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RomanceRe: Would You Fight For Your Man? by BreezyRita(op): 5:34am On Jan 17, 2015
striktlymi:
I would be very annoyed with any lady who fight's over me. Some guys appreciate it but not me.

A boyfriend or girlfriend is free to choose whom to be with until he or she is married. It is one of his or her inalienable rights.

Fighting over him or her would imply an attempt to deprive him or her of that right. This is not cool by any standards.
Of course, no one likes that.
I'm reiterating my stand again.
I was just kidding. I didn't mean fight as per say. I've never fought over a man and I'm not about to.
I'm talking about giving your relationship your best shot. Being able to look into his eyes and tell him its alright when the whole world screams its not..
RomanceRe: What Guys Wish Ladies Understand About Them by BreezyRita(op): 5:16am On Jan 17, 2015
Ipledge:
i just wanna form porche angry grin

Chai dz thread Don old oo,before I met my ex girlfriend
You mean your about-to-wed bridehuh? cheesycheesy
FamilyRe: Photos Of Babies Crying For The Most Ridiculous Reasons by BreezyRita(f): 2:55am On Jan 17, 2015
goofyone:
Babies are scary. They give you the heebie-jeebies when they unleash their crying terror. It takes courage to make some. After considering it deeply, I have to say I allow my doubts free rein when it comes to making babies undecided
Oh no!! shocked
RomanceRe: What Guys Wish Ladies Understand About Them by BreezyRita(op): 2:52am On Jan 17, 2015
Ipledge:
Every thing is correct, never go broke...so I dont know if number 7 exist tongue
You're telling us thathuh? cheesycheesy
I smell lies
Forum GamesRe: Drop A Seven Lettered Word And We'll Make Three New Words From It. by BreezyRita(op): 2:44am On Jan 17, 2015
justicesky24:
Fighter - fight,get,fit
quality
Quality - Laity, quail, tail

Formula
Forum GamesRe: Twelve Letter Word Game!! Form A New Word From The Last Letter by BreezyRita(op): 2:05am On Jan 17, 2015
chukxie:
Transporting
Gradgrindian
RomanceRe: Would You Fight For Your Man? by BreezyRita(op): 1:07am On Jan 17, 2015
xcapizt:
MsBreezy.
There's someone with that moniker o. Don't mention her cheesy
RomanceRe: Would You Fight For Your Man? by BreezyRita(op): 1:05am On Jan 17, 2015
striktlymi:
I am wary of ladies who go out of their way to fight for 'thier man'.

I would understand when the fight is for the husband but a bf?? Nah....

Who says the bf is even yours that you fight to keep him?
I didn't mean "go to war" for your boyfriend o. I mean going out to keep him happy... Doing the little things you feel are not important..
BTW, what's wrong with fighting for your manhuh? Won't you like it you were fought over? cheesycheesy
RomanceRe: What Would You Do?? by BreezyRita(op): 12:49am On Jan 17, 2015
striktlymi:
There was no marriage to begin with. The union was entered in deceit and it was not consummated via sex, hence it is not binding. The lady should seek for an annulment.
There was a marriage Swidy. Maybe built on lies but a marriage nonetheless......
RomanceRe: Squarely Facing These Seven REALITIES About Relationships! by BreezyRita(f): 12:44am On Jan 17, 2015

Who said I'm 'hunting'?? cheesycheesy

I'm deciding not to mention you but puhhleeaaasse! Speak for yourself!! You no know say money dey high?? When he's having is when he'll realise she's not classy, just cos she's been conservative. And he'll notice Benita at the bank is more beautiful. And some other flimsy excuses to cheat. He may still love her, but it won't be like before.

I've seen this happen a lot of times. The worst is when they drop you and get married to some girl they just met.!

And about generalising, I said "a lot", not "all". I don't generalize.
RomanceRe: 10 Ridiculous Things Men Find Unattractive In Women by BreezyRita(f): 6:35pm On Jan 16, 2015
Op, you have a problem with make up.
But all these guys saying "true", "I dislike them". Who are the men "liking" these women in lifehuh? Cos they have loads of "likers".
RomanceRe: Squarely Facing These Seven REALITIES About Relationships! by BreezyRita(f): 5:59pm On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
WoW!! I guess because kunle did it to you you now feel chidi,musa,osagie,oche and every other guy will do the same thing.

Nice ideology undecided

Sometimes nollywood dey spoil the mentality of our young ladies undecided
Nollywood or not, you and I know a lot Naija guys can't be faithful. Its just not their nature. Now, they could appear faithful when broke (they can't afford two or more babes then). When they've made it?? They don't hesitate to drop the woman who's been with them through thick and thin. At times, the woman leaves when she realises she's no longer relevant... But he pushed her away.
I keep saying this: "A woman's loyalty is shown when her man has nothing, but a man's loyalty is shown when he has everything!
Caveat: There are faithful guys around. Just so few of them you hardly get to meet them.

Emusmith cheesy Sorry for mentioning again. Had to correct your moniker
RomanceRe: Would You Fight For Your Man? by BreezyRita(op): 5:41pm On Jan 16, 2015
TrollMan:
Yes. Women here tend to over react on topics concerning men. I don't know why. cheesy
Why?? Because they're women..... And I think it depends on what topic.
RomanceRe: Squarely Facing These Seven REALITIES About Relationships! by BreezyRita(f): 5:41pm On Jan 16, 2015
emusmith:
Breezy Breezy...smiley...Good to know you recognize my thread from afar wink.
how yhu been?

