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RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 8:35pm On Jun 18, 2019
distributeinc:
From experience, the poor ones are always after food and money, anything other than that don't interest them, but the ones that are bouyant are happier,.more engaging...that is why I can't be with a poor minded girl. Boring.
Guy you hit the nail on its head. That's why I go straight to the poor ones and tell them I wanna bleep them. They'd come to my house. The okay ones don't even rush after food during date.
RomanceRe: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Calapar(m): 8:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
Bros, cut her off. I swear she won't allow you bleep in the name of church. She'd scam and continue to scam you.
RomanceRe: Help I Can't Think Straight Again by Calapar(m): 8:25pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:
why is it that guys hate helping out their female friends in need without bedding them first? Just curious undecided


Imagine you a guy asking another guy for help...and he says you should blow him first undecided
And why are some women always broke?
RomanceRe: Should I Get My Fiancée Arrested? by Calapar(m): 8:01pm On Jun 18, 2019
denitro:
Most loans are made with close friends and relatives on a handshake, but that may not be enough to make it legally collectable. Agreements regarding certain amounts of money or that have repayment terms that exceed a certain period of time must be in writing or will run afoul of the statute of frauds. The statute of frauds mandates that certain agreements must be in writing or they are unenforceable. As a result, a handshake agreement with a friend or relative that is not in writing could lead to an inability to legally enforce the agreement for repayment.

By law, if there was no written agreement in relation to the loan, she has committed no crime according to the law. Your only option will be to beg for your money or forget it. The reason is that she can claim the money was a gift and they will believe her because if you have loaned money to someone and the person defaults, you don't issue another loan except the 1st and 2nd monies were gifts and the relationship has gone bad and she is being blackmailed to return the money.
N.B: I believe you, but the law will look for evidence of a loan and once there is no evidence, the tables will be turned on you.
Don't complicate things by listening to foolish friends wwho have no idea of the law and how things operate in a civilised society
OP should clarify if there's a social medium correspondence as to whether she was meant to repay. I want that money retrieved. The process is cumbersome but would make OP stronger.
RomanceRe: Should I Get My Fiancée Arrested? by Calapar(m): 7:57pm On Jun 18, 2019
obekediamondfuto:
oooooh your story is about to repeat itself.... literally!
I smell it already
grin
What's this one sayinghuh Were you referring to the Op?
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 7:48pm On Jun 18, 2019
vivalavida:
Sorry fr your experience.
For it to have happened on more than one occasion is quite worrisome. U have to take a huge part of the blame for that. You are inexperienced at handling a Convo with a babe and u ain't witty. There is no babe I can't unlock on a date no matter who she is. You must laugh like mumu there. So nigger,up your game
Dude, I get your point. But that's not the case. I don bleep babes on first date times without number. Ask a girl where she wants for a date, she'd tell you a restaurant... . It bothers me and I'm beginning to think there's something wrong.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 7:45pm On Jun 18, 2019
spongeisback:
If Nigerian women suck at dates why don't you go for a nationality that doesn't?
Help me look that other nationality
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 7:44pm On Jun 18, 2019
Curvinus:
Op the women like the food more than they like you. Do you look that hideous?
It seems I didn't compose it well. Ask some of them where they want for a date, definitely gonna be a restaurant. Before any convo, they start ordering all sorts as if that's all they came for.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 1:43pm On Jun 18, 2019
KristaPretty:
It has to do with an Individual. Some MEN suck at dates too!

One date I went on, the guy was gisting me about his ex girlfriend who always urinate on the bed {for over 2hours he was just talking trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh sad sad sad}... like wtf
The dude might be testing you in some way.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 1:40pm On Jun 18, 2019
Stephani3e:
Everytime Nigeria women this, Nigeria women that!! Una no dey tire,

Leave us alone biko..
Make una stay single then!
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 1:38pm On Jun 18, 2019
Deepfeel:
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Probably he ran short on gist cause all you did was seat and listen to him talk, why didn't you change the topic, it's a clear case of two suckers on a date grin
Exactly...not engaging.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 1:36pm On Jun 18, 2019
ImaIma1:
Why invite a lady who is clearly not into you on a date? She is not responding well to chats but you still invite her. Why?

It is a personal thing. It doesn't apply to all ladies. Talking on various topics is one of my strengths. Don't generalize it
Can you read my thread very well? I used 'most', is that generalization? I said 'they respond well on chats'....
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 11:46am On Jun 18, 2019
SageMK:
I have to say I've never experience this first hand.

Bro, search deep within you.
Maybe you are like a magnet to hungry women.

If you're after intellectual conversations, next time you want to pick up a woman, try visiting the state library.
How can one be a magnet to hunger-striken women?
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 11:46am On Jun 18, 2019
KristaPretty:
It has to do with an Individual. Some MEN suck at dates too!

One date I went on, the guy was gisting me about his ex girlfriend who always urinate on the bed {for over 2hours he was just talking trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh sad sad sad}... like wtf
Lol...he probably has mental disorder. I'm talking about women focusing on and are after food as if there's hunger in the land. They're not engaging.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 10:40am On Jun 18, 2019
Liki11:
Hi
You're stupid!
RomanceMost Nigerian Women Suck At Dates by Calapar(op): 10:36am On Jun 18, 2019
Dear Nairalanders

I beg for the pardon of women in the house.

Please why is it that most Nigerian women just want food when you want to have date with them? And they don't interact intelligently but just focus on the food. When they're done, that's when they'd remember they've to go home. They would chat you well on social media and agree to have a date.

