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Crime / Re: Wife Of Don Wanny, The Cultist And Kidnapper (Photos) by buragidi(m): 7:56pm On Jan 08, 2018
[Aquote author=JONNYSPUTE post=64006248]. Pls don't generalize. Not all Dons are evil. Eg Don Jazzy[/quote] Even Don Simon is cool. Lol.

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Religion / Re: Nigerian Mega-rich Pastors Living In Million Pound Homes Prey On Believers - UK by buragidi(m): 3:10pm On Jan 08, 2018
Funkybabee:
pain me you said? Why should it? I am not gullible to give my income to one con man who call himself pastor. You know why? I study the Bible and you can hardly deceive me with unfounded stories that you are told by this con men to empty your pocket.

Besides, I have looked at the life of those who claim to give all to this con men and I, who do not, is far better than them in all things of life. Some of them keep begging me for money, even the one that calls themselves Pastors. A brief peep into the world we also tell you that the more religious a nation becomes, the poorer it tends to become, contrary to what these fraudsters tell you. The only people who who probably get rich are the fraudsters behind the pupilt. Have you ever asked yourself why Nigeria is far behind Switzerland in economic growth and stability despite our religiosity? Why would you while your view of the world is limited to your local environment. Walahi, most Nigerians need exposure.






.so its pain you like this,don't know why you want to kill yourselve because of some people life,don't give urself hypertension brother mi God love you and me too.....leave all that for God to judge grin grin shocked


Note:last quote

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Religion / Re: Nigerian Mega-rich Pastors Living In Million Pound Homes Prey On Believers - UK by buragidi(m): 2:12pm On Jan 08, 2018
quote author=Funkybabee post=64004011] you are a goat. If you see the real devil, can you confront him? The real devils are the men of dogs who lie and deceive you with false doctrines in the church. They collect money from fooools like u and 4ck stupid gals like you, yet you remain in your world of struggle and hope.

Even the Bible says not everyone who calls me Lord will enter kingdom of God. That a con man is able to open a business centre on your head, tag it church and begin to expand through foolish acceptability of mugus and mumus like you does not make him a man of God. He is only preying on your stupidity, muguism and gullibility. Any man of God that collect money from the poor is a fraudster. That is never the spirit of Christianity nor the mind of Christ. Go and read Acts 4 and Matthew 25. I am sure you won't understand, that explains while a man who should be less intelligent than you (That is if you are intelligent at all) will come along to indoctrinate you, take control of your mind and take over everything you have even when you are still alive. What a shame?



Devil like you who rebuked man of God and note I did not curse in the name of christ I even direct it to father who said condemn not my anointing...



Kindly go buy ur glass becuz it's effects is too bad gidigan[/quote]
Religion / Re: Nigerian Mega-rich Pastors Living In Million Pound Homes Prey On Believers - UK by buragidi(m): 11:48am On Jan 08, 2018
Of course, people will keep talking about it to keep enlightening the sheeple. While there will always be mugus and mumus on the surface of earth for con men to scam, the heavens will record that the message has been rightly delivered and w/o knows, one or two sheeple will come into the realisation of the truth. Even when Jesus preached, the Bible would say that..."And a certain man.." so he does not have to be everybody, but a certain man, a certain woman. This will start to create a chain reaction and ripple effect.

Why do you think the con men are now becoming jittery by attacking any one who raises issues of their manipulations if it has no effect on them?. My Uncle who is a parish Pastor in Redeeemed church of Adeboye was telling me how they are been put more under pressure by their regional and area pastors to preach more messages on tithes and giving since tithes appear to be dropping in the region. The Bible says a fool and his money are easily parted. This means you are under obligation to keep an eye on your money. Don't gamble with it. God will not take money from you to bless you. He does not spend money. He does not need it. It is very belittling a d ridiculous to attribute collection of money to God.
donqx:
naija
[Aquote author=Acidosis post=64000661]

So what do you want to do now, especially considering the fact that people have not stopped donating to their ministries in millions?[/quote]

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Religion / Re: Nigerian Mega-rich Pastors Living In Million Pound Homes Prey On Believers - UK by buragidi(m): 11:26am On Jan 08, 2018
No one is attacking Christian faith and nobody can even do that because the Bible says I will build by church and the gate of he'll shall not prevail. The church is not on trial here, but the false doctrine and fraud in the church. Infact, the people attacking the church are actually the false teachers milking their poor congregation, parading themselves as men of God while they are actually men of dogs. Jesus Christ will never collect from the poor, the widow and the weak to service the extravagant lifestyle of a rich Pastor. That is never the mind of Christ and not the spirit of the Bible
middlebelter:


The report is biased. The writer is painting the payment of tithe as if it were payment to Ashimolowo. Look, I am not a member of his Church, but we Christians should not continue to watch this people from other religions attack our Christian Faith. How is it their business if people pay tithes? Is it not Biblical? Is anybody forcing the writer and his pay masters to pay? As for Pastor Ashimolowo's luxury house, is the writer and his supporters aware of the number of books that this man has written and the volume of his investment? Even if he were using the Church's money will God fail to bring him to judgment?

