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RomanceRe: After She Tests Positive To HIV: Would You Still Marry Her? by Brymore(m): 3:16pm On Feb 20, 2007
If I went into the relationship for love, I would still marry her (We can have sex and children without me contacting the virus if we want to), but if I go into the relationship for some other reason, it will be the natural thing to let her off. Only thing is, u might drive her to do something bad to herself as she would think life is not worth living if she truely loves u (she would not tell u her status unless she did). Love should have no boundaries, besides, HIV will soon have a cure, there are so many ways of reducing it's impact and effects already.

#Candid Submission#
RomanceRe: can you love 2 lovers at a time by Brymore(m): 1:40pm On Feb 20, 2007
Brother, I've been in ur shoes before. These two gals were totally different in Character and looks (though both were really good looking). One was a bornagain Christian, the other an easy goer. I was a blend of both( A brother sometimes feel religious and sometimes like partying). So, they both served their purposes. One day, the easy partygoer discovered and said I should make a choice. I thot of this for three weeks and came up wit a blank. I could not do without the other, I would feel incomplete. So I had to breakup with them both. Sad end you say, they never forgave me but I felt better since they would not have to cope with a guy that wanted to have the two of them.
My summation, It is rare but possible, but how do u break it to them and will they understand?
#Candid Submission#
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Girl Likes You by Brymore(m): 3:36pm On Feb 19, 2007
I'm not much for non-verbal communication (though they say ladies use more of such than the verbal). I know a lady likes me when she treats me positively different from others. Or are we asking about love? In that context, she will have to tell me.

#Candid Submission#
Christianity EtcRe: Do Islam And Christianity Permit The Use Of Condoms? by Brymore(op): 6:22pm On Feb 16, 2007
trini_girl:
thank you Seun!

at least in this rare instance, I agree with your opinion. grin

sensible sin. lol!!

I think what the gentleman is really doing research on is birth control and how religion views it.

Brymore, which religion are you referring to, and why specifically "condom" use?
I'm looking at both religions, Christianity and Islam. I am also not necessarily working on birth control but would not mind info along those lines too. There's been this talk about condoms promoting sex so I'm trying to question the "condom use" opinion. Is it frowned at or perpetuated by religion, where does religious guidelines end, and where does logic start?
Thanks for ur response Seun, it was poetic, entertaining and enlightening. Jah Bless
RomanceRe: Are Virgins Still Respected? by Brymore(m): 5:54pm On Feb 16, 2007
Virginity is not something u should carry on your head and make a fuss about. Yes, you will be respected as a very disciplined person (if you are a positive virgin, I mean virgin for the right reasons), but you don't have to climb the rooftops screaming "I'm a virgin, I'm a viiirrrgiiinnn!!". You are a virgin, so? Mary was! At least before she had Jesus.

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Christianity EtcRe: Kissing and Romancing: Part of Fornication? by Brymore(m): 5:50pm On Feb 16, 2007
lola baloo:
the mind detemines which is which but 2 me romancing is fornication
. kissing to me would be fornication depending on what u'r thinking while doing it.
eg is kissing a baby fornication?
Kissing a baby can be fornication if u are doing it to gratify sexual desires. In fact, it is not good to kiss babies too much, else they grow up loving it and looking for whom to kiss at the slightest provocation. wink

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Forum GamesRe: Make A Wish For The Person Above You by Brymore(m): 5:27pm On Feb 16, 2007
I wish Jaybaby would'nt make a wish after me.
Christianity EtcRe: Kissing and Romancing: Part of Fornication? by Brymore(m): 2:25pm On Feb 16, 2007
If we will follow what the Bible says, what makes anything sin is the intention or motivation for such action. What this invariably means is that you can fornicate without kissing, necking, rimming, smooching or romancing. It might also probably mean that you can kiss without fornicating (depending on the motive behind the kissing). Imagine a scenario where this person(the opposite sex) has just been rescued from drowning and you are to resuscitate the person by the "mouth to mouth thing", would you call that fornication (This is just an attempt at looking at times when kissing might not have bad intentions and as such do not qualify as sin).
My summation; anytime you look (look in this context can be through mental images, viewing pictures, movies or the person proper) at the same or opposite sex with the aim of having some form of sexual gratification, you have fornicated.
If you can carry out the kissing and romancing action without thinking of having sex, then you have not fornicated. Note that fornication has to do with penetration. If there is no penetration, there is no fornication.

