So I went for my first antinatal today....Doctor said it's either am far advanced than I tot (she said she felt 19wks), or I'm carrying multiple pregnancy or my baby is gonna b big....I dnt even kno if am happy about all dese sef....Dnt plan doin any scan just yet buh I guess I dnt rily av a choice.....anyway its good to kno evry oda tin is fine....Happy new year in adv

Beforre....yeye children dat wants to be worshipped for no reason....I'm out of ere jor

sweetroses: @TDN, busolayemi and others: please ignore those boys and face more important issues. They're not worth wasting time on.

U kno dis argument made me rememba a friend of mine...she's a nurse in one of the state hospitals around...and oh, she's got a husband...who's very very very comfortable financially buh yet does everytin in his power to make life easy for his wife...there are days wen d lady is on night shift at work....d husband takes care of their 7mnths old baby because accordin to him, he doesn't want to stress his wife...so d wife will end up droppin d baby gal with him....and most fridays wen d wife is on night, he comes to eat at our place on saturday mornin....cos, his wife is too weak to cook early in d mornin....there's no tym I chat wit dis lady dat she's not happy...she tells me 'if not for my lovin husband...' She doesn't take it for grante...she respects her husband so much....infact, it is so evident. See, it isn't just about money...cos dis guy is very okay...he jst got his wife a second car, he has his own house and all that...his business is goin very well....not as if he needs d wife's money....buh he supports his wife....he loves her so much, he doesn't want her stressed and d wife in return literarily worships him....he could afford a nanny, buh I overhead him tellin my husband he can neva bring a stranger into his house....yes, he might not be an ideal african man to a lot of guys ere...buh bottomline is...he's a wise man...he knows aw to make his woman happy and trust me, even he is happy. For d singles ere blabbin...I maintain, wait nd get into d system...u'll soon stat singin a difft song

And when ladies stat clamourin for men dat has houses in VGCn drives range rover and are very well establisehd...u stat blabbing that they are vain andask if their father had all those when he married their mums...well, I want to believe u r not married....until den, jst keep dreaming...u'll soon relaise their is a difft btw wat u feel and what is actually happenin....takia dear

scram: Hmmm madam abeg who send you message? And why you nor marry financially ok man? Last question: waitin you want make e happen now? What are you people gragging with men?

As for me life is not all about money. A man has many other roles to play in marriage apart from being the bread winner...

Uhmmmmm.....dis fight can never b over. dis whole tussle started d moment men couldn't b men anymore....d financial responsibilities in homes are now been shared...how do u expect a man to put on his suit and leave d house at 5.30, while d wife also does d same....and dey get back almost at d same tym in d evenin.... See, wether u like it or not, its neva goin to b like d days wen women sit at home all day while d man go out to look for daily bread....I'm a working married woman...and I jst know aw dis tin works.....Men, pls for the sake of peace in your house...understand that the times have changed....unless u want to carry d whole burden on ur head....I am not advocatin for women not submittin to their hubbies....buh pls, things have just changed. If I am helpin u with ur responsibility as a man....u sure shd be helpin me with mine....I tink dats jst wat women wants....all d best

Been a silent follower of this thread for a while now...infact, I tried reading frm d first post....from wen peace, arlington and Genbuhari started it...although I couldn't read thru all d post buh I read a great deal...I am happy for d testimonies have read here and even thoe I am not ttc...I av sumhow bcum a part of dis faith family...I must say my faith has been strenghtened through a lot of posts here...I pray dat even as God sent his son to dis world as a gift to mankind...he will give u ur own children...he will put smiles on ur faces...he will cause ur sorrows to turn to joy...May he give ears to prayers and may he cause his face to shine on u all...by dis time next year, u all wud b proud mothers of twins and triplets sef...God bless us all

Most of the posters here are single, d guys I mean...it is so easy for u to come here and run ur mouth wen u r actually not in d system...why not wait and b married...nd den truthfully come here and tell us what's happenin in ur home. D children always suffer from broken home....and so, it is jst d woman dat suffers it shey?.....Not everytin is like it seems...a lot of men will not tell u d emotional pain they go tru in d hands of their wives....I maintain, submission is to be earned...I got marries in my mid 20s...My husband and I were both young buh very well educated....He knew better than to xpect submission without earnin it...He treats me like his queen nd I treat him like my king....if he decides to take advice frm small boys like u guys ere today....nd stat d I am d man battle at home....oh yes, I will definetely change too. Buh like I said, I kno him too well......so my dears, go sit at d laps of ur fathers again, let dem enlighten u, let dem tell u wat dey did dat made their marriages work (for dose of u dat av educated parents o). Cos ur illiterate father will tell u a woman does not av a voice...she shd do wat her man commands...dat era is gone, like seriously....cheers

