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Zannx:
You should be worrying on improving your life and future..time ain't at your side..
That girl has definitely nothing to offer to you..
Hustle hard and stay safe bro

Venusman:
This is because fine gals too dey do shakara, and handsome guys got no time for their shit. Most pretty gals end up with old man and become third or forth wife

ednut1:
after corona u send them back lol

Karlifate:
Apt! Self-respect is greater than love/lust.

Youngjohnosas:
m surprised, I don't even know if she exists anymore, she has called me over 5 times today, she is now acting like a saint but local man is not doing again.

snitchbitch:
Use the heart break to motivate yourself and hustle more for more money. When you are a millionaire, she will be begging you for second chance!!

jumper524:
This OP obviously haven't seen India babes.. The likes of ashwarai rai, priyamka choopra, depika padukone e.t. c has made it a must for me to marry from India..

slyfoxxjoe:
lol I swear. highly over-flogged and unnecessary issue. Just be yourself. Who will like you will like you.

popesco123:
Na 9ja babes dey behave like that, they show much love and respect to that guy who is very hard on them. In advanced world opposite is the case

victorian:
Cause I'm old fashioned in thoughts.

Old fashioned means I'm very conscious of my body frame . I have huge boobs. Very obvious if I take a full portrait. They are like cossy orjiakor and the last thing I need is lots of guys pestering me for sex and hookups. I don't need such stress.

Ladies like cossy it pays for her to show off everything, as in from head to toe cos of her profession. She loves it.

But for me, its not my line. I don't like it. I prefer being associated with cos of my brains and personality not because my body frame which instils sexual urge. That's why.

And unfortunately it does. So I wear loose tops to hide it but it can't be hidden. It's always obvious It's well jare..

So back to the couple.. Let wish them well.

SweetCunt97:
permission denied

Ekaka1:
Wifey preggy or whatever?

seanwilliam:
atleast, that one go dey for ground. No be say you go come invest in business wey fit crash at anytime

For example now, see wetin dey happen to bitcoin, see wetin corona cause now??. If person see 10 million now, make he use 7 million build portable bungalow, use 2 million invest , chop life with 1 million.. investment fit crash, but house no dey crash anyhow except say u use mediocre material or u build am near water or fire disaster( all these no fit happen if you take precautions)... nothing like precaution for investment oo, if e go boom e go boom if e go doom e go doom...house of 100 years ago still stand to this day..

seanwilliam:
you are right especially about the last part.. I bin think say getting admitted in all these Scandinavia countries dey easy pass Europe and America.. concerning that house stuff, well if i were the one i would try to build house first, then any other money after that would go into investment.. the house doesn't need to be built in Lekki na, na just normal portable nuclear fam apartment.. atleast that is an assurance incase things no turn out as expected for investment..

seanwilliam:
This life sha, as young guy like me wey no get stable source of income now, how e one take be?? And most naija girls are broke . I dont even have problem with dem being broke, the problem is their entitlement mentality....
Well as I dey so, I no fit kill myself atall, I go enjoy myself well well for this bachelor, and I go marry when I'm comfortable.. I no fit kon start my life with suffer suffer.. if I get this degree finish, na to travel go Scandinavian countries go do masters and find one shima, give am beta belle make she give me beta pikin..
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To people that are ready for marriage, no matter how, you still have to be comfortable small before you go consider settling down.. e better not to marry atall than to marry and begin to suffer yourself, yourwife and your innocent children..
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Afterall jesus no marry now.
If pressure too much on u, then become a baby daddy.. atleast you don get seed for ground..
Also if you are not really ready for marriage, there is no point in dating naija girls cos most of dem will just suck u financially, emotionally, materially and other ally
I no sure say this country get hope again..


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P.s. to anyone reading this my ranting abeg make una begin husle earlier ooo.. if you hit better money once, use am build house first.. after that one find beta investment and continue with your husle..

Do anything wey fit give you money , it might sound crazy, but no one is going to ask u how u take make money except SARS and Efcc.. ..
Afterall, orijin is a wonderful brand..
Aro1
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mulero23:
Even a lady I was dating have to fund a guy she claim as her toaster his trip. Now she will be asking money from me while she have decided to fund her toaster trip. I am just being confuse as I need someone to settle down and can wait to get married but this her infidelity behaviour just keep giving me concerns every now and then.

obailala:
The truth is that the Op doesnt really like the girl. The whole talk of "not being ready to commit to a serious relationship" is just an excuse men give to avoid commitment to a partner they dont really like.

pajudah007:
bro she sure will be heart-broken in this case.

From what you said and didn't say, you just don't love her as much as she loves you. Check deep within you, if you are truthful to yourself, you'll find one or two reasons why you think the both of you ain't good together. Why I am sure of what I am saying is this: If a lady that meets your requirements come along now, you'll find out that you are ready for commitments.

So my advice, if you don't want to break her heart, learn how to love her. From all you said, she's a good lady and Dem no too plenty o brother.

vastolord4:
You are a stack illitrate! And a dumb fellow as well.. read and understand before your twart makes your decisions

Acidosis:
Not necessarily pride. There's something attention (from many guys) does to the female body. It makes you unserious. Whether as a result of beauty or something else, too much of attention can disrupt one's life.

