₦airaland Forum

bmdmixer:
u arrange house
cook
buy fuel

then she said am almost there n oh am on oh, don't try anything funny oh

Very good sign.

It means she wants a good pounding, but want you to be responsible for it.

This is her excuse to not feel like a slut.

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

Haha, now he's dropping cash for his underage mistress...

Jestin:
I remember as a kid, my mum scolded me for wrong doing and i went to the pot of ogbono soup she was cooking that evening, opened it and pee inside. The beating that day nor be small . Mum still told my gf the story recently and she promise to relate it to my kids in the future . I made a negative generational story for myself because of bad temper but i am cool like ice block now .

This one na ogbanje mata.

Beautykate:
I am writing to ask if you can help me to persuade my husband to do less around the house. I am worried that he is going to make himself ill from exhaustion. Also, and it is hard for me to say this to him without being hurtful, I married him for his fun personality not his work ethic and I fear I am losing him to domestic drudgery. I want an equal partner, not a slave.

We have a toddler and a baby, born few months ago. During the pregnancy, I was quite tired and run down and my darling, supportive husband started to do more and more around the house and with our son (and despite a full-time, responsible job, he has always done more than his fair share of housework). I am now breastfeeding the baby, which is tough because he barely stops feeding and won't really nap anywhere except in my arms.

So this leaves my husband doing the shopping, tidying, washing and cooking. He gets up at 6am every morning to get our toddler ready for nursery, with a packed lunch, and he drops him off before he can get himself off to work. Meanwhile, I just sit around feeding the baby!

I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.

I hugely appreciate him helping, but, beyond the basics, would rather see him sleeping or even cuddling me on the sofa rather than trying to be on top of everything. I love my husband – he is truly the sweetest, most loving, most wonderful lover and father, but I find myself resenting the fact that I barely see his fun side these days because he is so tired that he is essentially ill – and I can't help thinking it is at least partly self-inflicted

Very nice way of thinking...

How about you stop being lazy and get stuff done around the house.

You resent him for not wanting to live in filth.

I prefer dealing with men for almost all professional services.

With females, they tend to have the belief that they can get away with sub par service because feminine charms...

Example...I had to replace this female cook with a male because she didn't want to go to the market for fresh vegetables and preferred to store them in the fridge, etc.

She took certain liberties like she was a girlfriend, or sister, or cousin.

She wouldn't do stuff when you wanted it done.

The guy on the other hand was like a nice robot. 100% do as I say, no excuses.

However, for medical consultation, I'll choose female docs ten times out of ten.

Had these insane allergies in 2017 that left my battery at 1% round the clock.

I would sleep for 14 hours and still wake up tired, etc.

Saw 14 doctors multiple times that year - about 5 of them were specialists.

Only 2 of these docs came close what was troubling me and they were both female (the rest were men).

Perhaps female docs just listen better to patients, or maybe paid more attention in medical school.

bukatyne:
It was banned for a week, I registered this so both are now floating.

Ahh, so you haff join bad gang.

What did you do

bukatyne2:
I would like to read about this man.

He is a misogynist with finesse.

Sounds like a gentleman of old.

Bukatyne, what happened to your other id

Don't we have freedom of religion again?

So long as he doesn't infringe on anyone's rights, he's within his rights to keep charms, or whatever he wishes.

Olive oil, rosary, crucifix, etc...all na talisman.

Gordieshegz:
They are not even strong enough..

Ordinary 1 million boys will beat these ones.
Let alone awawa boys.

Silly beings with dirty ways.


#Spit#

It's not about physical strength.

These guys transnational organizions, with more resources than many countries.

El Chapo's son was arrested last year by an elite unit of police and military officers.

Do you know what happened?

His people unleashed so much violence that the president had to order his release.

Later, they ambushed the leading officer and killed him with over 150 bullets.

Who be 1 million boys?

illicit:
yes I know they are capable of heinous crimes but they don't do nothing new that guys here don't do.

Bro, some of these gangs skin their enemies alive.

illicit:
that's exactly what am talking about. all they got is money, they no get any weyrey for where local touts here dey.
Mara can kill for millions but do you know that Agege boys are so harmful that they can kill for nothing....

Mara no bad reach Boko Haram abi u wan argue that one

You're joking right?

Some of these gangs make even Al-Qaeda look like Boy Scouts.

southniyikaye:
My wife is insecure, she things if I make money I will go for fat ass and bigger boobs.
And have told her times without number that I love slim girls, very slim girls with flat ass like hers and medium boobs.
My type of girl is Diane of bbn
And that's how many baby is but she still wants to impress me fat yansh.
He go surprise her say if she try am,
Na tiny tiny ass girls I go carry

Maybe your wife's boyfriend likes phat asses.

