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TravelRe: Burkina Faso: The Journey Of No Return by butterfly55(f): 4:38pm On Jan 18
Seriously this trafficking thing is all over francophone African countries especially in the northern part of those countries. Same thing happening in Parakou at Benin republic. I have heard several people tell their stories about those Parakou jobs. Same format with this Burkina faso thing. Some will even go as far as posting remote jobs like Customer care specialist, Virtual assistant and all that, and tag the salaries from 300 thousand cfa upwards. It's crazy. May God help us all.
EducationRe: Abuja Parents Who Slapped Teacher Release Statement by butterfly55(f): 3:32am On Nov 17, 2025
MarkNsukkaBread:
It's better for you to open your own school for your children at home.

You cannot send badly behaved children to school where they will go and act as negative influence on other kids then expect the teachers not to discipline them!
It's only in this part of the world that people tolerate nonsense. That's why they will remain backwards. Try beating a child in the western world especially another person's child. Discipline doesn't mean you have to beat the child.
EducationRe: Abuja Parents Who Slapped Teacher Release Statement by butterfly55(f): 5:28pm On Nov 16, 2025
No one has any right to beat another person's child, especially not the teacher. You either report the child misconduct to the parents, to discipline their child by themselves. If you as a teacher raise a hand on my child, I will come for you with everything I got. I pay you money to teach my child knowledge, not to beat them. If you can't handle children without beating them, then you are no fit to be a teacher. You can beat your own children the way you like, don't beat mine!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Looking For A Website Content Uploader by butterfly55(f): 6:55am On Nov 14, 2025
phrances17:
I am looking for a reliable person to post content on a website every day, including Saturdays and sometimes odd hours.

The task is mainly copy and paste, so there is no heavy thinking or writing required. A laptop and stable power supply is needed for this job. It is fully remote, requires 3hrs or less of your time daily depending on how fast you're.

The person must be fast, detail-oriented, and meet deadlines consistently. You must be available to start today.

Please if you have a job already, or you won't be committed wholeheartedly to this cause, DO NOT APPLY.

This role has been filled. Thank you.
Is the job still available?
TravelRe: My Ghana Journey, Experience, Lessons And Facts. by butterfly55(f): 11:11am On May 28, 2025
divinetouch24:
Can you still make it tomorrow..

Here's how my journey will go

From Ikorodu To Mile 2 Waterside. I'll join a ferry to Port Novo (2hours on water). Then pick a car from Port Novo To Aflao (Ghana Togo Border)..


Did you guys made the journey?
How much is transport fare from Port Novo to Aflao?
Not Spending Up To #100,000 for Transport on this Trip
HealthRe: Jago Villagers In Oyo Celebrate First Toilet After 183 Years by butterfly55(f): 7:07am On Oct 31, 2024
Speechless I am!

This 2024, some people don't know what toilet is! Some has not seen toilet in their entire life...... Incredible!!!

And they go to school there to get education? After all the qualifications, they can't develop their villages? Is there even a modernized individual houses there?

No wonder they wanted to start teaching mathematics in yoruba language. God have mercy!
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Gifts His Musicians Six New Cars by butterfly55(f): 8:14pm On May 10, 2024
The man has a youtube channel with many viewers and subscribers. His content is prayers and no matter what anyone says, prayers work.

He makes money from his online prayer channel. Also people that prayed with him and saw genuine results shows appreciation to him.

I streamed his prayers most times during my pregnancy journey and it was marvelous. The problem is there are so many fake religious leaders that it is so difficult to know the genuine ones.

Some even started genuinely and lost their way once money started flowing into their accounts. At last it takes wisdom and discernment to know who to listen to this days.
CelebritiesRe: Your First Salary Belongs To Your Father, Not Pastor - Actor Kanayo by butterfly55(f): 1:01pm On May 10, 2024
Kanayo is right. The blessings your father will give you will stand with you all your life. I'm a living testimony.
RomanceRe: Men Can You Marry A Lady With Too Many Tattoos: see picture by butterfly55(f): 9:12am On May 10, 2024
Everyone should stick to what works for them. Men that like her personality will still marry her.

Tattoo, leg chains, nose rings, piercing, waist beads, colored hairs doesn't completely define a person.

Everyone has their own insecurities and choose how to deal with them. Pop culture and body rebelling has come to stay.

No need to be judging anyone. Everyone still has their prejudice but like I said you stick to what works for you. One man's food is another man's poison.

