doll912:


Oga, just say you won't spend money and let's hear word. Speak for yourself... a man marries what he wants and you can't judge.... be there forming wise....if you like quote me and say whatever... I'm above the radar.

Dis one don take am personal.

Have you fu**cked her?if yes then keep her as your sex object but,at first you caused it by taking her to fast food joint each time you want to see ba una be those maga wey dey spoil them.


Wetin I wan go do for fast food when I wan see woman wey better beer joints full every where?

like this...

dollyjoy:
To all those advising the op to dump his girlfriend, breakups doesn't occur that way, breaking up should be op's last resolve if all means of correction fails.

Dem dey correct one chance?

So we still get guys wey still dey give women money for this period of economic melt down?

hahahahaha,in this buhari regime

ikp120:
A committed maga has been spotted!

Pls tell me, is this your girlfriend Oyindamola?

More like my Ex!

luminouz:

But since Ur a sycophanticgoat....u can only bleat...yeah?

Being a goat is better than being you tho..

amanze15:
women and food, the way to their heart we neglect

Na so

Beautiful girl.... you enticed one with fast foods and now you want her to be impressed by your character....but she doesn't care a damn. Bro.... you want to change the spots of the leopard? Good luck.

snaiper:
hahahahaha,in this buhari regime

Lolzzz

snaiper:
hahahahaha,in this buhari regime

Lolzzz

SycophanticGoat:


Being a goat is better than being you tho..

Lmao

mofeoluwadassah:
Jxt tell her ur mind nd see hw she ll react

Abi! Too many talk here. Maybe na small money the OP Don even spend. Men like us that have spent millions don't even say.

If u continue now... just hope on say... she will sell u and use the money to buy launch.... thats not a house material. Its ashana. Give her run

IamMissMarvel:
You are dating a girl and not a woman. Shikenan.

A woman would use the money you would have spent on fast food to cook you two or three different small portioned soups.

As a means of your appreciation, you'll buy her gifts even without her demanding it.

Most fast food and gifts demanding girls are unemployed so the only means to having their way is with men who are drooling after them.

Who fine geh help? Marry a woman who will add value to your life first, spiritually, intellectually, emotionally and finamcially by helping u save.

That one no mean say u go be aradite o. No woman wants to marry a stingy man or one who can't maintain her standard or improve it.

chai, See better wife here o.. and me never reach to marry, make I run go show my uncle this post... errrm, ma are you still available?

dump her broke a$$... most Nigerian girls are like that anyway...thunder fire all of una

Na Buhari course am joor. Keep on doing good Samaritan.

Mayflowa:


Abi! Too many talk here. Maybe na small money the OP Don even spend. Men like us that have spent millions don't even say.

lol.....so u've spent millions on a lady.how?

I can't say maybe she has anyone else apart from you but as for me you are an aboki.she doesn't even like you not to talk of love you.how can you be thinking of marrying a girl like that.

IamMissMarvel:
You are dating a girl and not a woman. Shikenan.

A woman would use the money you would have spent on fast food to cook you two or three different small portioned soups.

As a means of your appreciation, you'll buy her gifts even without her demanding it.

Most fast food and gifts demanding girls are unemployed so the only means to having their way is with men who are drooling after them.

Who fine geh help? Marry a woman who will add value to your life first, spiritually, intellectually, emotionally and finamcially by helping u save.

That one no mean say u go be aradite o. No woman wants to marry a stingy man or one who can't maintain her standard or improve it.

Nicely said... Am Impressed.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

You don't need to be told a thing!

Man u caused it from the onset .u gave her the impression that there is enough Cash to spend. Sorry Bro but u just have to run for your dear Life. U won play with these wicked generation of naija girls .I pity u

luminouz:

Why won't she call u? U think anyone would be happy to lose their ATM? Coz Ur an investment to her bro!

Now this is Legendary

Bros, stop the fast food and money spending, that is when you will know the real her. Keep her in the dark for some weeks and see her reactions. Point blank girls of her attitude have other guys in the corner. Don't waste your time, money and energy on something that doesn't worth it. If am in your shoes my dear the relationship is dead and buried. I rather invest my money while single than build a relationship that will amount to nothing in future.

That's one one babe misplaced her phone and she's subtly insulting for not buying her another phone yet. Irrespective of whether I can afford it or not Me that I've broken up with her in my mind.

mofeoluwadassah:
lol.....so u've spent millions on a lady.how?

lol..but its true. Buy her a car

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

Son, the answers/advice you seek, are already in your heart and manifest all through your essay from beginning to end. Have the courage and strength of character to do what you already know you must do, assuming you want to live a long life.

A word of advice....
Run away from her as fast as u can!

dollyjoy:
They probably request for money that way because you presented the image of a wealthy guy before then, to impress i think!

You might be correct... the fact still remain that most girs see dating as a means of lively- hood and better monetary package from their guy. It's just what society has made them believe.

gedtalks:


Thanks bro.. but she calls me often on phone.. and feels bad when I don't call.

Yawns.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

1. You are considering getting married to her
2. She requests money
3. She requests fast food

The real issues are as follows:

1. What stage of life is the guy: do you have a place of your own to host her, where she can enter your kitchen to cook?

2. What stage of life is the lady: does she have a means of livelihood which can cater to her needs, or is she low on cash at the moment.

I don't subscribe to the stereotype that girls are about money and fast food. Firstly, fast foods are cheap, so you are not such a big boy. She may like the ambience because that is the only privacy within your means.

Also, about her request for money. She may have pressing need for cash. Who is to say that she would not be a Minister of Finance in future and remember you?

It is rather arrogant of you to place her matter up for public ridicule. You are childish and inexperienced.

Grow up.