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Men shd jst swallow their pride nd hep their women at home...no one is sayin women shd pride demselves in it or take it for granted...buh d most important tin is men shd undastand dat in btw kipin d house clean, takin care of d kids nd workin....its not easy. And a woman wil definetely look and feel beta if she gets a helpin hand.and for dose talkin bou maids...we all kno d disadvantages far outweighs the advantages...

Men shd jst swallow their pride nd hep their women at home...no one is sayin women shd pride demselves in it or take it for granted...buh d most important tin is men shd undastand dat in btw kipin d house clean, takin care of d kids nd workin....its not easy. And a woman wil definetely look and feel beta if she gets a helpin hand.and for dose talkin bou maids...we all kno d disadvantages far outweighs the advantage...

Tanx ma'am....I av like 300k...so am actually tinkin wholesales....sellin to retailers...wat do u tink...nd whr do u stay

Aw lucrative is d weavon nd beauty enhancement products biznes...nd like aw much is needed to go wholesale

thorpido: ..And what do u think is going on here ?I am showing her the path to go.Do you know what my profession is?

abeg leave am...weda na u dey geh d pain...tanks doc

brilapluz: if u realy apologised,u must have a very gud reason y..u hurt sum people on d forum wen u used ethnicity as a tool 2 judge a gud home or union..sayin u want 2 start insultin wil only make people c anoda side of u..

yes, I am indeed very sorry...ma kinda person hates it wen I hurt sumone...buh mayb I myt not kno aw mch u r hurt until u speak out...nd frm d chat, I rily hurt a lot of ppl nd a lot of ppl hurt me too. Now, dat accepted...doesn't mean am totally rong on ma point of a man helpin out with household chores...I wudnt take more insult esp frm ppl dat I av not directly insulted....ma point

If afta ma unreserved apology...sumone cums ere again to yarn trash...ma 'bad mouth' myt as well resume work...

Now am feelin so bad...neva meant for dis to get dis far ppl....nd if in d course of dis discussion I ad step on toes...so sorry...esp d guys/men....I so dnt even know wat to typ...buh one way or d oda, av gained frm dis discussion...tanks everyone

Na wa for dis ma thread o....I dey laff for ere ehen...kai, nigerian men...na una biko ooooo

Truckpusher: Then why are you coming here to influence unmarried girls that showing some bravado to their hubby will make them different from other women?.....women don't enjoy their husbands by showing gragra oh...if you want your husband licking your foot, all you've got to do is to show that weak feminine nature which is normal and natural and you'll see the man becoming a superman feeling like a king that wants to protect his priced subjects even with his life....men are just like that in nature.....no sane man will mistreat a woman that is soft, gentle, and respectful .most women that doesn't get help from their husbands are mostly women that wants equal right and all that stuff you peeps keep buying from the west because the man's natural instinct will see you as a fellow competitor he'll no longer see himself as protector hence the clashes and all that follows.

its u guys dat r makin d discusiion complicated....mayb if a guy ad cum out to speak d way ma favorite commenter spoke...d ishu wnt get dis far...buh men don't jst like women talkin bou dem sharing chores at home nd dey tentd to want to attack whoeva brings it up...na today

touchmeder: We both work but i run the house generally
I cook, clean and do the whole stuff BUT he helps
I dont insist, i dont do rota, i dont do 50 50 nonsense but he just generally helps out
A good man who loves his wife will do these sort of things you dont have to insist and run all over the place screaming
He will do his bit because he cares and loves you(at least mine does)
Understanding between the couple is the key.Each to their own

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[quote author=Truckpusher]This is an ideal good wife material.Talks with maturity and high level of understanding....you must marry a good husband that is if you don't have one already......forget abt the baby op talking like a 16year old girl[/q who says I dnt appreciate wat ma hubby does...of course I kno most men not even sum, dnt do half of wat he does...al am sayin is, its not normal nd dey shdnt pride demselves in it...I dnt get aw men feel relaxed even wen dey c their wives runnin frm d kitchen to d bedroom...well, I guess we r al entitled to our own opinion...nd dat applies to ppl who feel women like me dnt deserve a gud man...I wnt argue dat cos I av one already...nd I love him more for doin tinz dat an average nigerian man wil neva do for his wife

Truckpusher: Peeps like this OP ends up in a TRUCKPUSHER'S bedroom begging for love that doesn't exist

u can't even stand HIM

Paentera: Check out how twisted the thoughts of the OP is. She has major issues and is the type that runs from Church to Alfa, Babalawo to Spiritualist looking for solutions to problems she created.

stories dat touches...

JallowBah: I`m sorry, but this kinda writing is hard for me to understand.

Could you either write in better english, or maybe someone can translate it for me? I just get some of this, far from all..

u dnt av to undastand...as long as u undastand d flow of discussion...if u av sumtin contribute, do...if not f**k off

B4 I ad ma baby, I was told mesntrual pain wil stop as soon as I give birth...he's almost 2yrs nao, nd since ma menses resumed...its bin as painful as always....is dis normal?

JallowBah: ...how?



Probably getting their old mother to clean their dirty underwear, cook for them, clean for them..not good.

in dis days wen u can hardly find a well brot up maid and one dats not even possessed...nd bringin in family membas to live with u frm eida syd isn't an option eida....nd men dat r supposed to help er claimin men of d ause....u r def learners...women r wisin up abeg

Sumtyms I wonda aw dis men cope b4 dey got married...its ppl like dem dat kip a dirty room nd patronize mama bash's stupidly prepared meal...gosh!