How about communion?

Because Father go just carry Koro from one person mouth distribute to the rest...

ahiboilandgas:
rabiu has donated futher 3.3 billion today apart from the 1 bn ....on noise

I am telling you.

Whoever this guy is should be commended, but that Rabiu guy don drop pass $10m.

DEROX:
No my dad wanted to study medicine in oau this prof had connection to help him but he refused soy dad had to wait another year and scored 274 and was admitted on merit

I am glad he didn't help your dad cheat his way into a course like Medicine.

Incompetent doctors bury their mistakes.

Racoon:
Good riddance! Another tyrant have kissed the dust.

Not good news at all.

Imagine instability in a nuclear armed state.

If he dies, there'll be quite some turbulence from the vacuum he leaves.

And who ever becomes the new leader will surely flex his muscles to establish his or her credentials.

And it does concern you.

We are global now, so any major conflict will affect everyone.

chevkosticks:
Bro all dogs get to that stage of wanna be boss. All u got to do is show him who is boss.. I could remember my late gsd jack, when he was 3years that dog became something else, barked and chased my siblings, jack bit me on my leg when I wanted to open the gate, but I showed him who the boss is

Abeg, how did you stop it?

Dreambeat:
I only pray that China never become the most powerful country in the world.If she does it will spell doom to the underdeveloped countries especially those in Africa. Chinese are innately heartless and racist, far worse than the West.

There's no stopping them now.

Even if they don't become more powerful than the US.

20 years from now, they'll have their armies stationed all over the place.

PeacenLove2:
Wow! Sounds like what men have been doing to women since the time of Adam.

Guy, it's the basic truth. Survival of the fittest! Human beings like animals tend to prey on the weakness of others. Every animal in the jungle on the look out for the weak. Believe me it's not gender specific. It's a general problem that denial will not take away.

What can a woman do that is not allowed by their menfolk? We hear all sorts like women maltreated house girl. What is the husband doing? It's either he is also doing it or complicit. Neither absolves him. It's sad and I wish we can do better as human beings.

Many husbands don't firmly speak up, because they fear their wives will make their home "ungovernable".

Last December, a Nairander had this exact problem: https://www.nairaland.com/5591406/wicked-wife-didnt-buy-christmas

And his wife accused him of sleeping with their 15 year old house help, and stopped sleeping their room.

If you check the OP's profile, you'll see his other two post updates.

merahki:
And yet he still bashed them, SMH
Kindness, compassion and goodness are not gender dependent. Or are you saying they are?
Let’s “hear” it.

"Reflex women bashing aside..."

In all my years, I've never seen or heard of men being vicious and heavy-handed towards maids and house-helps.

Perhaps it does happen.

But I've just never heard of it.

There's just something about having non-filial dependents that brings out womens' basest instincts.

Now, this is not an argument for the non-existence of male cruelty.

In Nigeria, most looters, kidnappers, armed robbers and SARS operatives are men.

But in this regard, women take the cake.

These are very sad pictures.

Women bashing aside.

They generally lack compassion for the weak and the defenceless.

I don't know why.

Possibly, two former police officers...

NockMedia:
If you want the perfect west African lady, get a Nigerian lady's head and place on a Ghanaian lady's body.
Nigerian Ladies have got pretty faces while their Ghanaian counterparts have lovely body shape

I can assure you, most of those big battys are full of disappointment.

When the time comes, it's just hard for them to wield.

Haha, this how IPOB will ban journalists.

I thought President Buhari was the gag-the-press authoritarian.

HundHunter:
It is called Nyctophobia. This is a phobia characterized by a severe fear of the dark.

It is triggered by the brain's disfigured perception of what would or could happen when in a dark environment.

It is common among the children

99 percent of the time, I sleep with the lights on. And I don't have your phobia.

Perhaps she always sleeps off watching tv, or fiddling with her phone.

yinchar:
This is a no brainer issue that requires a simple fix.

All funds paid or transferred to a POS linked account should be made unavailable or kept in lien for 3 working days, will only be cleared for withdrawal or transfer after 3 working days.

That’s how’s it done in some advanced countries, even in some countries it 7 working days, some 1 month.

I don’t know why simple things are so difficult in our country.

Money isn't being paid to the POS. They only use it to verity the pin.

It's right there in the article.

Your children should "fear" you more than they do their mother.

If Mopol tell you make you lie down and army say make you enter gutter...

I am sure you will comply with the soldier.

Which one is kneeling down to beg your wife?

You've been weak all over the place, and this is the result.

So 999,992 boys remaining...

100% accurate prophecies for 2020:

- Rain will fall
- Sun will shine
- New phones will come out
- Nepa will take light
- Potatoes will potate

Apologies to Yuzedö