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dammyjay93:
Why do ladies find it VERY difficult to SPEND on their Men? If U earn more than your BF,would u still want him to spend more on you than U do on him?

Not again....
Well, in this part of the world, it's believed that the man should be the Spender.... Not that women don't spend on their men, just not always.

What do you mean by 'spend'? Is it taking her to exotic places, taking care of her 'needs', giving her money, buying her presents??

Cos if I earn more than my man, I wouldn't want him taking care of my 'needs'.....
Or giving my money always Not that he wouldn't give at all.

Op, some men's source of livelihood are their women! You've not seen that??

daveP:
1) There is "Something" that make me:

Well everyone would chant back in response "My Helper!!"

So you mean that if you don't need something from the Creator of your soul, you would'nt approach his presence?

You're looking for Husband or wife, its only then you remember God's presence? Who know whether your motive for your church-going is solely because of the handsome Ben Harris or delectable Oge Alberta? What makes you come to His Presence? Ask yourself.

Op, it ever occurred to you that people sing this in thanks? That people come into 'His presence' to give Him thanks for what He's done??

I don't wanna talk about other songs you mentioned here.
That you don't mean what you sing doesn't mean others don't. Ok??
You're not in their hearts to know. Don't be like this while the so called 'sinners and AMORC members' make heaven....

Maybe you should join the choir to be singing the right songs....... You think its easy??
BTW, some of these songs are being sung by the direction of the Spirit. If it doesn't minister to you, it might to others
Peace!

MizMyColi:
well, I admire some people and I don't know their real names.....

So I'll just give them names I deem fit....names I wish they were bearing

Kachisbarbie :- Aurora

Mzgracie :- Audrey

Excelsia :- Olivia

Priscaoge :- Jules

AfricanApple:- Charlotte

Luxanne:- Anita

HFOG:- Brianna

Misslimbody:- Felicity

Folameme:- Tannia

Cococandy:- Candace

Dalexyann:- Adannaya

Kika23:- Princess

Breezyrita:- Angel

Angel?? Whoa!
#Blushing#

vizkiz:
Op, that shii doesn't look tasteful....i can't believe i wasn't even salivating

Swidy, wait till you taste it!
BTW, where are you from? Thought you're Igbo. Cos there's not much difference between our food and theirs.
Don't tell me you're from France

Herald9, you Efik or Ibibio??

Ehmmm..... Nice work @ op! I don't really love edikangikong though. Give me afang anytime!

Don't mind those trying to make a new version of the soup by adding 'adusa'. I'd give it a name, but I won't. We don't add adusa to this soup mbok!

RaeMystix:
Nope!... Nigerian dogs are very innocent dogs that are left to wonder the streets to fend for their survival, only to end up been sold to some Calabar woman, as a delicacy.

[font =serif] Good morning! [/font]

I can see ur fingers doing it

dre11:

Evening dear.. ...
Am sure u check mah post that talks about something...........















Am sure u know about

missberrypop5:
Ok. Pls remember me in ya prayers o.

Will do

missberrypop5:
boredom is everywhere. Choir things? Or bible study?

dre11:
The artificial girls or ladies


She can't greet

missberrypop5:
same here. Good evening. How did your day go?

dre11:
She just reply her friend with big fronts and left
Such is life

. [size=16pt] Good evening!
With a bigger font........ [/size]

IamK2I:
God bless Marc and Angel!
I sincerely apologise for bringing this behind schedule. It didn't come out as planned, but finally it here 8days behind schedule. No thanks to the shoki my tab danced, anyways, after May 29 next year I will tell my own story of how I posted things on Facebook with my Nokia torch light(free ad).

And Now To Business...
BEFORE THE YEAR ENDS: 30 THINGS TO LET GO
Since the year is coming to a close and the New Year is just around the corner, which inspires many of us to refocus our energy and attention on the right things (new year resolutions), I think it’s a perfect time right now to start letting go of the wrong things. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go, but rather learning to start over in certain areas of your life. This is a challenge all of us face.

