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@190,gbam!I can't stop laughing but that lady is kinda wicked!

@Pc guru,bro no sarcasm intended.What I meant was that my friend used condom the first time but subsequently bleeped without condom cos he believd he was the first.Please,I want to advise him to reconcile with this girl cos puts up a good character and also beautiful half-caste.I heard that Staph can not be sexually transmitted.Is it true?

@190 just laughing at you.I come out straight in my own case and don't hide but this is a friend.Will you continue in that relationship?

Just yesterday,my friend came to my house looking emotionally depressed.He told me how his beautiful fiance spoilt his day by revealing that she has been battling with Staphilococus for years.He said the painful part was that,during their early dating,she claimed being a virgin but he tacticaly used his finger to discover she wasn't! In defence,she told him that it was doing a swap test that the doctor used a test instrument which broke her virginity.My friend forgave her.He said during their first time of intimacy,the girl insisted on NO CONDOM but my friend used it but later had intimacy with her with no condom.Now my friend is mad at her and cut her off because he feels the girl was wicked by allowing have unprotected sex.He is scared of infection and want to know if can continue in such relationship

What a great article! The only case is that the privileged few accounts for about only 20% of the entire Nigerian population while poverty lives with the majority.The poor are even praying for that chance of making money to pamper themselves before pampering their children.The wealth of Nigeria is concentrated only in few hands.

The only solution, the only solution to the Boko Haram menance,is scrapping the youth's minds of violence and belief in the matyrdom in suicide bombing.That nasty belief in sleeping with 52 virgins in Al-juana(paradise).This task is difficult cos it is part of their religious and belief system, so sad.Suicide,which a christian sees as d fastest route to hell and frowns at,is seen by them as the fastest way to their paradise.Religion is a way of life,so tell me,why would violence stop when the almajiris during their early school(karatul)were fed with this violence triggering beliefs that make them lunatical fanatics!

Ah Apache77 so you even know the price of bike and you insulted me on my thread.Can you see how poverty is smelling all over you?I know you live in Ajegunle

Dyt:
Yh sure it does
my bestfrnd s a guy
we slp on same bed sm nyts
he helps me wit rubbin of cream smtyms
infact we so close dat does n bras n all
sexxxx neva occurs 2 any of us
he s more lyk a bro

Ahhh Dyt are you that irritating that a male friend can not be moved by your body,if sure you are cute, the guy's bom boy might have a k-leg.lols

This Apache77 has been a FOOL and will remain a FOOL all his life. I actually suspected him to be one of these local yahoo yahoo boys whose little money decieve them into insulting people with reputation and clean wealth.He is a partner in crime that would be in EFCC's net soon.What a dumb post!What should we say? Ok, he was not sacked for forged certificates but because he stole money, please go to Special Fraud Unit to get your share, in handcuffs.I would take up your prosecution so that you can rot in jail if you do not repent.

This same Apache77 insulting me that i am poor in my post without knowing my real life good status.You are gradually washing your dirty linen in public

I'm speechless and don't know what to say.If I ask you to leave your present girl and I later develop interest for her(which is certain),you will call me a betrayer.My advice;marry both cos if u leave either,I would take over the present while the other guy would hijack the former and you will be paying us visits after every child birth.

@ Da Doctor, just did that for the sake of the fools that jump on people's threads and without reading, pour insults and expose their folly.

@Upendo,Apache77,Zahnda, you are FOOLS! Did you not read my replies where i expressed my surprise on how a woman would tell me that she is falling for me because of those features? Most of you do not read to comprehend,but read marginally. It would be childish for a man like me; (who has swam many expensive punny rivers and running away from cheap ones), to be carried away by such confessions from a lady.I did not imagine that, she confessed that to me in her chart which i see as being absurd (Though two ladies had told me about my lips before).

I am not gay but a full man that pound punny fiercely.For several of you that call guys with pink lips gay,I remember a topic here on NL that tried to find out if women love guys with pink lips and all the ladies replied in affirmative and you are now talking trash!

