Krak:


We have that already, but it seems the right side of the scar is wet and we are concerned.

The doctors prescribed Zinat with Flagyl and she has been taking them.

crackhaus:

Was he given another flat/property?

Uyi168:
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He needs to..

Uyi168:
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Don't understand..
Nor be your papa get house..
Isnt he free to do whatsoever with his property again..
Children these days dey get mind oo..

crackhaus:

I don't follow this.

Is she not already more wealthy than both of you who have government jobs?

Well the bottom line is, whatever they were gonna decide, they should have involved your brother whom the flat was originally allocated to.
It's just simple courtesy, and it eliminates bad blood.

crackhaus:
It's quite obvious here that your sister never had any regard for your elder brother, and she may also be a greedy person.
Your father who honestly should know better, has allowed himself to be used as the tool to bring about discord in your family.


Your father is the one you should be talking to about this. He is using his own hand to destroy the love that should exist between his children... and all for what? Because he gets a lot of money from your sister.

I'm sorry to say, but he is not wise.

If he didn't want your brother to earn money (rent) on the flat while he is alive, why then would he allow your sister use it as a clinic where she will also earn money?

Makes no damn sense...

mariahAngel:


A different angle...

mename:
Where is the respect for our older siblings, first child for that matter.

Why do people complicate things?

Some ladies and unnecessary wahala, what will it take to choose a different flat.

No lies, even your parents didn't help the issue.
They should have communicated with your brother to let him know the latest developments, and hear his own opinion.

If your parents or sibling do not want to cooperate, then kindly advise your brother to make alternate plans.

I understand where your dad is coming from, but atleast he should have communicated with your brother first.

To those out there, try making plans without reliance on your parents' property, even if they promised you the whole world, cuz when tables turn......

Let me wait for the elders

Prognose:
The solution comes from all parties working together to secure peace. Your brother should first of all go and apologise to your father. He did not do well by saying the property he was given was not good enough to live in, being that he doesn't have property himself. So that's why your dad is angry with him and wants to teach him a lesson.

Your wealthy sister has seen another opportunity for buisness and is taking advantage of the situation because your father will prefer her plan to your brother's plan. She didn't do well by placing herself in the middle like that. Are u sure you guys don't have previous scores to settle?


Solution: your brother can apologise to your dad and ask for the flat back to live in it. That should solve it. I doubt he will do it though, the level of pride in the world now I'd something else. He should alternatively still apologise to your dad for the statement that the place is not good enough for his standard and then go and look for a place of his own standard without expecting support from your dad. That will give him his respect back.

Your sister sha. She should calm down and apologise to your bro but I think she's also low key offended by your elder brother's actions and wants to prove a point. If your brother can apologise to his dad and look for a place for himself she might reflect and offer him the flat back but he should not take it.

daddytime:
The truth of the matter is, you no fit decide for who get something who to dash him thing or how to do him thing.

It remains your father's property and he could choose to demolish it if it so pleases him.

If your brother had taken possession of the said flat I'm sure your sister would have settled for an alternative.

However, I would advise that your father puts a will in place if he hasn't already to mitigate against a further breakdown of sibling-relationship.

Your brother should be looking beyond his father's property.

akthedream2019:

Her problem is lack of love.....


No hug
No kiss. No sex
Now friends
I doubt if she knows her family or parent.


She spend all her life online hating on people... Especially ladies that she can't measure up to.


There is nothing.. I mean nothing she can type with her hands due to her bitter mind.

That thing is unexplainable..


Let's watch and see what will keep her happy now that Erica has left the show..

Hallenjay:
dont get carried away, some of us who dont vote and might wants to vote dont usually like ds bragging instead of u to campaighn for vote n beg, u r Here bragging. I pity u... Hype doesnt necessary turns to vote oooo, de r two different tins... Massive pple r voting lucy rightaway wit no hype watsoever. so campaign and dont brag, else, many will assume u guys r okay... Na something something kill elepahant in ebukas voice. If u kmow u know.
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Celebrity hype no b vote, u no see cuppy? She dropped one sms vote for kidd, screenshot n send it as evidence, she no even get d time to vote enuf dts want hype can cause... Kidd has large number of fans to so pple will assume de will vote or his fada wil do maic n get a better vote margin

halogate:

.. Absolutely reality OP.. University education is not like paying monthly salary oh. I know how much strain it was on my mum to train I and my 2 brothers in the uni at the same time. So u better be ready.

Another advice.
...Since she's still a teenager. Sit her down and talk to her. Let her learn a skill or trade for two years.
She can apply for part time studies during or after the apprenticeship..or full time studies after it.
..That way she already has a potential means of supporting herself financially.
..u can support her with allowances during the apprenticeship period.

CreamyPatty24:
I see nothing wrong in wanting her under your roof before you can help her. A lot of people have gone through this same arrangements with their relatives and are better off today.
I personally know someone who lived with her elder sister under same conditions,the sister insisted she attends a school close to them so she can assist with the chores and children, today the lady is doing well for herself, happily married and has an awesome relationship with her nieces and nephews.
Who says you can't do same with this one? Just be fair in your dealings with her and let God take charge.

Cladez:
You can sponsor her if you have enough money but note that you shouldn't expect anything in return because if you do.......it usually end in tears.

working and schooling from home? nah that's actually gonna affect her performance both in school and at work....


and i hope you never get to have issues and misunderstanding because exposure to new environment brings about changes in someone physically and mentally alike..


GOOD LUCK

boldx:
Bryanarchie,

Its a good thing to help. It won't be easy to separate her from her twin. I would suggest you go to her house and get to know her family, then discuss with them about your plans of having her live with your family.

Please go with another adult if possible your husband so that you guys can hear their response and decode it.

You got to be careful also cos there maybe other issues that may arise if she moves in to stay with you.

Also, pray about it if you believe in prayers.

Nwodosis:

Search for the meaning of help, you are not helping her, you are only after your business growth.

Nwodosis:
Did you say help? When you are helping somebody in anticipation to be rewarded, it is no longer help but an investment. The truth is at the back of you mind, you want to grow your business.

Nwodosis:
Did you say help?

thesicilian:

1. Why does she have to be living with you before you help her?
2. If you know you're not financially stable enough to sponsor her education please don't start what you can't finish otherwise this will create serious problems for both of you later on.

thesicilian:

1. Why does she have to be living with you before you help her?
2. If you know you're not financially stable enough to sponsor her education please don't start what you can't finish otherwise this will create serious problems for both of you later on.