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AjiBussu:
Don't worry your husband will also find a BORN-AGAIN woman that share similar interests with him. Hope you'd get to understand when you find out. Whats good for the gosse should be good for the gander

I second this. I bet u, if the husband tries it, she will bring down the roof. Meanwhile they will call u immature and insecure for complaining when they do it.

chioma134:
This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.

My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.

I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.

He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.

Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.

I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings.

The summary of it all is that, you would have slept with the guy if he didn't develop that attitude towards you.
You didn't listen to any holy spirit. Don't lie. Your feelings for him was so strong that if u were in courtship or he wasn't married, you would have eloped with him to satisfy your devilish desires.

You are making it seem it's your husbands fault u two don't have the same interest.

You gave unholy access to married man into your life as a married woman and turn around to blame your innocent husband.

Madam, you have not healed. It's just a matter of time. If u meet that guy again and he presses the right button, believe me, u will Bleep him.

You had no shame to be having long conversations with a married man under your husband's roof and u dare come here to advice people.

You are just cheap just like many other married hoes out there who have no business being in any marriage.

The only person that stopped you from fucking that guy is the guy himself but you twist the story to make it seem like u restrained yourself.

I pray never to meet your type because una plenty.

I wish your husband will be wise enough to see what he calls a wife.

If Rafiu the truck pusher is able to have good conversation with you, madam you will Bleep that his uncircumcised dick.

You claim to have the holy spirit, but u lack self control. You don't know when to draw the line.
Everything is about u. You wanted him to have conversations that interests you. Did u care to know what interests him?

This is the kind of selfishness we see among all these useless woke girls of today.
That's why we have that one they call Iyaebe or whatever always vomiting rubbish here.

I only pray for your husband. And I advice him to do a DNA test on those kids.

Itohan22:
They always quick to call out ladies doing well
Some of us work hard to earn. Not all ladies accepts cash gifts from these guys who always want smth in return

If u are not one of them, u shouldn't be triggered. Allow the dragged to drag the draggies.

LeoDeKing:
Mynd44 lalasticlala seun

When u talk nonsense, u don't call the Mods, but when they give it back to u, you start crying like a baby. Keep crying maybe they will hear u.

decryptofx:
What's advantage of smoking?

Your question should be, what's the advantage of smoking weed.

No amount of explanation will make u understand the benefit of smoking weed until u smoke it yourself.

Iyaebe:
If you know the name of the school,please report to relevant authorities.I know that man there wants all the female kids to get drowned, God forbids it,I reject it.

Is it only female pupils you saw there? You have no shame to transfer your hate for men to innocent male kid. I pray God does not give u any male child because u don't deserve any.

As far as you are concerned, the boys can drawn so long as the girls are safe.

I sbt blame you. That's who you are. A bitter, frustrated and retired farm tool who is only angry that no sane man wants her for keeps.

As a typical Nigerian feminist who thinks feminism means hatred for men, you use every opportunity to transfer your aggression to anybody that has a dick, yet u still can't stay without a dick.
You better heal. Las las, na baby mama u go end because no sane man will want to have a bitter leaf for a wife.

I, am only concerned about the 86 idiots that liked this your useless post.

Ximenez:
You'll also punish yourself by denying him sex.

Person wey go dey Bleep for outside. That's why she said what she said.

MartinsD12:
Incase you that know he might not share same room with other inmates his room will be specially for him

But once in a while they do go out for other activities. Except they are giving him preferential treatment and don't allow him to mingle with others.

Ilaumoh:
From the info I gathered, he wants is last year on seat to be about project commissioning

This is his last year. We are waiting.

Is that all the inmates can do? Instead of them to beat the criminal to stupor and burst his right eye, they are there getting excited.

The idiot should have been sent to life in prison for all his atrocities or better still face firing squard for all the innocent lives taken by him. Criminal.

By now, I was expecting Udom to be doing massive project commisioning. We are almost getting to the end of his tenure and many of the projects he initiated are no longer being talked about.

There was a certain international market in Eket. I will like to know the situation of that project.There are so many others which I can't mention now. I used to be a very strong supporter of Udom but I, am not happy about the recent events in the state.

Ibom air is a great milestone. If he can succeed with the Ibom deep sea port, I will be very happy.
Unfortunately, it seems he is more concerned about making sure he has a successor of his choice rather than completing his projects.

These are the things that give some nitwits the audacity to say rubbish about him. I know those ones are just hungry political jobbers who are angry that Udom is not sharing money like Akpabion used to do.

Forget about all those talks about governance. They don't care about good governance. They are only after their stomach.

If Udom starts sharing money now, u will see them start singing his praises. Bunch of fools.

Udom should please not fall my hand. I want to see massive commissioning of projects before December.

Right now, I, am not impressed.

The lifeless dullard is working according to foolish and brainless nairaland zombies. Everywhere is safe in Nigeria except the south east. The east is where we are having terrorist attacks.

What happened in the rail track is a mere show-off by bandits. No need to deploy security there.

