₦airaland Forum

lefulefu:
but these telemondo guys wouldnt want an entitled woman by their side nau ....dem go run wen d naija babe don start to dey wahala dem with money for rent,school fees and money for hair plus girlfriend allowance

DexterousOne:
Rejection for women is an ego crusher for them

Rutherford2019:
A girl I took train transport to see, I lodged in hotel thereafter, spent 2days, we chatted and exchange some pleasantries..
When I made advance for her she told me that she's not in a relationship but I'm not her spec
I was very impressed for her even though I didn't find it easy to assimilate
We can't get everything we want
Better days ahead with better people

HARDDON:
Food that gets the pocket drained, time drained, energy drained, sperm drained and life drained?

What sorts of food is that?

placeofallure:
We're all humans and blood flows in our veins. Everything boils to understanding your partner, being friends and enjoying companionship.

If her boss, colleague or client bullies her at work OR in the instance of the loss of a beloved OR when down physically, a woman won't be in the mood. But, when your husband is the first person you tell when any of these happens, he won't even ask to get down with you. He'd know that's not a good time. He's not mad, he won't rape you.

When the excuses become incessant, that's when a man becomes a monster and your kinda 'rape' (which I strongly disapprove) can happen.

Under no guise must a man forcefully get down with a woman, whether married to her or not. It's emotionally demoralising. As enjoyable as sex is, when it is forced, it loses all the flavour.

For your woman to consistently refuse you, there's an underlying problem which the couple should work on and if it's not working, go your separate ways so you can have sex with another person in peace.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Sadly, this is the norms of most relationship in our society today

Money = Sex

I blame you guys, yes you guys. Nigerian guys overrate sex like if you don't get it, you might literally die that's why the females use it against you lot

Luckygurl:
I learnt that already

Now! As you're spending, I'm also spending.

It'll save both of us from uneccessary stress in the future.

obyrich:
So you mean Regina Daniel did not know Ned Nwoko was married before accepting his proposal?

What about Dabota Lawson and Sunny Aku?

Many ladies deliberately seduce married men. It goes either way. Also many married women seduce young men. I have seen it happen several times.

Luckygurl:
Uni days, I had one fairly big boy hitting on me. We went out a couple of times and I'd eat awoof food
Whenever he comes visiting, he'd come bearing gifts. I give him a thank you kiss and off I go.
Chaii!! I don too kiss plenty for this life ooo

Then on this day, he came to my hostel and as someone that's been indoor all day I was on a bum short and sleeveless top. I entered his car and boom! Dude was driving voraciously to his place. I was shocked and protested initially but when he didn't bulge, I kept calm. We got to the school gate and as security peeps did their routine checks, I was still calm. Infact when the reflection of their light revealed fresh laps, they started hailing him as in meat don ready he dunno warris happening


We got to his compound, I refused getting down from the car. Told him I wasn't going upstairs with him cos he brought me here without my consent. He went upstairs thinking I'll bulge but for where, my mind was already racking my brain on how I'll get back to school with me not properly dressed.
Truth is I didn't want to follow him upstairs cos I didn't know what plans he got up his sleeves. Its possible I was wrong then tho, who knows? He could have been a gentleman but the then me didn't want to take chances. We've hung out a couple of times and I ate small money so he might want to capitalize on that.

I can't remember how long I stayed back in the car but he came out and drove me back to school in complete silence. I got off the car, banged his door loudly and shook my tiny bum bum back to my room.

The last time we spoke, he still wanted us to date but nahhh!! I'll pass.

At other times, I've been with reasonable people who knows what consent is all about.

Lollll!! This is my story, dunno if it comes close

autonomous22:
Lol.. My Gee..u b real nigga


Make I hear say I reject sex

Aitty:
I played along as if I was going to have sex with him because I saw how dangerous he was becoming and he has edge over me interm of size and strength. One massive fellow like that. He was carried away in his lust, I just kept reminding of the aftermath of his action and since he has reputation to protect, he stopped and allowed me go. This has worked for me twice.

delectablegyal:
stupid feminists would call that sexual harassment when a man does that.

Chinomonkey:
Leave them naw...they mistake class for a needy never-do-well selfish lazy gal who wants her bills paid by someone else

henryhemon:
You are a drowning man.

SweetyZinta:
I solely agree with you. I don't encourage women to become parasites or extravagant in their demands though. But as a boyfriend and a potential husband, you should be able to provide cash to your girlfriend and potential wife from time to time.

Chinomonkey:
If all those classes of gals u mentioned aren't working for their money, they're actually classless...a poor hungry greedy gal who likes flashy things has no class, don't confuse or mix it up

walkwithgod:
Valid questions brother.

You Sabi the drill.

Ariza:
You obviously don't think or comprehend. I'm not one to engage in 1+1 arguments, please find your ilks .

Ariza:
Then you shouldn't judge who you don't know. And I'm showing you all how you create and circulate hatred, evil and ungratefulness.

You can't fault one gender and vindicate the other if you really want the end of what your supposed message entails. Unless you all are here to gossip as usual and not seek way forward.

Ariza:
"Them" ? You really think everyone has the luxury of your silly games . Mtcheeewwwwww... What a brain!

mikebabs101:
why are you trying to judge me lol, she was good to me and I was good to her , the sex is mutual and she love sex, the point is she's is too manipulative to be taken serious on the long term , if you read the my story again, I stated I broke up when she tried some game with me , it really has to do with asking me to pay for her house rent in school when I know she has parents. Even if I could afford , I witnessed with my eyes ,how she took a guy that was kind to her for a fool, I won't put myself in such a situation

pansophist:
Let me even follow your line of reasoning.

Isn't it better than some men should at least, engage in sex with dolls, instead of raping and engaging in all kinds of sexual criminal behaviours? Why the shaming? Is it the fault of a man that some women may not find him attractive and his tool is in her opinion, not big enough ?

Even though sex is super easy for the average woman to get, dildos have been available for women for a very long time. For men, it takes effort, so isn't it reasonable enough for some men to find love machine appealing ?

eni4real:
Lagos, here I come

Eulalia:
Lol...you're not serious.

Don't mind the op. Lagos is a mega city and has so many areas to it both the good and the bad, the high brow areas and the slumps though its not as bad as he has painted it and nothing uncommon with some parts abroad.

I was born and brought up here in Lagos; Ikoyi to be precise and I don't forsee living outside lag cos I've gotten so used to Lagos life that the thought of living in other states just tends to dull my spirit. I've even had to decline relationship proposals just because they are based outside Lagos. Can't deal biko..

Lagos it is for me. Can't live in those other dull and scary states.

So eni, nothing for you since you're outside Lagos. Omor Eko Island ni mi