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I can not tell you what to do but the world has changed. You can be whatever you want to be, it takes a lot of work and discipline.

Chase your passion, chase money. Educate yourself while you are at it. Goodluck

With money, any dream is possible.

IamAnderson:
that has more honour than you

No never. He has more honor than a dog. Forget what the media tells you. Without humans, dogs can go extinct.

banjo022:
do our culture permits those rubbish u just mentioned?

Dreadlocks, tattoos are African cultures.

[quote author= post=80494813]Please, kindly tell us more.
We NEUTRALS are trying to know who is saying the truth in all of these.
Thanks in advance![/quote]You and I know where you stand. Stop this NEUTRAL nonsense you keep spewing.

Richdad50:


I pray for this young family that the Lord grant them strength in this time and that their bond may never be broken. I have seen men who love their wives but I have seen only a few who back up theirs on this scale. Despite the stigma and slander, he has held her high. What an incredible man.

A man is defined and judged in history by two things; family and decisions in defining moments. You must not only protect the physical space of your spouse but also her emotional and psychological space. What Timi Dakolo is doing is not just for the now but also for his future happiness. To clarify and clean up every dark spots and holes of emotional hurt she may have experienced by these past actions. A woman can never be happy or give happiness in totality until certain things are dealth with regardless of the means.

They have all to loose, bearing the shame on them and the children, bruise on his ego, and smirk on the faces of people she will meet, yet having considered these consequences, decided to move on with the campaign. No one in his right senses less a man who seems to have everything going on well for him will embark on such if there is no reward or gratification beyond financial gains. Something that will finally lay to rest all they have endured as a family. Something that will bring back the genuine smile and laughter in her eyes after a decade. Something out there is driving their guts and I respect them.

Richdad

Thank you! I will defend my wife with my life!

Xneg:
Jobless youths

Shut up slave

IamD18:
Are you out of your mind? Which action did I try justifying?

That he raped her? Where you there when it took place? How sure are you that he raped her? Don't you have common sense?

So someone accused a man of raping her 20 years ago and you expect a reasonable person to believe it immediately without any prove, evidence and substantial reason to?

If Bobrisky accuse your father of raping him, how quick will you to believe it? Won't you ask for evidence?

Asslickers like you are why some random ladies will be courageous enough to falsely accuse a man of rape and expect to get away with it.

I believe her 100%.............
You know nothing about rape.

IamD18:
Any group of people who left their house this morning only to go and protest and condemn a man for being accused without even being proven guilty are the real street jobless urchin.

And anyone who supports their action of protesting and condemning Pastor Biodun without having a substantial reason to, must experience what it means to be wrongly accused.

Idiiots! How many times have they protested to Aso Rock or Sambisa forest to cry for justice? Na on top preeq and toto matter dem sabi protest.

You have been commenting on every post defending him, you are trying so hard to justify his actions. Wicked religious sheep.

[quote author=FAMILYJA post=79801321]wisdom is knowing when to speak up. What is wrong with you people. What if she was your family member. Will you be saying all that nonsense. And then you are soliciting for help. Stop school and learn a skill.

FAMILYJA:
Another one! Anyways, I have no problem if anyone comes out to air what went wrong in her past life as far as the entire story is true. Rape should be frowned at by all who mean well to humanity but let the accusations be true and can be found so in the court of backed with evidences.

Having said that, please check my profile as I'm still in a distress situation on what comes of me if I do not pay my fees before commencement of exams on Tuesday. I know if this has come from a celebrity, millions if not billions of money would have been generated by now but since I'm not one, here I am. You can call on 08148799227 for any findings you may wish to make including proofs. Meanwhile, check my profile if you want to help. Thanks you.

fxkk your education!

Ciaos:
Everyone keeps supporting this woman,why?? Was her mouth covered when she was raped? Why didn't she open up to her parents,at least her mother?.. Her quietness all these while shows the kind of family she is from, and the kind of upbringing she had.. I think she and her husband has an interior motive as to why they decided to let this out now.....

You are too stupid

IamD18:
I wonder how many times she has been raped to be knowledgeable enough to know all kind of behaviours rape victims posses.

You are too stupid.

henryadex:
Going backward in the name of maintaining tradition

Colonial master's religion is not taking you anywhere either.

chrisnando:
Are you still asking??

They aren't scarier than the pope and most pastors.

Eziokwu1:
The Benins are indeed a very scary lot.
very fetish!

