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Hehehehe. See them. OP is now a nairaland celebrity. Congrats dear. Oya kristiana888 carry dat ya small brezz come my house for your evening duty.

dajoaneke:
I guess thats where the prolem truly lies... No one takes me seriously

Guy, you look married with 4 kids. Leave the gals for us single brothers.

You too? Me too I'm a hot guy o. Where r my ladies at?

Save me from bachelorhood cos I'm enjoying it and it's scary.

One glance at your profile pic, and I know you are just joking.

So you too want to use and dump gals? Ride on.

Love is in the air.

Any pastor that preaches against the election of Buhari because of his religion is no different from Boko Haram fanatics. Fact.

Daniel was a prime minister in an empire where idolatry was the state religion.

MissMalia:
we settled it b4 he left my place on dt day.

Good.

MissMalia:
nt in anger bt I wit a serious tone

You came across as arrogant. Go and fix things with him. No man wants a burden of a lady but also, no man wants a woman who uses her financial independence as a weapon.

True. Some ladies will still turn a blind eye.

Hey . That statement is actually true. Every player has that particular girl for whom he would give the world. The sad thing is she wouldn't even love him back.

Tell her no.3 first followed by no.4

Cos you haven't met me.

She's irritated by the thought of you. This is a sign of dying love.

Go to sports section bro.

LadyX:
I will tell him "I will make my money", but I will not tell him "I will not depend on any DAMN man" because it's kinda rude and arrogant.

Her intention was good, but the way she presented it was...

Hmmm
Good girl.

MissMalia:
Sincerely speakin,I tld my boo diz 2 wikz again.I neva tot it wz wrong.I only noticed his countenance changed afterwhich I tried to cheer him up.I neva meant any harm coz its normal 2 say dt.

Depends on your tone when you told him. Did you say it in anger?

Guy stop giving her attention. Don't even bother to notice her reaction. Face other ladies.

She is getting jealous over someone she has refused to date. That means she is hoping to keep you friend zoned. Drop herlike a bad habit.

She is selling her love. And you are buying. It's business.

Mhizizzy:
Some babes have invested too much to say goodbye nd sumtymz Dere ain't alternatives........ guyz Sud cut slacks in abusing baes too

Invested too much? What do Naija ladies bring to the table? Okay, even if she invested a lot, is her contribution more valuable than peace of mind?

I believe the real shame is in living below the standard that her boyfriend elevated her to.

Must there be an alternative? Is it a sin to be single for a few months?

delishpot:
Not realLy Sha o. In naija when a guy abuses his woman, she is automaticaly blaMed. People believe she pushed him to do it. Plus he will say she dumped him for a richer guy and will not see his abuse a sa problem rather she was the cause of the action.
If she leaves, most people will say, the next guy you are going to meet may be worse, our society does not teach women to stand up for themselves. Even a look into most NL topics will convince you about how women who decide to move on from abusive relationships are treated and adviced.

Naija ladies who remain in abusive relationships have sold their love. Fact.

What's the shame in leaving? If you are asked why, you should tell them "he abused/assaulted me". What's there to be ashamed about?

The logical reason a naija babe will endure pain and abuse in relationship is because of future benefit- the money and gifts he would shower on you as an apology.

Such a woman does not deserve pity.

There are good guys out there but they are labelled weak and boring cos they don't act crazy.

You mean single ladies who want to get married. Some ladies are just comfortable with rich boyfriends and sugar daddies.

That's why I don't pity ladies in abusive relationships. The signs are always there right from the beginning but the gifts and free money draw them like moths to a flame.

Even with all the evidence in the world you are still asking questions like this. And one correct, faithful guy somewhere is hoping you'd look his way. Continue in your relationship. Maybe it's because you deserve all the hurt and drama that you're stuck on a cheat.

The legislators are the real thieves. They vote money for themselves like no man's business.

If they have the interest of Nigeria at heart they would not make such positions so lucrative.

Reduce the financial rewards of public office and thieves will no longer be interested.

There might be another guy begging her for love, yet she's stuck on you. See life. Ladies, make life complex.

Bro, look for another friend. She's not the only one who can give you directions. Avoid her before she goes crazy on you.

Paranoia. Are you saying girls suffer from this?

Was she expecting marriage from him? Was that the agreement?

Please don't paint him black joor.

No conspicuous breåst? How do I know you're really a woman?

If you don't have BIG ones, you can go for enlargement na.

ammyluv2002:
She's a good girl....pls marry her

zoeee:
at least she remember give u something

Hmmm. It's wickedness that can make a gal type this.

Pure one.

This can't be true.

A. But we must have great sex like all the time.