Gone are d days wen 'ur marriage will hit d rocks makes women fret'....so wat if a marriage hits d rock...is dat d end of a woman's life...Yeye dey worry una....earn ur woman's submission my dear...it doesn't jst cum....all you men shoutin for submission...aw many of u respects ur wife...aw many of u takes up his responsibilities like he should...how many of u can even boast of not havin xtra marital affairs...nd u want submission...do ur part dearest nd we women aint daft...we kno aw to keep GOOD MEN...not shallow minded ones

Mister...I am not sayin a woman shd not submit to d hubby....dats if a lot of men actually kno wat d meanin of submission is....buh it shd be earned not automatic...okay, so because u brot me to live under ur roof nao...its enuf reason to submit to u even if u dnt deserve it....what makes u tink a woman cannot do well on her own without her comin under ur roof...it is more dan just paying birde price and bringin her under ur roof...respect her as ur wife, treat her well, dnt bring her down, let her kno she isn't less to u, let her kno she's a partner and not a slave...nd automatically, d submission cums without u askin sef...

njokusboy:

Lolzz, my friend go to sleep..Define barbaric actions?? Did this thread say it was owk for men to beat up women So you now want to disagree with the teachings of the scriptures because you are supposedly getting wiser If saying women should be submissive to their husbands or be more humble makes a man ignorant and chauvinistic then what does that make you who advocates and encourages divorce Morally bankrupt, arrogant and totally confused I guess... So a man pays ur bride price, brings you into his home and you don't think dat is enough reason to respect him even if the biblical injunctions are nothing to go by... Its because your mother was submissive to ur father and you are not from a broken home, dat is why you are so bold coming here to talk what you know little or nothing about... Go and interview kids from broken homes, maybe you would get a clue...

Mister...I dnt kno if u r married or not....but dear, from experience, d best way to earn a woman's submission is to earn it...u can force it buh trust me, it can neva b like....Let a waman submit to u on her own will....I submit to my husband because he respects my opinion nd I also respect his....he's not married to sum daft, half baked idiots, so he knos he can always count on my opinion....buh if u want a woman u can toss about...nd jst impose ur opinion on, nd she wudnt dare say nothin....den u r good to go. If u want a woman dat will add to u...be ready to drop ur silly ego nd stat seeing her as a partner....else, ur marriage will only hit d rock.

njokusboy: Lolzz, so much ignorance on dis thread... Too bad I wasn't around.. Chai... According to one funny lady, divorce now means women are smarter.. Hahahaha.. I guess gay marrige also means we are getting wiser.. Its no fault of ours that African women are so desperate for marriage, they don't wanna be single, speak for urselfs and not for everybody... Even una wey dey form strong women, by the time you get to 35 nd don't find a husband, you'd understand what I am saying... Now, you expect a man to be the one to woo you, come see your parents, propose and bring you into his house and not respect him because he still has to earn it after doing all that.... What shallowness... Read the bible carefully, maybe you may want to take ur grudges to God or you can start by proposing to the man instead and giving him the option of turning you down... The man has to always take the bull by the horn, when he does that, women do not complain, all of a sudden he requires humility and respect from you and some wannabe activists are screaming foul play...

I'm an happily married woman mysef...and I'll tell u dat submission frm a woman can never come until d man learns to lead by example...every responsible woman will find it VERY EASY to submit nd b humble to a responsible man...it isn't about gender equality buh I tink for once, d attention should shift from women submitin to men being responsible....I maintain dat tins av changed....women nao know better dan to stay in a marriage where they stand nothin to gain than children and dats why d divorce rate is gettin higher....its only goin to get worse until men start to realise the typ of women outside nao av a better mentality dan their mothers...cheers

Felt my baby's movement for d first tym all day today....not kicks thoe, just like d baby's turnin....dat was afta a good meal in d mornin....it's kind of early to me...my first didn't stat movin until like 5mnths....what do u tink....am just 15weeks gone....congrats to GenB

Congrats Esmeralda...He's God..he isn't man...May ur princess make u hapi evry day of ur life....hugs nd kisses to d baby

