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Celebrities › Re: Williams Uchemba's Groomsmen: AY, Peter Okoye, Banky W, Falz Spotted by candygist: 9:34pm On Nov 21, 2020
Romance › Re: How I Find Out I Have Been Dating Myself For A Whole Year!! by candygist: 5:15pm On Nov 21, 2020
michjunior:
hello guys,my story is rather pathetic and mentally derailling.........it all started like this...me and this girl are from same department and level but we started being friends in our 200 level,like play like play we were falling in love and i asked her out,bt she didt actually say yes or no she kept going out with me,we started acting like couples ,we talked like 3 to 4 times a day chat almost all most all the time...it was a beautiful period in my life mehn she is damn beautiful and i taught i had hitten the jackpot,we continued,went out frequently on outings kissed all the time,romance but each time i want to make luv to her she always object with the excuse that the first guy that broke her virginity did it rather forcely without her consent and ever since then she hated sex blah blah...becaused i loved her i didt force her........it continued like this all throughout our 200level until the day i got d shock of my life when this girl told me on chat that there is a guy that his pessterring her and that she wants to give the guy a chance in her life!!! ....I was like...Wat!!! ...To cut d story short that was when i realise That all this while i was in the FRIENDZONE MAX PRO!!!! I was dating my self for A whole year!! I feel like an idiot...a very big one
She dey pity you no mean say she like grin. Maybe she was only feeling sorry for you.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Help Me Sir/ma,i Am Regretting Already by candygist: 4:35pm On Nov 21, 2020
Ahappy:
Please, I am sorry for the thread topic, I was trusted with the sum of 50000 which is my sister school fees,so I had this man who promised to send me some materials from abroad, I did get message that the materials had arrived the country already but I will have to pay the sum of #27500 naira for the delivery and paper issue,
I paid the money hoping that when the product get here which is a laptop and few cash,I will be able to refund my sister money .
But little did I know that a naked picture was inside the material, I was phoned by the driver who had already underwent search by the customs official, he called me to tell me that,I had to pay #50000 before they can release him.
I did pay #20000 naira telling him that I don't have up to that.
please sir and ma,I need your help, the driver had stopped picking my call already, and my sister is yet to know about this, I need your help sir and ma,God will not spoil what's giving you happiness, I am just a student ,I have been crying all this while,my mum is yet to know about this, that's why I posted this on nairaland.
I have even forgotten the product, I need my sister's school fees,she's an HND 1 student of Rufus giwa poly,owo ondo state.
I can give you proof sir and ma
this is my number 07044145432
I need the sum of #50000 which is her school fees,I don't know what we happen to me,if I fail to provide this money before she asked me to send it.
I dont get my self at all
don't mind my grammars please sir and ma.
help my life.
This is my account number
Akosile Emmanuel
UBA
2146595385
that's the remaining balance.
daddy and mummy help my life.
my dad will kill me.
my mum might collapse on hearing this .
Your madness just started
Celebrities › Re: Laycon Becomes The New Face Of Mentos Nigeria by candygist: 1:48pm On Nov 21, 2020
octembu:
Laycon getting endorsement left right and center.

Meanwhile, Efe N25m don finish and he is back to square one.
Where did you see him ?
Politics › Re: We Still Can’t Wear Our Uniform In Public — Police Officers by candygist: 5:48am On Nov 21, 2020
dre11:
• Say, our morale is very low

• We’ve to be alive first before combating crime

• Return to normalcy will be gradual

• As criminals take advantage of police absence

VANGUARD
Mostly Yoruba states grin
Politics › Re: 2020 Finance Bill: More Tax Incentives Offered To Nigerians by candygist: 7:16pm On Nov 20, 2020
Pepsi4me:
Buhari will not kill us
Do you understand English at all or its just that you can't read and understand ? Which one ?
Romance › Re: Really Frustrated My Wife Keeps Denying Me Sex by candygist: 2:42pm On Nov 20, 2020
some50686:
Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.

The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.

Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.

To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her
Talk to your father in-laws. He is a man like and He is the only one that can understand you. He will talk to is daughter or he will ask his wife to talk to his daughter.
Celebrities › Re: Davido: “Mayorkun Is Bigger Than Me, Wizkid And Burna Boy” (Video) by candygist: 2:12pm On Nov 20, 2020
NCarthur:
Davido dey cap carelessly these days..why?
Small boy way meet money for house. You get the jerk
Celebrities › Re: Daniella Okeke Enjoys Dinner In The Sky In Dubai (photos) by candygist: 2:05pm On Nov 20, 2020
Beckysexy:
Awwwnn. Money is good o
Enjoy your life
What you do with the 'D' will determine if you go get house for banana island grin
Celebrities › Re: Biography Of Omah Lay, The Sudden Rise of An African Star by candygist: 2:02pm On Nov 20, 2020
AngryIgboDon:
Highly underrated Superstar!

I rate this guy way above wizkid, burnaboy and Davido.