It is not difficult to understand why UK is fast drifting into the hands of ISIS and Muslim Mayor's, but they expect to replicate the same obnoxious laws in Nigeria that will stiff the growth of Pentecostal movements?
My position is not a tacit support for misappropriation of tithe and offerings but I strongly believe that any body cheating by diverting tithes will have most severe punishment. I believe the God of the the Holy Bible, and the he won't fail to punish such people.
Religion / Re: Nigerian Mega-rich Pastors Living In Million Pound Homes Prey On Believers - UK by buragidi(m): 11:15am On Jan 08, 2018
The way you guys dry curse shows how deluded you are. You will even be cursing in Jesus name. What kind of religionreligion is This? Is obviously not Christianity. Jesus never curse anyone and anyone who curse in the name of Jesus is obviously the devil.
Funkybabee:
And weytin be their own,did any worshippers there complain na God go destroy them all even oloriburuku freezes wey start this nonsense..he is going to see wrath of God this year if he didn't change his way Let leave them for God to purnish no be me go help them eat in their on cane...and when they start from mud house no person see them then oooo...



Oloshi gbogbo

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Religion / Re: Nigerian Mega-rich Pastors Living In Million Pound Homes Prey On Believers - UK by buragidi(m): 11:04am On Jan 08, 2018
lloyds:
Church is a business, and it's God's business. So if the people footing these bulls are not forced nor complaining, no one has any right to harass them or question their financial probity.

Most of the people that patronize these churches are doing so because their hapetite or needs were met there.
Yahoo Yahoo is a business, since it is flourishing and people who scamed are not being forced , nobody should harass the yahoo boys. Who did this to your life? Must you remain foolish till you die?

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Religion / Re: Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde Reacts To Daddy Freeze "Giving Pastors January Salary" by buragidi(m): 7:56pm On Jan 03, 2018
Under the Law. The Bible describes Jesus Christ as the firstfruir of the grave. It is like you still offering burnt offering as sacrifice after the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. What you are doing is idolatry and calling Jesus a liar.
Wolexdey:
Proverbs 3:9 Honor the LORD with thy substance, and with the first fruits of thine increase.

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Religion / Re: Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde Reacts To Daddy Freeze "Giving Pastors January Salary" by buragidi(m): 7:51pm On Jan 03, 2018
Prov 21:20 " A fool and his money are easily parted"

post=63866299:
All this na talk.. we are no longer children tossed to and fro by every wind of doctrine I'll give my first fruit to God.. daddy freeze go and cry.. first fruit tradition is normal.. people even give their first salary to their parents for blessing why won't I now give it to the Oracle of God.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 11:28pm On Dec 30, 2017
guy, how far? you don send the prostitute parking? courtesy demands that you update us now

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Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Replies Zack Orji - Pity Will Not Solve Tithing, Give Us Quotations by buragidi(m): 11:11pm On Dec 21, 2017
It's your assumption and not the truth. The most successful men in the world do not even believe in your God, while some of your tithe-paying mugus die like chicken.
mikky4764:

I like ur reasoning but I wish they were right. u don't faith without works, both go hand in hand. I can't sit and fold hands expecting manna to fall from heaven, but the truth is that u can't go far without allowing God to lead the way

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Religion / Re: Daddy Freeze Tithe Against Poverty (TAP) Challenge: Lady Gives One Million Naira by buragidi(m): 11:48am On Dec 13, 2017
You don't get it. It is not about how much. It is about, is it scriptural? Does the Bible mandate Christians to pay tithe as we have being deceived by the pastorpreneurs? Are we still under the law and attract curse for non-payment of tithe as purported by Adeboye and Orsajefor? If it is not true, then we have been scammed. Do we continue to live in ignorance?
famouschildren:
I wouldn't blame a lost soul like you. I blame those who called themselves Christian (freeze Ideology follower) who are actually pagan. How much is 10% out of 100 that you find it hard to give to the house of God. Another 10% to the poor (if truly you love them), then 80% for you to drink the Alcohol you have being drinking that has caused you disgrace of falling inside gutter, sleeping with HIV infected prostitute, Diabetes, hypertension etc Save yourself the stress 10% is nothing for me to be debating whom to give to.