Mothers pls...iv got boil in my armpit...rily hurts....I dnt want to use antibiotics....wat can I use pls....15wks gone

I'm 14weeks gone...I avnt started anti natal yet and d only drugs am taking rite now are dr meyer's folic acid and ferous. It's my second thoe...I hope am okay with dat for now....Congrats to new xpecting modas and new modas in the house...God bless us all and make delivery stressless

I've been feeling very well since I got preggy....exept for occasional nausea....I dnt want to go tru cs like I did for my first born who's alnmost 3yrs now but let only God's will be done.....congrats to new mothers...God protect ur bundles of joy

Hey mamas...I op I'm welcomed into d forum...I'm 14wks gone nd it's my second. My first was tru cs and av been rejecting it for dis one....I avnt started anti natal buh am takin my folic acids well...will stat anti natal soon thoe...d first trimester has been a jolly ride....no stress at all....nd I seriously want a baby girl...like seriously

Good!!!

D onli tin dat remains permanent in lie is change....men shd understand dat d typ of women outside nowadays are different frm 'our grandmas' age....back den, dose women do nxt to nothin other dan cook nd satisfy d men at nyt...buh these days, sum women even go out earlier dan their husbands jst to ensure dat d account balances at d end of d month....all in d interest of d family...so it beholds on d men to also change....or else like I said, its onli goin to geh worse. No sane woman will take it...to take over part of d man's duty, nd stil do her own duies 100percent....who's kidding who?? Nd pls dnt tell me its d govt cos most men outside dere understands dat no mata how little a woman's income is, it's doin its part. Not dis days wen a kindergarten pupils pays hundreds of thousands per term....like I said, una just stat. Soon, u people will stat gettin ur aprons and goin to d kitchen...wen una neck wan long finish.....

Pls I need a step proceedure for cooking fried rice....anytime I cook, it always cum out not too nice...tnx in anticipation

Nd wat makes u tink goin bak to d drawing board is onli a woman's responsibilities.....itKs only goin to get worse my dear, as long as men decide to overburden women with housechores in d name of ego....buh my own home will definetely get better....una just stat

I used Ytacan for my son den....I mix it wit his shaebutter as body cream.....and he neva ad all dat...as per d boil, well I tink a doctor will help better....I kno baby ampiclox work well for boils....baby sorry ehen...God's hand is on u

I am a married woman...and I av cum to understand dat submission without an unconditional love on d part of d hubby is 100percent impossible...unless u r married to a 17th century woman...woman who doesn't kno wat she carries in d inside of her. No one says an educated woman shd disregard d hubby, buh my point, women are getting wiser by d day...nd d little tins dat neva mattered to our mothers now matter to us jst like d little tins dat neva mattered to our fathers nao matter to our hubby. A WOMAN DOES NOT GET TO DO THE WHOLE HOUSEWORK while d man fondles with tabs and iphones....it doesn't work dat way. I respect my husband and submit to him as much as he shows he love me nd I cum first. If u feel helping a woman out with housechores is sumtin dt brings down ur ego...den pls, wen ur wife stat actin up....she's hasn't committed a crime. Especially in homes where financial responsibilities are shared whc unfortunately is d case in most home....

Pls can u put me thru....my doesn't even get hot wen I put d oven on...*confused jare*

Qbaba:
We use it. The oven uses electricity and not gas. When plugged,there's a nub that controls the heat.

B4 a woman will actually wake up one day and stat tinkin of gettin a piece of land and buildin on it without d hubby's consent....all is not well. And pls, dnt b so quick at condemnin the woman. As so not normal as it is, most times, its always d man's fault. If I discover that my man is the 'I'm not tinkin about tomoro type', I can do it.....especially if he has the money but he's not jst tinkin of tomoro...well, I may never tell him to move into the house...buh at least I'll b gettin moni frm it by renting it out....Dat myt even prompt him to stat tinkin of buuildin his own house too....Some men are jst funny with the way they spend....No thot for d future at all

See network issue....pls I need maternity gowns sewn with ankara....Godbless

Pls

I tink dats d picture...got d news yesterday....RIP bro....I'm alive today cos God kept me...I'm here today only because of his grace....God has kept me and I'm grateful....I com against any spirit of death or accident...it aint my portion...I won't die in my prime...I will live to testify of God's faithfulness....AMEN

Haaaa...tank God, av been checkin every 2mins for a response...tanx jare

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