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TV/MoviesRe: Dorathy: I Only Lust After Brighto, No Feelings For Him by boyency: 4:55pm On Aug 23, 2020
Today match na war of the Titans
PoliticsRe: Tanko Yakassai: Why Tinubu Will Perform Better Than Buhari As President by boyency: 6:33am On Aug 23, 2020
South east will be the president.. Period
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid On President Buhari's Arrival From UK: 'Nobody Chop Life Pass Bubu' by boyency: 4:16pm On Nov 17, 2019
Let bubu remember the poor masses ooo
FamilyRe: My Genotype Is AS And My Fiancee Is AS; What Do I Do? by boyency: 4:12pm On Oct 08, 2019
Separation is the key
RomanceRe: Dear Average Nigerian Married Men, Hope You Learned Something From Mike O Edward by boyency: 2:28pm On Oct 07, 2019
Kudos to mike
TravelRe: Air Peace: Allen Onyema Crying As Nigerians Return From South Africa by boyency: 12:14pm On Sep 12, 2019
Good heart,great man
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye Injured At PDP Primaries In Kogi As Gunmen Storm Venue (Photos) by boyency: 6:56pm On Sep 04, 2019
Shooting sporadically, so no security in this country... Tufiakwa
Christianity EtcRe: Rev Father Kelvin Ugwu: Understanding The Significance Of First Fruit And Tithes by boyency: 10:06am On Sep 01, 2019
Builderman:
Some years back, after a Sunday morning Mass in Abuja, a young and a good looking lady walked up to me. She was holding a fat brown envelope. She handed the envelope to me and said I should please pray for her.

I asked her about the content of the envelope and what particular intention would I be praying for?
She told me that she started working just a month ago and that she came to thank the Lord and to offer the first fruit of her work for God’s blessings.
What was in the envelope was her salary for that month. Her first salary. The entire money! Everything!.

In all honesty, I was speechless not for lack of words but for being unable to know where to begin. Inside me I was like: do people still entrust everything they have to God in a child-like simplicity like this? I was really moved.

In my heart, I said a prayer for her, that type of prayer that is deep down, it was as though it was the Holy Spirit Himself that was praying through me. I was feeling the answers to the prayers even before I finished praying.

Then she knelt down, I laid my hands upon her and blessed her and the money.

After prayers, I asked her to tell me how much was in the envelope. She said Eighty Thousand Naira.

Then I asked, “how much covers your transport to your work daily?”.

She said “approximately N1,000 naira to and fro, Father.” That means for 27 work days, it would be N27,000.

Then I spoke up again, “Sorry o, I am asking you too many questions, how much do you feed daily when you go to work?”.
She answered “It depends. If I want to eat so well, I spend 800 naira with drinks, but mainly I spend just N500, and sometimes I carry food from home.”

So, I made the calculation in my head. Let say she spends 500 naira daily, 27 work days would be 13,500 naira.
I went ahead to enquire about her accommodation and I discovered that she stayed alone in an apartment she just rented. We made the calculation by dividing the annual rent by 12 months and we discovered that if she was to pay rent monthly, it would be N12,500.

Her monthly electricity and water bill with other fees for house maintenance was put at N10,000....On phone calls and data, we approximated it to be N5000 monthly. Her monthly DSTV subscription was around N3,600 for DSTV family bouquet.

When you put all the expenses together and subtract it from the N80,000, she would be left with N8,400 to buy food stuffs and other things in the house.
These are the expenses that she wss sure to spend every month. We had not even talked about other things like make up, doing her hair, clothes, gifts to family and even savings.
This is a huge sacrifice, in my judgement. I intentionally asked her those questions so as to ascertain the depth of her sacrifice.

I brought out the envelope, bless it for the second time and gave it to her. I looked at her countenance and I knew she was not too comfortable with my action. Then I took time to explain the Bible to her. That was when I discovered that so many people do not truly understand how God works.

When God asks us for first fruit or for tithe or for any sacrifice, it is not so that He will eat it. No! He has no need of our money. When He asked Abraham to sacrifice his only son, it was not because he liked seeing the blood of innocent children.

When He asked Abel and Cain to make a sacrifice to Him, it was not because he ate fruit or even drank blood of rams. It is simply to test how committed we are, how willing are we to leave everything to Him. Do we, like Cain, select offerings that we no longer desire and give to Him or do we, like Abel, empty everything to Him?

This lady that brought the first fruit began to understand for the first time. Right from when she put the money in the envelope to bring to God, God had already accepted her offering. The minister must not spend the money. It is just that most of us ministers are unfortunately greedy. And we use God’s name to cover it up. We often see the part of scriptures that favour our stomach.*

Theologically, when you give to God, He transforms that gift and gives it back to you. The bread and wine people offer before mass are transformed to the body and blood of Christ and given back to the people to eat and drink.

The son Isaac that Abraham gave to God, was transformed to be a channel that would bring....forth the fulfillment of God’s promise and given back to Abraham.
The offerings of bread and fish people brought were prayed upon and given back to them to eat and they were filled, still there was left over.

The water they filled at the wedding in Cana is given back to them as wine..
The Ugwu Kelvin that my parents offered to God, is given back to them as a priest.