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CelebritiesRe: The Ugliest Actors/actresses In Nollywood by Brymore(m): 7:27pm On Feb 15, 2007
jaybaby:
Y would U say he is Colour Blind?--- Zack was VERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRY Ugly before he srted CHOPPING Money
Thanks Jaybaby, u saw him then.

Hugoboi:
Abeg !! this is eitha beef or u are color blind!!!
And u Hugoboi (is this an imitation of Hugoboss), what has colour blindness got to do with analysis or appreciation of beauty. If u r fine, then you r regardless of ur colour.
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RomanceRe: Are Virgins Still Respected? by Brymore(m): 7:22pm On Feb 15, 2007
seneca:
I used to know a colleague at work who has never had either a boyfriend or sex! You'll say good girl won't you? Hold it right there! The kinds of things this chic said on a daily basis was enough to make The Madonna herself blush! In her case she still remains a virgin not because of any moral or religious consideration; she's technically a virgin (intact hymen) because she couldn't find anyone that would overlook her mouth and focus on the koko downstairs.
Such a girl can't start parading herself as something out of the ordinary: a virgin!
The concept of virginity in contemporary African and modern religious philosophy is about purity of body and soul. i as a person am not too particular about the state of the hymen; its about the person-body, mind and spirit. We live in a society full of hypocrites. We expect the men to be experienced and the women to be virgins. I suppose the men can get some experience by sleeping with goats and baboons!
To those who are truly virgins in body and in mind-kudos; to the technical virgins with intact hymens and minds lusting after the loins of men and waiting for the opportune moment- purify thy souls, to those whose hymens have been breached, but whose minds are alive and pure, my deepest respect-all is not lost. To those whose minds and hymens have been reduced to tattered rags, may God forgive all of you o! grin
Back to the guys - Lets encourage the true virgins by remembering to Zip up both our pants and our mouths when it matters most!
Gbam! U just hit the nail on the head.
Y should I remain a virgin in body and be the worst of sinners? I feel for that ur colleague o! Her life is FRAGILE!!!
People like that will make us hate virginity, but I think that a man should have some sexual experience before marriage

#Candid Submission#
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancies At First Bank by Brymore(m): 6:33pm On Feb 15, 2007
Jah Bless Yah Titeen
Music/RadioRe: The Best Nigerian Love Song Ever! by Brymore(m): 6:19pm On Feb 15, 2007
Anwuli by Six-Foot plus
Christianity EtcRe: Ouija Boards: Experiences and Opinions by Brymore(m): 6:06pm On Feb 15, 2007
It was something similar to this that led to the death of King Saul in the Bible. When you get tired of this world, go to the Ouija Boards and your life will be redirected towards hell.
Forum GamesRe: Make A Wish For The Person Above You by Brymore(m): 6:04pm On Feb 15, 2007
I wish I wont be there when I die
Forum GamesRe: Make A Wish For The Person Above You by Brymore(m): 5:59pm On Feb 15, 2007
jaybaby:
Odesco

Wish U would Grow Up

I wish I wont be there when I die.
CelebritiesRe: Who Is The Best Kisser In Nollywood? by Brymore(m): 5:55pm On Feb 15, 2007
They need to come so I'll kiss them one after the other. Then will I vote on the best kisser(Let the "males" stay off please).
Foreign AffairsRe: Why Did Adolph Hitler Hate Jews So Much? by Brymore(m): 5:55pm On Feb 15, 2007
I once read a book which said Hitler's mother died of chloroform poisoning while he was growing up.
She was being treated for breast cancer by a Jewish Doctor who used chloroform (the only medicine they had then for curing wounds) in sealing the breast after he had cut off the cancerous part. Naturally, the chloroform got into her bloodstream and she started becoming yellow until she finally died (It was a slow and painful process and young Adolf was the major nurse of his mother whom he loved so much). He then surmised that the Doctor must have killed her deliberately, and that was how the anger and vengeance that lasted for so many years was born.
FamilyRe: What Level Of Education You Would Love Your Husband To Have? by Brymore(m): 5:10pm On Feb 15, 2007
olufunto:
I don't think the above statement is a correct one. I did my high school in Nigeria and i don't regret that because my first year was like a revision on what i did in ss1 and 2.Trust me most of the high school graduates here don't know jack.You can't even compare them to high school students in naija.Look at SAT ,they prep them for that course like they are taking a board exam or something and people in Nigeria still do better.I can't comprehend that.I think Nigeria has a good system of education its just the strikes and all that make it bad.I could be wrong,it could be that i was only fortunate to go to a good school,but trust me i am certain that even the dumbest person in my set would do better than most high school students here .Also i know a lot of people who went to public not even private schools for their bachelors and they are like the smartest ones in their classes here.I don't think its fair to say most,maybe some would be ok,certainly not most.And about being computer literates,its because we don't have the resources like that but trust me if we do,Nigerians at home are SMART,they would even learn faster .Presently i am not challenged in class and thats because i did high school in naija.
Olufunto, ur response trips me. I think we should look to how to improve on what we have in Naija. Besides, we perform really good in comparison with the poor educational facilities. I belong to the school of a Naija person is better than a whitey at least ten times if given the same chances.