Give your life to Christ

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Religion / Re: These Bible Verses Supports Daddy Freeze On Tithing. by buragidi(m): 10:53am On Dec 13, 2017
Who told you that Levites are God's ministers? That is very wrong. Levites are just one of the 12 tribes of Israel. They do not necessarily have to be priests. Every Levite is not a priest and every priest is not a Levite.

spartan117:
Malachi 3:10 is equally an important scripture why shouldn't it be preached?.

What you should ask is that the two scriptures be properly explained to congregations for better understanding

It looks like you forgot to read on to verse 27 and 28 of that same verse
27
And you shall not forsake or neglect the Levite [God’s minister] in your towns, for he has been given no share or inheritance with you.
28
AMP:At the end of every three years you shall bring forth all the tithe of your increase the same year and lay it up within your towns

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Religion / Re: Tithing Is Not Compulsory - D.K Olukoya by buragidi(m): 4:41pm On Dec 03, 2017
Oga, how many devourer do you see in the life of Dangote, Bill gate and the world rich Chinese.
Timiblanko:
All i know is for devourer to be out of your life as the bible as said you must tithe. It is a MUST... God i pray for peaceful atmosphere i don't want to hear more of this issue. Thank you Lord amen.
Religion / Re: Lanre Teriba Blasts Daddy Freeze, Backs Pastor Ashimolowo On Tithing by buragidi(m): 11:30pm On Dec 01, 2017
Well, this sounds like a rendition from sacramentum of the defeated.
lloyds:


You are free to interprete/understand the scriptures as it suits you.
I have so many things to attend to. Pele.
It is well.

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Religion / Re: Still On The Tithe Matter: At Last, Men Of God Agree With OAP Freeze (Video) by buragidi(m): 10:42pm On Dec 01, 2017
That is the problem. You are quoting the scripture out of context to achieve your objective. The preceding verses spoke about how Abraham tithed to Melchizedek and how , by implication, even the levites, wholater received tithe under the mosaic law have tithed to Melchizedek through Abraham (since they were in his loins).

Now, if Jesus could not receive tithe because he has once received once as Melchizedek from Abraham (whom the bible says has paid for his children e.g Levites). How come that the Pastors of today now receive the same tithe? are they higher in rank than Jesus Christ who could not receive it more than once?

How come that Pastors now receive it on daily basis (when even Jesus Christ could not receive it twice-premised on the Melchizedek link to Jesus Christ). If truly Abraham has paid for his children, how come that you still say God command us to pay?

Please enlighten me with biblical verses.
OBAGADAFFI:


What do you mean by the bold.

I am not here the trade words or arguing unnecessary.


Hebrews 7:12-15, 17 (NKJV)
12 For the priesthood being changed, of necessity there is also a change of the law.
13 For He of whom these things are spoken belongs to another tribe, from which no man has officiated at the altar.
14 For it is evident that our Lord arose from Judah, of which tribe Moses spoke nothing concerning priesthood.
15 And it is yet far more evident if, in the likeness of Melchizedek, there arises another priest
17 For He testifies: "You are a priest forever According to the order of Melchizedek."


According to 14 Jesus cannot receive Tithes since he is not a priest according to Moses Law.

But Jesus Christ has Melchizedek received Tithes of Abraham.


Religion / Re: Lanre Teriba Blasts Daddy Freeze, Backs Pastor Ashimolowo On Tithing by buragidi(m): 10:19pm On Dec 01, 2017
That verse is deliberately misinterpreted. Jesus was talking to the Pharisees and the scribes (are you a Pharisee or scribe)? These were the people who were bound by mosaic law. This happened before the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, hence the law was still in operation. The statement was not directed to the apostles (who later became our first pastors), who have met Christ. There is no record of Jesus Christ teaching the apostles to pay or receive tithe, neither is their any record of the apostles collecting tithe from the church after the departure of Jesus Christ.

Interpretatively, what the verse means is that the Pharisees have lost focus. They have allowed their primary vision to become secondary and vice-versa; Why He (Jesus) had no problem with their decision to embark on the secondary matter (Tithing) -Because it was under the dispensation of law-, they would have dissipated energy on the primary maters (Mercy, love. justice) etc.

As per the personality of Daddy Freeze, there are evidences that God can use anybody. Infact, God does not look for the qualified, he seeks for the available and when he finds the available, he qualifies the available. He has used a prostitute, murderer, fraudster even tricksters in the Bible. He even spoke through evil spirit. That is why He is God.

