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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Preshieben(f): 4:30pm On Apr 13, 2020
kaey10:

Damn..... ain't u beautiful smiley
I don't really know
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by DaySpringer: 4:37pm On Apr 13, 2020
Paxie55:

Just agree that y'all are born rapist and uncontrollable rabbid dogs.
Going by the shameless comments you guys are making on this thread. Truly, women are in trouble especially in a country like ours.

I just crushed you and all you have is a two-line comment calling men rapists and uncontrollable rabid dogs.
It is very clear that your IQ is in the gutter.

Hypocrites like you will never acknowledge that men also rape women.
You will also never acknowledge that women have the privilege of being believed first when there is an accusation of rape. Many men have spent years behind bars for false accusations of rape by your gender and the women go scot-free with little to no consequences immediately after.

Please update your definition of rape.
Rape is forcefully having sexual interactions without the consent of the other partner.
Lying to get sex is not rape as your victim mentality would have you believe.

You are the kind that would falsely accuse a man of raping you when he rejects your advances because you were far below his league.

Get therapy you need it.

For your hypocrisy, take a long hard look at the mirror, 20 mins a day, three times a day whenever you come up with silly thoughts.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by DaySpringer: 4:38pm On Apr 13, 2020
humilitypays:
Don't mind her.

Only teenage boys see ladies as saints.


Men are bad, agreed, but when it comes to romance, relationship, sex, crushing, sleeping around, ladies are badder than guys, but they are only very good in pretending and keeping secret.


Many ladies here will sleep with male celebrities should the chance come their way but to them, it is not cheating since it involves sleeping with a celebrity or a famous person.

Many ladies here are still sleeping with their ex boyfriends but they keep lying to their current boyfriend or husband that they love him and faithful to him.

Many ladies here are pregnant or will be pregnant for their ex and will still give the pregnancy to their current man or husband.

You know the truth.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Felyyaks(f): 4:39pm On Apr 13, 2020
AmazonTopaz:
Who are the unfortunate ladies dating these boys

Very disgusting comments where did you all creep out from? sad
It really baffles me

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Duru009(m): 4:42pm On Apr 13, 2020
Paxie55:
If you are using fake marriage or fake love to get some one to sleep with You, Then, it's established that you have low self esteem and you can't attract a girl cos you lack the confidence and personality.
Thereby, resorting to using lies to get her to sleep with you and that actually makes you a RAPIST.

Shut up!

Ladies like you are the worst!

Always acting like wannabe perfect Lady.....

We can't forget Linda Ikeja in a hurry how she was going about preaching celibacy but was taking big black cocck at night !


We men already know your type!

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Burruchaga71(m): 4:44pm On Apr 13, 2020
humilitypays:
Tell them.


So many ladies marry guys abroad just to cross over, deep down their hearts they don't love the guy abroad, they prefer one of their useless boyfriend sagging trouser at Agege shocked


Some ladies will collect money from a richer boyfriend and be sponsoring one broke boy's stupid lifestyle all because she feel the broke boy is handsome and looks hot.


Most girls in school will have boyfriends in all popular Nigerian cities but after they graduate and ready to settle down, they turn to fake born again to get good husband and they cry fowl when they hear that guys cheat, why


Some ladies here reading are in a relationship with a nice hardworking guy working hard to give her the best of life but she prefers one yeye boy living stupid life, and she will be collecting money from the other guy and be giving to the yeye boy all because she feels the other guy is not educated enough or handsome enough....to them its a enough excuse to cheat on a guy or maltreat a guy but if same is done to them, they cry fowl and start calling on God, sister u cannot fool or manipulate God, He sees your heart and secrets, so shutup and enjoy it, its life for you.


Some married ladies here, all the children they say belong to their husband na lie, na their ex boyfriend or one yeye boy somewhere de give them the belle while the innocent man labors to train another mans kids, yet its not a big crime to them.


Some ladies here slept their way to the position they are occupying in their workplace right now, the job they had they got it from sleeping around, the good result and grade they graduated with they got it from sleeping with lecturers, but to them, it is fair since it is to help themselves but when men do same, men must be killed for that, na today undecided
. Gbam

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Budline1(m): 4:47pm On Apr 13, 2020
Omar09:


No one said anything about letting this one who cares about you go. I never mentioned it.


As per the other girls who don't care about you or wanna be seen around, it's cause of your value to them bro. You have to look at those girls and study them to find out what really gets them, and do that. Note you might have all the money in the world and they will still not bait an eye. Keep looking whilst still holding on to this one.

Sure you didn't mention that, just saying..

I just feel girls which are my spec(physically) value themselves so much and they feel they can have anyone they want, some want to be given what their parents can not give them because other guys give them, in other words they feel too entitled and they are not ones I would risk to have a future with.

