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Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by brightology3: 11:35pm On Mar 02, 2020
xule20:
I had same issue,to get your validation number Email your details to Uukuso@newworkssolution.com
And
Cc
Tbamanga@newworkssolution.com
@zevous
pls Sir, how possible it's to apply for the 10 years passport and what's the price and procedure
Religion / Re: Buhari Celebrates Pastor Adeboye At 78, Says He Always Told Leaders Truth by brightology3: 11:28pm On Mar 02, 2020
jirehUB:
i respect our men of God alot.
but maybe mr adeboye needs to start telling himself the truth more.


how much is redeemers university school fees again?
how much is the salary of lecturers at the uni? undecided undecided
Politics / Re: Enugu Govt Approves Intervention Funds For Uzo-uwani, Bishop Shanahan, GO Uni by brightology3: 4:37pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ok
Religion / Re: Onaiyekan Hands Over To Ignatius Kaigama As Catholic Archbishop Of Abuja by brightology3: 9:39am On Dec 04, 2019
AngelicBeing:
Amen grin
cow
Religion / Re: Onaiyekan Hands Over To Ignatius Kaigama As Catholic Archbishop Of Abuja by brightology3: 7:18am On Dec 04, 2019
AngelicBeing:
lt is called chop your own jeje and I chop my own, life Na jeje wayo grin
u be mumu

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Religion / Re: Onaiyekan Hands Over To Ignatius Kaigama As Catholic Archbishop Of Abuja by brightology3: 7:18am On Dec 04, 2019
godwinkessi:
Which of them has a private jet?
your dad's does
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by brightology3: 10:04am On Dec 03, 2019
Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?
you my type of lady but for the religion aspect.
Travel / Re: Lakowe Lakes - A Beautiful Paradise In Lagos by brightology3: 11:26am On Dec 02, 2019
Beautiful place

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Politics / Re: Lagos-ibadan Rail’ll Ready In June – Amaechi by brightology3: 8:26pm On Apr 20, 2019
Mode wen ban me.no wahala shall.God dey

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Properties / Re: Cost Of Rent Around Kano | Co-tenant by brightology3: 8:19pm On Apr 20, 2019
am back again
Education / Re: Kaduna Releases List Of Teachers Who Scored 75% In Competency Test by brightology3: 9:43am On Nov 04, 2017
Great

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Politics / Re: Maikanti Baru Responds To Ibe Kachikwu's Corruption Allegations by brightology3: 12:45pm On Oct 09, 2017
donuba69:

na only u see dis post
Nigeria matter don tire me, na waka pass I dey
Politics / Re: Maikanti Baru Responds To Ibe Kachikwu's Corruption Allegations by brightology3: 12:39pm On Oct 09, 2017
agabusta:
why you come report speedily??
I dey vex ni

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Politics / Re: Chaba Mark: My Apology To Goodluck Jonathan by brightology3: 12:38pm On Oct 09, 2017
God bless GEJ

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Politics / Re: Maikanti Baru Responds To Ibe Kachikwu's Corruption Allegations by brightology3: 12:36pm On Oct 09, 2017
wetin concern me

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Religion / Re: Benue Woman Marries 18 Husbands In 6 Years Over Stolen Red Powder by brightology3: 9:20pm On Oct 01, 2017
MhizzAJ:
This is too much
18 husbands in 6 yrs

Am sure her character chased her out of those marriages not one juju powder somewhere.
atheist sighted
Food / Re: Nigerian Man Wins Cooking Award In The US, Hosted On Good Morning America.Photos by brightology3: 5:28pm On Sep 20, 2017
taylor88:

Guy man


Couldn't wait for the pictures to load


The economy is harsh

Crime / Re: Woman Stealing A Bag At RCCG Church In Lagos Caught (Photos, Video) by brightology3: 9:32am On Sep 20, 2017
Rip
Education / Re: LASU Announces Screening Exercise. To Admit Only First Choice Candidates by brightology3: 11:00pm On Aug 25, 2017
AmbodOfLASU:
Today's LASU Official Bulletin


Cc

Lalasticlala Seun Ishilove


olawalebabs, Fynestboi, Richiez
please ooooo can someone still apply for change of institution and how can I go about it.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy For Maths & Science Teachers In Oman by brightology3: 4:53pm On Aug 25, 2017
Zimri:
grin
Why females only ke?
Males don't know mathematics again abi?
the thing tire me
Culture / Re: Statue Erected In Honor Of The Founder Of Okrika Town (pictures) by brightology3: 4:07pm On Aug 22, 2017
Good better best
Business / Re: Lagos To Sell Lake Rice At 12K Per 50kg Bag - "Eld-el-kabir" by brightology3: 3:59pm On Aug 22, 2017
Good
Politics / Re: "Buhari May Travel To US Next Week" - Presidency by brightology3: 3:57pm On Aug 22, 2017
u say?
Career / Re: NBS: Banks Sacked 360 Workers Every Week From January To June by brightology3: 8:29am On Aug 22, 2017
I comment my reserve
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Secondary School Teachers (igcse Certified Teachers For Math, English & Other Co by brightology3: 6:04pm On Aug 21, 2017
abeg make una nor use kill person

Crime / Re: Soldier Forces Lady To Pull Off Camouflage Clothing She Wore (Photo) by brightology3: 10:54am On Aug 09, 2017
mikool007:
Are they dum, this is so stupid and idiotic, people wear camo designed clothes abroad all the time without being embarrassed like, it is sad to say but this tells a lot about this country, pple don't even know their rights any longer when it's being trampled on a daily basis
ok kme front of bukavu barracks for kano with the full camo and see wetin go happen to you
Crime / Re: Soldier Forces Lady To Pull Off Camouflage Clothing She Wore (Photo) by brightology3: 10:54am On Aug 09, 2017
mikool007:
Are they dum, this is so stupid and idiotic, people wear camo designed clothes abroad all the time without being embarrassed like, it is sad to say but this tells a lot about this country, pple don't even know their rights any longer when it's being trampled on a daily basis
ok kme front of black barracks for kano with the full camo and see wetin go happen to you
Celebrities / Re: Basketmouth Kids Jet Out In Style For The Long Holiday [PICS] by brightology3: 3:35pm On Aug 06, 2017
cuteguy123:
The kids look ugly.
OK
Politics / Re: Don't Declare Niger Delta Republic - Edwin Clark Begs Militants by brightology3: 12:48pm On Aug 05, 2017
bubu
Politics / Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Honored With Aspen Institute Madeleine Albright Award by brightology3: 3:31pm On Aug 04, 2017
FeloniousFelon:
Oshiomole, Lai and the other ugly wizards of the APC won't like this
see them here

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Events / Re: LASTMA Official Dancing Joyously With His Wife At Their Wedding (Photos) by brightology3: 12:50pm On Jul 31, 2017
WHERE IS BUHARI

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