The money that the young lady brought to me as her first fruit is blessed and given back to her as pure gift from heaven.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10220708468680497&id=1199905702
if your story is true dear fr.kelvil...truely you are the best among equal
CelebritiesRe: "Thunder Fire You" - Drunk Venita To Biggie Over Water by boyency: 10:04am On Sep 01, 2019
Christianity EtcRe: Prayers, Fasting, Reading The Bible & Being Sober Are Secret To Less Sin? by boyency: 10:01am On Sep 01, 2019
Authority1o1:
Those may help,but are not exclusively the basis of living a sinless life.
It may have worked for Op but may not work for others.The grievous mistake people make today is to tell infant believers(christians actually) to fast,pray and read bible.To be candid with my humble self,85% of sinners who wish to repent may not be able to live a holy life through this process.

So what's my suggestions:
Christians and everyone who desires to experience light(jesus christ) should surrender their life to God through Jesus and with the help of Holy Spirit. Then strive hard to attain a significant level of self-restraint.With self control one can overcome certain sins because they are significantly in control of their actions.A frequent masturbator would gladly reach for his dickson to relieve some urges,but would not do that if he has given his life to God and apply self caution.
A klepto who has decided not to steal would overcome with prayer and self control.

Don't get me wrong,the above listed by the op are right but are too advanced to be used by a sinner.
Remember,Jesus lives forever.
self control is the best option
RomanceRe: Man Caught In Bed With Another Man's Wife. See Slaps (Photos) by boyency: 11:53pm On Aug 06, 2019
What a world,if you know you know
Car TalkRe: The All-new Mercedes-benz GLE Is Now In Nigeria (PHOTOS) by boyency: 6:30pm On Aug 05, 2019
Chai
CelebritiesRe: Juliet Ibrahim: A President Asked Me Out, Director Had An Erection Because Of Me by boyency: 4:57pm On Aug 01, 2019
Good character, is the beauty
CelebritiesRe: Juliet Ibrahim: A President Asked Me Out, Director Had An Erection Because Of Me by boyency: 4:56pm On Aug 01, 2019
Exodora:
See as God carry all the beauty take dash only one person na waaaaaoooooo.
where is the beauty
CelebritiesRe: Chika Ike Slays In Topless Photos by boyency: 8:52pm On Jul 13, 2019
Beautifully made
CrimeRe: Israeli Yahoo Boy Arrested In Greece - Check Out His Scam Format by boyency: 4:50pm On Jul 07, 2019
The boss
SportsRe: Victor Anichebe Celebrates His 31st Birthday by boyency: 9:18am On Apr 23, 2019
The same birthday date with me,the same Igbo name..happy birthday my man Victor chinedu anichebe
CrimeRe: SS3 Student Stabbed By Boyfriend, Dies Few Days Before Her SSCE. Photos by boyency: 5:53pm On Apr 04, 2019
Boyfriend and ssce which one is the first for such a tender gal
PoliticsRe: Atiku Has Only Himself To Blame! by boyency: 6:13pm On Feb 26, 2019
Amarachi you have said alll
SportsRe: Benjamin Okenna Swadinho: Pidgin Commentator In Russia 2018 (Photos) by boyency: 8:36pm On Jul 18, 2018
Benjy,na correct guy...
LiteratureRe: ANIKE : A Story By Toyin Taiwo by boyency: 9:15am On Apr 17, 2018
Excellent job,,,more please
EducationRe: ‘Same’ Things That Most People Don’t Know Are Actually Different by boyency: 9:29pm On Apr 13, 2018
So interesting,wish you continued
RomanceRe: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by boyency: 9:41am On Apr 12, 2018
My man which experience do you have in marriage, are you the only son?
Marriage now is not alone for love but it is all about maturity mind and money..
Age is not barrier but you must consider many things including life after marriage...

Let me advice you whatever that is sweet don't last..
She gave you a house,money and other things.. What did you gave her nothing but sex...
My brother we are Nigerians not white,since you are 24 yrs .I beg you to go have more experience in life leave the gal with her money..take advice of your mom..
There are more to see than to talk....thanks
FashionRe: Lady Wears Crop Top Lylon Bag With Swag by boyency: 6:20pm On Mar 30, 2018
Great and awesome
SportsRe: Lionel Messi Buys A Hotel In Ibiza (pictures) by boyency: 6:19pm On Mar 30, 2018
Ibiza my country
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Teddy-A Squeezes Alex Breasts For Grabbing His Joystick by boyency: 6:17pm On Mar 30, 2018
Which way Nigeria,,,is this what we pray to watch in our country,,,, moral decadence,,,,
RomanceRe: Pre Wedding Picture Of Beautiful Couple Of Nairalander by boyency: 4:55pm On Mar 29, 2018
Great and wonderful, am from the town too...I will be there...
PoliticsRe: Oby Ezekwesili Reacts To Return Of Dapchi Girls by boyency: 12:48pm On Mar 21, 2018
Nigeria the best with security.......
PoliticsRe: Oby Ezekwesili Reacts To Return Of Dapchi Girls by boyency: 12:47pm On Mar 21, 2018
Nigeria the best country with security,,,,,,,
Music/RadioRe: Semah G Weifur & Flavour – "No One Like You" (Video) by boyency: 4:18pm On Mar 14, 2018
Semah G ....a new dawn
PoliticsRe: FG Releases N40m Vehicle Allowance To Ex-Presidents by boyency: 9:41am On Jan 10, 2018
which way Nigeria,which way to go....
CrimeRe: Gunmen Invade Mambilla Cultural Dance In Taraba, Shoot Many Dead (Graphic Photos by boyency: 3:11pm On Jan 09, 2018
""""which way Nigeria ,which way to go .
I love my fatherland.........
may this song never depart from our memory and may this song salvage us from all these barbaric killings....

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