All the securities will be more useful in the east.

Fools.

Soludo should apply wisdom in handling this issue. It's not every time u use force to tackle problems like this.

You talk about deploying heavy security in the state on Monday's. What do u think that decision will achieve?

What if u deploy securities everywhere and people don't still come out? Your securities will only look stupid and useless because they won't be going to peoples houses to force them out.

In fact, the useless Nigerian police and army that I know will resort to bullying and intimidating anybody they see on the road out of frustration and will label that person UGM or IPOB.

Soludo should ask Umahi and the useless supreme court gov how it panned out for them.

I wonder whether people lose their senses the moment the enter public office in the zoo.

No sense, no wisdom. Everything is gra gra and they still end up achieving nothing.

Stories like this only give foolish zombies like Leotheidiot something to masturbate on while skulls are being mined by their kinsmen in their backyard.

Uprightness100:
The world is looking at Predictions but Everything playing out in our Eyes are clearly written in the Word of GOD, the Holy Bible. The wars, famines, Pestilences, Disaters, etc. they are all in the Bible.

Putin and Russia are Major Parts of GOD'S Endtimes Players. Others are Israel, China, Iran, Damascus Syria, Turkey, Ethiopia, Sudan and a host of Nations in and around the Middle East.

Putin and Russia are gonna be a Great Force to reckon with, but she will Brought Low and Crushed when she Comes against Israel with her many other nations.

GOD ALMIGHTY will Put his Hook in Putin Jaw soon, and Drag him down to Israel. He will be so proud and full of Confidence but THE GREAT KING of kings will Crush and Melt them all.

The Victory won't come from Israeli soldiers or Weapons as they will be surrounded and almost Swallowed. GOD ALMIGHTY Himself will Come down to Win that War for Israel.
See Ezekiel 38&39 and Zechariah 12.

There is no more time I tell you. Everything is on point for the Endtimes wars, Beast System, New World Order, One world government, One world religion, etc.

The Rapture is just a Breath away. Do well to ensure that you Have JESUS Christ as your LORD and SAVIOR. Do well to Ensure you are Watching, Praying, and Ready. I tell you! There is no more time.

Pastor, I have never seen u preach about love which is the essence and most important aspect of Christianity. You don't talk about compassion, empathy, selflessness.
All your preaching is about hell, rapture, and doom.

Your message is aimed at putting fear in people instead of uplifting them. Fear is a negative emotion and it will always have a negative effect.

To make it simple and easy, Jesus summed up the whole commandment into one word: LOVE.

The Bible says that God is LOVE. That is to tell you how powerful Love is. A man who has love in his heart has God.

Your messages of fear and doom will not help people, rather it will make them spend their lives in fear trying to avoid hellfire.

But if u preach love, they will live their lives thinking about love, showing love, and living love. And a man who is always thinking about love is always thinking about God.
A man who lives in love lives in God.

A man whose life is all about love will not struggle to obey God and live right. He doesn't even think about hell because that's not where he is going. He is always thinking about heaven because that's his goal.

The most important duty of a Christian is not to preach hell. It is to show love to the people around you. His duty is to humanity and not to himself.

Jesus was not just going around preaching about doom. His life was all about love and teaching people the right way to live.

His major concern was humanity. That's why he fed them when they are hungry. Gave them drink when they were thirsty. Gave money to the needy.

What matters most to God is humanity and not our selfish ambition of going to heaven when we can't help the needy on earth.
Christianity is not by words, but by action.

People will more likely accept Christ because of your actions rather than your preaching.

God did not create you to come and be planning to go to heaven.
He created you so that you can add value to humanity.

Don't be so heavenly conscious and then become so earthly useless.

Cardealer2021:
Stop being a tribal bigot

His likes are the idiots that are being used by Tinubu to snatch ballot boxes during elections

LeoDeKing:
Apparently, kperogi is desperately willing to be worshipped by ipob pigs.

The other day, he was describing PYO Osinbajo as a religious bigot, now he is svcking Peter Obi's balls.

By the time he is promoted to the status of a god, he dumps their sorry arss and move on like FFK.

I, am only concerned about the 135 idiots that liked this trash u typed here .

LeoDeKing:
Mynd44 lalasticlala seun, look at the emboldened, most likely by an Igbo, and they do it with impunity.

Hopefully, if I start typing Igbo urchin, that is not when you remind me of rule 2.

You lots like to insult people, but when they return the favour you start calling the mods and seun because they are your tribesmen and are likely to do your bidding. Stop insulting people if u can't stomach insults. I know you are a kid and you are going to insult me as usual.

Mokason288:
How old are you?

Probably preparing for Jamb.

NLPoliceWoman:
Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique

Cry more. It seems you are the vulture meat seller. Do you think my life revolves around nairaland? You must be a joker to think a band will move me.

You can even tag effcc, nfa and nba.

Perfectbeing:
Queen Cersei made us understand that power is power

And how did she end? The useless coward was even begging and crying for mercy when her eye clear.

