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joeydozzy: And I intend to prove my point

that makes no bloody sense.. you say most girls dont have sense because some "women" you know will pick Kobe and then you say oh wait everyone is entitled to their opinion and then you intend to prove your point.. there is a logical gap somewhere... either way im out

joeydozzy: All this beef for one guy. Let other ladies speak for themselves. I think your opinion is clear about him but pple even guys fall heavens all over him and carmelo even rajon

You started it..lol

joeydozzy: girls here seriously don't have taste. Most girls I know pick kobe bryant to any other person

Kobe?? are you high?
not only is he an unconfirmed rapist
but i bet the man is as selfish as he is on the court- it will always be the kobe show
his team mates have issues with him
a well known philanderer
he is a certified dumbass.. which man at his financial height doesnt have a pre-nup
heck even his own wife after 10 years of marriage and a few kids doesnt want him

I mean add 5 languages and the ability to play the piano quite well and averaging triple doubles like there is no tom
Most NBA figures are shits.. if we are dealing with shits lets atleast pick the lower shits...lol

Dude! Carmelo Anthony?? Cmon add defensive skills to offensive prowess. and those shoulders are absolutely stunning... go for Dwight Howard

its not like the country is going to hell in a handbasket or anything
or the fact that it has regressed over the last 17 years and is the laughing stock of nations
by all means lets deal with the problem at the very forefront .. chieftaincy titles...
#nowonderwearefucked

OK/2/NV:
Your's as well but I bet she was on a low level.
stop being a white knight to these whores, you are after all just another customer

I'm sorry but lets try this again with proper grammar and punctuation... and my suggestion.. stop playing in the gutter and move into the civilized world.. women might just surprise you..
sad to hear your mother was a skank but hey you deal with the cards your dealt

by virtue of your reasoning that includes your mother right?

Lol
Nice post- the sad sad reality is that this thinking reflects a large amount of men in our nation..

ARE YOU HIGH??

ok on a serious note... well go for the married man.. and then you can come back and post on how he has decided to take a third wife...
Ok again sarcasm ran away from me...
None of them are good enough for you
Do you... and then find someone who appreciates for yourself..
and a guy saying you should wear heels? its not like he is attacking your essence... perhaps he just likes women in heels... again I digress
Forget them both, focus on educating yourself

BRILLIANT! absolutely brilliant!
I'm glad my parents took that route and now im an independent woman of 25.
called to bar in England and wales, working on being called in Canada
also work as an assistant professor during the summer

My parents are firm believers in you taking the bull by the horns and your hard work will speak for itself. Unlike some of my other Nigerian counterparts that are more interested in going around with Gucci purses, their brazillian weaves (not that looking good is bad... but honestly that is their biggest problem) and flying first class to travel on vacations and so on. they have no jobs and dont take education that seriously..
parents are supposed to equip their children with tools to take on the world and most Nigerians are doing a disservice to their kids

If the husband has been messing around and you want to die of AIDS at the worst or gain some STD at the least
More power to you...
Of course he should freaking wear protection...
If you die who will take care of the children? oh yeah of course the wonderful husband who loves his family so much he is willing to compromise his life and theirs for some sex... hisss

because of your face?? lol
or maybe its because they can spot your type and intentions from afar..
and for the record most white women wont touch you with a ten foot pole.. why? sure they'll Bleep you because " like OMG i LIKE TOTALLY HEARD THAT LIKE AFRICAN MAN LIKE HAVE LIKE MASSIVE........" But for it to be anything more substantial... dream on.. why ? because to them your just a ******
Racism abounds people.. Ive never fathomed the self hate that would make people put others that hate them on a pedestal.. but hey everyone gets to live life as they choose.. the awesomeness of freedom of choice..

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Fulaman198: Then that marriage is not based around love if something changed within the socio-economic frame.

A marriage should be based around these fundamental things in the following order:

1. God
2. Love
3. Stability (socio-economic related things)

If God and Love are not more important than #3 then there should be no marriage. God and Love is supposed to get a couple through the tough and bitter. However, people marry for the wrong reasons these days without even thinking why they marry the person.

you missed the entire point... and no one says marriages should not encompass the three and more. but either way im out

LOl who manufactured this utter pack of lies Jokers..

luckgames: Don't let that discourage you
Men cheat of all race, color and nationality look at (Clinton, Edward, Stanford and Schwarzenegger)

I totally agree.. Im a realist and im quite aware that cheating is an issue that run across all races and nation. The only thing that is quite troubling with the Nigerian experience is that it seems to be condoned. Its like well he cheated.. you have no recourse continue with life as it is. Especially because divorce still remains a stigma on women despite the dire circumstances they find themselves in.

