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Where's the Iranian supporter God1000?

He is against the death of a single human shield in Gaza, but has been gleefully silent since Iran began attacking Israel. Are his moral outrages and his god only for anyone who opposes Israel? Is it an antisemitic god perhaps?

The excitement from the anti trumpets is palpable. Here is death and destruction, but to their Israeli enemies. They are happy. No protests anywhere. It's only a life if it's a Palestinian one. Right?

Eriokanmi:
How can someone openly shame her mother this way? Children of nowadays shaa

Very shameful.

Why would the mother agree to this though?

Lol

SisterAnn:
Thank God!

Makes one wonder why he's so against him, if this is a true story.

b3llo:
I know you will be struggling deep down with fact that your mum will leave you people.and marry another man.

Please keep sentiments aside, let her be if that is what will give her peace. You have to man up and chart a new pathway for your siblings to follow. Groom, care and provide for them. Life has already placed you in an unfavourable position since you are the first male child. However, how you react to it defines who you are.

While it's good and fine for him to let his mother marry who she will, why must he take over her responsibilities when she's alive and has a new man to provide for them? Why should a son be so burdened?

Life is too cruel for those who live by culture.

huntax:
When I was younger, we had a toaster that didn't have a bread-slice divider, now it's so hard to get one. Back then, I enjoyed a sandwich toast bread with the full egg in the middle of it. I now wonder why they don't make those any longer.

Which year was this?

You guys mistake a sandwich maker for a toaster. They're two different kitchen things.

Sparrk007:
bad belle, here in African man is polygamous in nature he can marry six wives if he like. They're just happy for having their father back after 19 good yrs.
Come To think of it when last do you see your father

Everyone is polygamous by nature. Even women. So don't complain afterwards. Each person has blood flowing through their veins, not just men.

Hmm, and can you assure us your dad has been alone for all those 19 years? He's given his best years to another woman and now wants to give you the dregs.

Empty reunion.

Ofodirinwa:
the nigerian idea of respect is disgusting and a little gay

Not a little. One of those pictures looks like he's salivating.

They've started this nonsense again. The buttons and sign in with Google buttons aren't enough to keep the misogyny and fake threads at bay.

airsaylongcome:
Brati! Been a minute. A really long minute. There's no harm in dreaming. But this one isn't dreaming abeg. This is pure hallucination and delulu. Build an entire portfolio with AI? For a young blood coming through? Nope! You put your back in, and grind through. AI will come much later...it's a tool, it's not supposed to do the entire work for you.

Not as if the AI sef is infallible. So I absolutely don't get that advice to build an entire portfolio with ChatGPT.

How have you been though?

Shall we call you the punisher, seeing as you want them to actually learn these things?

AI is probably the most abused and fantasized tool on the planet. How to create a portfolio that cannot be defended in real time is wild. I don't know if the idea of vibe coding has been misinterpreted or what people want to make of it, but this forum is full of juicy things to read. Hahaha.

People want to skip the basics. I'm surprised we aren't learning full courses in development from AI summaries. Learn how to code in 6 hours. And the thing is that there are other tools they can embrace if they don't want to code.

Maybe if they've learned and want to use it productively.

Ah, I've been here and there, around and about. How'd you do yourself? You're falling into your niche with every post. You schooling younguns is more entertaining. See this thread for proof.

airsaylongcome:
Guy please stop this half truth you are propagating. Someone build their portfolio with ChatGPT? What would they do when they go for an interview and are presented with a leetcode question? Present it to ChatGPT too? Common man. Common!

Lol! There's no harm in dreaming big.

chinchum:
simplistic view. Are you even married? Who knows if it is a pre teen behind this moniker.

Honestly, it sounds like social baiting. He has started a Whatsapp group of disgruntled men already. He probably has a book he wants to sell to help those guys take control of their wives lives.

adeniyi65:
Bro find a personal single side chick that you two will understand yourselves. She could be a lady or already born like you. The already born without husband will understand you and your urge very well. Once you cater for part of her finance. You both are good to go. Just let her know that you don't need wife. She should take contraceptive.