To be serious Genevieve Nnaji also confessed that she wants to marry a guy with Boris Kodjo's lips (He has well shaped pink/red lips like mine and my kind of eyes). I am tempted to post my pix but can not due to security reason, but i share a resemblance with Boris Kodjo  in Lips, eyes and smiles. What would i benefit from advertising myself on NL.

Haha I can't stop laughing at your funny replies.I have a personal as well as an official car.I'm reserved and do not show off,so i take BRT buses sometimes and stay quietly to my destination.I am not trying to praise myself about my looks, but was only surprised how a lady would like my lips and eyes.She was too forward in her questions that made me to suspect her.I have female admirers,who may be falling because of my intelligence,status and(after bed experience) my sex magic.Yes, I am handsome but do not expect a woman to be telling me about my lips,eyes and voice cos it is only admired in women.

@MM3,I have cut her totally off despite her pleas and trying out a serious relationship.Read my conclusion.That thread is no more relevant cos i have taken a decision.

@others that see it as an opportunity;My jobs bring female admirers and I bet any very young man that have attained my status(through God's grace) would frolic with women and would not like any serious relationship.I am disciplined,I do not jump into every woman that shows interest without proper analysis cos i have a discerning spirit. I see this as a trial,especially after coming out of a love tangle that nearly frustrated me,though foreseen.

I accidentally met a pretty lady in a commercial bus who claimed to have problem with her bb messanger.Seeing a bb in my hand she asked me to help.I was relunctant at first cos I don't talk to strangers in public buses,I decided to help her,along the line,I went ahead to teach lots of things on bb which she was quite happy about.As I we were about getting to d final bus stop,I discovered she was trying to dial her number through my own phone claimin to check her ring tone.I smiled n helped her,we exchanged pins and we parted ways smiling.I was surprised when I got a chat message from her asking me about my self,I wasn't free but asked to google it to know herself cos I don't give my details to strangers.she was angry and I told her to please delete my pin and number cos I wud delete hers.She called to confirm and I affirmed.The next day I was surprise to get a chat from her telling me I was killing her slowly with my pink lips,dreamy eyes and cool voice.She has been begging to meet me again but I have not been serious about it.Now I don't want to jump into her cos I sense she may be desperate for marriage cos she said she's single and searching.How do I handle her emotions?

@OP,I would not take such from another guy,ur gf needs your protection as a man.You should have warned him for disrespecting u(unless ure a weakling and afraid).You don't have any feeling for ur gf cos u discovered she's d one dying for you.she wud leave u for a real man who can protect her soon!keep forming fine guy.

Hm,my weekend routine is Lecturing my postgraduate students.My saturday is usually flexible,but sunday is hec!Start first lecture by 8.30am and continue to 5pm non stop,five classes.

@OP,you are 100% on point.A girl in trouser with curves doesn't attract until I see her in skirt to know what's there.Most Nigerian girls wear trousers to cover errors such as knocked knees,scary patches and scars,discouloration due to nonsense bleaching,yam tuber legs,unequal calves.A lady in my office has never worn a skirt to the office before,she has wonderful shape.I dated her.when she pulled off her clothes,I noticed dark patches all around her legs and she confessed the reason for trousers.

Fat ladies are turnoff to me cos they tend to develop stretch marks,punny odour and so dull in bed.Only doggy style can go,woman on top is suicidal,punny slacking with with much fluid,no friction to bring pleasure.Fat chicks always look married with children and not asked out for serious date cos no one needs tokunbo lady.

You have said it all that it is karma.I can say that you decided to pick ur new fiancee based on her wealthy family background and left the other who has good personal attributes.Remember that persnal potentials matter a lot than family potential.Your new girl is immature and still proud of her family affluence and you will not respected,hence her excuse to pay back when daddy sent.In life learn not to deceive a lady by promising marriage immediately cos it has consequencies when u pull out with no great reason.If she only squandered money and promise to pay back,it is okay,but if she has other shortcomings,I think you should addressed it before proposing marriage.If u gn ahead to break another heart u will be guilty for the second time.What if ur first girl isn't interested again?Bro go ahead with the marriage and sort things out with the new one.Good luck!