Sure I'll keep looking for more while I hold on to this one.. Eventhough I've noticed countless time that girls that are my complete spec don't care enough, they're always too engrossed in their beauties (I feel it's a Nigerian girl thing) and I don't go out my way to impress any woman, no not my style. I just shoot my shot and let them go if they don't want to be friends to start with.

I've not met any girl that match my complete physical spec that isn't playing some kind of games or feeling entitled. They may offer sex but they don't really love because they are always keeping their options open instead of me being the priority.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Apr 13, 2020
Kekereekun123:
yen yen yen. Majority of guys are like that. When u clock 33 now u will still beg us to marry u


Please help a sister with anything. My account is red.this period is not funny. My boss refused to pay. Wema bank 0231456155 or uba 2064170219. God will bless you sir
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Hassan88(m): 4:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
I slept with her mother.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by queenbetsy(f): 4:51pm On Apr 13, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


No dear, you can't just say nobody cares when you have not opened up to anyone.
There is a solution to every problem but the first step is letting it out — share it with someone. Everybody is not the devil.
thanks
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Duru009(m): 4:51pm On Apr 13, 2020
Preshieben:
After going through all the comments from guys
I came to a conclusion
Never trust any guy

You ladies caused it!

Because most ladies like you has worst secret!

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by mekyno777(m): 4:54pm On Apr 13, 2020
Ziky491:
ok i dnt hav data mr man
ok, wen u do. Dnt forget o. Pls remove d quoted digits. Tnx
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by emmykey0128(m): 4:56pm On Apr 13, 2020
I lied to her about my age, when I was still asking her out , she told me that she can't date a guy who is older than her with more than five years, bt because I really love her, I lied to her , I am 12yrs older than her , because of my babyface , she never suspected and I am scared to tell her the truth now, we have been dating for 2yrs now and planning to marry her self

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by KingAzubuike(f): 4:57pm On Apr 13, 2020
shestrong:
I fear MEN! These comments affirms my believe not to trust anyone. OMG
Women have far greater secrets but they'll never open up, even if they are anonymous.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Preshieben(f): 4:59pm On Apr 13, 2020
Duru009:


You ladies caused it!

Because most ladies like you has worst secret!
I don't think I deserve this bashing
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by KingAzubuike(f): 5:00pm On Apr 13, 2020
ObaofNigeria:
I must say this is one of the only thread I have read the entire 21 pages as of the time of this writing and I must say that I didn't do that because I really enjoyed the confessions but because it was raw. On this thread I lost and received back my faith in humanity. I cried for what some girlfriends undergo, and pitied others.
All in all, for those who gave out this secrets with feeling of remorse, there is still time to make up for ur error and to pacify karma.
I wish I knew how to quote all the ones that got me thinking or gasping into one space
Don't be fooled. The ladies who are keeping quiet have greater secrets but they will never tell a soul even if their identity is concealed

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Ihatefeminist: 5:00pm On Apr 13, 2020
nah scope grin she dey expect make you send am data grin
mekyno777:

ok, wen u do. Dnt forget o

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by paix(m): 5:03pm On Apr 13, 2020
Dagger111:



Eeleribu ni e.
I no understand de language o.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by KingAzubuike(f): 5:04pm On Apr 13, 2020
davien:
To say the truth I don't mind that guys are this heartless, it tells you a lot. Firstly that the gentleman approach only works in the movies but is taken for granted in real life.

I have experienced and seen what being committed in a relationship for a guy does, it doesn't pay, most Nigerian women are broken - that's just the truth, either they lie to get you, keep exes and side guys hovering around them or are overly entitled.
As a man, you give them money, dish out great sex, support them, bring them into a world they normally wouldn't dream of having and then they turn around and ask you "what have you even done for me that no other guy hasn't done?".

And then when they leave gold to meet scum, they stick around it.. Only to be beaten and hurt, when they receive sense they start looking for the gold, by then you're heartless to her and she'd start saying "all men are scum".
If the ladies start opening up, you'd know they are more heartless. The girl you're currently dating has at least don an abortion before or killed a foetus with medications but you WILL NEVER KNOW because SHE WILL NEVER TELL YOU.

Quietly humilitypays

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Dagger111(m): 5:06pm On Apr 13, 2020
paix:
I no understand de language o.