If we are to go by your logic, even the so called MOG are baggage of scandal. The story of Suleiman and Otobo is still fresh in our mind.
lloyds:


Why are u people so ignorant. If reading the Bible is difficult for u, why don't u use Google.
[b]If u think Jesus didn't approve tithing, please read Matt. 23.23. He spoke of its weight as compared to other spiritual [/b]laws. .
Am not a pastor nor minister, but a child of God that is thirsty for His words and ways.
Freeze that is leaving a loose and unbalanced life is the one that will show u path to morality.
My Pity for youths of this generation.

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Religion / Re: Still On The Tithe Matter: At Last, Men Of God Agree With OAP Freeze (Video) by buragidi(m): 9:43pm On Dec 01, 2017
Please, can you please back-up this your position with the scripture? Can you authoritatively give us biblical evidences of either Jesus or any of the apostles receiving or paying tithe or where they commanded us to pay?

Can you please state with biblical reference where it is stated that 'Christians should pay tithe under the Abrahamic faith"?

If you position is true, is it not only once in his lifetime that Abraham was recorded to have paid tithe to Melchizedek, how come it now becomes a daily, weekly, monthly and annual obligation in today's Christianity?

Is it not also recorded that Abraham tithed from the spoils of war (and not from his personal belonging), how come that people are now asked to tithe from every income they make?

Is it not stated that Abraham voluntarily gave a tithe to Melchizedek (not that God mandated him, like it was commanded under the mosaic law), how come that today's Pastor succinctly tells Christians that tithe is a commandment from God and non-payment attract curse?

Is there anywhere in the Abrahamic tithing story that it was stated that tithe was paid in cash? How come that today's pastors automatically preach that tithe is in monetary term?

What do you think is the implication of Heb 7:12 on this your Abrahamic principle of tithing. Please back-up your position with fact (biblical references), not what you think or what your pastor just put on your lips.

OBAGADAFFI:
Lol,

Every Christian is a Sheep, if you don't want be a sheep you can be a Christian.

First, the Church don't survive on Tithes only in fact without Tithes they'll still survive.

Second, you need to separate between giving and Pastors life style. Because when your given is to GOD.

On Tithes, the tithing practiced by Christian is based Abraham faith and Obedience, not according to Moses Law.

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Religion / Re: Lanre Teriba Blasts Daddy Freeze, Backs Pastor Ashimolowo On Tithing by buragidi(m): 7:19pm On Dec 01, 2017
Religion / Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo And Daddy Freeze Exchange Words Over Tithing by buragidi(m): 7:08pm On Dec 01, 2017
This is not about Freeze. It is about the truth. Please visit this thread to watch the videos of other Nigerian Pastors backing up Freeze
https://www.nairaland.com/4207246/still-tithe-matter-last-men
The Bible says "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free"
ericsmith:



wow !! paying offering and tithe is now wrong ...
by the way who is you or freeze wateva to tell us or sensitize us on what is right n wrong in the bible. ..
who are you?? ,,what do you know ? academically freeze no get some of these pastors resume.
can a mechanic read medical textbooks nd challenge a doctor to a practical test .. someone like yu Wil definitely stand with d mechanic .
Religion / Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo And Daddy Freeze Exchange Words Over Tithing by buragidi(m): 6:54pm On Dec 01, 2017
There is no logic in your story. It is just an assumption. You did not get the job because you paid tithe. If you had not paid the tithe, you would have still gotten the job. Many people who do not believe in God, got better jobs after youth service. God is not engaged in the business of receiving bribe in the name of tithe in exchange for blessing.
alt3r3g0:


Good point....To each as they are lead.

This is the story of how i started tithing. I just started serving then, allowee was roughly 10k. I was low on cash and pondering how i was going to get to the next pay day if i gave 1k out of the about 2k5 i had left. I had just gotten a job and so i had to pay transport to work, If not would have limited my movement. What i had would definitely not have been enough even if i did not pay the tithe.

And God said i should test Him. And so i did...saying if i get stranded, then i would have every justification never to do so again. Before that week ended, i was paid half month salary (because i had worked 2 weeks). This was a one man company and i was the only staff so its not like they had a structure on ground. Since then (over 10 years) my finances have never looked back.

About a year later when I wanted to leave the one man company, i told God that i wanted my current salary to be my tithe...and He did much more...My basic alone solved it minus other benefis.

In my case, it works for me. I dont believe anyone should be compelled to give or do it grudginly.