Telling the person sorry with remorse works wonders,but it is limited to situations such as being stubborn or insulting your partner.If it is the case of betraying trust through infidelity or hiding a secret of ur dirty past later discovered by your partner,remorseful sorry may calm his nerves and you will be forgiven but THE TRUST would wane forever that is why those who may not put up with it,go for a divorce.This is from experience.

Who should call?, anybody,depending on whom the luv shacks d most.For me,I don't enjoy voice call for long period unless for business.I tell my friends earlier to be exonerated when allegations of no calls come.I send text messages only when neccessary.Though I don't believe in calling to fulfill all righteousness cos I don't pretend.

@OP,I've read your lips and found out you are one of those ladies that echoes loving someone without reflecting it in your actions.Let's face it,he has consistently demanded for sex and you declined.He truly believes that someone somewhere is doing the job cos you aren't a virgin but forming a good girl to milk him dry.Think deeply,when you are real,he will believe your so-called kele kele love

@ everyone,I've sorted all out,thanks for all your contributions even though some could not comprehend the story before spitting jazz.Let that fool that said I'm telling stories examine his rottening brain.

To everyone,I confronted her as I said.On the message case,she tried denying and was angry that I was accusing her falsely,she still went ahead to tell me that she still reserve her luv for me.when I called the man's name,she started stammering,I showed her the print out evidence(including the child's case),she broke into tears.She has found out that my trust for her has waned.Thank God I have made up my mind to move on,I have learned not to be too compassionate about a woman's touching story to fall in love.My greatest pain is:I made up my mind to use her built trust as an example for other women to emulate(I never believd I could trust any lady until I met her)but see what has happened.She has been crying and begging me.You know how it feels

All i know is that the guys that indulge in this gay stuff in Nigeria are just desperate for money and not doing it for fun or because they are born that way.The major motive behind it is for money rituals and fame.Why some guys are experimenting and being cool with it is because anal f**ckn with ladies these days is craved for.Many ladies love it and most guys would like to have its feel.If only the anus can tear up and they bleed to death, they would not like to stop it.It is irritating!

The second guy she sent a message of having missed his kisses,hugs,touches and sex,is her church member in Lagos.She goes to church from the office every fridays and returns to her home on sunday night claiming attending choir practice and meeting.I must get to the root of this today after work!

I actually understand what all of you are talking about, it may seem that i am trying to cage her despite not wanting to marry her.The truth is, if i had moved on with any other lady in the office or outside even though we have defined our relationship,she would be hell mad.She still confides in me like a brother,I advise her,help her out financially.She wants us to be enjoying together until she gets married(Though i was not comfortable with this cos it is also tying me down).We are perfect friends but for marriage compactibility, i have been indecisive but not conclusive.

My anger was for the fact that she has been presenting herself as a virteous woman and confided her past in me,this made me to even continue in assisting her and she still hope i would change my mind to marry her.Imagine telling such dirty secret to an online stranger just because he claimed to be a medical doctor in the US having problem with his American wife who later learnt he has a child in Nigeria.The guy in question has only a photograph in his profile and sent a number to her to call a brother which she foolishly did.Can you imagine the 419 personality?

This may be a way for God to let me know the impending danger,if i eventually give marrying her a second thought.I have made up my mind to move on with my life while she goes her way.While going home today.,i must confront her, I have the messages printed out. We must clarify issues once and for all.I have female admirers all over and I am a part time lecturer.I am realy serious to settle down,but this incident has increased my previous fears that i can not trust a woman!

Iv faced such situation before and I'm just getting out of it.They will try to show care and respect but pull off fast and don't think of marriage cos it will frustrate you.I entered mine out of a pity to help out and it turned out to slavery.I can't open my eyes to woo an elderly lady.

