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@ Topic, Keep consoling ursef. Thats a silly and stupid excuse made by cowards!

sbucareer:

hmmm!!! You are the only one that know the answer to this. Why do you allow someone you just meet to "deflower" you whilst you have a boyfriend you love? I cannot understand your logic in this.

If you ask me, you have already made your choice of the person that you want to sleep or not and that was excluding your boyfriend you love. You can NEVER say you love two people. People that say they love two people are confused. When it comes to choice they know who to choose between the two.

Well said.

U gotta tell your guy the truth first and both of u need to decide. He has to decide if he still wants to stay with u and u gotta decide if u want to stay with the guy u just met.

STUPID THING TO DO, BUT TOUGH LUCK!!!

candylips:
this guy is f u c k i n g hilarious. dude do u know i can tap your number. u just don't go around posting your number all over the net thats dangerous dude

beats me.

cause of circumstances and the fact that they are left with no choice.

don't blame em!

its obviously Guys,

why keep bringin this topic up?

Donzman:
People God will punish, the list is LONG!

very, very LONG!

English1:
Just mind your own business.

u took that right outta ma mouth.

MIND YOUR BUSINESS. This is all nuthing but a ball of they say, they say, my friend, and his ex and my friend,s buddy. Is there more that u're not telling us??

all of the above.

well, maybe u shld give him space to reminisce enuff bout his late gurlfriend.

maybe y'all did rush into the relationship, u can't blame him, he's just going thru a hard and tough time.

either u stick with him, help him get over it or just call it quits, no point regreting!

Ugwumba:
sometimes, what one needs is not advice but deliverance.

1. Fell in love in just a week- deliverance from the 'spirit' of weekly love.
2. Had unprotected sex with a guy you just met (and the first time) - deliverance from the 'spirit' of 'quickie'.
3. Had the audacity to tell him over the phone, then cry and plead - deliverance from the 'spirit' of stupidity.
4. Now contemplating whether to have an abortion - deliverance from the 'spirit' of murdering an innocent foetus.

have no sympathy whatsoever for those who consciously tread on theirs and others emotions.

LMAO.
Nairaland will surely not kill me oh, lol

@ Titi, coming here, pple will only critize u and make u feel bad, i'll advise u take bhola's email, add her up, she seems like a really nice gurl and willing to go thru this with u. U can add me up too (kissinbird@hotmail.com) hopfully, i can help u in which ever way i can but one thing for sure is that no guy is worth the stress and like someone said earlier "wateva the decision u make, make sure its for u and not for any guy"

all the best and hopfully, i'll here back from u soonest. Take care hun!

@ topic,

LMAO, ma tummy will burst oh!

u crazy?

almost forgot u started the topic.

as for u teaching me, I'll pass on that, not really interested in kissin to please someone. Thanks tho.

and hmmm

@ jay baby

Maybe thats the way u see it, no guy is worth that much trouble.

took u that long to realised it?

don't get it, is there sth u're not telling us?

wat exactly do u mean by gettin "arrested" or "treasure" ??

dos this really work?

pretend like i wanna go to the washroom, get his number and hook with him later

better not to in the first place.

honestly, can't help it but laugh

don't blame her, she's just to embarassed to face u, she'll come around.

doesn't it?

can someone please simplify the topic for me, just find it hard to read or understand.

Just love masef the way I am, bodywise

but i wish i could be a little mean, as in wicked and heartless, I think i am tooooooo lenient.

and thats the great news

just did

AMEN oh