I'm happily married and I wear my leg chains, nose rings and waist beads. My husband like them. I used to wear them before I met him and his parents welcomed me like their own child. Today I'm a mom of one and we are still counting our blessings. Wearing all those things doesn't make me a bad person. Also it doesn't make my husband and my in-laws stupid for accepting them.

Most people that doesn't even wear those things are worse than the ones that wear them. So discern wisely, don't condemn people based on appearance. Peace!
CrimeRe: Nigerian Arrested At Thai Airport After Swallowing 69 Packages Of Drugs (Pics) by butterfly55(f): 12:05pm On Mar 27, 2024
Odogwu na Thailand dem!!
LiteratureRe: Number 225 Katakata Street by butterfly55(f): 3:14pm On Jan 07, 2024
Centino:
Nor tempt me bros. For you, YINKS89, tsharp and a some others I'll probably keep writing. But had to kill off my favorite character to make sure I don't come back. The story had become my life. Even when I wasn't writing it I was writing it. Will do many more in my life time but 225 Katakata Street will always have a special place.
Well done Centino! This story is one of the best I read since Sophocles. The ending is perfection. Mr Cosmas could not have been a normal human. He seemed to be operating on a higher plane. Always the voice of reason. More like an angel that came to offer guidance and borrowed a human form to do so. Thanks so much Centino. More ink to your pen!
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CultureRe: What Is Agwù In Igbo Tradition? by butterfly55(f):
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Car TalkRe: Nigerian Man Spotted Using Palm Oil As Lubricant For His Motorcycle by butterfly55(f): 4:32pm On Nov 02, 2023
Man must find a way out of every situation.
Every way na way!!!!
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by butterfly55(f): 1:53pm On Oct 30, 2023
All these people relocating, have you all rented out your apartments? Or have you all expired your rents? I need an apartment from someone relocating. I'm in Lagos. I don't have money for agency and agreement.
PropertiesRe: Relocation Sales by butterfly55(f): 1:41pm On Oct 30, 2023
What of your apartment? Has someone rented it already?
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by butterfly55(f): 8:52am On Oct 29, 2023
Fineire:
Bs!! Bs!!Bs!!
The summary of our birth story is...Gracified !
Pregnancy journey was quite eventful. My mouth was constantly salivating, couldn't keep food down in the 1st trimester,so i fed majorly on fruits(ah! water melon,mango,cucumber and garden egg came to the rescue). To control saliva when at work or in public,I had olive fruit in my mouth until it stopped working for me. But through it all, I enjoyed good health.
Did I mention I could not stand smells?(Good smell).This lasted till after delivery self.
Fast forward to 35 weeks, started having off and on contractions and I was happy,thinking it's a sign that baby wants to come early unlike my previous pregnancy that lasted for 41weeks and few days. But I guess my mind was playing on me.
Went for antenatal on the 24th of October and after I was attended to, the matron said she would advice I do a membrane sweep to force start labour. According to her the scan I did at 36 weeks shows that baby is already 3.6kg, and I am now 39 weeks(three weeks after scan,baby would have gained more weight) + my first baby weighed 3.9kg so there is every possibility that this baby will also be big or even bigger. ( The shalaye is sha too much). So immediately she met with the Dr...she explained her reasons for her decision to the Dr and the both saw reasons. Who are my to say no! Besides the idea of putting to birth soonest made so much sense cause I was already tired.
Membrane sweep was done around 9:30 am that same day. I was asked to go home and return for observation in 4hrs. By the time I returned to the hospital around 1:30pm.I was 3cm gone already. I thought it was good progress. The midwife sha did another membrane sweep again and wanted to admit me since the progress is fast but I declined.So was told to return in another 4hrs if contractions is bearable. When I got to the hospital around 6pm, I was told I was still at 3cm and this could even be false and just be an opening as a result of hand entry for the sweep.( At this point I was not finding the back and forth drama funny.I was having contractions and the intensity was on an increase yet you are telling me you are not sure what I am feeling is genuine. At this point,the asked that if labour does not progress in the cause of the night,I should do a biophysical scan and bring the result to the hospital the following day. The outcome of the result will determine if the can induce me or will do a Ceserean section to bring baby out.
When I returned home that night,the discomfort was on a high,so I decided to walk around. Did this for more than 2hours and finally went to bed. At a point, it seemed the whole contractions buhaha stopped and I was getting worried already. At about 4 am in the morning, contractions returned in full force. Was having 2 contractions in 5 minutes, membrane ruptured after the 1st four contractions, immediately I saw mucus plug. I knew we needed to be on our way to the hospital. Yet, I didn't want to get there too early(I felt I have had enough varginal examinations already). When we finally arrived the hospital around 4:30 am, I was told I was 7cm dilated. The speed at which the were attending to me,I thought baby would be out in less than 10 minutes but that was not the case.
When I finally got to 10 cm,I was told that my lip was yet to give way,so I should hold on and try as much as possible not to push. My dear,this was the hardest part, because the pain was almost unbearable. I was at this point for almost 15 minutes.
Finally at 6:12am, our bundle of joy came forth, in a melodious tune and at that moment I forgot the whole pain I was feeling or had felt. Placenta followed 8 minutes later. Grace started it,Grace sustained it and Grace completes it!
Wishing every preggy on this group safe and easy delivery. Cappo Sunbestie, bs submitted!
Congratulations Mama! All Glory to God!
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by butterfly55(f): 10:35pm On Oct 25, 2023
jjaney:
Thank you. I am glad the story is helpful and uplifting for you. All the nausea and other things you feel will subside gradually, it's all part of the process. You will testify at the end of it by God's grace.
Amen and Amen! I'm still going through the nausea and cramps but not much like before. The first trimester has really no remedy. Thank you very much for reaching out to me. Also I'm so glad I found this trend.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by butterfly55(f): 4:01am On Oct 19, 2023
jjaney:
BA/BS!!!

