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I am next in line .I'm trusting God for a life-changing miracle. Amen!

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Thank God for His mercies.

Op, I'll have to find out again what the half of something really means.

What stops the estate owner from having a sticker on his car, is it that difficult, is it out of place?

If he knows the rules then he should abide by it.

It doesn't diminish his ownership or control of the estate.

This is despicable. His parents will reap what they sow not too long from now.

If you frequently delay passing gas when your body signals the need, you may be putting yourself at risk of a serious medical emergency — intestinal obstruction.

She well be alright las las. This won't stop her from getting another one.

In conversations around healing, reconciliation, and justice, one truth often goes unspoken: the burden of forgiveness is frequently placed on the transgressed rather than the transgressor. While forgiveness is undeniably powerful, this imbalance—where the wounded are expected to carry the weight of repair—raises important questions across biblical, psychological, and social justice perspectives.



Biblical Perspective

Forgiveness is central to Christian teaching. Jesus commands His followers to forgive generously and without limit (Matthew 18:21–22), and the Lord's Prayer ties divine forgiveness to our willingness to forgive others (Matthew 6:12). These teachings often place a spiritual and moral expectation on the person who has been wronged.

However, the Bible also insists on repentance. In Luke 17:3–4, Jesus says, "If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him." The story of Zacchaeus (Luke 19:8 ) highlights how genuine repentance leads to restitution. True biblical reconciliation involves both parties: the transgressed forgiving and the transgressor repenting.

Yet in practice, the church often emphasizes forgiveness from the victim more than accountability from the offender. This can shift the emotional and spiritual labor entirely onto the wounded.



Psychological Perspective

From a mental health standpoint, forgiveness can lead to healing. Letting go of bitterness can ease emotional burdens and contribute to personal peace. However, pressuring someone to forgive prematurely can be deeply harmful.

When forgiveness is treated as an obligation, victims may feel invalidated, silenced, or rushed through their healing. The emotional labor of forgiveness—processing pain, releasing anger, finding closure—is substantial. When the offender avoids accountability, the transgressed is left to do all the work.

Healthy forgiveness should be voluntary, not coerced. It is most meaningful when the offender acknowledges the harm, expresses remorse, and changes behavior. Without this, forgiveness can become an unfair expectation.



Social Justice Perspective

In broader societal contexts, this imbalance becomes even more glaring. Survivors of systemic violence, racism, abuse, and historical injustice are often urged to "forgive and move on" before justice has been done. Public calls for forgiveness frequently come before public apologies or meaningful reform.

This shifts the burden: the wounded must be gracious, while systems and individuals that caused harm often escape accountability. For example, marginalized communities may be praised for their "resilience and forgiveness" while still living under the weight of unaddressed harm.

Restorative justice provides a better model. It emphasizes truth-telling, accountability, and reparations. In this framework, forgiveness is a choice, not a requirement. It follows justice, not replaces it.



Conclusion

Forgiveness is a gift. It can heal wounds, restore relationships, and liberate the heart. But when forgiveness is demanded from the wounded while the offender avoids accountability, it becomes a burden, not a blessing.

Across the biblical, psychological, and social justice landscapes, the message is clear: forgiveness must never excuse injustice or replace repentance. True healing happens when both parties take responsibility—the transgressed for choosing to forgive (in their time), and the transgressor for choosing to change.

Forgiveness, then, should be honored as a courageous act—not expected as an automatic response.

Funflipper:
Get a flight simulator like Xplane or microsoft flight simulator.

My computer won't be able to carry those apps. I use infinite flight on android but you know flying physically is a different experience.

I love planes and wish to fly one- at least a small one someday. There's this feeling of freedom that comes with flying.

martinosi:
Thanks for the acknowledgement God bless!

God bless you beyond measure. You deserve all the blessings God has bestowed on you and He will continue to bless you.

I just logged in to my account and noticed a credit alert of N50,960. This Easter is the best yet for me.
God bless you abundantly. AMEN

Sent a mail to your box. God bless you abundantly for all you do. Amen!

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Thanks a lot Chief. I tried another hotel and it wasn't to my liking simply because I arrived late and couldn't secure Villa on time. Enjoying it so far.