Ask your yoruba frnds.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by omooba969(m): 5:07pm On Apr 13, 2020
[s]
Dwanye:
As much as I'm a guy, I'm actually disgusted by alot of things I've seen here. Are some of you even humans? Don't you have conscience? Karma is a bitch oooo, She comes back for more. I'm just saying. Ain't claiming to be self-righteous oooo but guys try and grow up and be more matured, sensible and compassionate. These ladies are someone's sisters, daughters and relatives. Tomorrow when she gets traumatized, depressed and considers suicide, y'all idiots would still gather and call her selfish. Stupidity shouldn't be synonymous with our gender.
Just remember that what goes around comes around.
Please change. Just an advice.....
#MakingCommonSense
[/s]

Special Adviser undecided

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Papichulostunne(m): 5:07pm On Apr 13, 2020
paix:
I am not stingy. Women can identify a stingy man 100km away. She would have left if I were one.

Lol. True tho. grin

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by mekyno777(m): 5:07pm On Apr 13, 2020
Ihatefeminist:
nah scope grin she dey expect make you send am data grin
Lol...u maybe rit, bt even if i want where i go send for her?!
Its well
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 13, 2020
Ishilove:
I earn more than I told him grin


Does he know you are Ishilove on here?

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by paix(m): 5:16pm On Apr 13, 2020
Dagger111:



Ask your yoruba frnds.
Can you be my friend?
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by omooba969(m): 5:16pm On Apr 13, 2020
emmykey0128:
I lied to her about my age, when I was still asking her out , she told me that she can't date a guy who is older than her with more than five years, bt because I really love her, I lied to her , I am 12yrs older than her , because of my babyface , she never suspected and I am scared to tell her the truth now, we have been dating for 2yrs now and planning to marry her self

Just tell her ok coz the reason (I believe) you lied to her is for the fear of losing her.

Now, you're faced with what you initially feared - tell her the truth, if she loves you she will forgive & stick with you.

Tell her the truth breh... good luck. cool

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by omooba969(m): 5:20pm On Apr 13, 2020
Hassan88:
I slept with her mother.

Congratulationsgrin, you've done well & the Association of Motherfvckaz are proud of you. cool

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by heartofcity12: 5:21pm On Apr 13, 2020
prettyaura:
I would have let this pass, but the way I have noticed your "I too know" attitude on this platform I will reply U..firstly, the topic said" things U are hiding from your partner..he doesn't know I have any pastor let alone making him a subject of prayer..secondly, it is not every post U must comment on..it doesn't speak well of u..it only shows U don't know when to keep quiet..lastly, I would have love to pray for you but I have been told before I replied your post that ordinary olaiya filling station will not employ U..chevron ko, nnpc ni.sorry sis!

Omo see yab of the century grin See finishing. grin . You won make someone daughter no enter nairaland again ni? grin grin

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by NewDelhi(m): 5:22pm On Apr 13, 2020
Forget o these ladies are far worse. Only that they are better at keeping secret and they will never open up even if you point a gun to their head. It's even obvious from this thread. Despite it being an anonymous forum, the ladies aren't still coming out to talk. Only if you know the amount of abortion they have done through drugs or D/C, only if you know how many of your friends she has slept with, men she has slept with at work because of promotion or money, nudes she has been sending to guys a so much more. Girls are far worse honestly. Just last month my ex got pregnant for her new guy suddenly she said she wanted to see me to spend the night. Definitely if she had come we would definitely have had sex and her plan was to push the pregnancy to my head because I was financially better than him. Thank God I declined. After some weeks she asked me for money and after much persuasion, she confessed she needed it to buy some medications to commot belle. She wasn't even smart at all for telling me because instantly I flashed back to when she was begging to spend the night with me that she misses me. Naso i for dey rear pikin wey no be my own.. fear these ladies pls and if you see this one, na all the church church girl..

For thw married men, pls ensure you secretly do DNA test to accertain if your kids are yours. Women get pregnant outside these days and it's very easy to push the pregnancy to their husband or boy friend . It's so common. Na only God fit save person.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Duru009(m): 5:24pm On Apr 13, 2020
prettyaura:
I would have let this pass, but the way I have noticed your "I too know" attitude on this platform I will reply U..firstly, the topic said" things U are hiding from your partner..he doesn't know I have any pastor let alone making him a subject of prayer..secondly, it is not every post U must comment on..it doesn't speak well of u..it only shows U don't know when to keep quiet..lastly, I would have love to pray for you but I have been told before I replied your post that ordinary olaiya filling station will not employ U..chevron ko, nnpc ni.sorry sis!


Your type is very rare. Keep it up.Your day will come too.

Pray for me tooooo.

Want a NEW job !
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Dagger111(m): 5:24pm On Apr 13, 2020
paix:
Can you be my friend?


Iyen lo sure ju.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Apr 13, 2020
BadLuckonmyGame:
I have fvck all my gf female family members and friends she have introduced to me so far.
Weraygrin grin

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