A girl that receives, on the average, around 10 phone calls per day from different guys (not business calls) can never love genuinely. A single mistake from you, and she's off to the next guy in line. That's how it works.

Same thing applies to business. That's how the average business person behaves when buyers seem to be more than available product. Try and observe the behaviour of the average fuel attendant during a fuel crisis (scarcity).

franchasng:
hehe



Attractive ladies love but if and only if you are financially buoyant.....attractive ladies don't usually care about a man's handsome look because its useless to them....you know women love attention and hate competition, so attractive ladies love all the attention to be on them and them alone, and for this, naturally without knowing, they are naturally not attracted to handsome guys or men.......they are mostly pissed off or turned off by a handsome looking guy.....what usually turns them on in a man is his ability to provide all or most of their fantasy needs, care for them, pamper them and help them get all the attention they crave for from both male and fellow women.


So if you are struggling financially or haven't made it big enough, you will find it difficult to get a mature attractive lady to fall truly in *romantic love* for you.....the younger ones with less heartbreaks can fall deeply in love for you regardless of your financial standing, but the ones above 22yrs and mostly above 25yrs are more keen to falling in love with mature men who are financially well to do and are able to give them their fantasy life desires, if not, they will just be there for being there.

My wife is more than a beautiful woman, in fact, she be mami iwota and yet she is head over heels in love with me that I fear if I fuckup like the devil in me keep pushing me to, na suicide oh , and me no even trust myself not to fuckup, kai this life, e no easy for men walai


But generally, ladies stop loving after like 3 heartbreaks or failed relationships, which happens mostly from age 25yrs and above, and most of them now marry for marrying sake....while very few religious and good hearted ones try to love their horseband small for humanity sake.....but in general, sexually active pretty or ugly or average-looking ladies stop loving after like 3 - 5 heartbreaks and failed relationships......some keep loving, but very few of them do.


Cc: Budline1

franchasng:
My brother its not about Nigeria, it is the same all over the world.


Beautiful white girls are the worst gold diggers!! Young, pretty Caucasian girls can only date their mate (of course from well to do family), and mostly their school mates......but once they turn 25yrs, they discover the worth of their beauty and you see them running after rich guys driving Ferrari, Bentley, and mostly sportsmen, athletes, entertainment stars, high paid medical doctors, etc.


So don't make it a Nigerian thing.....all over the world, majority of beautiful ladies use their beauty to get away and win favor from men, its how the world is wired.....if you want to stop bothering about this and start enjoying it as a guy, just work and pray to have money and you will love this cycle

Arthur21:
Lol,they bolded got me..

You never see most radical feminists looking fresh and attractive. Nkechi bianze(a blob) and Solomon buchi(a dwarf mangina who wears three t-shirts , a fedora hat and eat his parents food at 24).

RisenPhoenix:
It is not heartbreak that makes them to dominate men. It is men's behaviour. By the time a woman; especially one seen by her peers as attractive; has graduated high school, the number of dumb untrained simps who have grovelled before her, wept for her attention and stolen money from their father's pocket to buy her flowers are so many that she gets a hugely overblown idea of her own worth. Unfortunately, she will also tend to hold the belief that the unrealistic value she places on herself lasts forever. By the time reality hits her, she will first desperately try to hold on to the beauty which she believed gave her value; having neglected to nurture more lasting and valued qualities; before running from pillar to post in the quest for just any male to 'manage'. If she fails in the last step as well, that is when she starts subscribing to feminist ideologies and starts telling herself that she is happy to be 'single and successful', and that men are slimy beasts anyway.

For clarification, step one is arrogant misuse of her body, step 2 is photoshop, heavy make up and cosmetic surgery; step 3 is paying pastor to see dreams about brother x and brother y proposing to her, step 4 is joining the feminist bandwagon to make herself feel better about not having secured a man. And the way to emancipation of women from this path of self destruction is to stop treating them like angelic queens just because you want to get into their pants.

And for those men who slide into women's DM to praise them, you are part of the problem.

sndk1:
I said it before that problem with low value people like you is that you have the habit of using yourselves as a standard for every other person. Well, my life does not need to pick up again because it has been up all the while.

Kingsteve:
OP, be specific and narrow it down.
Most attractive women in NIGERIA don't love anymore.

In other climes, where there's abundance of attractive women, even paupers with game stand a chance!

Nigeria is dead in everything!
Never expect anything good to come out from the zoo.

...just saying!

spik007:
It's normal for pretty ladies to get attracted to you once you are well to do. While younger ,I don't have a good understanding of how issues like this work..Dont blame pretty women for getting attracted to rich guys only, you put your self in their shoes and you'll have a good understanding of what it feels to be pretty lady and being approached by guys who cant take care of themsleves not to talk of taking care of their girlfriends.

No woman will love you with you brokenness,don't mistake basic life needs with poverty and you expect the woman to stay when she has alot of better options.
Mr. Man,if Dangote's daughter asks you out today and another regular girl asks you out,which one will you go for?

My point is don't blame pretty ladies for being attracted to rich guys,youself go find a way and make your life better.

The way women fall in love these days is different from the previous centuries, now you need to be doing well,at least have some basic needs.