She didn't know that her facebook was still logged on in my system because there was power interruption that automatically shut my system down and saved the tabs she was browsing at, because my UPS was faulty.I am a manager while she is the secretary.She went to print a document from my system and browsed her way off when i was off for an appointment.

I am sorry for not putting the whole writeup in paragraph,i wrote them out of anger and confusion.

Please i need your advice on this.I met this lady about seven(7) years older than me (but she doesn't look her age)in an office i work.Other managers have been making a pass at her but she refused.One day while going home together she asked me to come over to know her house since it was close bye,i agreed and went,about 8pm i decided to leave but she asked me to stay till the next day because it was late.I agreed.When it was bed time, i wanted to lie on the chair but she invited me over the bed and told me not to worry.While lying on the bed,she turned and asked if i thought she would disturb me,she said in a weak voice while her hand was resting on my chest tickling my hair,I held her and caressed her with my blood boiling hot and my manhood erect.Suddenly i discovered there was no condom and i withdrew myself explaining to her and she laughed telling me she was sorry taking me unawares that when next i should come with my ''tools''.I went back next time and bleeped her for almost 2hours(no exaggeration).That was the beginning of the journey.She told neighbors that i was her brother that just got a job around.As we proceeded,she told me not to commit my heart too much in the relationship because she may be ordained a female priest in their church which doesnt permit them to marry.Some months later she came with the news that the situation has changed and as a female priest one could still marry.When she wanted to relocate to a new place the owner of the new house refused to accept payment from her cos she had a policy of not accepting single ladies.She missed the first opportunity.When she got another accommodation opportunity she begged me to present myself as the person in need,so i went and made the payment in my name and smartly told the owner that i have a sister that would be staying with me.I therefore decided to be passing most of my nights there to prevent suspicion from the owner of the house.The landlady was seeing us as a brother and sister.Our relationship started building,until a day she called me to complain that i was not showing her love outside,like holding her while walking on the streets but i reminded her that our representation to people around as brother and sister could not allow that.She continued complaining and later she called me in a night to ask me if i have plans of marrying her.That was a big question! I told her that my plan of marriage is in distant future.She reminded me that she was not getting younger,and asked if she should wait till any time im ready.I blankly told her that i would not be a clog to her wheels especially if she has gotten anybody that was ready to marry her,she should go ahead.She became angry and said i was deceiving her all the while,which i reminded her that i never,because i have helped her in several ways.Then anytime i dreamt i would be seeing another man in her house,i tried to find out if she had anybody,but she denied.All the while i saw that i could trust her because she said she didnt double date.We later settled our differences and she said since i wasnt ready to marry yet,i should leave her alone.I was touched but to prevent her from being thrown out of the house i rented with my name,i quickly told the landlady that i have been transfered that i would not be always around and my sister would be representing me.All these while we would still meet in the office and when there was need for me to see the landlady,i would pretend as if i came from journey and go.I discovered that anytime i went around,my girlfriend would be very excited,suddenly my feelings even to get married to her within a short time increased.I protected her interest in the office as a superior and my coleagues though suspected could not get any clue till date if we are dating or not.I take care of some of her financial needs anytime she called on me not to make her feel bad.She asked me to promise her not to date any female coleague in the office as they all fall head over heels for me and i agreed.She receives calls from different men almost every minute in the office and when going home(unlike before).Sometimes in some of the calls,she would inform the caller that she was with a coleague that they would talk later.One day, i became angry and told her that telling someone that on phone was a disregard to me.She apologised,but i told her no problem,she went ahead to swear that she still loved me that all the callers are just face book friends not even living in lagos.Because i trust her,i agreed. Yesterday, i got the shocker of my life when i got to my office and discovered she used my system to access her facebook without not logging off.I saw a message she sent to a male friend that she has missed his kisses,hugs and love making.I discoverd that the friend lives in lagos and her church member!.I left her face book logged on and getting to office today i saw another message telling another male friend that she had a child at 18. Now i am lost.I still drove her home from office today but decided to control myself.What should i do? I am boiling!