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Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 6:26pm On Nov 30, 2017
What are you saying? No matter how you twist it, the misbehaviour of a man does not give a woman any right to do the same. Here in Africa, if you (women) offend us, na you go leave; if we offend you, na you go still leave. That's just the way the story goes and you can't do a thing about it. Your husband is your head, even the Bible recognises that. Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines, yet he remains the wisest man that has ever lived. My position is very clear on the subject-matter. I have advised the OP based on my personal experience and I owe him no duty of care, but based on principle, I have told him the truth based on real-life experience, rather than the theory that most of you dish out here. Peace out
ADUNOKIKI:


It shows you are in the same category with the OP keep dreaming. There is nothing understandable and pardon able in cheating. I could understand if he was a saint in the marriage. Do to your partner in marriage what you want them to do unto you. The husband can marry another wife it's accepted both in some religion and traditionally, but fornication No. What is bad is bad. Help him repair his home.

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Religion / Still On The Tithe Matter: At Last, Men Of God Agree With OAP Freeze (Video) by buragidi(m): 4:26pm On Nov 30, 2017
Since the past few months, the issue of tithing in the church has remained on the front-burner as it draws controversy from around and within the Christian religion. For a general avoidance of doubt, Tithe is believed by many Christians as a scriptural obligatory payment of 10% of a beleiver's income to the Account of his local church. While many believers are made to believe that payment of this payment of tithe connects them to open heavens to enjoy the abundance of blessings on earth, there is also a general belief that non-payment of tithe by Christians attract curse from God; This is generally backed up by preachers using Malachi 3: 9-11 which read thus:

"Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings. Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation. Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it"


The fear of this scripture has made many christians to fearfully dole out a tenth of their daily, weekly, monthly and annual income to their church. There are also evidence that many believe that once they tithe, they are immuned from any misfortune. It is not unusual to hear christians saying "that is not my portion, not when i pay my tithe" In the same vein, some christians are quick to ask their brothers/sisters if they are faithful in the payment of tithe whenever the later seem to be going through a hard time. While many beleivers remain faithful in tithing, evidences abound that many pastors in charge of churches live flamboyant, extravagant and affluent life, while poverty can be perceived with the nooks and cranny of the church. For example, It is not uncommon to see MOG owing as much as three ptivate jets, while majority of the church members who fund this lifestyle live from hand to mouth. Besides, the churches also appear to have contributed little or nothing to the develoment of the society, in relation to the resources available at their disposals; not to mention the dishonourable conducts, scandal and other exploitative issues that trail some MOG.

While the above continues and some members struggle to pay their tithes grumbly, an OAP-Daddy Freeze started a crusade called 'freethesheeple' movement with a mandate to enlighten the christians about the exploitative and manipulative tendencies of the church and the MOG in Nigeria. Emphatically, Daddy freeze stated that " If you pay your tithe to any Nigerian Pastor, you are a goat" The OAP draws a number of scriptural verses to argue while its wrong to pay tithe in the first instance. With biblical references, he argued that Tithing has no place in christianity under the dispensation of grace as it is a mere commandment to the jews under the Mosaic law; which has been abrogated by the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. He asked to know while Jesus Christ (whom the Bible calls the author and the finisher of our faith) nor any of the apostles like Paul, Peter and John never received Tithe. Rather being a one-off posting on social media, Daddy freeze has been tenaciously dedicated to this movement and the whole 'show' seems to be gaining popularity on daily basis on the internet. Initially, his message was originally ignored by christians and pastors. However, in the recent time, Various men of God, including the revered General Overseer of the Redeemed Church, Pastor Adeboye and others like Bishop Oyedepo, Apostle Suleiman, Pastor Paul Enenche, Paul Adefarasin Pastor (Mrs) Adejumo and others have responded swiftly to Daddy Freeze at various events in their churches.

From a detailed analysis of all the responses provided so far, it appears that the Pastors deliberately left the message of Pastor Freeze, but attack his personality. Unlike Freeze who backed up his argument with scriptural references, the men of God opposing him appear to be using sentiment and emotional blackmail to approach the issue by putting fear into the minds of their followers. For example, Pastor Adeboye of the redeemed church was quoted as saying non-payment of tithe by his members will attract divine curse. He also said that He knew Freeze can not be taken seriously when he mentioned that tithe should be used to by alcohol (Freeze was reading a verse in the book of Deuteronomy 14:26). Adeboye did not make refrence to any scripture to counter what Freeze said. In the oipinion of Adefarasin, non-payment of tithe does not attract curse, but christians are mandated to pay. He added that someone who is not a Pastor (Freeze) lacks the ability to discuss spiritual matter. His view is reinforced by Apostle Suleiman who said since someone who is not a Doctor can not teach a Doctor how to do his job, a person who is not a Pastor (Freeze) lacks the knowledge to talk about tithing and other church matters. According to Paul Enenche, 'as long as you do not tithe, things cannot work" Similarly, Oyedepo claims that tithing is the key that unlocks the blessing of God. To Adejumo, a man who has failed in his marriage (obviously refreing to Freeze's marriage problems) lacks the spirituality to understand the things of God. While Daddy Freeze has succintly responded to these pastors on his social media accounts with biblical verses, it seems non of them is loaded with adeuquate scriptural refrences to counter the position of Daddy Freeze.

