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Sweeetheart:
How much does DNA test cost in Nigeria?

Fucsheetup:
The digust is mutual.

ZeroShenanigan:
I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.

As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.

I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.

Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result.
From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.

My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.

Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments.
After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.

During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby.
I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.

I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler.
Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?

samuel19222:
Damn niggarr, if you wanna hustle, make sure you hustle smart.

But he no get as he be ooo

Corruption don eat our root very well

Bank officials sef dey always dey happy when gee come collect

Gee go hustle over night and during the day sef na update, with one or two soap so make the hustle pay.

All this Efcc sef na bad belle, once they know say you dey press and them bill you better $ but you dey do strong head, Na straight to court and media, But if they bill you and you settle them you’re free.


So my guy hustle and forget about them entirely because MONEY answer all thing

FlordFlorez:
so...u are saying marriage is a scam and i shouldn't marry, right?

ValCon888:
It hurts me when I see men fall for feminine fraud.

Marriage is the oldest scam in the world invented by Eve, the first yahoo girl that ever lived.

Adam was tired of her titties and wanted an extra pair of tits to play with. He knew he was going to get it because he was the favourite of God's creation.

But Evil Eve got wind of his plans and connived with the Devil to give him an apple, and that's how this scam has persisted to this day.
Spits!

A sucker is born every minute bro
Why won't the lady be happy when she has found a workhorse who will serve her for life

ifytrik:
After sleeping with hundreds of men and performing countless abortions, she taught no maga will fall but to her greatest surprise dis mugu still fall for her yakata

FlordFlorez:
are u wishing me badluck by saying i should come back after 2years (u are even specific about the period) and tell u whatever? I bind u & ur badluck in JESUS name. Haba!

love still dey shack you.
Some of us men are fools
Come back after two years of marriage and tell me if this "love" you have for her hasn't turned to hate.


Here is another video about women that I think you should watch


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4DfQhh7v2xA

FlordFlorez:
u talk sense but this my particular bae na Godsent. She no fit dey pretend for 3years of friendship plus 2year of relationship. She's different & CLASSIC!

STPEACE10:
No quarrel for 2yrs? I guess the relationship is filled with pretence or both of you live very apart and see each other once in a blue moon. No matter the gravity of the love that exist between the both of you, issues must occur once in a while, but the thing that makes the difference is the ability to resolve it within few hours of the misunderstanding.

ameh99:
So someone can not sleep in peace again...

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

those ones don disappear
Awon feminist

jaksmillioniar:
sassysure amarabae funmisticqueen sterope ginaz canadiannaija ikombe adewumiopeyemi ibkayee shinarlaura trustyshoess other feminist is dis right

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

XXLMANDIGO:


Na to remain unmarried ooo.