RennyX:
Good day Nairalanders. A very depressed soul needs your advise to make an important decision. This is going to be a long post, i apologize for the stress. Bear with me.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now. Everything was good at the beginning as usual with our little fights here and there. I have my own fault as i tend to flare up easily and she does has hers too. She's usually very rude and she shouts a lot even when we are having a little misunderstanding in public. We both agreed we were going to work on these flaws to make everything go smooth and i tell you I've always tried my best in that aspect.

But recently my girlfriend has been acting funny. She doesn't call frequently and she prefers to chat most times. Although this is an issue that i encountered at the early stages of our relationship because she said that's how she is so i tried my best to cope with it even though i wasn't sitting well with it. However, things have changed drastically to the extent that she doesn't even call at all or check up on me on social media.

There was a time i called her like five times(I usually call only twice and if you're not picking i chill and wait for a call back), because i wanted her to pick up but she didn't. Instead she sent me a "hi" message on whatsapp without an explanation for why she didn't pick my call.

Also, she doesn't pay attention to me when we are in a conversation. She fixes her interest on other things like her phone, the television or just staring at the ceiling like I'm a bore to her.

So all these made me to think deep and ask what may have been wrong. I wanted to conclude that she was getting tired of the relationship but I said let me ask her first maybe it was my fault. I know that sometimes I can be controlling and authoritative but it's not my fault sometimes because she does anyhow when left to do her things alone. It's like she wants me to always tell her what to do. But when i do, it's a problem.

So when I asked her she told me everything that she was not tired but I was putting pressure on her. I promised to stop pressurising her and I also asked her to change from her behaviour and become who she once was and we agreed.

Last week, on a Wednesday morning I woke up to her message on whatsapp and I replied without getting any reply till like 12 so I decided to call her. She told me that she was eating and she would call me when she was done. After an hour she hadn't called and i called again and she told me that she was sorry that she was watching a movie.

I got angry and complained to her, but instead she was rude (as she usually is) and started raising her voice. She said what had happened is in the past and she cannot do anything about it then she hung up.

I'm fed up. I don't know if there's any other guy although I've noticed some shady behaviors of hers but they aren't concrete enough. This is not the kind of relationship i want because it's obvious that we are on a different perspective. I don't bug my girl or attach myself to her, but I also feel that the right things should be done in the right measure.

It's been a week now and she hasn't called or sent a message even on Christmas Day. I want to call her now and break up, but I'm confused cos I still lover her. She has her good side which is rare in most girls.

Sorry for the long post once again. Please help with your contributions.

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Hmmmm...
How long has it been going on?.
I just got out of this exact same mess. I would have dumped her but I nefa straff am reach.
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Do what I did. call her talk to her about everything and that if she's tired that you can't wait to move on.... Talk to her as if you're doing her a favor by being in a relationship with her at all.
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Whatever she replies would determine your next action.... If she tired of you, ask her to come over that u wanna talk physically and give her joystick one last time and end it.... I call it bang and boot

call only 08062175596

i wan sell my alsatian dog fah, its over a year old, and im travelling, so nobody to take care of it and there's nowhere she can stay, and im going in three weeks....... Im letting her go for a price of #110,000(negotiable)

mhisbliss:
She wan catch new mugu nw, OP run for your life o, she will be giving you hope so you wont wake up from the hypnosis and will still be pushing you away, I REPEAT RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, ELSE YOU WILL COME TO NAIRALAND LATER TO CRY

mhisbliss summarised all my story...... She will give u hope and push u away. I was a victim, d girl was showin d exact same symptoms..... Luckily i had gud friends dat helped me get over her, we got drunk, watched a football match, played video games and slept off. And twas over.

Teniolasmart:
so u mean dat if i ask her out,she will hate me or not talk to me again.dont understand ooooo

.. Hate you? Maybe. Not talk to you? NO. Im saying she will take you for granted, and make you chase after her instead, after which she will get over you and date someone else while u re still chasing..... Dnt ask her out, and dont do as if u like her. If she ask you out dnt accept. Its like adopting a puppy, it doesnt trust u at first but as time goes on its starts to play with u and follow u around cuz ure d one dat shows it attention...... In this case u re d puppy and shez d human.

Where are the fairy-god mothers? Come and grant his wish o

Oh sorry the condom is mine, i forgot to flush it, please do that for me will ya

Teniolasmart:
hey nairalanders.there is this girl who i think she has a crush on me but am not really sure.anytime she sees me,she is always smiling or blushing.and anytime she sees me she always greet me everytime.but anytime i call her she always behaving somehow and chating with her is very boring.cos she can use like 4 hours to reply ordinary "hi" and anytime i call her,she sedomly call back.am thinking she does nt ave a crush on me.maybe she likes me just as a frnd but d thing is dat she likes me than other guys sha cos she likes to escort me home after class instead of following her guys frnd who stays in d same area oooooooo.kinda confused right now.am thinking of asking her out but i dont want to be rejected sha

guyy, shey u go hear word.....RUN! RUN!! RUN!!! ITS A TRAP!!!!!..... Im telling you, you ask her out and then all those blushing shiiit stops, girls like that dunno what they want, jus keep tryin to avoid her bfore u start fallin deeply....... Cuz bro if roles were reversed sorry would be ur case,. Im telling u again RUN RUN RUN...... And if u dnt, you wont say i didnt warn you.