Whats scary about them？

Acedave1:
spit, bt in other countries its a must for evry citizens to educate

it's much worse is some other countries. Kids like this are used as terrorists in some places. I am not saying they don't deserve a better life, but I commend them for choosing a honest living even in their unfortunate circumstance. I hope you understand.

ShawtCake:
what are you saying? They are fvcking kids! Kids! They should be made to enjoy their childhood.. Playing with toys, eating and sleeping with no cares in the world! That's what a 5 year old does in saner climes.. And that early exposure to cement is letter to lukaemia and it's derivatives.. Arrghh

That's how messed up the world is, believe me these ones even have it better. Life's so unfair

Not everyone is privileged to go to school. I commend them for picking up a legit hustle as a means to survive.

Paulpeterparker:
pretty good reason why our students are always better. a child trained in the white man country has a 75% chance of being arrogant.

Have you ever lived outside Nigeria?

MJBOLT:

tell us nigerian history with tattoo

I've lived outside Nigeria for a while now and reading the comments. I can't believe Nigerians still think like this, we really have a long way to go. I'm not coming back anytime soon.

holyfather:
This right here is the problem, being "open minded" and being "educated", especially the American liberal way.
How about our norms as a society? How about our values as a people?
That's assuming you don't believe there's God and what He has to say.

By the way,are you "straight"?

Bring open minded is never the problem, being educated is never the problem. Being gay doesn't affect your Value.

Which country has more human value? America or Nigeria?

I am straight, but I have gay colleagues, neighbors, everyone minds their business. It's that easy.

holyfather:
Your position on this is exactly why these things thrive.

Whatever you do or however you feel, there will always be gay people, the law doesn't stop it, it only keeps them from coming out and living their lives as normal people,having opinions and striving. Believe me most of the people who made the law are also guilty.

Some men are not even straight but they marry a woman because of society, they end up abusing the wife. We need to be more open minded in Nigeria, no where in the world where gay people are the problem, unless they commit a sexual offence.

joyousever:
I disagree! They are hurting us with their negative lifestyle that is a strong contrast to the natural order of things. I'll continually hate & detest them. Nothing is more disgusting! No apologies.

You must understand, I don't feel comfortable about their sexual orientation, but they are not hurting anyone and any order. I live in an environment where being gay is OK. Its far advanced and civilized than Nigeria even with the law against gay people, they are not the problem. They only hurt you cause of person sentiments. Once you mind your business, it stops bothering you.

elonize:
where did u get dis saying from,your son will be gay n ur daughter lesbians, lets see how u handle it...i no dey swaer for u

If they are, I'll raise them in love and kindness. They will grow up to be good people regardless of their sexual orientation. Your sexual orientation is personal. Just mind your business, it's that easy.

muyiwaadekunle1:
Errant nonsense. Pray, not to fall victim of these devil incarnates. You won't live to tell the story

I live in a country where it's legal. Everyone mind their own businesses.

RealityShot:
don't support evil then.


its better wan.k than to do the same gender.


some have never even tried the opposite gender before claiming to prefer same gender.


just because some other homo introduced it to them in high school , they think that is their nature.


give them to.to & brea.st and they will repent from yans!h

Lol there are blind, deaf or dumb gay people. They do not hurt you directly in any way, you only hate them because of personal sentiments. You're entitled to your opinion, allow other hold theirs as long as they aren't hurting you in any way.

kunleham:
Oga forget matter, respect who? those God forsake mother fucker? They are already Swimming in rot of God almighty. If you belong, go renounce it quick.

Lol God's mouth piece

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kingthreatz:
How about this. All your children choose to indulge in same-sex relationships. That will be so cool as you're not against it

I will raise them with love and kindness.

chudez0147:
You are very Mad .. I believe you're gay too.. we won't stop tormenting you demons.. unless you come out open. If I have the powers, I'd destroy you guys!

Lol I am not gay and I won't argue with feeble minded people.

bareal:
How again are we going to conceptualize it? Is it not demonic? They are hurting their wives, their husbands, their children, their families and even the entire nation. Let's call a spade a spade. Nobody is born a gay, it's the wrong mindset.

We are humans for heaven sake, we should be better than animals.

Mind your business, it'll bother you less

OlawaleSmarter1:
They can do it in Secret, but I can't imagine myself living in a Nigeria where a man and a man go on a Date, get marry to each other, and start locking lips or making out in Public, men going around in female clothes and so on. They can do it in their bedroom, I don't care but we don't want that out in the public Nigeria is mess up already for us

If you mind your business, it will bother you less.