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Mitocyan:
Believe that this manshion is worth $100m at your peril. Drake's networth is $150m. Max that this manshion can cost is $10m

Eventhough houses is part of networth but that house truly shouldn't be more than $10M

jaxxy:
Nice place bt too big. I won't even know who's in my house with me. Lol

That's the problem. When you hear a sound, u suddenly get scared like someone has broken into d house. So lonely.

SperoQuest:
That house is not up to 100 million dollars.

Those are fake figures and i can tell you that the house is not even up to 50 million dollars.

Abi oo. Even $50M no be small money. I knew when $50M was a whole Kanye West networth, a while ago. That house is not close to $50M

Gepheral:
Mehnnn this is a Damm masterpiece! With this kind big house man go need Okada to dey on standby to dey use shuttle between the rooms oo.. No be small work dey here o o

He gat even employ ppl to dey clean and all. The maintenance alone no go be for here. That's why most of them end up selling houses like this.

bigpicture001:
..for me....I think it makes one feel lonely

Very lonely, even if he lives with some ppl..Wonder how he's not scared living in all of this.

So fuckin what? Who no won bubble?

989900:
Read my comment again: "Financially, educationally, morally, etc." . . . that was what I wrote, you only noticed the "financially part".

'Drain' is relative, what might be drain to you might be weekend shenanigans money to me.

That said my brother, I don't need to blow my trumpet, but I've been around, I've gone through stuffs that'll either kill some people financially, physically, psychologically, or otherwise, OTOH, I've done things for myself that 95%+ of the world's population can't touch (not necessarily materially).

I don't do things for people with the mindset of getting paid back. I won't accept a lady that would only choose to stay with me because of whatever millions, thousands, Kobo's, or peanuts I've spent on her.

My bottom line: if there is anyone (male or female) around me, I try to do my 'convenient best' at the time to have a resounding positive effect on their lives ("teaching them how to fish inclusive", regardless of if they'll be there for me tomorrow or not.

My attitude/mentality might be of course shaped differently from others, but it has been the best blessing life/the creator gave me.

Alright. I gat u. Well said.

989900:
My brother, you have spoken very well, but you need to understand most of our fellow brothers: either broke ass 'neegers' or the thriving/surviving ones have incurable 'poverty mentality issues'.

I understand that there are leeches amongst the womenfolk who need to be put in their place, but God forbid I date a woman for years and she ends up not benefiting from me financially, educationally, morally, etc., and I have dated women from different races and all continents, bar South America.

If you really want to help your woman..why not just teach her how to fish instead of giving her fish. Get a job or business for your woman. Which one is her benefiting from you financially?

You don't need to drain yourself because of women that end up leaving you.

Rukkydelta:
But when these guys see a Lady that isn't materialistic and wants a celibacy relationship they say no

And goes for the gold diggers because of sex. lol

I'm in for a celibacy relationship if girl is a virgin. With a non virgin, No because I can not be sure she's not getting the D somewhere else.

osazsky:
Most often na guys they force themselves to spend on girls just to prove that them they try some have d believe dat the more they spend the more d girl will love them

Effect of Nollywood.

tolani94:
whether u give or not, whoever will cheat will still cheat!!

Yeah that's the point. So it's safer not to give.

OpinionCounts:
Welldone oo....as women are now take away products for the highest bidder...after objectifying yourself today and proudly placing yourself beneath a man, tomorrow u guys will still come here to shout feminism.

Exactly o. There matter tire me. They should pick a side. Hoe or Feminist

Isoduwa:
Broke as.@s nigga

Lol . I see, you're a girl. I'm not close to being broke at all tho.. Broke as.s bytch

Isoduwa:
Op stop this sh!t

Remember money bring Bicthes
Bicthes bring Life

Don't get it twisted. U flash the money, let them see you've got it, clean up good but don't really spend it on them, that's how to play the game. Get the drift youngblood.

Bondatt:
My yardstick is 1 Cor 6:15 - 17 :

" Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Or don’t you know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”b 17But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with Him in spirit. "

Except you don't believe the Bible. If you don't, I can quote Quran for you. No time.