Sorry for the late BS, there's been so much to do with little time.

First trimester:
I took in in January. I was preparing for Sunday church service one morning and I noticed I couldn't stand for long. I was breathless and I had to sit down after standing for some minutes. That's when I suspected I had taken in and I did a test to confirm. So, the first trimester was full of morning sickness. I have heard a lot of people say that second pregnancy is usually less stressful than the first and I thought it would be like that, but it wasn't. I vomited a lot. I could barely eat what I prepared myself and my level of tiredness was unimaginable. Nothing helped my morning sickness. I tried everything, even native chalk and bitter cola. The nausea was horrible.

Second trimester:
Second trimester came with severe pelvis pain, walking around was tedious. I was tired constantly. I had cravings and mood swings, and eating anything I prepared myself was hard. Sleeping at night was also very difficult. Nausea stayed till the early weeks of the third trimester; still vomiting and feeling sick. I was working from home so I kept myself busy and active with work to distract myself.

Third trimester:
This is where we need to back up a bit. When I just took in for my previous pregnancy, I joined this forum. I was a silent follower. Then Someone posted about a book, "Supernatural Childbirth" and how God made her delivery easily without pain. I looked for the book, read it, and followed the prayers in it. My previous delivery story will be for another day. Fast forward to this time, I did the same thing with the prayers for an easy delivery. A few days to my due date, I started going on exercises, walking long distances. Then I ate lots of pineapples, dates, and pawpaw. On the 30th of September, I started to feel some contraction, but there was no pain. I wanted to head to the hospital but I felt the pressure wasn't strong enough. I kept eating my dates and other fruits. On the 1st of October, the pressure kept coming and going without pain. I was still gisting and doing every other thing I could do. I told my husband about the pressure and we had a prayer together for the baby to come the next day. October 2nd, 3 a.m., the pressure was a bit more. When it was daybreak, I told my husband we should head to the hospital. Getting there, the matron on duty looked at me and asked if I was in labor, I said yes. She said she would have to check to confirm. At this point, the intervals between each contraction was quite close. She checked me and I was immediately admitted. I was told I was already 8 cm. I was taken into the labour ward and they discovered my water was bulging but it hadn't broken. They broke the water and an hour later my baby was out weighing 3.7kg. A little throwback: My first baby was 4.5kg, so I was determined to have a smaller baby this time to avoid tears. I ate mostly fruits and veggies for lunch and avoided excess carbs. My husband also watched my diet closely. There were many times he refused me having some of my cravings if he knew it would be unhealthy for me. He helped me through it. In all, my delivery didn't take up to two hours. If I had stayed home an hour more, I would have delivered at home. And because I was believing God for a painless delivery, I was conscious of the possibility of that happening. God can be trusted. He did it for me.
Thanks to the house for all the support. Safe delivery to all expectant moms. God is faithful.
Congratulations dear and thank you so much. I'm in my 6 weeks. The first trimester really sucks. I'm always feeling nausea, dizziness, cramps and heartburn. Always craving malt. No food is good in my mouth. I always have cramps anytime I eat anything. I intended to be a silent follower but your story helped me and uplifted me a lot.
TravelRe: For Those Seeking Help On Belgium Visa***** by butterfly55(f):
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PoliticsRe: Presidential Election: Report Any Incident Of Vote Buying Here by butterfly55(f): 1:42pm On Feb 25, 2023
INEC OFFICIALS ARE MAKING IT DIFFICULT FOR PEOPLE TO VOTE FOR LABOR PARTY
Inec officials are now the ones that devil wants to use.
In some polling unit in Enugu, the Inec officials arrived without presidential ballot papers.
In some polling unit in Calabar and River states, the Inec officials are telling people to go home if they want to vote for labor party. In some polling unit in Anambra, they have not even arrive up till now.
In some polling unit in Kaduna, no Labor Party agent.