Iphe56:
I'm a dog breeder as well with 12dogs including the so called "bingo" "local dog" as we all call it..... the real name of this breed is BASENJI. .. I have two of them out of my 12 dogs and they are well fed and very smart neat and good for security..... any other questions U need. Add me on whatsapp
09030570537

they re called mongrels as they re a mixture of different breeds, not basenji, basenjis dont bark, and these mongrels dogs bark.

How much....for a male

Use amitraz-20. And use a mouthguard on the dog to prevent licking....u will see the crawlng out after 5 minutes #creepy

Its london, if they want to get the culprits, they can, but they wont. If that was a british boy in Nigeria, God knows how many Nigerian would have suffered for that by now.
There is nothing we can do about racism, WHITES do not like BLACKS.... But when blacks also begin to hate whites, They will hate themselves:@.


R.I.P

vincentjk:
Hi xana and guys.. I've 5-6 months old boerboel.. He barks a lot, he's mean in fact he's stubborn at times but my prob is that when a stranger tries to touch him instead of him to attack him at once rather he avoids him & bark at the stranger wella but my prob is that he node pursue people as i want pls help guys... I need him to be aggressive..

dude. Do this. Chain him from 7:00 am to 8:00pm and ignore him, if he crys or barks. Feed him once daily between 4:30-5:30 in the evening and never play with it or walk it for now. And dont let visitor get close to it at all. Just chain and ignore it

xana101:
It started 2words d end of Dec. Last year.
I just notice the dog became very aggressive to strangers almost when I decided to sell it cos it was almost useless to me. I constantly chain the dog. I believe that was what contributed to his aggression. I still do d chaining up till date. He's aggressive both to children.

soooo, my method worked... Hmmmm. I deserve a trophy, chaining makes a dog run mad

Yes, im at lagos

Namdeenero:
Bro by 7 weeks the signs should be pretty obvious but still some dogs only show little signs of pregnancy only for their belly to get swollen all of a sudden by the 8th week so you just have to be patient.. But apart from the swollen tips, what else have you noticed in your dog?

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Swollen vulva . Over sleeping. And she tends to isolate herself a lot

GBEMILOWO:
CHECK THE BREST MAYB IS PINK

. Yes, it is pink

The dog tied the male on may 2 and may 5 , 7 weeks now, but all i see is just nipples, the belly is not showing, it looks completely normal except for the nipples. Do you think it is pregnant..
P.S- the body hair is so completely rough right now.

Where is the atm card......

proxy20:


download unity 3d ,photoshop and 3d max, it is for game development . create your character with sprite are created separately . look at unity 3d doc to learn more . You must have good understanding about physics and mathematics especially the vector aspects .


you have to have basic knowledge of c# and Html5/javascript . Creating a game alone is very hard except you are outsourcing . You just have to have the ability to think and copy so code you want to make the game . The image , sounds are stored in the asset folder which various sprites of characters are stored also . you must learn how to ask questions in stack overflow . Game development requires hardwork .

The games you play is developed by a team of programmer , writers , software engineers ,graphic designers and 3d/2d model/animation expert . A team of 100 people might create a game .

woah,,,, 100 people.
Thanks for the info mehn, i was just playing a game and i was like how are these things even created, then google wasnt helping me find out or rather giving me what i want. Thanks a lot.
I really appreciate!!!

he means the only way for u to show you love him is to fvck him. If you dnt do it then he'll leave you

tell her you dont like her straight up, hurt her if you must. Thats how she'd do if roles were reversed(girls have no remorse), believe me you'll thank me later............
Or on the other hand you may take her, my cousin actually believes if you find a girl that loves you that way and is showing it, never let her go cuz u may never find another girl like her..... ........ #Im currently in d same situation and its not a pleasant one.

israel2563:
whats ur name in naija ninja?

madara uchiha

youngchopper:
thanks, this said dog is just too aggressive and hardly obey any command.

train it well o, if nt u wont be able to control it later. Before my own learnt to sit e dey chop minimum of 78 slaps a day

LordRegalia:


I do not understand the concept of "crossing dogs for security". What in the world does that mean?

If people cross dogs for security, then what are purebreds for?

breeding is different from rearing for security, but not that purebreds cant be used for security. If u r breeding a dog it means u r keeping d bloodline pure(and prolly maybe security), but if u r rearing a dog then its for something else(its just not breeding, and this also applies to purebreds) and you dnt hope to get something from it, so what else could it be for. And yes people cross dogs for security very well. Google am Oga

t33why:
Check me out at naija starz. User handle is the same as here

teewhy, u sef be nairalander?. I be ex-starz co-leader, i left during that jonathan,lily,KR,phegoh,judesma crisis.

Sorry, gat my own clan , naija ninja am in th9