Tanks jare ma broda...I av a naughty frd dats bin arguin it al day

bendazum: You seem to be the type that wants to bully her husband.WTF?!What insolence.This women emancipation has entered your brain.Your kind. marries A WEAKLING of a male they bully around.If you marry an African man, you bought it!

As for me I wouldn't mind helping my woman in the house but definitely not your kind. You take it like it's your right!
Even one girl vomited trash by saying that her man will be cooking for her.

gone r dose days wen I av tym for responses on nairaland...buh u c madea, forget bou women emancipation...I tink its only normal a man helps his wife...its not jst bou gender equality buh mayb ma background...I av such a lovin dad who wudnt allow ma mum ovastress hersef...dats minus d fact dat a bigger chunk of d financial stress is on him. For instance, he doesn't allow ma mum wake up at nyt to care for d baby as long has d baby's weaned...most nyt, I wake up nd see him in d livin room, carryin d baby on his chest or his neck...jst to lessen d stress for mummy...nd I can't rememba eva seein dem argue talkless fight...so u c, if u feel am talkin cos of waeva ur reasons, den u nid to get to sum homes...I dnt tink it remove anytin frm a man to help his wife out...yes, d wife shdnt take advantage of dat buh at d same tym...men shd learn to help more....wat do u say of men dat can't even cook...if their wife isn't dere, dey turn to mama bash n eateries...I dnt get african men...so complicated...God bless ma hubby thoe...he's a blessin to me*kissesdearie*

As a married woman, do u claim ur hubby's state of origin or stil retain urs

[quote author=busolayemi]pls tel em we r in d 22nd century...if I am sharing ur responsibility to make tins beta at home den u shd b sharing mine...its onli normal...if anyone tinks its not, den it al boils down to d way u see ur wife buh I tink a wife is a helpmate...not to carry d whole burden

JallowBah: He works, I works.
He pays, I pay ( house, food, bills. )
I buy my own beauty-things with my own money, he buys whatever he needs with his money.
I clean, he clean.
I cook, he cook.
I get up with the kid in the night, so does he. ( After breastfeeding stopped.. )Pls tel em its 22nd century...it used to b a man's world...not anymore. If I am sharin ur responsibilty to make us a beta family, den u shd b sharing mine with me...its only normal....nd I wudnt blame sum guys if dey feel its abnormal...I guess it all boils down to d way u c ur wife...

And for me, that is how I want it. I do not wish to go to my husband and ask for money for clothes, shoes, or a coffee for that matter. And I do not wish to put the whole responsibility for bills on him either.

pls tel em we r in d 22nd century...i

alutacontinua: how about u try to ignore him if u cannot stand him instead of those words up there, if he cums online nd sees that nd decides to drop his own, uknow dt's anoda journey to some e-bullies and e-fights.

wil c to dat...not jst d typ ni o...an eye for an eye tinz....buh d ignorin concept myt work...tanx thoe

alutacontinua: Jeez! easy naaaaa....... abeg, i no reach dis level

no, dis guy needs to b put in his place...sum idiots

@ Kingwax...ur jst sum annoyin nd disgustin piece of trash who's needs to b noticed...nd yes, u r noticed so parkwell. Nd ur supporter, well av not yet noticed u o...buh I tink ur followin a saddist...chk out his responses...he rily sound like a saddist. Now, to d issue at hand, I have a very caring husband who knos we both work n so knos well dat I nid d help. Wat I dnt get is, if u actually love a woman like u claim to, y allow n watch er crush unda d stress of housechores in d name of bein d head of d family....wats rong in helping er out on sum of dem Forget foreign n africa culture....we r al human...little wonda sum women looks like trash in 2yrs of marriage...is it easy ni? To takia of children, d home, d kitchen nd den a grown up man....I love ma man...God bless u for me....I dnt pray a memba of ma family fall victim of a man like kingmax...nd am so suo d idiot is an igbo man...dey c their wives as properties anyway....if u aint..den I tink u deserve an xplanatn frm ur mom...cos dat blood flows in u

sometime last week, I got into a discussion with a male friend of mine and the subject of discussion was that gone are the days when women sit at home to cater for children....These days, its a collective effort...now, that got me thinking if the financial responsibility at the home front is now shared...what happens to the domestic responsibilities....cos I know men who still insist their wife do their laundry and sum chores all in the name of being the man of the house...

fubbyy: lol... Must we date to get married?

again na yeye dey wori u

My younger sis is ss....and as I typ dis, she's having serious pain all over her bones and joints...doctors pls, wat can we do for er tonyt...she's already seen a doctor who prescribed drugs for...she's even done with d doses...d pains keep goin nd comim, movin from one part of er body to anoda...we r practically carrying er around d house and she's 13yrs...pls, comments

I av a younger sis who's ss...I want to kno wat and wat to do to avoid crisis for er

KINGwax: typical ashana. I think now, i undstnd. U mst av bilivd u're reasonable here, ugh?
It aint botherin u, yet u're lookin for answers.

na wa for ppl o....u sha ad to say sumtin abi I get u joor...tanx for d comment, nxt person pls

I need connections as pa baby wares frm uk....pls I need help