₦airaland Forum

IAMSASHY:
if i were 2 b a man, I wl surely go 4 introvert, nagging is nt in dia blood, even wen dey ar at fault and u scold dem, instead of responding bak, dey wud rather begin to shed tears and d man may even b forced to start consoling dem, dey ar jst 2 romantic, bt men ar different in dat field, i dnt like introverted men

most introverted guys are the most romantic and they hardly cheat, they no get time to de pursue woman upandan

I so love introverted girls. Especially the brainy ones
My wife must be an introvert

Adaumunocha:
Some are though

even at that, some "irresponsible" men still get committed and marry,,being committed is not just a sign of responsibility,,there are still committed irresponsible fellas

Adaumunocha:
Reason why I included the bad state of our economy

not enough reason to call some men irresponsible

Adaumunocha:
We have many irresponsible men running away from commitment. Your observation has nothing to do with population. The economy isn't helping matters.

is it not when someone is buoyant enough to take care of himself and another person that he will be committed?

Reminds me of my neighbor some years back, she wanted to write "no weapon fashioned against me shall prosper" she now added "w" to the "No" and it now read
"Now weapon fashioned against me shall prosper"

TEMINIKANSOSO:
Landing in d state and seeing secondary school students as big as 200 level students, i know there will be problems, so i decided to be taking them mathemtics to avoid talking time, cos i know most students always feel unhappy about maths.
I thought i av escaped, not knowing it is just dah begining.
Now, i feel like quiting cos dey r not ready to learn, dere minds is damn! Dere eyes, u see someone looking straight into his teacher eyes like ....; Everybody want to come to my house, and av being saying No way. Call me mumu i will agree but i am confused!
What should i do

1st,,show them class, make them realize that no matter how big or pretty they may be, that ure not in the same level with them, and that u don't roll with people of their likes, by this, it also includes been very stern, don't laugh t their jokes, don't reply their compliments, sometimes jus act as a snub ( I used this method, and all the students were afraid of even saying hi. Only the bold ones dared to compliment me and the response they got was silence from me)

mhiztaNexy:
are u in love with beauty or the her in her? beauty eventually fades u know.

abeg leave all those talks about beauty fades, beauty never fades, people only age and shrink a little, my mum is still pretty at 60+

frenzyduchess:
I didn't say that, I am talking in the context of the thread, now if a lady asks a guy out, subconsciously, he believes you are into him, wiether you like to admit it or not, the stage in which the gets to prove that he likes you is skipped.This not about being bold, alot of Nigerian ladies I know are bold but the aftermath of it is what alot of ladies are skeptical about. Now I know people keep saying "approach a matured guy " and he will respect you for it but is there an X-ray for maturity cos I have met a 33 years old asshole so age can no longer be a criteria to determine maturity anymore. if Nigerian men want our ladies to change ,then they too should be ready to evolve like their counterparts in the western world

@ bolded of course anyone who asks the other person out is into the person,but it can only be a yardstick for the guy to misbehave if the lady doesn't know her worth,and dignity,,i tell you, a lady has asked me out before (though cunningly)and it only made me respect her more and really made me to behave myself because so many guys were on her matter,i knew that if I misbehaved, na gobe for me,,sometimes it's not about how the guy will treat the girl, it's about how the girl projects and carries herself even though she was the one that made the move

pocohantas:
This was the question,don't change it. I stated the moves I will make, he can stick to the lines if that's his forte.

If the feeling is mutual,there is no how the conversation will die. We are not talking of one time conversation here. If the feeling is mutual, the moment will bring the words from either party. They are not rehearsed from Mills&Boon. So, I can't start typing some elementary lines for you here, sorry. If no single word or action comes from him, then it's obvious it isn't mutual and you don't force such.

Some people just get that deeper connection and progress to date, without unnecessary lines. Connection first...every other falls into place.

im not supposed to like you because sometimes you hit it really hard on the guys, but no matter how hard or harsh u might be in any of ur posts, u still manage to make grave sense with a show of high intelect (an e.g @ bolded) which still leaves me to hit another like

Riwo11:
She visited me and I told her ,baby, I know you love me, but I am not rich, my parents are not working anymore. Please, let me not waste your time. Go and find a rich man who can take good care of you. She wiped my tears and said, my love, "GOD IS IN CONTROL". "Love is from the heart, not necessarily how wealthy you are. I will love you till Death do us APART. Not every woman is after your money. DO WE STILL HAVE SUCH WOMEN IN THE WORLD??

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first of all,,is she fine?
There are many ugly girls who can do that but few fine ones who can

MissRaine69:
I will reiterate knowing does not mean understanding a fair few don't get it.
At all

yea a lot of ladies are misguided with a wrong perception of feminism

pocohantas:
My future husband is above me.
My father is...
My brothers...fine.
If I have a male boss, by virtue of leadership, he is superior.

But if you think every man out there, including the useless ones, rapist, paedophiles, kidnappers, ritualists...etc, are above me, because they have prick, that would never be possible.

Apart from family and professional heads, every other prick has to earn it. That includes women, they have to earn the respect they seek. This has nothing to do with feminism.

