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lovelygurl:
What kind of rubbish did I just read?!!!! And why the hell op do you think you have a right to play the victim card?

The first paragraph was all about painting your wife bad. Then you started the second paragraph with "I'm a cool guy"?!

This has to be a joke because I doubt if things were the other way round, she'd be playing the victim card.

You even had a right to feel hurt because her parents insulted you. Indicating she's a rich spoilt child, when it's actually you who's a LovePeddler with no self respect whatsoever. Not even self control, yet think you have the right to apologise and everything is going to be fine?

Because if things were the other way round, you wouldn't be here seeking for advice? "Heeeelp my wife cheated on me" And people wouldn't be here commenting on how you should divorce or better send her back to her dad's house?

Hypocrisy at its peek!

I see hypocrites trying to justify this disgusting act but you know what? The marriage is already over. I hope she divorces you. A year of marriage is still young and this is her time and chance to escape being married to a dog

Thank you.

Dear Santa,

Mbok, I need a stroller and a high chair for my baby...

Good morning mama's, my baby is 6months and he just won't eat anything anymore.he eats very well before but he just stopped on Sunday.
I have tried birds custArd, checkers custard, small milk, nutribom and all to no avail. What else can I do, all he wants is breast and I don't think it's flowing well again. He is not feverish and he is even playing very well too. I needurgent advice. Thank you

Giddyperson:
Congrats and God bless your lo. You're the one that was scared of labour, did you finally go for elective cs? I would have asked for BS but this one it took one week to get BA I don't think BS would happen.

Lolsss...you know me well... not elective but due to prolonged labour.I was stuck at 4cm for almost three days. it was terrible but I give thanks.my bs will not be now abeg, i've not slept for days and I'm still recovering, you know im very lazy.

[quote author=Giddyperson post=56059471]Congrats and God bless your lo. You're the one that was scared of labour, did you finally go for elective cs? I would have asked for BS but this one it took one week to get BA I don't think BS would happen. [/quote


Lolsss...you know me well... not elective but due to prolonged labour.I was stuck at 4cm for almost three days. it was terrible but I give thanks.my bs will not be now abeg, i've not slept for days and I'm still recovering, you know im very lazy.

On 22nd of April, I welcomed my Prince charming into this world via cs and babys weight was 3.8kg...
mummy and baby Alive but mummy is very tired.
vigilante is real.

Congrats Giddyperson, you make it look so easy.

hotmomma:
Scared? Hmmm you don't need that so as not to elevate ur bp. Is labour painful? Yes it is, I have to be sincere cos I vex for people wey lie give me BUT as soon as my baby was out, the pain vanished. Had episiotomy but I didn't feel the pain during and after the stitching, I guess it was the kind of pain killers administered. You can do this, your body was meant for this but pls listen to your doctor. Its well...

okay. The attitude of the nurses are frustrating. Anyway my husband has rebuked my Vs option. I'm encouraging myself.

customised87:
My sis, if you are so scared of labour pain, please opt for a CS. I actually planned to have a VD but baby turned to be breech after my water broke so i had to have an emergency CS. I was 6cm dilated before the CS,so the pain was still very bearable. The procedure lasted for like 30mins and after some few hours i was able to eat. I would opt for a scheduled CS again and i would even advise my blood sister to do a Scheduled CS! You know why? I didnt go through labour pain. After the procedure, the pain was extreme but they kept giving me pain reliefs and that reduced the pain. The pain kept reducing everyday and by 1 week after, i was fine. Guess what? Nobody can see my scar cos its on my bikini area and i even got my flat tummy back. So even if i decide to wear a bikini to swim, nobody will notice anything. Whenever, i read how people describe the torment they pass through during labour, i always thank God for making my baby breech so he could save me from that pain cos i am not sure i would have been able to forget it in a haste. I have seen people who had VD and on their baby christening, they are not having all the fun cos of the stitches! The most important thing after all is for a mother to carry her bundle of joy and nurse joyfully after 9months. So, choose wisely but most importantly, involve God while making your choice. May we all deliver safely and may everyone celebrate with us!

please which hospital did you use. Private or general.