In the course of event however, some Pastor have started supporting the position of Freeze on the subject matter with detailed analysis of the scripture. The attached videos are the views of two different Nigerian Pastors dissecting the issue of tithe based on scripture and they both agree with the position of Freeze. Please watch the videos and comment. If these men of God are correct, does it mean that our highly reputable MOG have lied and deceived us for long? Do we call this daylight robbery or outright fraud? Can we mandate them to account and refund the money they have brainwashed us into paying for long? Do we continue to be mugus, mumu and gullible in the name of Jesus? Please watch videos and comment.

Thanks


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JV6vlahoXlA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KTnS3VxNUI
Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 1:03pm On Nov 30, 2017
Gbenusohun. That her hubby cheated gave her no right to do same, either he confessed or not. She had a right to walk away if she could not cope. The husband can even to marry another wife join her in that same house and heavens will not fall, the worst she can do is to park-out. When a lady cheats, she does with her emotion and she becomes detached from her man (Research has confirmed that), but a man can cheat for fun. No emotional attachment. As a matter of fact, many men who cheat, do without emotion. You see them giving the best to their family, taking care of the wife, yet they fck outside. Some of you claiming my hubby loves me die, you will be surprised what they do outside, yet at home, they appear like Angel. But once a woman starts to cheat, a sensitive hubby will know almost immediately and that is one thing I noticed about op. He appears to be a very sensitive person. We are not justifying men cheating on their wives, but when a man cheats, it is understandable and pardonable, but when a woman cheats, my dear, it is an aberration. I cannot stay under the same roof with such a woman.

ADUNOKIKI:
This OP must be a clown, you had sex with someone while married, Am not sure she did, you lied and Cover up your mess to her. She admitted her mistake and apologies. Yet you want to die....go ahead.
All I see is you have problem. She is miles apart from this guy. Marriage has its up and down. Accept it she is not perfect so are you.
If you like forgive her. If you don't divorce her. Its your business.
You are talking like a saint here. What is applicable to A is applicable to B.
I know someone too who cheat wi married women and countless prostitutes (within and outside the country) one day he will say his wife is cheating too.
Open up to your wife you have cheated on her before and both of you apologies and get back with your life.
You both should learn from past mistakes

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 1:02pm On Nov 30, 2017
Gbenusohun. That her hubby cheated gave her no right to do same, either he confessed or not. She had a right to walk away if she could not cope. The husband can even to marry another wife join her in that same house and heavens will not fall, the worst she can do is to park-out. When a lady cheats, she does with her being and emotion and she becomes detached from her man (Research has confirmed that), but a man can cheat for fun. No emotional attachment. As a matter of fact, many men who cheat, do without emotion. You see them giving the best to their family, taking care of the wife, yet they fck outside. Some of you claiming my hubby loves me die, you will be surprised what they do outside, yet at home, they appear like Angel. But once a woman starts to cheat, a sensitive hubby will know almost immediately and that is one thing I noticed about op. He appears to be a very sensitive person. We are not justifying men cheating on their wives, but when a man cheats, it is understandable and pardonable, but when a woman cheats, my dear, it is an aberration. I cannot stay under the same roof with such a woman.

ADUNOKIKI:
This OP must be a clown, you had sex with someone while married, Am not sure she did, you lied and Cover up your mess to her. She admitted her mistake and apologies. Yet you want to die....go ahead.
All I see is you have problem. She is miles apart from this guy. Marriage has its up and down. Accept it she is not perfect so are you.
If you like forgive her. If you don't divorce her. Its your business.
You are talking like a saint here. What is applicable to A is applicable to B.
I know someone too who cheat wi married women and countless prostitutes (within and outside the country) one day he will say his wife is cheating too.
Open up to your wife you have cheated on her before and both of you apologies and get back with your life.
You both should learn from past mistakes

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Religion / Re: Paying Your Tithe Is Biblical by buragidi(m): 5:23pm On Nov 27, 2017
Your argument is quite incoherent with the issue on ground. Giving to God has nothing to do with tithe or giving in the church. Mathew 25 is very clear on the way to give to God. The issue here is that there is no tithing in Christianity. Christianity started after the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Jesus is the author and finisher of our faith. Did he pay or receive tithe? NO. Our first pastors-the apostles, did they pay or receive tithe? No. Everything is wrong in giving tithes to the Pastor when millions of people are in genuine need of that money. Those who cannot pay their hospital bills, those who cannot pay their school fees, those who have legal issues, but cannot hire a lawyer. These are the people God directed us to give money. You do not give to God by paying tithe. That is crass ignorance and misconception. You give to God when you give to the poor and the needy. That is the verdict in Mathew 25. May God grant you understanding.