It's Emu Smith, not Enu... cheesy
Ohhh.... Enusmithcheesy
RomanceRe: Would You Fight For Your Man? by BreezyRita(op): 4:50pm On Jan 16, 2015
TrollMan:
Ouch... the question was directed to women.
Well I'm on the wrong thread then.

Okay. I'd stick around to read the intelligent answers. I haven't really read anything tangle by a woman on NL. Maybe this could be something...
Intelligent? Because it speaks for men?? cheesy
RomanceWould You Fight For Your Man? by BreezyRita(op): 4:36pm On Jan 16, 2015

It has been shown time and again that the male psychology is driven by a "massive" ego. And, as Africans, we're not particularly expressive when it comes to love and romance, males and females alike. Even though this attribute or lack of it is is mostly visible in men, our ladies harbour a fair dose of it. I recall one of Basket Mouth’s jokes where he said that for an African father, when he walks his son/daughter to school in the morning, he watches him/her saunter towards their friends as soon as they arrive to school. Often, he would say “take care, you hear? Look before you cross the road, you hear?” He utters those words while holding his ear in an effort to underline the importance of his advice. According to Basket Mouth, those words mean, “I love you.I care about you. I would not want anything to happen to you. You mean the world to me,” but they are phrased differently, and I wonder why?
It is not uncommon for a Naija babe to shy away from being genuinely expressive with her man.
It seems that an average Naija girl tends to think her man has to place his neck on the chop board before he hears her say, “I love you honey.” “You mean the world to me.” “You are the rock of my life.” “The look in your eyes make my world beautiful,” and so on. That she does not say it does not mean she does not feel it, I have to point out. They feel its so "white", and doesn't matter.

There appears to be an unspoken rule in place that men do not need such soul-enriching and mind-edifying words of love. “No, they are macho, they can handle anything.” Men themselves tend to send the message that they are capable of lifting the earth and placing it on their shoulders with one arm. Friends may consider them too soft should they admit that they want, expect, need and crave such lines from their wives or girlfriends. They need more attention than they're given.

Now my question or questions:
"Would you fight for your man?" “What does fighting for your man mean to you as a woman?” If it is something you deem important, how best would you go about it?

This doesn't mean fighting in the real sense of it, its more about the things you do that can strengthen him and the bond you two share... The little things that matter......
RomanceRe: Top Ten Reasons Why U Need A Boo.. by BreezyRita(f): 3:23pm On Jan 16, 2015

Unibenstudent, thought you don't do the "types", "reasons" posthuhhuh You sef don join??
RomanceRe: Squarely Facing These Seven REALITIES About Relationships! by BreezyRita(f): 3:23pm On Jan 16, 2015
iceberylin:
Incase sha
And I was about asking where you'd run off to. You left your FTC position for others. Nice to see you're back.

Enusmith, with his 7™ . I saw 7 and just knew it was your thread.cheesycheesy
FamilyShould A Woman Help Her Fiancé To Pay Her Bride Price? by BreezyRita(op): 10:05pm On Jan 14, 2015
I'm not sure where to post this. Mods help me out please

She's about to be married. The marriage requirements or 'lists' have been given to the husband to-be. Of course, he must have prepared for this. But the list is somewhat exorbitant and paying all these things will mean a less posh wedding........

My question: Should a woman who's financially stable assist her to-be with money for payment of the bride price or completion of the rites??

Is it advisable??
RomanceRe: Top Ten Cities With Beautiful Ladies by BreezyRita(f): 9:19pm On Jan 13, 2015
Op, I also think Calabar should
be among the first three. Now, that's not because I'm there....... Lots of visitors have said Calabar babes are beautiful.....

True about Owerri ladies .
RomanceRe: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by BreezyRita(f): 12:40pm On Jan 11, 2015
I've never asked any of these questions..... Not that they don't cross my mind though, just that I can't ask. If I want you back, I could tell you so and not beat around the bush....
Lol @ "Don't you miss me".....
No answer is good enough.

Bia, Enusmith, what have we done to you?? Show me the woman that got you this PAINED biko.. cheesycheesy..
#LeaveUsAlone

And what has the number 7 done toohuh??
Christianity EtcRe: Signs Your Church Has Been Secularized by BreezyRita(f): 11:02am On Jan 11, 2015
Some of these things are true.
But we had this discussion of worldly dance before. Now, what is a godly dance?? How's it?? The drinking and cohabiting part is true....

Now someone mentioned "come as you are".
I think I'll reply later....
RomanceRe: Seven Sects Of Spinsters by BreezyRita(f): 11:38am On Jan 10, 2015
Not again Enusmith!
Sevenhuh? Now I'm beginning to wonder grin
RomanceRe: 5 Things Every Woman Wants In A Guy. by BreezyRita(f): 10:32am On Jan 09, 2015
Op, I don't like fair guys o. And from Tallesty's definition of swag, I don't want that too.
Now, give me a sensitive, intelligent, caring guy. He doesn't have to look like a wrestler or what you term 'handsome'. Just average. Not striking. Classy, maybe.
And of course, money.... Lol
cheesygrin
RomanceRe: Problems Facing An Extrovert Lady/Guy In A Relationship by BreezyRita(f): 9:58am On Jan 09, 2015
Barezzi:
BreezyRita, Ever been to Ghana??
No. Why??

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