Why can't we have a date over drinks? Henceforth, I'd categorically be telling women we're having a date over drinks even when we go somewhere superb I'd ask them not to serve us food! When we align we can have countless dinners home and abroad.
RomanceRe: My Ex Of 8months Still Stalks Me by Calapar(m): 10:30am On Jun 18, 2019
She has seen your destiny and wanna die there. Run away. Don't bleep her never ever. She'd use it to tie you down. Shun off totally.
RomanceRe: Should I Get My Fiancée Arrested? by Calapar(m): 10:21am On Jun 18, 2019
This is a good lesson. When love and sex blind us, we start acting foolish but the hearts of men are deep. I once got close to 500k loan for a fiancee to start up. She didn't ask if I'd repaid even when I pretended to be broke, she didn't offer to help. I'd forgiving heart. Ended up marrying her but it wasn't funny. Divorced her. Lesson learnt: date or marry women that have potentials or have achieved on their own or independent. Most women don't recognize husband materials when they see any. They prefer fuckboys and liars. Get her arrested and get your money. Pass through the challenge of retrieving your money...you'd learn and get wiser and be stronger. She's a fuckboy. And learn to distance yourself from women that are pure liabilities, check background and immediate family. They're problematic and destiny destroyers!!!
PropertiesRe: A Room To Let At Ogudu To a Working Class by Calapar(op): 9:32pm On Jun 16, 2019
[quote author=Calapar post=79396570][/quote]Plus wanted to use it for other business before.
PropertiesRe: A Room To Let At Ogudu To a Working Class by Calapar(op): 9:28pm On Jun 16, 2019
Mandy003:
Do I take it that the same advert that was placed in November 2018 had no one interested since then or you changed you mind at some point and now re-advertising this shared apartment again in June 2019.


Changed my mind at some points. Many women called for the space. If you're, call.


Calapar:
Hi

I would like to let out a room in a 2 bedroom apartment, where I currently stay to preferably, a female corps member or working class lady in Lagos. The location is Ogudu.

Call - 08178229231
TravelRe: 4-day Trip To Ghana by Calapar(op): 5:15pm On Jun 16, 2019
czarina:
But it's a West African country you're going to na, when you're ready for Tanzania I go folo you cheesy
grin cheesy cheesy
PropertiesRe: A Room To Let At Ogudu To a Working Class by Calapar(op): 4:06pm On Jun 16, 2019
Mandy003:
I am interested. What facilities are to be shared in the apartment; Kitchen, toilet, etc. Is there constant water, light and how secured is the compound (fenced?)
Kitchen, living room, toilet shared. There's power supply to a large extent and there's generator. There's bore-hole water supply. Interlocked compound with fence. Proximity to road.
TravelRe: 4-day Trip To Ghana by Calapar(op): 3:58pm On Jun 16, 2019
czarina:
You see, I mentioned only pasta, ayam very humble embarassed


Lol, so Gondola is in Venice? Had no idea, there's a not-so-beautiful place of the same name in one area like that in Naija.

I'll like to see the real Gondola sha, and the paraponess embarassed embarassed
It's alright...you're not loyal to Op
TravelRe: 4-day Trip To Ghana by Calapar(op): 11:07am On Jun 16, 2019
Lexusgs430:
And why must you travel with a stranger, that MUST be a lady?..... huh

Are you going to sponsor all her expenses or she sponsors herself, but you are expecting free sex?...?

Inmessenger app is live in Ghana, loads of girls seeking sex buddies (for a fee)........
All you know is sex? I need a travel buddy. She pays for her tfare
PropertiesRe: A Room To Let At Ogudu To a Working Class by Calapar(op): 10:33am On Jun 16, 2019
OgogoroFreak:
Why not get a girlfriend instead?
Still seriously searching though
PropertiesRe: A Room To Let At Ogudu To a Working Class by Calapar(op): 10:32am On Jun 16, 2019
jaybest90:
Why only female.. Just say you dey find free puna
Lol...the room is vacant and useless for now. Need to turn it to money.
Romance4-day Trip To Ghana by Calapar(op): 9:47am On Jun 16, 2019
Hi NL Ladies

Please I want to visit Ghana this week from Thursday through Monday as part of my vacation plans. I don't want to go alone. I need a lady that has similar intention.

Kindly let me know if interested.
Travel4-day Trip To Ghana by Calapar(op): 3:00am On Jun 16, 2019
Hi NL Ladies

Please I want to visit Ghana this week from Thursday through Monday as part of my vacation plans. I don't want to go alone. I need a lady that has similar intention.

Kindly let me know if interested.
PropertiesA Room To Let At Ogudu To a Working Class by Calapar(op):
Hi

I would like to let out a room in a 2 bedroom apartment, where I currently stay to a working class in Lagos. The location is Ogudu.

I'm available for inspection.

Send a mail or drop your mobile here
AutosRe: Honda Accord Eod'03 @ N700k by Calapar(op): 7:09pm On Jun 14, 2019
Available for inspection.
Car TalkRe: Radiator Fan Keeps Working After Engine Stop by Calapar(op): 4:19pm On Apr 17, 2019
Thanks all. I took a risk of giving it to a rewire. The guy fixed it well. Since Sunday this week, it's been okay. And the guy didn't change any relay. He only checked the connections and said it was electrical issue.
Car TalkRe: Radiator Fan Keeps Working After Engine Stop by Calapar(op): 12:14pm On Apr 11, 2019
alphaNomega:
Take your car to an autoelectrician. He should trace and replace the damaged relay with one of equal spec then you will be fine.
thanks

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