derecho:
The modalities of giving is secondary bro.Do you believe it's biblical? Was Christ against it?Did the Apostles in any of the Epistles speak against it?Serving God is by revelation. If you ain't convinced, please KEEP YOUR MONEY. Tithing is one of the many ways of giving to God.Or you think God was confused when He spoke in Malachi 3?
For your info,ALL SCRIPTURE IS GIVEN by inspiration of God...read the rest in 2 Timothy 3:16-17.Bible is not some literary work that you just understand by using reasoning...Even if you want to use reasoning,what's wrong if a person gives God one-tenth of his income?Does it negate Phil.4:8 in anyway?Do you in anyway believe that God can owe a man?We become Christians at the point of GIVING OUR LIVES TO GOD not when we joined denomination.If you have given your Life to God what is money?The problem is a carnal man CAN NEVER grasp Spiritual things,as you know ROMANS 8:6-8 kindly read.

Finally,Tithe isnt given to Pastors and there's a purpose for it.Believers aim to give their ALL to God and physically express Love ; we don't live for ourselves anymore. This, the early disciples understood and u saw what happened in Acts 2:44-45.

Instead of dissipating our energies kicking against doctrines;Let's like Jesus talk about WEIGHTIER MATTERS which is the Cross of Jesus and Holiness without which no man can see God.Those who started this discus have a sinister motive.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 4:58pm On Nov 27, 2017
It is an indication of frustration and possible mental derailment. The earlier she seeks both psychological and psychiatric attention, the better. Na so e dey start.
Hozier:
choi, what has happened to the Coco I know? These days, half of your comments are filled with arguements and malignant remarks.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 4:31pm On Nov 27, 2017
My dear, that guy is a great writer. I can see pictures in his words. Abeit, you sound quite frustrated. I hope you are ok.
cococandy:

What kind of PhD are you getting with this your grammar?
Are you sure your story is not made up?
Best student in your class in the Uk too.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by buragidi(m): 4:26pm On Nov 27, 2017
Waoo, this quite painful, I must confess. I must also commend your great writing skill. I could see the picture, like I was seeing a movie in your word (even though one goat up there was saying rubbish about your grammar), intelligent people can identify great writers and story tellers when they see one.

Now to the issue on ground, I think I have great experience on this matter of married women rubbish. I am married too, but have lots of exs who are married. The way they disturb me for sexxx, is quite alarming. They do it with reckless abandon as their husbands have no ddiccks. It is just that I have a principle never to engage with another man's wife. Never. Not in this world, not in the one to come. I don't know the kind of devil that has entered into the ladies of nowadays. The can hardly be trusted and trust me, this social media thing is not helping matter. Well, depending on the guy in question, I cannot guarantee that the guy man has not been banging your wife. The probability is very high. From the narration, it appears it is even your wife who is throwing herself on the guy. The guy seems to be more interested in protecting your wife's home for her than she is willing to do for herself.

Honestly, I do not know how to advise you on this matter. Maybe you meet a counsellor for professional advice, but if it happened to me, my brother; that is the end of the marriage and my wife knows that. That a man bangs around does not give a gal the license to do same. A man can marry four women and stay in the same house with them and control all of them, but if a woman marries two husband at the same time, it is an aberration. A man can 4ck around and brag about it; when a lady begin to tell people that he bangs any man he sees, she becomes a dirty rag in the society. Even prostitutes are not proud of their profession. That is the reality. A woman who fuccks around can bring a bastard home, making the hubby to believe he is responsible for the baby, whereas one guyman outside is the real father, but if a man impregnates another lady outside, there is no way he can deceive the wife about the true maternity of the child. So, while we are not justifying men adultery, the truth is that women adultery is the greatest sin in the history of humanity; no wonder the Jews have a culture of stoning an adulteress to death, without doing anything to the man she committed the adultery with.

Brother, just do whatever you think is ok by you, but the future of your son is very critical. One love.