All her gra gra ended in a twinkle of an eye because she had neither sense nor knowledge of what the dragon queen could do. Sometimes knowledge and sense is better than power with ignorance.

If you doubt me, ask Buhari. He has power, but no knowledge or sense.

post=110926272:
PDP, Party of Failures, looters, criminals and fraudsters supported by online criminals and touts.

PDP in Nigeria again?

God forbid bad thing.

While fools and animals support people like buhari and APC. It's ok to support a lifeless dullard who is the worst criminal that has ever desecrated the Aso vila with his unfortunate presence. And some idiots think he is the best to happen to Nigeria after sliced bread.

It takes an irredeemable dead brain and a chronic nincompoop to support such a man and still have the audacity to express such support in public without shame.

If there are fools in Nigeria, if there are people we can call foolish and stupid, it is buhari supporters. In fact a fool is better than them.

What a shame it is that in a country with thousands of intellectuals, it is a man like buhari that some fools choose to support.

Their stupidity have no cure.

pocohantas:
Pilot

As usual, there would be more male than female responses on a topic directed at females. By 2028, Nairaland would be one huge sausage-fest.

You are very right. You won't see many women in this kind of thread. If it were to be something about romance, and sex,
dem go full here.

Don't blame the men. They just have to filel the gap.

Righteousness2:
Young man I really Pity you !I really Pity you! I really Pity you!
That's all I Have you!

He asked a valid question and the best you could have done is to give him a clear answer from your wealth of knowledge of the scripture.

Would this be your response if an unbeliever or one of your church members you are preaching to asked same question?

Your duty as a Christian is not only to preach hell fire everyday. It is to engage people on religious discussions that impacts positively.

Now pastor, answer the question. I will like to know the answer too.

gidgiddy:
That was exactly what I was thinking. If this picture is what the authorities say it is, it would mean that a group of bandits were meeting in this location with their motorcycles, and a fighter plane flew past, slow enough and low enough to score a direct hit, killing all , if not most of them.

That seems highly unlikely, it is a very difficult thing to achieve because in an open desert like this, the bandits are more likely to have heard or seen the fighter plane approaching at such low altitude to have scored such a direct hit

I think its most likely that the Nigerian Army captured some people, may be bandits, and their motorcycles. Then executed them, set the bodies and motorcycles alight to cover up the crime, and said it was a fighter plane that did it.

There is no way a low flying fighter plane could have approached a group of bandits in this way and they would carry on with their meeting, waiting to be incinerated. They would have run in different directions

They only way this could have been achieved is with a drone

What a wise and intelligent take. I expected to see their bodies in pieces scattered all over the place, but it looks like they were gathered in one place and set ablaze.

I don't expect zombies to reason this far. Their default setting is to believe anything the government says without using their brains.

Parachoko:
The kin unnecessary hate you guys have for Tinubu eh

This hate is unnecessary.

It won't change anything about nothing on ground.

Every sane human being should hate evil. Everybody cannot be like Lagos people who have sold their souls to drug addict.

A man who controls the destiny of an entire state and the people are not ashamed to show how gullible and stupid they are to worship a mere man who is looting away their future.

Shame on Lagosians who worship this thief. Shame on you all for allowing one man to decide who takes what in the state.
From market leader to councilor to house members and governor.

Even an agbero has more dignity than you all in your so called Lagos.
Whoever he chooses, stays. You all have no say in matters that concerns your lives. This should be giving you sleepless nights, but since you were all born slaves, you must be loyal to your master. What a shame.

You attack and insult anybody that wants to open your eyes. What a shame.

Do you know where Lagos would have been without this thief?

Thanks God for where I come from. No one man can lord it over us. Akpabio tried it, he didn't succeed, though we still love and respect him.

Oshiomole tried it, he couldn't succeed.

Even in the south east, no single man can have such power to detect for the masses. It can only happen in Yoruba land. Not in south South. Not in south east. Only Lagos.

Una mumu will never do.

The most annoying part is that he has only succeeded in turning your youths to first-class touts and one is being prepared to take over from the current stooge AKA Pontious Pilate.

What a shame

puremaker7:
Every dogs are meal Infront of Calabar men.

If I wipe u cord for neck ehn? Wetin carry Calabar men come here? We chop your dog b4?

Nonsense and vulture bbq meat

Jaysleeves:
Just a glimpse for those agitating for separation in Nigeria. Now are you prepared for WAR? Please never again should Nigeria witness such. Amen.

How is a demand for separation a call for war?

FreeStuffsNG:
This is the kind of challenging task HE Fashola loves. PMB really got the best man for the job.

God bless Nigeria for ever.

What is challenging here?

What does it take to get this job done?
Is it getting the best professionals to come up with the best ideas on what to do or is it releasing the funds to the right and best contractors to get the job done?

With the availability of resources, even a dunce with will power can do this with ease if he surrounds himself with the right people who are qualified to do the job.

Stop hyping mediocrity. There is nothing special about fashola.