Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway by Twaci(2019 Edition) by bro4u: 6:58am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Today is 22nd, it's just three days to Christmas and I'm very optimistic to be among those that'll say "thank you" to someone, because life as a Nigerian student is not easy at all. |
Romance › Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by bro4u: 6:42am On Dec 22, 2019 |
franchasng: Lefu, you guys are getting the op all wrong honestly....this is a graduate who spent years in school studying hard to have a good life, now its been 2 years since he passed out from NYSC and no job, no foreseable one coming, future looks bleak while I am sure some of his mates are making it well and building their dream life, and you think such a man if sensible enough won't be depressed and worried of how to get out of his tight and sorry financial situation first to even think of getting a girlfriend
Those Okada, artisans, etc you mentioned have their life to live, some already concluded to live a financially miserable life, so to them, their current condition is their best, so they are living their best life financially and otherwise, so their confidence is in tact to woo any girl they fancy, but the op's confidence is dead due to his unexpected situation which life unexpectedly threw at him opposite to his wishes and dream while studying. so his case is far far different from those artisans you mentioned.
Every man need confidence to attract or approach his desired woman, and most times, when your basic needs as a man is not met, your confidence will be zero, and that is the situation the op is in right now, and all he needs now is to focus on sorting himself out financially and not any girlfriend that will compound his life problems with unnecessary financial requests.
If he must date, let him go on foreign dating sites and look for foreign ladies who can help his financial situation while dating, that's my own opinion though.
The money a man needs is not to give to women but to solve his basic needs and make him develop confidence enough to attract or woo his desired women...
Though everybody differs, some men crave for alcohol, sex, and they chase women more when they are financially broke...that's when they become more sexually active, whereas some men dislike alcohol, women and sex whenever they are financially down....I think the op belongs to that group of men, and it is very normal...it is the trait of most men who dream high and aim high in life.
All those broke, vision-less guys that consume alcohol and pursue women around have poor dream in life, they are happy and fulfilled with their sorry financial situation, and so they are very confident and happy in their sorry financial situation, and they may remain so forever or for long if help doesn't come their way from somewhere....but most reasonable men I know focus on improving their lives first before chasing women around or procreating children without plans but hoping for one rich relative or uncle or friend to help them train their kids  I had to login to like and also quote this post, best post so far. |
Literature › Re: Diary Of A Rugged Chaiz Man. by bro4u: 7:37am On Dec 20, 2019*. Modified: 4:08am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Nicheey: Chapter 4.
Our matriculation was fast approaching, some of the people that were evicted returned. Though we reach an agreement second semester they will go,and they agreed.
Me and pepple turn enemy, i no dey even bother go him class.
The porter has been frustrating my life like madt,unlike my previous university this one you'll have to sign into your hostel.
Providing them with ya passport,your school fee receipt and other credentials (100 level mostly) The man refused to signed me in,the first time i was in his office,he said i should put my papers in files,i was like no qualms na.
I hurried down to complex center front hostel D... When I got to his office it was locked,mehn the outrage i felt ehh.
I just retired to my hostel for the day.
Ahboy,ahboy.. Which kind sleep you dey sleep like this na ote,i could hear Abel from my dream world.
"Leave me oo".. I said sleepily. "You know waytin be time?"... Someone asked me.
Na 6:45 pm oo,and you start sleep 2pm...
I felt 6 hand on my body,they pulled me up. "Boy e don do wake up"... Afonne's voice hit my ear.
I stood up from where they had left me to sit. Went outside to wash my face,i was so hungry. Immediately i remembered what had happened at environmental science faculty (the man's office). I got angry.
"Boy come make we go smack" Abel said standing front of me.
Me:you hold rubs?. Abel: no issue that one dey
"Are you guys going to smack?"... A voice said behind our backs.
We both turned,it was caleb. Another of my room mate.
Abel:waytin sup? Caleb: i fit follow una?
Abel looked at me,probably seeking my approval.