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Religion / Re: Paying Your Tithe Is Biblical by buragidi(m): 11:43am On Nov 24, 2017
You are contradicting yourself. If we are all Priests, then who pays tithe to who and where is it written in the Bible that pastors are levites? Which verse in the Bible implies that? Go to Istreal, you see Levites there. Even they no longer receive tithes because the temple has been destroyed. If you claim pastors are spiritual levites, how come they receive phiscal tithes and not spiritual one. Jesus Christ was not a spiritual istrealites, he was a phisical one, but he could not receive tithe because he was not a levite. He was from the tribe of Judah. Priests never spend tithe in the Bible.
hardasan:


1peter 2vs 9
But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:

Every one of us in the Christiandom are priests. The pastors receive tithes because they represent the lévites of Judaism. Pastoral work is full time. Fake Pastor or genuine Pastor, they work full time. So just as the lévites are given land and tithes, the pastors are given tithes and offerings.
Religion / Re: Paying Your Tithe Is Biblical by buragidi(m): 9:10am On Nov 24, 2017
I am sure you are one of those brainwashed church goers who never study their Bible in detail, but just memorize fee verses put into their mouth by their greedy half-baked pastors. My dear, tithe is unchrisian. It has no root or basis in Christianity. Tithing was under the mosaic law and there are rules that guide it's payment. Tithing by istrealites had a 7 years circle and it was been paid once yearly. There are 12 tribes in istreal and only 11 were requested to pay thite to one tribe, which is the levite. Priests had no power to receive tithe from congregation. Tithes were paid to the levies because they had no inheritance in istreal. Out of the tithe collected from congregation, the levies give the 10% of the tithe they collected to the priest [i][/i][/b]for the purpose of making meat-food available in the temple for the poor.[b][/b][b]. Priests were not supposed to eat tithes. The grossly misconstrued Malachi 3, being used to manipulate the gullible church goers was not directed at the congregation. Start reading the account from the book of Nehemiah, by the time you get to Malachi chapter 3, you will understand who God was speaking too. That scripture was directed at the mosaic Priests, not You, not me and not the church.
The account was that the priests were collecting the 10% of tithe from the levites, but instead of sending it to the house of God, they were eating it, just the way today pastors are collecting your money in the name of offering and tithes and passing it to Otobo. These are the people that God called robbers in Malachi and that is under mosaic law. How come Jesus never received or paid tithe? Afterall, he is the author and the finisher of our faith. How come non of the apostles ever did?. Watch this videos and get a bit enlightened. No wonder the bible says a fool and his money are easily parted. 29:32
It’s a Sin to Pay Tithe
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hardasan:
I just refuse to keep quiet while Christians are brainwashed by anybody.

I want to quote Malachi Ch 3 v 7 - 12 while highlighting verse 10

Malachi 3:7-12King James Version (KJV)

7 Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them. Return unto me, and I will return unto you, saith the Lord of hosts. But ye said, Wherein shall we return?

8 Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings.

9 Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation.

10 Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

11 And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the Lord of hosts.

12 And all nations shall call you blessed: for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the Lord of hosts.

Here the bible plainly said in verse 8: " Yet ye have robbed me, But ye say where in. Have we robbed thee? "
The bible answered : "In tithes and offerings"

Verse 9 says: Ye are cursed for ye have robbed me. It didn't say ye are cursed for not eating your tithe or ye are cursed for paying to a pastor and not into heaven's bank account directly from the earth.

Verse 10 gives a direct instruction: Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse. It didn't say eat ye all the tithes in front of the storehouse or give ye all the tithes to the poor and widows.
In the biblical days, payments could be by precious stones or commodities. That's why trade by barter markets existed in the days of my grandparents before currencies became the order of the day. Now, 99.9% of people earn currencies not livestock or commodities, so it's normal that we pay tithe in cash.

Verse 11 is a promise by God to bless anyone who obeys this instruction of tithing

John ch 12 talks about Jesus being anointed for his burial with a very expensive ointment, Judas asked why the costly ointment wasn't sold and given to the poor instead of " wasting it"
Jesus said in verse 8: For the poor always ye have with you ; but me ye have not always

Matthew ch 10 vs 40 - 41, Jesus promised to. Reward those who are kind or who gives as little as a cup of cold water to his servants

Ever wondered why Jesus picked out the widow in Mark ch 12 vs 42 for giving her all since he doesn't care about our offering ?

Or why the Holy Ghost killed Ananias and Sapphira for keeping part of the money gotten from the sales of their own land in Acts ch 5 vs 1 - 11 if God doesn't care about our tithes and offerings.

Take heed that no wolf in sheep's clothing deceives you. God commanded tithing and offerings. If you want to pay yours when you get to heaven, that's your business, but don't go about stumbling people Christ died for cus it will be better for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for you.

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Please try to read through the thread, a lot of questions have been answered which are not mentioned in this initial post.
God bless the contributors and the sincere readers

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