Fulaman198: I love how this thread is full of broad generalizations.

It is the woman's fault for marrying a man that cheats if you did. You must first ask yourself why did you get involved with this person in the first place?

See the thing about the way the world works is that the brain works with generalizations. Particularly as a way to act as a short cut, ordering process. Look up Walter Lippman.. you prove it by your own post by saying.. "It is the woman's fault for marrying a man that cheats if you did. You must first ask yourself why did you get involved with this person in the first place? "

That's a broad generalization if I have ever heard one. Infact that's the motherload of them all

Did it occur to you that there are situations where women are not given the chance to choose?
That perhaps a change in the socio-economic frame of the marriage is to blame?
That the widespread acceptance of the cheating as permissible could have played a role??
perhaps the man is just a dirty low down snake
There is unhappiness in the marriage due to neglect or abuse


See my point?

It is also beyond me why people think "nerds" are a bad thing
Give me a well educated geeky guy any day over a brainless brawny one.
Laugh at nerds all you want yet they have the biggest revenge- why because they have created most of the comforts we enjoy too
I bet people laughed at Einstein,Newton, Bohr, Eddison,Koch, MAxwell, Bardeen, Bill Gates,Steve Jobs... you get my drift... see where they ended up
Just my two cents

luckgames: [color=#990000]

Nigerian Women cheat big time too
From Old woman in the past to young women of today
Apple doesn't fall too far from the tree

That my be so... but the issue is that if she gets caught.. its pretty much game over.. she can say good bye to her kids, her home and so.. A man cheats.. its business as usual back home and dont pretend otherwise.. and as the woman you are just supposed to take it.. because it is what men do... you know very well its true..
I initially decided that I would marry a Nigerian for sure.. but now im not so sure..

Any sane Nigerian woman should be very afraid of marriage
Given our sexist traditions that still are the norm
and the apparent stamp of approval on cheating
not to mention the lack of legal protections if it all goes haywire

Unfucking believable.. this useless piece of shit should be dropped in the Sahara and left to rot

Not sure the kind of thrash you hang around..
Do yourself a favor and move to more respectable areas

You dont support football or play into it and yet you are creating a thread about it- kinda counterproductive dont you think?

So undignified.. Im ashamed to claim him as a president. It's become a laughable matter when people refer to him outside Nigeria.. yeesh

Devil May Cry and Final Fantasy 7.. going old school lol

My advice to childish boys masquerading as Males

Keep your opinion to yourself especially when its from a pure chauvinistic perspective
If your not speaking with wisdom and grace do us a favour and STFU
Let the woman make the decisions for you clearly as your frontal cortex is not well developed yet and hence idiotic posts like this,
Do as you are told ^ ibid ^
Ask for permission when you want to do something ^ ibid^ cos lets face it anything you will do will end up in a clusterfuck which we women have to fix
Speak only when you are spoken too especially when we are among st civilized educated people.. cant have your backward way of thinking affect our stature in society
Men and women are not equal- Damn straight! we may be the fairer sex but lets face it, they are the more intelligent.. we'll leave the wood cutting to you... let us deal with the more sophisticated matter
A woman's place is behind her man- Damn straight- that's because someone always has to prop you up and make sure you don't trip over your feet. Clutz
A woman's role is to be a servant- Sure as hell feels like it when you have to mother around an individual with an IQ of under 50
Your only job is to perform housekeeping duties- Someone has to take care of the mess that sloths like you make
Sex- who wont say no to sex- your job is to work on your technique and pleasure us
Children- with your IQ- please more like invalids- we will pass

Crap a tub of Ben and Jerry's dominate it
Go out with your friends and have a good time
you got played but that doesnt mean life ends
you better off without that douchebag anyways.. i saw where there is smoke there is always fire... i can only imagine what he is saying to her about you
Celebrate chica! you dodged a bullet!! time for you and someone who appreciates you for all of who you are x

Listen life is too short to make a man the centre of your world like you did
This man clearly does not give two shits about you... im sorry to say that so harshly but its true,.. is that the basis of what you want a future serious relationship to be? even marriage?? and they way he talks about the other girls so callously to you... ever think about how he talks about you to them.. Honey and for a man to seize your phone?? thats utter disrespectful..leave that caveman alone... this man sees you as a willing slave he can control. Get out, find a man that loves you for you... and take you time there is no rush. its better to do things the right way.. Move on!!! thats harder said than done but if you dont love you 100% who else will.