Very logical advice.

Instead of catering to the finances of his family by hiring a maid, he should get a side chick whose finances he will cater to. That way he will rescue his family and marriage.

Very, very good advice. You deserve a mug of the best ale.

Onegai:
Phabulous4 and apprentist (and every other man who is in this situation),

Here's what to do!

Firstly, you're going to ignore almost all the men on this thread. Why? Because I've noticed that in general, Nigerian men give advice like Thanos:

You know, "everyone is starving on this planet so rather than try and help them develop their economy, I'll just kill half of them. Problem solved!"

Nigerian men don't start giving advice with sense until their 50s (and that's only half), they fully come into maturity by their 60s. So they're here telling you to cheat or become polygamous. And if you follow that, I will tell you this confidently, you will need N2-N6mil to file for divorce at Lagos High Court and it will take you 4 years minimum (Separation and Divorce), you will be paying 2 sets of rent and having 2 household expenses.

Meanwhile, "Power Of A Praying Husband" is N3500 per copy.

Which idea is smarter to do?

Now, let's get serious.

Yes, get a Nanny.

Yes, upgrade every appliance you need to get.

Absolutely drop all expectations of her and tell her to do the same for you. What is required is a neat house, hot meals and children who are alive (not even well-behaved, just be alive ).

Tell your wife: "babe I am THE HEAD OF THIS HOUSEHOLD!" If you need me to back thr baby so you can go and make your hair, bring that wrapper! If you need me to be the one fueling the cars so you don't have to worry about that chore, let me have the keys! If you need me to listen to you after you have been stressed at work and be nodding my head and saying "eyahhh!" I go do am!"

Your wife needs time and space to adjust and grow into her new position. You gotta be supportive of that, that is an Ephesians 5 husband: loving her like Christ loved an (unwilling, struggling, not even-existing) church.

You have to step up.

Before you posted this, he posted the link to a WhatsApp group he's starting. Good luck with a new set of red pill guys with live in partners.

What makes you think a man who comes on a public forum to tell his side of the story, on a topic men are notorious for lying about, wants anything other than validation to do what we all know he desires deeply to do? You think your posts are what any of them want to see (unless if they want to make their wives dull intimacy dolls)?

yemmit90:
You had solved the problem yourself by suggesting to open business for her. Except she objected to that idea, I don't think you need worry about that again. Set up a business for her, so that she can have enough time to carter home and your children. Women are better off doing business or teaching during their productive years.

Of course, you know what's good for her. What is good for all women. Lol!

delugadou:
If what you are earning can take care of the family, make sure she quits the job immediately. Eliminate every threat to your marriage. Don't listen to anyone that is advising you to manage oo. Regret is waiting in front.

The moment you stop sleeping with your wife, her colleagues will take over. That's why she should quit ASAP.

Thought you all wanted a hard working, productive, educated woman who brings something to the table? A woman who holds her own and isn't all about the thing between her legs to control you? A woman you won't spend a dime on, who can discuss astronomy and calculate your NPV just by being near you? Has she not brought a table and more to this marriage? Is she a liability? She's bringing in the money you all fantasize about and has a job. Such a hard working woman.

Why is it now such a burden for you to enjoy your desires? Clearly she's working harder than he does. Otherwise he wouldn't have time to nag and pester her.

A lot of you boys don't know what you want. You now want her to sit at home churning out babies, or worse still, forcing a business on her that she's not interested in. A pawn to sate your insecurities.

Now you've shifted to the possibility that she will be cheating.

Is there any imaginary scenario you guys don't come up with, just because you need to nail a woman, any and every woman, to the cross of marriage?

There's no woman who is going to be good enough for you lot. Misogyny is terrible. This is a woman, not a dog you're advising on.

