Lol, why all this?
Fatima was getting married for the second time, I'm sure the first time wasn't so quiet. And she's not so young so why would they want to make too much noise. On the other hand, zahra is young and getting married for the first and maybe the only time, to a billionaire.

People seem to forget that the buharis are not the only people involved in this wedding, the Indimis are rich, powerful and popular too, so even if buhari didn't want it, I'm sure they would.

So you people should calm down with all this unnecessary news. An average rich and popular Hausa man can throw a bigger wedding, and I'm sure from now that would be the trend in Hausa weddings.

I was going to be nasty in the other thread, but I read this and.....
How apt, love isn't always enough.
You have to want it to work and work forever too.

This is a very inspiring write up, Weldone!

KissChrix:
Why are You still calling Her Zahra Buhari?


She's now Zahra Indimi

Or Zahra Buhari Indimi

Following.. ..

Kondomatic:
You don't seem to get what I am saying.

He may love you like cray and stick with you today but for how long?


Marriage these days are hinged on convenience not love. One certain things starts coming from you, he will run back to his family.

All the people that divorce each other daily were once in love but it wasn't enough.

If his family do not love you then his love for you is incomplete. It is either you get them to like you or be ready to lose him if.........certain things don't go right.

I am not interested in your being likable. Everyone thinks and says thesame.

Being likable won't do you any good when you from, let's say yoruba family marries a man from idoma whose family are against his marrying a different tribe.



And.........

Just because I know what I know and won't even pretend to agree with what you're saying, I won't argue any further and I'd say, good night to you too!

PS, those scary dolls were not necessary

kelechi17:
jus pray u don't fall into DAT kinda family if dey don't like u trust me honey its only a matter of tym b4 he falls into place any tin bad DAT happens u will b d first witch dey will b looking to catch

Trust me that's my biggest prayer.

Kondomatic:
All of the above and more + more and even more cannot change Mama G's mind. Your pepper don red if she's the one that will decide your case.

The easiest way to win their love is to come from his state.

It is better if you are from same local government.

And best if you're from his village.

And over all best if they chose you for him.

I don't know about others but there's no "True love" for me in Imo State.


If she truly loves me then she will not come from Imo State.

And who would you turn to when your husband stops pretending and become real?

Rev. Father?

Nnem......... Sometimes it is better to be in peace with your husband's people and be having issues with your husband than to be hated by his people and be loved by him.

If his people hate you then he will hate you too. It is just a matter of time and a little mistake from you...

All this plenty story for what though? It still doesn't change the fact that my husband's family would not dictate the degree of love he shows me, I would rather not be with that kind of man.
I'm very likeable, so if you don't like me then you must be troublesome, and I refuse to bow down to a troublesome family, I would rather not marry such a man.

So I still insist that once my husband loves me, his family members can go and hug transformer if they don't like me too!

As far as I'm concerned, once my husband likes me, what else?

Unique in its own way, not all those plenty random pillow and Co cakes we see everyday! It's indeed royal

So so pretty!
The Fulanis have a very sophisticated culture, and beautiful people too.
I wish her a marriage that lasts forever with even more beautiful kids than herself...

Note to my rich Alhaji husband, I want x2 of this

Legend87:
Nairaland is gruadually becoming what it name entails.. #Naira_Land.

Some now come online as to make money from the platform.

OP. My advise to you, send your account details to NASS.. Tell them you don't want to be a citizen of Nigeria again. Let them give you your own share of the #7.3 trillion budget.. With that, u can go to cape verde and start life

epic! Op, this is the best advise you'll get

Tiny23:



lol,I was kinda stubborn tho... yeah,we are everywhere.
That Lilian showed me hell.

I'm sure she did, it was because she herself saw hell! She wasn't my friend, she was always in Obasa 1 running errands or serving punishment that's how I knew her. Emotan girls were always proving stubborn to their own disadvantage. Lol, good old days.
The stubborn ones are mostly the ones that suffer. Lol

Tiny23:



Yes o,wicked seniors

Abi you were stubborn? Lol
I'm sure you were a wicked senior to when it was your turn. Lol. It's good to meet you here! Now I believe when they say QC girls are everywhere.

Tiny23:




Yeah,I was a boarder in Emotan.

Then you must have known candy and Lilian, I think they were your immediate seniors though?

Tiny23:



lol,You my senior o,'11.

Lol,ok.
You must have been in jss3 when I graduated??
What house and were you a border?

Tiny23:



I'm one too,what set?

Really, I thought you were a guy.. 08 set, how about you?

Tiny23:



Are you a QCOG?

Yes, proudly one!

QCOGs always slaying ... #passonthetorch

Iamhessteem:
please oooo i am kind of new and naive please what is the meaning of OP and FTC,meanwhile insults permited coz your insults makes it a little fun. There are some guyz that have obtained degrees in insults.

Op is original poster and first to comment is ftc....you're welcome.

Yimu**

alexblazzzer18:
Go watch Legend of the blue seas or Moon lovers scarlet heart Ryeo, i bet u will thank me later...

OMG LOTBS is sooo interesting, I started about two days ago and I can't even wait for the next episode. I love me some Lee Min Ho

some comments though!
I never had that experience, I was overly conscious when crossing anything that looked like a gutter even till now.

But in secondary school though, there was this big gutter behind my hostel and it was a major route for getting to our dorms, someone always fell in that gutter everyday.
It was always funny, I mean are you blind? Even the special students then(blind students) didn't fall in, Howmuch more you with your two seeing eyes. Lol

The struggle to draw the perfect brows

RadicallyBlunt:
Don't worry when 10 of dem get belle for you at once, you go dey alright.

#dead!

Girl all that is in the past. A handful of us did way more nastier things in secondary school, some still do. So I'm sure no one would crucify you for being wild back in the day, especially now that you're changed. Don't let that bring you down. You were young, wild and ignorant, no one should fault you for that. Just go on being your good self and never let want people think rule your life.

jamex93:



Make I fall deep in sleep, take sample of her blood and go do ya test

This is a crime and violation of her human right, she can sue him if she finds out.

Op she might not be hiding anything, she might just be scared if taking a test and finding out the worst, I don't think there's any greater fear than the fear of waiting for your test results, don't get tired, keep persuading her, she'll give in. And if she eventually doesn't then just let her go

But what else do you want, someone that is clearly trying her hardest to stay away from you? I'm sure there's some other girl for you, not this one.

Take the hint, leave her alone!

JeffreyJamez:


ButterFrost212

You're welcome!

JeffreyJamez:


Ohhh no no no no no no.. .I dunno anything!

I'm sure you do, but don't stress, I can keep a secret!

JeffreyJamez:


The key!

You would know