Well ure on point

MissRaine69:
There is a difference between knowing and understanding a cause and being a sheep. Most fall into the category of sheep. Blind followers with no concept of the origin of the ideology. To me there is no difference between wannabe feminists and fanatics. Both are toxic and dangerous. They take certain aspects and then feed others a very misconstrued version of what feminism is . Based on some of the comments this seems to be the case. For example " if my wife starts to talk about feminism i will kick her out!" Right there that's the problem because if the wife understood feminism she would not just bring it up! The wife hijacked an ideology. The hand me down, she said or I heard those are the worst type as most are make belief. True lies if you will.

Feminism was never about reassignments of the sexes It was about and still is equal opportunity and access. Sending your son to school but not your daughter on the basis that she is a girl. Not being able to apply for a particular job because you are a woman therefore the view should do you meet all the requirements regardless of sex! The soul of the movement was and still is about social equality, access and opportunity.

Never was it about trying to realign clear biological differences. Men and women are not the same. Society and culture evolve that's something no one can stop. What was acceptable during the era of my grandfathers does not mean it should exist without being challenged. Social & cultural Norms should not be at the detriment of one party.

If you are a forward thinking man , send both sons and daughters to school, advocate for their development, wrote a will that included all your children not just your sons, do not advocate for the marriage of your prepubescent girls to men old enough to be their fathers, occasionally cook at home, share the housework, look after the children to give your wife rest, comfort your woman when she has labour pains. Never rise your hand when angered.
You are a Feminist in its pure

You are very confused if you start competing with your own husband for the role of husband. That said it does not mean treat your wife like chattel. Knowledge is what frees the mind. A person can be knowledgeably ignorant and that is a woman's worst enemy not Feminism.

if this is what. Ladies take feminism to mean,i don't think any reasonable guy will have problems with it
Nice one,,atleast u have sense

pocohantas:
Lots of you men see nothing wrong in claiming superior to women, then you are crying because women say they are equal, not superior o. Haba... you guys should strike a balance na

Go for the unfeminised female then. It's that simple...

sorry, God said, the woman shall be under the man( doesn't mean she's inferior)
This should end all this argument,gender cannot and never be equal,,gender marginalization should be what the so called feminists be fighting for nd not gender equality, you can't be equal to the man, eve first sinned and God made it like that, if u hve any problem with that, contact God

Once had a relationship with a girl, and my sole aim was to improve her life in whatever way I can...But guess what













I regretted ever thinking like that

ProsperOkec:
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wozniacki:
Oh! you follow all of my threads bro, you're a fan!!! hope you're not one of those that keep sending PMs o. I'm a writer dude. Admit it, that was creative. Beat me to it. And it's "show" not "shows". I know you have an " s" problem.

is ur name peace? And do u stay in ph?

Ijeoma

If most women cut their hair to "low cuts" and the men do their hair, then the men would totally outbeat the ladies

Op what u don't know is that most guys have similar issues as you do

I was exactly as u are now,,d only difference is that I'm nt short and im very cute( It now became my strong point) I have to develop self confidence by acting as if I'm looking down on most girls,,i acted as if I'm to good for them,like I don't need them,,but for where,,big lie,,at a point some started to see me as a snub,,but I achieved what I wanted which was building my self confidence,,

U dnt need female friends,wht u need is to discover sthg ure good at that wil make u gain confidence or that will make people(both male and female) come to u,,either for help or any problem u can offer solution to

23,,after nysc I didn't come back,,its been 3 yrs nw

Cinderella5:
the dictionary definition will do just fine. Someone who doesn't have enough to spend on necessities.

what are those necessities,,could you kindly name them

TheMortician:
just stating as it is. Women are biologically predisposed to look out for men with the resources to keep her and her offspring. A broke "fine" dude is a preconditioned illusion brought about by Hollywood and Bollywood. In reality it doesn't hold.


A broke dude has no business preaching love or falling into one.

guy I ask u, who is a broke dude?

FitnessDoctor:
The problem is that most of this generation is filled with average people... Money and education upgrades everything..

is it all about money and education?

The question should be " who is a broke guy"?
Cos some guys earn 350k to 400k and are still broke,,they have so many bills to settle,,parents,family members they are sponsoring( including the growing ones) at the end the guy has little or nothing left,,while a guy who earns 100- 150k might have very few or no responsibilities at all?
So who is a broke guy?
Is it measured only on a guys' earnings?

The question should be " who is a broke guy"?
Cos some guys earn 350k to 400k and are still broke,,they have so many bills to settle,,parents,family members they are sponsoring( including the growing ones) at the end the guy has little or nothing left,,while a guy who earns 100- 150k might have very few or no responsibilities at all?
So who is a broke guy?
Is it measured only on a guys's earnings?

[quote author=Xway post=57130637]I am a gud guy.
There's is still a nice girl out there.
Only God will direct and lead me to her.[/quote Ah tell u

Cinderella5:
A broke guy is not equal a broke girl, a broke guy is equal an ugly girl. Girls aren't termed broke.

girls ( not married ladies) are termed broke

Cinderella5:
you have a wrong mentlity.

ure d one that has d wrong mentality,,is it only guys that are broke? Girls are too..if as a lady ure broke,u have no right judging or calling out any broke guy,,and any rich dude consenting to date u is actually doing u a small favour

Does anyone have any seemingly likely suggestion or remedy for the situation?