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vanvick247:
Then just do the needful na, the grass is not always greener on the other side. Marry the girl that loves and adores u.

Hmmn, true. Nice one bro, noted.

[quote author=West10 post=88405771][/quote]Nice one bro, noted.

Omar09:
Keep grinding. And I liked the part where you said you don't go out of your way to please a woman, it's cool, you should keep it up. Always go for the ones who love you more than you love yourself, hell even more than you love her or she loves herself.

Nice one bro. Noted.

kizwid:
i just hope for you, you don't carry regretful step base on experience you are seeking for

No room for regretful steps bro.

omooba969:
You can't have it all breh.

@bolded - must you cheat on your woman , do you have principles at all?

Hmmn. Many sexy ladies out there bro, can't help it.

Omar09:
No one said anything about letting this one who cares about you go. I never mentioned it.


As per the other girls who don't care about you or wanna be seen around, it's cause of your value to them bro. You have to look at those girls and study them to find out what really gets them, and do that. Note you might have all the money in the world and they will still not bait an eye. Keep looking whilst still holding on to this one.

Sure you didn't mention that, just saying..

I just feel girls which are my spec(physically) value themselves so much and they feel they can have anyone they want, some want to be given what their parents can not give them because other guys give them, in other words they feel too entitled and they are not ones I would risk to have a future with.

Sure I'll keep looking for more while I hold on to this one.. Eventhough I've noticed countless time that girls that are my complete spec don't care enough, they're always too engrossed in their beauties (I feel it's a Nigerian girl thing) and I don't go out my way to impress any woman, no not my style. I just shoot my shot and let them go if they don't want to be friends to start with.

I've not met any girl that match my complete physical spec that isn't playing some kind of games or feeling entitled. They may offer sex but they don't really love because they are always keeping their options open instead of me being the priority.

eneojoedu:
my guy no go troway meat con chop stone o, marry who loves you not who u love. e get why. Good women no reach five for this earth again. one Dey with me, e be like say one Dey with you. the rest tor

True true. Noted. Thanks for the tip bro.

Stargner:
Adding
5. She respects you

Will make all the difference

She got that too.

Omar09:
OK then, look out for your spec then. Don't see just a girl at a time, see at least three at time so that you can maximize your options.

Girls that are my spec don't care like this girl does, they don't love me like she does. Some are so full of themselves.

Sure I talked to different girls before the lockdown. I've got the look and resources BUT girls that are my complete spec don't really care about me bro, they feel they have a lot of options, that's why I don't want to let this girl go.

Blakjewelry:
Don't mind those giving silly advice I bet they wish they are in your shoes.

LOL

mabea:
Don't let your case be a case of you don't value what u have until u loose it. Forget those guys advising you, you will find they don't have what it takes to advice you on this subject.

Thank you very much. That is why I don't want to make a lifetime mistake. She's the best I ever dated. I'm holding on to her and taking my time to know her more and more.

BlueAir:
Lol na true o. Hm i can't believe the kinds of unbelievable and responsible looking ladies I'm coming across these days all willing to open legs at a price

That's the problem we have nowadays. A lot of girls have gone wild. A man must be really careful. The head must be used more than the heart when looking for a spouse.

EJanni:
Pls, never you listen to those people discouraging you up there. Do you know why this place is so dangerous to learn things from? Because people (faceless) come here to pour out their frustrations and unguarded emotions. Stay true to yourself and do what is right always, believe me, it eventually pays off.
Fallen people always want to drag others with them. They always want you to see things from their own perspective. Be wise!

You're so wise. I really understand. Thanks so much for the input.

calgenius:
She's JESUS...

She's not

muffyt05:
Hmmm, na still woman ooo. Bone, she know wetin she dey do. Was in the same position a while ago. Can't begin to narrate my experience, book go full. Sotey I begin fear whether she poison my food she cook for me, it was really crazy

Wow that's crazy. I'm taking my time. You should have seen that coming. You may share your story so everyone can learn. Thanks man.

ehinmowo:
Bro don't blet that girl go oo

Alright noted bro. Thanks for the input.

cr7lomo:
...u never jam... Girls like that don't last...how come she never marry... Now start making excuses for her... When she go start , u go think say na im clone from china u de with

Make girl wey dey uni dey marry? She's stl in school, final year.. her last bf was even a student, a level lower than hers. It didn't work, boy was too immature.. At least I'm working class and I may settle down with her when she finally graduates.

akpota:
then go with her bro.

Alright. I'm thinking the same too. She's cute but I wish she had bigger butt tho coz that would have been my complete spec. So I don't end up cheating on her over and over..

Or aren't we suppose to consider the physical appearance that we really desire? Just being honest..

kingjomezy:
Bro incase Una later Break up ...I ready to wife am abeg

Lol. I'm not breaking up with her, thanks.

maasoap:
That's wrong assumption. Some women are like that naturally, for example, my wife.
Copy: Budline1

Noted bro. Thanks for the tip.

Omar09:
Go for her, but always game her and make her understand that you can leave when she starts being a pain in your ass.

Noted. Thanks bruh. She's cute but I wish she was a little taller and I wish she had a bigger butt coz that would have been my spec. So I don't end up cheating and cheating on her.

Tho she stl has a nice body but not my complete spec.. that's the truth.

Stargner:
Keep her bro.
#myopinion

Alright, noted. Thanks bro.

COVIK19:
My Nigga

U know the drill now..

BlueAir:
Hm don't be decieved. That graduation period is also one of those periods when would need a man badly. Think well and ltry to watch her well behind the scene. Better still befriend her closest friend or any of her friends that has a crush on u to get more info about her.. it works well for me

Hmmn, true. Noted. That's why I'm not putting in all my heart, I'm using my head not my heart because It's just hard to love anyone completely these days..Thanks man.

CapitalBank:
don't be so stupid to listen to most guys that talk like that.

Good women are scarce.

True. Thanks man.

massalati:
boss that woman na perfect lady for u no mind this niggas here them the jealous u.. go with ur bae joor

Thanks bruh. Appreciate.

Akinsoladwayne:
Only if you know how I suffered in the hand of girls

I know the feeling but she's not the one that hurt you. I know some girls I can not forgive too. We've all been played and manipulated by girls.. but you can't treat them the same. Some have good intentions.

Sterope:
This one like being seen as a hero. Superman well done o

OK. Lol

Kulex56:
Sometimes even street dey run street depends on OT

True tho but this girl stl dey learn. I'm the one putting her through coz she's homely. Na me dey open her eyes, dey give am adventure.

AfroKnight:
Don’t conclude until you marry her. That’s when the real character comes out.

I understand but the question is that 'who is perfect'?.. Getting a wife is hard these days... So many leeches and slay queens out there.

LifeCoachAndre:
Most guys commenting seem to be still quite young probably not over 30yrs. Most of them will regret their actions over time. If only they knew that as you get older finding genuine love gets harder, they would be truly commited to a woman that shows true love and grow strong with her.

Thank you o. That's the mistake I don't want to make. Don't want to be regretting later...

od501:
Ok oo... I'm talking from experience shaa. Good luck.

I know. Thanks