I'm not holy but I dey feel u.

Sholay is the best Indian movie of all time.

aimuan:
Thankx for the advice anyway. But I am actually not interested in that Toto.I have gone past that.Toto does not really move me,I just need a wife that all..

She'll leave you for not smashing the Toto tho.. He gave u a good advice.

Simpubozz:
no, not desperation. Just one of ways to get your fact right. Girls are unpredictable so one needs to check if he's not misinterpreting her actions. As for me, I wouldnt want to waste my time except I confirm she's into me as well

Yeah true tho

Goalnaldo:
Simple rent a Benz, wear nice clothes and perfume. Even her mom will beg to date you

Lol. Abi oo. Funny but true.. It's a material world. Dating has become a poverty alleviating scheme to many..

Simpubozz:
Give her a little space and try to figure out if she's into you. Pretend you sick and have your mutual friend stylishly inform her about your sickness . If she checks on you then may be she has one or two things for you. So from there, you can sit her ass down to make her understand things

This is desperation. It doesn't have to be that hard. When a girl forms hard to get basically mean she's not that into you, rejecting u politely, just let her go.

gimakon:
Dude, I don't care. Let me make you understand, I really, really don't care. Whatever a lady does is her life, I don't care.. You cannot say with the type of exposure I have, a lady does her misbehaviour I should kill myself. I will only tolerate her for some time, and give her space. Na she go find me come... what does she have to offer me? The earlier you understand, I don't care, the better for both of us..

Then we are absolutely saying the same thing. I was only confused with your first comment. The less we care the better, when a lady plays hard to get, a man that respects himself moves on.

gimakon:
Balderdash! You think I don't have what I do with my time, rather than chase women.. Your last statement is not only a nonsensical statement, it shows you don't know what you doing. Mxm messed up ideology lol

Go and read what you wrote again and come back to thank me for my reply. You have to start realizing that there isn't really nothing like hard to get, stop being girl's plan B or plan C after their plan A didn't succeed. A girl that truly loves a man won't play hard to get, those are the girls we should always look out for. No hard feelings man.

gimakon:
Well, it's not bad if you leave her alone. Na her body! It's not a do or die affair. Do you understand that part?
Stop making her feel the world revolves around her bum bum. If she misbehaves, leave her let her be.

Exactly, now you're talking. The best thing is to just leave her alone and let her go. Girls that I know their ways wella..... I don't buy into that hard to get stuff, it's so emotional draining for guys, it's like a punishment, an imprisonment of the soul, men should always free themselves.

gimakon:
If cock Wan Fuck_ hen, you day ever see the hen agree once? She go first run round compound first, then give cock the ifedi. Nwanne if you never ready to accept small nonsense from woman, no day look them. Leave them alone. Hapu ha aka, Obughi by force.

You don't expect them to just accept you just like that. Many of them felt they were taken, only to be taken for granted, many of them came out of abusive relationships, many are used to cure conji, the useless boy no go even give them transport money, after which when them fuck_ these boys for at least 6 years, boy go find someone else. The heart break no be here. Many of us call them stupid, but they did most things for us because they love us....
She's doing what she's suppose to do, to watch and see what our reactions are. That's how they are wired. If you cannot cope with it, pls leave them for us. We are happy with their "hard to get" bad behavior like that.

Wrong wrong wrong. Woman keeps playing hard to get for you and she keeps meeting others and giving the cookie to them, leaving you hanging there while she keeps dating different ppl.

Oh do you think a girl is not meeting new guys and having sex with them while you are there chasing her? If u don't know this about woman, u are on a long thing and you've got to enter street to learn about women. Show me a girl doing shakara or playing hard to get for u and I'll show u the guys screwing her after you've met her... Shine your eyes...

Girls don't care about all those you stated. They don't care about those who truly love them but only those that have something to offer, they keep repeating the same mistakes over and over.

All the girls I've had always tell me about those one or two guys they've known before me that has been disturbing them since time immemorial. U don't want to hear about what they say about guys like u mahn. Smh.

gimakon:
If cock Wan Fuck_ hen, you day ever see the hen agree once? She go first run round compound first, then give cock the ifedi. Nwanne if you never ready to accept small nonsense from woman, no day look them. Leave them alone. Hapu ha aka, Obughi by force.