Me: caleb may we dey go already.
I said turning around.
Abel: why you tell that chaiz man may him follow us na?.
Me:leave the boy,no be smack we wan go smack?.
Soon we got to a place inside our hostel compound(our hostel F N G be like barrack). There were two different people selling food there,though both under the same canopy but different tables.
Caleb:where una dey chop ? Abel:mama Africa. Caleb: oya na may we enter.
Well,usually the crowd at mama Africa fit dey like line that lead to hell( heaven no dey crowdy,lol) But today every where clear,maybe na because we come early.
Waytin you wan buy? A woman probably in her late 20s asked,immediately Abel handed three plates to her.
I walked inside the canopy to sit,i still dey vex bout waytin sup today,i brought out my phone lazily and started surfing the net.
Hello!, a voice said. I brought my eyes up from phone,behold a pretty girl was front of me.
I'll describe her,no vex. Lol. She had a long thread braided. She's light skin in complexion,her body set! Asin every thing washing and setting.
She fine scarra,or ahbi na because since i come RSU (ust) na ugly girls i don dey see since?. Her boobs were burgin from the black hood she wore. Mehn and e tey way i touch boobs.
Hello! The voice brought me to reality...
"Hmm..yeah? May i help you?"
"Would you mind if i and my friends sit down here ?." She asked
Sure!!,i said almost immediately.
Okay!.. She said with a smile,"just a sec,i'll go call them"...
Abel and Caleb came to the table i was seated,Abel had two plates of food in his both hands while Caleb had one.
Abel: aboy hwfa...(he said dropping a plate front of me).
Me: i dey.
Abel : who be That banny...(he meant the girl). Me: she say she and her friends wan sitting with us.
Caleb: (with mouth full) hope her friends na girls o.
Abel: i hope them em be girls too ooo. Me: we're bout to find out.
Just then the girl walked in with three other girls... Mehn em too goes well.
Hii,she said while dropping her plate of food on the table.
There were chorus of greetings from her friends,we returned their greetings too. Nice story. |
Business › Re: Frigoglass N10bn Glass Factory In Agbara, Ogun State (Photos) by bro4u: 10:57am On Dec 18, 2019 |
zealadjay: Wow!!! Luvly..
In other news,
it took me 5mins to actually understand dis pix,
How abt u?? Took me quite a while too, I was like what kinda tiny legs are those... Didn't know it was popcorn all these while... Lol |
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Teni "Billionaire's Concert" In Lagos by bro4u: 9:43am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Abiodunspectre: Lalasticlala help us beg Teni to come to Uyo  Teni that was supposed to come to Uniuyo months ago but didn't, at least Zlatan and peruzzi made it and thrilled us well. |
Romance › Re: Aisha Buhari Celebrates Her Husband President Buhari Birthday With Romantic Pics by bro4u: 9:29am On Dec 17, 2019 |
That cake is a perfect representation of Nigeria's status... Bending on side. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerians Has The Best Artistes In The World, Lady Says, Other Countries React by bro4u: 9:22am On Dec 17, 2019 |
All these Ghana musicians names be looking like burnt variety of bole and dodo... SMH |
Crime › Re: One Killed In Calabar Cult War (Graphic Photos) by bro4u: 11:40pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
emeijeh: Such a waste.
btw, the name of the second cult group is fullstop?
Na wah o It's blackk axxe, they got moles in all news agency that omit it's name from news like this. |
Education › Re: Meet Victor Ayooluwa Babalola: University Of Uyo Best Graduating Student by bro4u: 1:19pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Man And His Fiancee Spotted Having Sex In A Pool, Isokoboy, Waconzy React by bro4u: 7:23am On Dec 07, 2019*. Modified: 4:09am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Their life their business |
Politics › Re: Cross River Assembly Orders Political Appointees To Denounce Cultism by bro4u: 6:48am On Nov 29, 2019 |
Kyllahmc: Isha KRF I'm glad they said cultism, we already know they referring to the touts in red. and not we the responsible law abiding freedom fighters who have giving to the community through our Charity platform even more than the government itself.