I thought that Nigerians should be giving equal rights to decide who they want to elect by voting.

Who are these officials and what is their intentions?
RomanceRe: What's Your Favourite Classical Music Piece? by butterfly55(f): 11:17am On Feb 14, 2023
Everything Mozart. I can't really get enough of him. Then Handel's Water music
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by butterfly55(f): 8:23am On Oct 05, 2022
ccffwx:
English Language teacher urgently needed in a primary school at Lekki (female pls). Remuneration is from 80k-100k. Send CV to lugonmaeze@gmail.com.
Is there a number to reach you?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy: Social Media Manager @ Naijaworld by butterfly55(f): 6:54pm On Sep 27, 2022
Is the job still available?
BusinessRe: Where To Get A Loan In Lagos For Salary Earners by butterfly55(op): 8:47pm On Aug 30, 2022
sjx566:
Call 0806 232 8991
Thank you
BusinessWhere To Get A Loan In Lagos For Salary Earners by butterfly55(op):
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InvestmentWhere To Get A Loan In Lagos For Salary Earners by butterfly55(op): 7:02pm On Aug 30, 2022
Please if you know where to get a quick loan in Lagos for a salary earner, please comment below. I need a legit loan givers in Lagos. Please not loan apps. Thank you so much.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FEMALE Housekeeper Wanted In Oniru by butterfly55(f): 3:09am On Aug 03, 2022
Aussie19:
Daily cleaning, including:

washing & ironing clothes (2 people)
walking a small dog
Cleaning of bathroom
Organizing bedrooms and living spaces
KItchen help (chopping fruits & vegetables or meats, cooking rice)
A big plus if you can cook Continental foods.

Deep cleaning of house every 6 weeks. (2 bedroom home)

Requirements & Skills
Must have experience working in a home or hotel.

Must live near our location (or have reliable transportation).

Work is 6 days a week, so must be available on either Saturday or Sunday.

Must have government issued photo ID

Must have excellent hygiene

Must be able to read and write.

+ We provide 1 day paid leave every month.
+ Provisions for 1 daily meal.
+ School Tuition Assistance (Paid directly to school)

Minimum salary of 70k.
How can someone apply?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by butterfly55(f): 3:08am On Aug 03, 2022
Xlyad:
A good Economics teacher who can also take some junior subjects like social studies and civic education needed at a high school around Gbagada. If interested send me a pm. Pay is around #75k. If you are not good, please do not waste your precious time.
Interested.
How can someone apply?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FEMALE Housekeeper Wanted In Oniru by butterfly55(f): 2:48am On Aug 03, 2022
Is it still open?
BusinessHow To Raise Startup Capital by butterfly55(op): 8:35pm On Feb 23, 2022
I need suggestions on how to raise capital to start a skill you've learnt.

Lots of people learn amazing skills like cooking, baking, sewing and others like forex trading, blogging, etc. How will someone that has zero capital start after learning these skills? How will the person get money to buy a domain name in terms of blogging?

And other tech like graphics designing, programming, web developing, app designing, etc. How will someone get clients to patronize his/her skill?

If the person develop an app, how will he/she pitch it to the public without ads campaign? What if there's no money to run ads? All these skills still get down to start up capital. How can capital be raised?

How will someone find job to raise the capital when job is so hard to find? Please let's discuss, I need suggestions, no negative talks please.
BusinessRe: Amazon Kindle Publishing Beginners Guide +(Earning Proofs) by butterfly55(f): 7:33pm On Jan 31, 2022
Please, how do you promote your books? I have published a low content book but haven't made any sales yet.
InvestmentRe: Bloodbath: 185,450 Crypto Investors Lose All Their Funds As Bitcoin Drops To $38 by butterfly55(f): 4:56pm On Jan 21, 2022
When I saw $38, I thought we were done for........ Lol! Please it's $38K. Not bad, just time to buy more. In Crypto the high comes after the dip.

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