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Baloranking:


Simps still destroying the images of men

LaJoe2:

My brother is married, whenever he comes around, I see the stress over his face, he used to be fairer than me. Even his rent had to be paid again for the 2nd time by someone else. He couldn't make the rent money.

The other day, all the staffs in the house had to gather to help start his car.

But I see the wife, getting fatter, moving around like a hog (I'm sorry, couldn't find a better description). Always walking around like she's tired or pregnant. The first thing she does when she comes around is to change the channel to ZeeWorld. You can tell shes living carefree.

I'm sorry, their situation doesn't encourage me to be married. Trust me, my brother would have been better off alone.

That's marriage in Nigeria.

Marriage is not bad, but wisdom. You have to assess the season to be married and the purpose. There is a right time and purpose. In our parents time, it was good/favorable to be married, men and women were brought up better and better trained for marriage plus the economy was better, but is it the same now, NOOOO!

It would be foolish of you to say, I must replicate what my parents did without considering that time has changed. Be ready to enter gbase.

So not desiring marriage at 35 means a man is irresponsible
Women are one illogical bunch I swear!
Must every man be your slave

DebbieSylvex:
Girl the guy See's no future with you,he's probably making up that shits just to scare you off thinking he'll wife you someday. How can a 35yr old man not want to be responsible? .what makes a boy a man is his sense of responsibility and that kinda comes wen a man decides to have a family of his own.

This whole baby-mama thingy disgusts me.

Girl you better not ruin your life because of one emotional inbalanced kiddo.

Receive sense!!!!!

bro how did you know!!!?? .. lmao
He specifically complained of this rationing of sex stuff oo.

Skepticus:
The bolded is true.

The mystery and unpredictability that the single guy held to her is gone. Also, she may have probably married him for his ability to provide (as a beta-simp) while she has her eyes on the asshole alpha who wouldn't settle into marriage with her.

Now, she rations sex while also detesting him

Marriage sucks for most men.

this one is already tripping because of her dp
the juice isn't worth the squeeze bro.
All these subtle simping won't do you any good.
these thots you see on nairaland put their pictures on there to lure in fools.
Be wise make you no go fall mugu.

Ayt27:
You know you eventually gave in your two cents still, subtle yet classy.

alot of my friends always complain of how their wife changed after marriage.
One called me yesterday complaining bitterly of how his soft and cool headed girlfriend suddenly changed after he married her;the guy is even contemplating divorce sef but the lady don get bele

It seems women treat men well during courtship than when married.

yanabasee1:
You see, relationship is very different from marriage.....


The moment the two of you began to live together....as husband and wife not as boyfriend ND girlfriend, that's when you will spot the difference . .


The soft spoken and sweet girlfriend of yours will begin to show you the things you barely knew about her and likewise you....


Also, marriage is life...it will always be fun and then gets nasty.... And then get fun again and nasty like that....


There's no perfect marriage or couples....

nah wah ooo.
No more freedom

paulolee:
yes simply because i dnt av easy access to my oda female friends and am tired of using emergency night shifts and private night vigil to lie whenever i want to go and tast another nunu..

Oga share your experience nah

Abfinest007:
waiting

I see no logic in marriage tbh.
I already enjoy alot of benefits married men get;so a marriage contract is of no use to me.

I have always wondered how men cope with all the responsibilities marriage requires hence the reason I created the thread.

Gracealone:
You should share your own experience first.

babfet:
In every marriage a day like that will always come but how you manage the situation is what makes you an HUSBAND and not a baby daddy

Froshloaded:
Typing...

Fokosobo:
dont be deceived, most of those F monikers you see are guys in disguise. Nairaland has few legitimate females.

Asensio13:
This is the reason I don't and will never trust any girl In this life, even my future wife don't deserve my trust completely

olodo!
You no get anything wey you fit talk sef
Abeg shift!

AllenSpencer:
Same gibberish!

Your balderdash does not deserve a response.

Its outright bunkum!

AllenSpencer:
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Gibberish!

Xisnin:

Mr communist.
So people used to wake up and find food on their hut's door before the capitalist, imperialists, satanist, globalist took over?

In those days, lazy men starve to death.
You are lucky you are in a different era where you enjoy freebies.

I wish I can like this your comment a million times bro
You're smart!

timesup234:
They are not bastards. The bastards are global capitalists imperialists responsible for your suffering. They have made you a fool to think you need to sell your labor or you will starve to death. Forbes billionaires should all be beheaded and their corpses burnt after pouring acid on them