#Whodey! #EgetWhy See dis one |
Politics › Re: Emeka Agba: I Am Donald Trump’s Grandfather - Nigerian Man (video) by bro4u: 10:01pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Hustle oo make person for India claim to be your grandfather
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Islam › Re: "Jumuah Funny Memes": 10 Types Of People You Would Meet In The Mosque On Fridays by bro4u: 9:36am On Nov 22, 2019 |
Hahahaha... Laughing out so loud
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Crime › Re: Armed Robbers Attack Bank In Ekiti, Policeman, Girl Shot Dead (Graphic Photos) by bro4u: 6:30pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Armed robbers are getting bolder everyday in Nigeria... Police are also getting bolder too; but unfortunately towards unarmed citizens. RIP to the dead |
Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy Feeds A Lion Named After Her by bro4u: 10:32am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Omo these lion Cubs are cute asf.. Damn |
Technology Market › Re: Very Neat Canon Powershot A1400 HD Digital Camera For Sale. by bro4u(op): 8:02am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Give away price 15k... Slightly negotiable |
Technology Market › Very Neat Canon Powershot A1400 HD Digital Camera For Sale. by bro4u(op): 7:59am On Nov 20, 2019*. Modified: 9:45am On Jan 23, 2020 |
Very neat Canon PowerShot A1400 HD Digital Camera For Sale, it has a 5X Optical zooming ability and a 5.0-25.0mm 1:2.8-6.9 Zooming lens. Bought it July this year... Still neat and new.... 070898518
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Politics › Re: Situation Room Calls For Cancellation Of Kogi Elections by bro4u: 6:55pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
skelewu404: why u dey fear now pls no fear o. Remember We come in peace but we mean business Mod una dey see this guy shey   Make we observe am well cos I no trust am |
Education › Re: UNN To Host Conference On Witchcraft by bro4u: 10:51pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
edoairways: Huh?  *Looks at moniker* Sorry sir, I wasn't referring to you please, temper justice with mercy biko |
Education › Re: UNN To Host Conference On Witchcraft by bro4u: 2:38pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Edo/Benin people feeling recognised at last...
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Politics › Re: Catriona Laing Visits Nnaemeka Alfred Ugochukwu Achebe, The Obi Of Onitsha by bro4u: 1:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Which kind high commissioner Britain carry give Nigeria sef  |
Crime › Re: Soldiers Invade Jakande Market, Ketu, Chase Away Traders by bro4u: 1:47pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Mtchewww... I was thinking the soldiers were chasing away Ghanaian traders sef |
Sports › Re: Emery Strips Xhaka Of Arsenal Captaincy And Gives It To Aubameyang by bro4u: 6:43am On Nov 06, 2019 |
Emery should also strip himself of the coaching title too |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Could This Be A Coincidence Or Something More? by bro4u(op): 1:04pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
obailala: There's been several coincidences between the Simpson's cartoon and the Trump presidency. Someone somewhere definitely knew something even before it happened; those Simpson guys are freaks! Sure bro... While others may see it as a coincidence but believe me there's something about that Simpson's cartoon that's kinda mysterious, a friend of mine said something about that cartoon I wouldn't wanna say out here on this forum. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Could This Be A Coincidence Or Something More? by bro4u(op): 11:59am On Nov 01, 2019 |
You think so?? Visit the Page and see the comments there, you'll be enlightened. There's definitely something more. |
Foreign Affairs › Could This Be A Coincidence Or Something More? by bro4u(op): 11:46am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Just came across this on FB, what do you think guys??
Cc: Lalasticlala, seun,Mynd44, OAM4J
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Crime › Re: Emem Ibanga Accused Of Sending Thugs To Beat Nsit Atai Students Over Bursary by bro4u: 3:54pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
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