhood love no get money and see where he go dey

Where is Somadina that was Reginas childhood love?

There's actually nothing like childhood love. That's a myth.

raumdeuter:
Landmark judgment in Nigeria

https://www.nairaland.com/8326292/court-fines-lady-150k-failing

Are you sure that's an actual court.

BlueRayDick:
Wise bookies just need to contact these guys , give them gigs to include some games which they (the bookies ) have privileged information about its outcome in their tickets
and they will drop codes for u. If just 1/4 of each of their followers just stake those games and lose ; the bookies are already in a good place for that week. Whatever happens after that leading to those guys dropping winning codes , the bookie would not be shaken at all.

No bookmarker will put a fixed match or outcome into their market.

swiz123:
That midfield is too slow and weak.

Easily bullied and penetrated. When did Pep start neglecting his midfield. I expected him to lock down that midfield at 2:1.

City have issues in midfield yet they are busy singing underage centerbacks without addressing the main concern.

nitrogen:
Baba is just stubborn. He’s forgotten that players are more powerful these days. He better sit up else his career will be tainted. Even the more experienced managers that won something for us had their careers dented by the club.

Stubborn how?

Melvyn11:
Reddit completely hates musk. All the subs are banning links to Twitter.

X is already dead.

iamoyindamola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8322323/united-states-only-recognise-two
Awon confused woke mad lgtbwetighjdgjkrr daran
I like this from trump

Someone should inform Trump male and female are sexes not genders.

larride:
It will probably get to $100 and above tomorrow during his inauguration.

Any smart person will be taking profit as it move. Those that got in early should be smiling to the bank already.

I'm sure oga Ibime got in early.

82% of that coin is in a single individual wallet.

Ballzproblemm:
Allah burn California because of Gaza but in no fit save en place of worship,or start the fire for Israel land .

Wetin una dey worship sef .

I wish you realize by attempting to mock Allah you are indirectly mocking your own god.

Jamiuokolaa:
He seems to have flopped hard at Psg...

A loan deal might not be too bad sha...considering that Orobosa and Rashford might leave soon

Maybe Psg is down to Enrique system. Even Ugarte was considered a flop. With Rashford leaving I wouldn't mind a loan plus he thrived at Frankfurt when they played 3:4:2:1.

Why dont uk rappers break into the U.S market? Central cee only gained some fans there thanks to that Doja cat hit.

Ibime:
No rather AS is a benefit to the black race because it makes us malaria resistant. The S is a mutation that protects against malaria, na why AA people like me are always in hospital with malaria

Kolo muani on loan till May. Yes or Nah?