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divinehand2003:
This looks like a scene from a new Nollywood movie.

VampireeM:
Sincerely I do wonder why most of we Females are Evil.. She reminds me of my previous female boss... They will tell you they ve nothing against you meanwhile behind you they say and hatch all sort nonsense...

If you ve the will to sue her please do but meanwhile you can leave everything in God's hands and believe she has paved way for you to get to a higher and better place.

babzy2:
I wish my dick was that bottle! I will luv to fvck that boobs with my dick

richidinho:


this happens every DECEMBER, and people will never learn

microfinance ko...... microorganism ni

i better dig ground and bury my hard earned dollar

LordReed:
@ call4shola

Do you sleep in separate rooms? And why are you so formal with your wife? As in the way you phrased it it is almost as if you have to tender application letter to make love to her, LoL. You both need to loosen up and learn to play with each other. I can't imagine myself asking my wife, it is almost natural for us to graduate from play to bed. Even if I have to "ask" I'd do it in a romantic way. You may also need to turn up the romance if you aren't doing that already.

cococandy:
Or maybe she was raised to believe in total female sexual conservatism to the point that exhibiting interest in wanting a man sexually means she's loose and as such she must be the one to be chased and conquered.

If she grew up with that mindset as did many women, expecting to overcome her inhibitions and start unashamedly showing the wanton part of her (which in all honesty may have become totally suppressed) is unrealistic.

You don't learn to be left handed in old age.

You just gotta keep asking if you apply sophyrock's advice and it doesn't work.

5minsmadness:
@callforshola

Two weeks was too short, its like you dont know the average libido of women esp after birth. You should have made it six weeks only that konji go nearly kill u before then




Seriously though, this is a common thing in marriage. The woman's libido drops drastically after the first child. This sexual desert can last a month, two months, a year or even till the end of childbirth(maybe her 40s.) and it can be a terrible experience for the man. It is around this time most men face their first real temptation of infidelity/sleeping outside/playing away match. Most women don't know what men go through mentally and psychologically when we are deprived of sex for long periods after having gotten it regularly for some time. They are not wired to do so.



Ok. First, know that what is happening with your wife is perfectly normal. Talk to her about it and let her know how you feel, in a nice polite way of course. She has to throw in extra effort to have sex with you even if she doesn't feel like it, that's sacrifice on her part. As for you, this is where you have to be patient and tone down your sexuaI drive a bit. Give her space and time. She'll soon reboot. All the baby crying, breastfeeding, late nights cos baby cant sleep, bathing baby etc has been added to her normal duties of taking care of you and the house. It ain't easy. Sex is the last thing on her mind now.
But be patient. She'll soon pick up again.



All the best.

obiak4:
marriages breaks when there is no communication please op u know your wife better than "us" communicate with her
my 40kobo contribution

byvan:
Shooting outside because she doesn't ask yet gives when you do ? You are a potential cheater , work on your mind set, only then can you work in your marriage.



Oh ooo!!! You married a V, now you want an automatic porn star and you say they know what they want .

kristen12:
Maybe she's shy or she doesn't want to be seen as promiscuous

2goodbobo:
Bro you have to communicate this to her. Tell her how it makes you feel. Be open and discuss it with her.

GenBuhari:
[size=28pt]Ebola is hoax. [/size]


I cant believe what i just read. Pple sha.



Do not be deceived.

The lady in the picture is a paid actor, she is not dead and may not even be doctor. Real name may be something completely different.

Superstar007: "Those insulting man utd should show respect to the dead"

I noticed that everyone seems to be
writing Manchester United off
already, I believe Van Gaal just
needs is a bit of
time to settle in, next season I think
they'll be Champions once more! My prediction:
1. Man United
2. Cardiff City
3. Sheff Weds
4. Bournemouth
5. Rotherham

BizBooks: There is absolutely nothing wrong with the current Man U team. On paper, they are
even better than last year's team. So don't blame the team. The fact is that people
have forgotten Man U were winning games they were not supposed to win because of
the influence of Sir Alex. To put it mildly, every EPL referee from Howard Webb on down
was afraid of Sir Alex when he was the coach. At that time, Man U were getting favourable
calls left and right including soft penalties and 6 minutes stoppage times (aka Fergie time).

If Sir Alex were still coach, the diving call that went against Ashley Young today would have
been ruled a penalty for Man U. Also, the clear hand ball against Swansea last week would
have also been ruled a penalty for Man U. But Sir Alex is no longer on the sidelines. Referees
are now free to call Man U games as they see them without fear or favour.

So don't blame the team or van Gaal. Also do not waste your money on Di Maria. Even if you
spend 100 Million Pounds to get him, he will not change anything.