In all this nagging, he's never considered having assistance at home. He's looking for how to sleep with such a person if she comes along. It tells a lot about his standing and the mentality that comes with it. But hee wants her to quit her job, just like the rest of you do. Because that woman is a sock puppet to do his every bidding.

Another one, another day.

Strungup78 and Martinez will have something to say here.

Men who whine and talk too much are liars. And those who exaggerate to epic proportions what other "men are passing through" are the most miserable of them.

Take this story with a swimming pool full of salt. The truth will out.

Kipaji:
It's more about height than body build actually. Generally speaking, tall man that's not fat (or at least not too fat) will have better success with women than a muscular short or average-height man.

Who told you this? Why are all the short muscular men taken?

Some of you have let your heights deceive you.

pocohantas:
Yes. He rebranded as Apoptosis.
I told you they are not kids.
Do not be misled by their new monikers.

How did you discover he's the same guy? I know there are the aggrieved, deeply misogynist posts, but how did you get to know they're one and the same?

Some of you have replaced Sherlock without anyone knowing it.

Brandiebird:
Do you resent your wife or something?

Do You come online to say all the things you're scared to say to her face!?

You're too old for this!


Enjoy your fat old white woman and leave other women to single men. Thank you sir!

The answer to all your questions is a "yes!".

97% of those who claim to be married come here to advise other men to do the things they dare not at home. They want to see other men do the evil things they can't do, and they mean to see it happen. They are never too old to hate.

Chrisiosity meet Sponty600

Watch men support paternity fraud when a man does it.

Are their Nigerian counterparts as hardworking as the Chinese men?

Your guess is as good as the next person's: NO.

Noooo. Poorer black men must have a foreigner from another race. He had broken the code of poorer bros.

descarado:
Seems he is a bad one. Somebody up there said the same thing. And he resides in uk from what I read
Potatoe must potate( miss billionnaire)

The guy pens open misogyny as journalism. He's devoid of any writing skills, except if slashing women can be counted.

I'd like to think he created an account here to post the rubbish he knows nobody in the UK will waste a minute on. If at all he's in the UK. He's too bitter to be in a place with women's rights. He's in patriarchy central at heart.

Harddiskng:
She dey play victim when she refused to pay

Did she refuse to produce the receipt used in payment? Or did he refuse to acknowledge the payment?

Or is it easier to believe because the victim is a crying woman, which means she's automatically guilty?

A lot of you are full of misogyny.

infogeneral:
I have learnt not to pass a judgment based on one-sided story.
I'll wait to hear the driver's side of the story.

In any case, say NO to violence!

He will never tell his side of the story, because he knows that she paid him and he did this in hot, smelly Lagos. The only thinh that would've made her ride worthwhile would have been that AC coming on to save her olfactory nerves and quell the smog.

Atolu01:
I am VERY sure he was very sexist, condescending and somehow in communicating the No AC message across. nigerian men that are very rude and really not OK. Just open dirty irritating mouth waaahhh, assume nonsense and talk anyhow. Fools.


Was the AC being on included among the services she paid for or not! Very sexist and discriminatory bigoted idiots. Personally I don't even ask for it. Don't sha use your ghoulishness to affect one in any way. Iyen lo kan mi. Very useless dangerous Animals.

There's one who beat up a woman for not greeting him. Not like it was a free ride, no. She was paying and he couldn't just do his job. He needed to exert his masculinity.

Exceed15:
Any woman who cry or justify herself in front of Camera is not innocent. Who knows if she called the hustling guy a useless man

And so he beat her? How many men call men 'useless men' and don't get beaten up for it?

You people justify nonsense provided the victim is a woman.

Afritop:
One side version. She wants the driver to show up and tell the real version.
Unfortunately he is not a mumu and he would not show up.

Why wouldn't he show up, unless he's guilty? He knows she has proof of payment so he's going to play the silent card that a lot of evil, violent men play.

This was how one of your drivers once beat to a woman for not greeting him. Same Uber. Some men are so twisted and full of misogyny that the thought of a woman paying for a ride alone triggers them.