You don't expect them to just accept you just like that. Many of them felt they were taken, only to be taken for granted, many of them came out of abusive relationships, many are used to cure conji, the useless boy no go even give them transport money, after which when them fuck_ these boys for at least 6 years, boy go find someone else. The heart break no be here. Many of us call them stupid, but they did most things for us because they love us....
She's doing what she's suppose to do, to watch and see what our reactions are. That's how they are wired. If you cannot cope with it, pls leave them for us. We are happy with their "hard to get" bad behavior like that.

Wrong wrong wrong. Woman keeps playing hard to get for you and she keeps meeting others and giving the cookie to them, leaving you hanging there while she keeps dating different ppl.

Oh do you think a girl is not meeting new guys and having sex with them while you are there chasing her? If u don't know this about woman, u are on a long thing and you've got to enter street to learn about women. Show me a girl doing shakara or playing hard to get for u and I'll show u the guys screwing her after you've met her... Shine your eyes... Girls don't care about all those you stated. They don't care about those who truly love them but only those that have something to offer, they keep repeating the same mistakes over and over.

GreatResearcher1:
if u chase money, u won't have any sec of ur time to chase a hoe. evrygirl is a hoe.
be a love-vendor bro

That's correct bruv, accurate. That is why I don't send most of these girls. Infact they are so easy to get if you can show them you've got this and that... Me I no send woman o. Some dey gri instantly after some kind package. I delete girls' number everyday if I notice any negative vibe coz I know some just dey form coz they believe I no get what they want. That's what happens when u don't showcase yourself wella in the process of getting to know them, it's a material world.

womenareapes:
don't be a fvcking Pu..ssy
Leave the svpid girl along and search elsewhere.

People are dying of corona and you are here chasing one smelly piece of shiit who is forming hard to get for reason best unknown to her

What can a woman offer apart from there unkept ugly diry smelly yansh?

U dey mind am? Same girl another guy go get within 2 days. If he knows women wella, he no go dey chase any. Many girls are moved by what u can offer... Kids don't understand this..

Ellipsoid:
Sometimes it's not playing hard to get, a girl may just not be that into you.

Exactly, guys should start accepting that. It's not by force.

Stillthebest:


I have been in that shoe too... And i later found out that the best is to play hard to let her be.

She will come back herself when she feels your vibe. That's if she hasn't been blown away with the wind.

But during your chase, be real and original. Original is scarce to find.

As one grows older, one will discover that no woman is worth chasing. They will chase your pocket and personality even when u think less of them.

Your crush does mess too!

Apt! No girl is worth chasing. I delete their numbers as I collect them, the one that will stay will stay. No negative vibes.

GreatResearcher1:
make money and see her crawl back.

We're saying the same thing but trust me girls chok.. U don't even need to wait till she crawls back.. I'm only trying to say is that u don't have to give a damn about most of them that much..

IYANGBALI:
Girl playing hard to get in this Nigeria? Wetin den dey take dead body do for graveyard?

Abi. A girl forming hard to get for someone dey gree for another within 2 days.. I pity guys wey dey chase them o.

If guys know Naija girls wella, u won't chase them. Get what she needs and that's all o, even if na to flash am..

Mrmezico:
Evrybody wish 2 be rich bt nt all re rich, we all wish 4 good things to come our ways bt somehow we do meet bad thing. nd its nt evrytin dat we want dat we have, so its nt evry girl dat u lov must lov u aswel. when she plays hard 2 get, just asume she's nt into u nd move on wit ur lyf. if she comes back gud nd if she didnt come, still gud

Exactly. This is 100 percent accurate to me. This is my philosophy about dating too..Sadly many guys are too emotional and sunk in lust. They don't know when to get off a woman's back. I delete girls' number almost everyday without looking back coz when I notice a negative vibe from any of them, that's all. Not ready for any heartache..A girl that is yours will always be yours, there is nothing like hard to get to me... The less u invest in these girls, the better you are..