kimba:
talking about Nigerian education - a white piece of paper is better than a Nigerian University certificate.

The reason: academically delinquent lecturers cannot produce good students.

I once met a Nigerian who came to do a M.Sc in Industrial engineering in my school. He said he finished from ABU zaria. He woefully failed the M.Sc entrance exam - as in woefully, that they had to give him another entrance exam for B.Sc. He failed again. Yet he has a certificate saying he was a First Class ABU grad.

He had to do a lot of begging, had to go through remedial classes, took a lot of subjects with Undergrad students for about a year and a half before he was considered.

The end: he didnt finish the course. Why? he couldnt cope up with computer assignments, not to talk of lectures. I don't know where he is now.
Kimba, I think u have decided to falsify things as a means of proving a point. Firstly, u did not have to mention any names, secondly, ABU does not have courses in industrial engineering, thirdly, it is easier for an elephant to fly than for a human being to come out with a First class from ABU. I have friends from there so I know.
One advice; Never talk about things u know nothing about, else u will mislead ignorant people and place urself in bad light.

Which school u even comot from?
CelebritiesRe: The Ugliest Actors/actresses In Nollywood by Brymore(m): 4:35pm On Feb 15, 2007
I'm not a fan of Nigerian home videos, but this thread interests me because nobody has said anything about Zack Orji and his bushy side boards. I think he gets the trophy. grin
PhonesRe: Celtel by Brymore(m): 4:12pm On Feb 15, 2007
Lolyda:
Do u guys need celtel nu settings?
Celtel is one of the most wacked of networks currently, more so, their customer care is totally non-existent. Have u ever succeeded in talking to anyone there? The computer response itself sucks. Candid opinion
Christianity EtcDo Islam And Christianity Permit The Use Of Condoms? by Brymore(op): 2:47pm On Feb 15, 2007
Please, I'm doing a research on condom use in religion and I will love fellow Nairalanders to tell me what they think from a religious perspective.

Are condoms acceptable in relationships (dating/courting), and marriages?

Thanks for your sincere contributions.
RomanceRe: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'? by Brymore(m): 2:32pm On Feb 15, 2007
LadyT:
Sorry I have no respect for wife beaters. You don't hit your wife by mistake. And if you can't tell the difference between sarcasm and being polite I pity you.
Haba, LadyT, must u turn ur sarcastic politeness my way, do u find it extremely difficult to present ur polite self devoid of sarcasm? I was just making an innocent comment, that's all, besides, I think having a re-check of ur dic could help shed more light on definition of words.
By the by, I don't believe in violence either, whether towards males, females or hermaphrodites. I am a man of peace. Finito
BusinessRe: Business Idea: Amputating Machines by Brymore(m): 1:42pm On Feb 15, 2007
tafari:
I feel u mr mayor, business does not always blend with morality. we all need money.
I can help you with a link,
Yeah we all need money and I see the sense in state-of-the-art amputating machines instead of the knife and hot oil concept, but must we crucify sanity on the altar of money seeking? Amputation is irreversible, so think about those that might be unjustly amputated, or those that are set-up. I believe strongly that we should move towards stopping this barbaric trend of laws instead of seeking to promote it.
Christianity EtcRe: What More Do You Know About Angels? by Brymore(m): 1:27pm On Feb 15, 2007
Haba, adesodgi how will u post a nude "angel's" picture for all to see, What kind of impression do u want innocent people like me to have of angels? If not because she is curled up, walahi, if I meet such an angel, I don't know if I can control my libido. Haba! Naked Angel walking in the earth?

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