Giddyperson:
There's no easy way out, except birth control

That being said, I'm off to the hospital, having the worst contractions ever, they are painful asf and about 5 mins apart, did u people say they would ask you to push during contractions? How can anyone do anything during this. Sha pray for me, I'd finally see my lil nugget soon

I had a thought yesterday that I might just give birth to one child. Wish you a safe delivery.

Zheemub:
Sorry for responding late.
Since you are near term, it could be your body preparing for labour. Every symptoms differ in individual.
If your next antenatal is soon do complain to your doctor.
If the menstrual like pain becomes unbearable plus go to the hospital to be checked.
You might have started dialating.
Funny thing, when it's real contractions you will know it's the real deal.
Easy, supernatural delivery to you.

yes this is what they said, that it is my body preparing.

hunniesuzie:
Please attempt a VD first. While a CS is a quick surgery, the recovery is a long process, it took me 2 weeks to be back to 70% and another week to be 100%. I've heard with VD that you're fine once the baby comes out. Surgery no matter what is invasive and if there's no health reason not to I would suggest you attempt VD. Just be strong, fear makes it more painful I've heard

My dear I used to feel I'm strong but if the pain I experienced yesterday is not labour pain and it is normal. Hmmmmm then I'm soft like hot Pap. I tied wrapper from my chest without pant. It isWell.

Kemifemi. I'm so so sorry for you loss. I'm really heartbroken. It is well.

Jazzyjazz, extremely cute baby.

queensnow:
yes cs is pain free dey will cut ur tummy n sew it back not just small cutting at least dat baby can pass thru den u will nurse d pains for days.. virginal delivery is is very painful wen u ar in labour but after delivery if u have no tears u will be back to normal d following day

will I have a scar? the pain after the cs is it much?

awwwwwwwww.so much love.shout out to you all.i love you all.

my dear, I'm just back from the hospital and they said once more that it is normal.. that baby is engaging abi navigating it's way through.
I was told the pain will be worse than this if it is labour and I'm seriously scared.
please I need to hear the pros and cons vaginal delivery and cs.Is CS pain free?

please help, ooooooo everyone said it's normal but I'm in terrible Pains. they said baby is engaging but I can't bear it opioid. from my waist to tummy.please pray for me it's too painful..call me Biko I'm getting tired poop... God what is going on.

Naomi14:
Google it!

Lol totally forgot about that. Thank you

:oPlease I need to know the signs of labour.i'm so confused. I can't even sit right now. It's so uncomfortable.

Zheemub:
Thank God you are fine
Avoid what triggered it and be prepared. Very soon your LO will be with you soon.

Thank you.
I have a sharp pain on my left thigh close to my tushieee, a bearable pain. Now I'm still having the menstrual cramp feeling. Should I go to the hospital because I don't want this to be false labour again. I'm sorry for my incessant questions, it's my first time. It's not my thigh poop, it's my waist.

Zheemub:
Sorry ma'am. It's very possible you are in labour.
Time your contractions. How many minutes apart? How many contractions in one minute?
Kindly go to the hospital. Hope your bags are packed?
Wishing you a supernatural delivery.
God is in control. E-hugs

my dear thank you. it was a false alarm. I'm fine now. thank you for caring.

lululuv:
It could be. Just watch it. Does D cramp come and go? Just be ready if it gets too painful pleade go to the hospital. God is your strength

thank you for your response.i slept through it all and now I'm fine. I'm sorry for the false alarm

hello mothers, please I was referred to this platform by a friend.my edd by lmp is may3 and by scan is 25th April. today I had sex with hubby and after washing up and all that I noticed a blob of transparent gooey stuff..
please is this mucus plug or sperm? now Im experiencing sharp pain by my waist and my tushiée is swollen. could this be labour? then pain is like menstrual cramp. I also felt something move in my waist.help me please