So today, I challenge you to this:
Before the New Year…

1. Let Go Of Your Temper.
2. Let Go Of Petty Grudges. – Life is far too short to be spent nursing bitterness and registering wrongs. If there’s someone in your life who deserves another chance, give it to them.
3. Let Go Of The Idea That Everyone Has It Better Than You. – If the grass looks greener on the other side… Stop staring. Stop comparing. Stop complaining and START watering the grass you’re standing on.
4. Let Go Of Lingering False Beliefs.
5. Let Go Of Expired Ideals. – Growth is painful. Change is painful. But in the end, nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you do not belong.
6. Let Go Of Yesterday’s Tragedies.
7. Let Go Of Your Tendency To Avoid Problems.
8. Let Go Of Life’s Little Annoyances. – Don’t let dumb little things break your happiness. Frustration and stress come from the way you react, not the way things are. Adjust your attitude, and the frustration and stress is gone.
9. Let Go Of Assuming Other People Are More “Normal” Than You. – The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t know very well. Period.
10. Let Go Acting Standoffish And Unapproachable. – We all need to learn to be more human. Don’t avoid eye contact. Don’t hide behind gadgets. Smile often. Ask about people’s stories. Listen.
11. Let Go Of The Idea That Some People Are Below You. – Even if you’ve worked really hard to get to where you are in life, there’s no such thing as a self- made person. Someone believed, encouraged, and invested in you. Be grateful and be that someone for others too.
12. Let Go Of The Idea That You Are What You Physically Own. – You are an incredible human being who’s entirely detached from what you have physically acquired in this world. Remember to remain humble. Ultimately, two things define you more than anything else: Your patience when you have very little, and your attitude when you have more than enough.
13. Let Go Of Wanting Stuff You Don’t Need.
14. Let Go Of Seeking Happiness From Outside Yourself. – In life, you have to create your own sunshine. Happiness starts from within.
15. Let Go Of Wanting To Be Repaid Of Every Good Deed You Do.
16. Let Go Of All The Little White Lies And Charades. – How do you build credibility? It’s not rocket science. Be honest. Follow through. Honor your promises. Say sorry when you screw up. Be the type of person you want to meet and spend time with. Be the type of person whose actions, words and values always agree with each other.
17. Let Go Of Any Hypocrisy.
18. Let Go Of Putting Everyone Else’s Needs In Front Of Your Own. – Give as much as you can every day, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others closely, but don’t lose your own voice.
19. Let Go Of Fearing What Your Intuition Is Telling You To Do. – Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will. So don’t let fear shut you down; let it wake you up. Do one thing every day that scares you. The more that you act on your intuition fearlessly, the more your intuition will serve you. If you genuinely feel something, pay attention.
20. Let Go Of Waiting For The Stars To Align. – Remember, you don’t always need the perfect plan. Sometimes you just need to give it a try, let go, and see what happens. Just do the best you can until you know better. Once you know better, do better.
21. Let Go Of The Need To Get Everything Done At Once.
22. Let Go Of The “All Or Nothing” Mentality Regarding Success. – Appreciate the grey area between the extremes of success and failure – the journey, the process, the path – what you’re learning, how you’re helping others learn too, and the growing process you allow yourself to participate in. And above all, never let success get to your head or failure get to your heart.
23. Let Go Of Criticizing Yourself. – Nobody is inspired by your misery or self-deprecating comments. If you wish to inspire yourself and others, be joyful. Have fun. Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Accept yourself. Be unapologetically YOU.
24. Let Go Of Those Who Say You Aren’t Attractive Enough. – More women worldwide are suffering from anorexia and bulimia than are fighting breast cancer. There are similar statistics for men too. Love yourself the way you are, because you are beautiful just the way you are.
25. Let Go Of Changing Just To Impress People. – Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future. Change because you know it’s the right thing to do for YOU.
26. Let Go Of Needing Everyone To Like You. – Everyone doesn’t need to like you, and some people won’t no matter what you do. Try not to take the things these people say about you personally. What they think and say is a reflection of them, not you.
27. Let Go Of All Negative Influences. Period.
28. Let Go Of Thinking That Giving Up The Wrong Things (And Relationships) Means Failure.
29. Let Go Of The Idea That It’s Too Late To Start Over And Get It Right.
30. Let Go Of Putting Things Off For One More Day. – Stop procrastinating. Stop wishing for it and start working for it. Do what you have to do today so you can do what you truly want to do, and be where you truly want to be, tomorrow.

"Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go, but rather learning to start over in certain areas of your life". This is a challenge all of us face- EVEN ME. If you’re struggling with any of the points above, there is a clear path to the new beginning you seek. Your present habits are simply broken and need to be mended. When you trust a broken set of habits every day, it’s only a matter of time before you feel broken too.

Sorry I didn't explain some of the points, I felt they are self explained but if otherwise, feel free to call my attention.

This should be the last or close to the last post from me this year on L.I.F.E. with Innocent (K2I). I'm sure I have been able to Leave an Impact in your life For Eternity this year, the coming years is not an exception with much in store for us. Thank you for always being there and always improving on your self. Remain blessed until will meet again.

Compliments Of The Season.

Compiled by Innocen (K2I)

http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/12/thirty-things-to-let-go-off-before-2014.html?m=1

Big Shout to the King and Queen of NL naijaboiy, Jennimma
And to these other great guys:
marieolae, MarthaK, ammyluv2002, BreezyRita, Missmossy, Jennydoris, lalasticlala big shout to you.

Mods and Super Mods help me take this to FP.
Thank You Guys.

This is nice! Though I didn't get to read all of it.
Nice effort @ op!

missberrypop5:
Ok. He showed up for some mins and travelled back.
i'm ok o, I'm not just so steady here. Maybe that's why. You're ok too, right?

Emodeee:
m following u beautiful.

chukxie:
Simultaneous

naijaboiy:
Sorry,,its not belated yet.

The birthday is today