Please ... funny question. For an hunter, Where's the best place you would recommend I go, bro ?

Sadly, I don't hunt. I don't even know how to. Sorry to disappoint you. Enjoy your stay anyways.

LexngtonSteele:
Hi Ladies & Gents.

I'm a fun seeker. Coming to Uyo just to relax.

Years back ; 2015, my organization lodged us in Hotel Le Meridien. It was one of the best hotels I had ever stayed. I think it was well maintained because it was one of the pet projects of Akpabio.

When I returned in 2018, the standards had really really fallen. It wasn't so much fun.

I need hotel recommendations. Preferably :

1. Something close to the University & School of Nursing because I fully intend to hunt.

2. Safe & secure.

3. Close to the Mall. It was the happening place all those years ago. Please suggest other nice spots.

I'd say Villa Hilton along Edet Akpan Avenue(For lanes). It's a new place and your sure to get the best value for your money. You can easily access the places you mentioned including Tropicana mall.

My Club konnect account has disappeared. I recently deposited some money into it in order to buy data only to try logging in and discovered that my account doesn't exist anymore.

Please I need help to recover my money.

Edited
Turns out that they were upgrading their website. The least they should have done was to inform their customers.

santaclaws:
If you add the length of the luggage handle to it, it should be long enough.

It might seem like a scam, but you can't call it a scam cos they included the specifications, that's why people need to be careful when placing orders online.

You're right though.

santaclaws:
If not for her ignorance, the dimensions were written there and she'd have known it was a miniature item...

43 cm length is about 16 inches which is just a little bigger than a long ruler. Next time, check specifications well before ordering.

But what she's holding isn't as long as the said ruler.

When will the government put an end to this? How much longer can we live in constant fear for our lives?

I just unlocked mine. He's genuine. I've now got my mtn SIM in my airtel mifi. Thank you bro.

Onyechelsea11:
Unlock price is 3.5k

How do we make it happen?

How much?

Beyond the money, Saudi Arabia needs those players in order for them to improve their world image. I think CNN made a special report on this. Apart from football, there are other sports the Saudis are targeting like the lawn tennis, golf etc. Just Google Saudi sportwashing and you will find something interesting.

What's going on with the commentary on DStv?

MilesLamar:
I misplaced my airtel vida m4 mifi, so I went back to get a new one and sadly they don't have the vida series anymore so I settled for Tozed airtel m30 mifi..

I have been searching for code to unlock it and I met one oga that asked me to pay 35k to unlock a mifi I bought 5k..Nigerians are comical.

I need to unlock mine too. Let me know if you're able to unlock yours.

OP wey you de see fuel buy at 165?

E be like say e don favour OP and im family.

Mariomadiba:
Guys I think OP might be right. I bought the carburetor from Gazzuz and have everything installed. Note, I have 1hp power AC, workstation and other home appliances apart from fridge.

13kg did not last for 18hrs when used with AC,
I had to fill the gas cylinder twice because I couldn’t believe 13kg did not last long enough of AC.

Well, I thought maybe the regulator is bad so I changed it to the one I use for cooking.

I filled 5kg just to see if the regulator was the fault. Well, 5kg did not last up to 4hrs on full load

Since the OP equated 1 liter of petrol to 1kg of gas, tell us how long 13 liters of petrol would last under similar conditions(full load)?

What I see here is an erroneous assumption by the OP that 1 liter of PMS equals 1kg of LPG. 1kg of LPG is almost 2 liters in volume.
So 1kg of LPG will last almost twice as much as PMS.
So OP, the experiences people have with respect to the use of LNG is actually valid.
We can research more on this matter.

HopeSpencer:
No.

In my faculty where there are four departments, you must pass all courses from all the four departments from year 1 to 1st Semester year 5. By 2nd semester year 5, that is the only semester that will differentiate the students, that is the only time you won't sit for courses from other 3 departments. Year 5 2nd semester is the only time you will do courses in your department only. So it's safe to say that you graduate with 4 degrees. That's why my degree has Hons.

You're right.

I'm not sure but I think it's when you have a kinda 2 in 1 degree. eg. Agricultural Economics and Extension.

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BAT23 is a done deal dunghill....

BAT23 is a done deal dunghill....