Go and listen to Ye ye ye, Love you, Bad influence and infinity .... You will dance till you are tired.
Burna boy is not their mate. Take your time and listen to burna. No be mouth
Politics › Re: Lekki Shootings: CNN To Lai Mohammed, 'You Didn't Provide Any Evidence' by candygist: 1:52pm On Nov 20, 2020
helinues:
And which evidence (s) has CNN presented to back up their imaginary Lekki massacre?
You should be happy that CNN are doing the job your own media house can't do. Reporting it the way it is without fear of sanction. Tell NBC to go and shut down CNN na
Politics › Re: Umahi: My Only Sin In PDP Is That I Refused To Castigate Buhari by candygist: 10:15am On Nov 18, 2020
RedPhoenix:
How people can just choose to destroy themselves, legacies and all they built over the years just makes me wonder. Umahi's doesn't even understand the " Ndigbo " spirit and code he claims to belong to by blood. This will end in tears and great sorrow for him. I don't see him escaping it.
Calm down. Your swears will not affect him in any way. You Don baff today ?
Celebrities › Re: Timaya: Meet My Daughter, Maya, She Is 6 Months Old by candygist: 5:58pm On Nov 17, 2020
WrittyWritter:
Ok..baby number 4 smiley...mother number 3 smiley
The food thing is that the mother are rich financially.
Foreign Affairs › Re: About 50% Of Joe Biden's Transition Team Composed Of "People Of Colour" by candygist: 12:44pm On Nov 16, 2020
OfficialAwol:
CNN acting the script given them since decision was made to move against Trump.

Maybe it escaped your eyes, but sometimes in early February when USA was just registering its first coronavirus case, a Nairalnder made a comment that Trump will lose reelection because of Coronavirus.

I dismissed it then because I thought America might not be as hard hit as it presently is but I guess I was wrong.

There are many secret agents here on this forum who are privy to so many classified information and I'm sure that guy was aware of something we didn't know.

Again, I'm of the view that Pfizer deliberately delayed announcement of their vaccine to make sure Trump loses. Or why did they make the announcement just barely one week after the elections.

The forces against Trump prepared for him long ago. And these guys are not just after Trump, they are after something more.
Average Nigeria way of thinking. Always coming up with stupid theories. What if Trump had won ?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 11:15pm On Nov 14, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
Nigeria is not your homeland!
Nigeria is my what ?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pope Francis, China Congratulate Joe Biden by candygist: 11:49am On Nov 13, 2020
Kyase:
Fergie check that picture, e no dey show.

Papa pope don talk

And for those that were saying, china is yet to congratulate him, now come and find another country to tell us..
Thank you cheesy
Gambia is yet to congratulAte him.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pope Francis, China Congratulate Joe Biden by candygist: 11:48am On Nov 13, 2020
Hungry4sex:
Now why would the pope do this? They are trying to force trump out by all means
How, he lost an election. Pope congratulating the winner and you are saying something else. Where is the force here ?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 11:44am On Nov 13, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
IGBO leave Jagaban alone or go back to your homeland!!!!!
Why should I go back to my homeland ? Is Lagos not in Nigeria ?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 8:53am On Nov 13, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
Oga provide a complete and clear address. You are a lady abi? I love ladies from Nnamdi Kanu side kiss
Which one is clean address again. Computer village, Number 4 otigba street, shop number 25. Ikeja, Lagos. Come learn work and stop being a slave to jagaban.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 6:18am On Nov 13, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
Ok, where is your shop? How much you dey pay sef? Una too dey make noise. Oya na maa’come see the 2 by 2 shop.
number 4 otigb street. Shop 25. I no go tell you the price. When you come I go direct you to the agent and person in charger of the building so that you can find out how much we pay for shop and other things.
Politics › Re: Is This The Most Backward Governor In Nigeria? PHOTO! by candygist: 6:16am On Nov 13, 2020
spirul77:
what do you mean by infrastructure? Only Kano can be mentioned in the same sentence with infrastructure, I am typing from Keffi now in nasarawa state and what did you say about the steady light? Try travel abeg
I don't think you know what you are saying.
Politics › Re: Is This The Most Backward Governor In Nigeria? PHOTO! by candygist: 4:57pm On Nov 12, 2020
gidgiddy:
What you saying about Abia state is what obtains in more than 80% of the states in Nigeria. There are some states you will go to in the North, you will wonder if there is any government at all.

Ikpeazu isnt a performing Governor, but he is by far not the worst.
Brother man if you don't travel, don't say what you don't know. Northern states have infrastructure and steady power supply, places like jos, Kano, kaduna, Nasarawa and even Yobe have good roads and steady power supply. Abia state as none of this. What you can say about the north is that the people from the north are not exposed and enlighten.
Abia state is nothing to write home about. Don't defend evil.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 4:45pm On Nov 12, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
Go to Alaba Computer Village, how much is your own personal investment in Lagos? My beef with you people is with the loud braggadocio chest beaters!
Which one is chest beating. If you want to pay me a visit to my shop. I can give you my address. I sell and fix phone. Just ask me to send you the address and I will. I no how much I dey pay Lagos state govt every year.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 3:15pm On Nov 12, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
Really? From your stolen Igbo 5 tiny states’ allocation oooo. Ok how much is your own?
What exactly is your point, young man ?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 10:48am On Nov 12, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
And which investment una get? Loud mouth chest beating Igbo. Everybody sabi una!
Go alaba market, go to computer village, etc. Come back and give me a feedback. No be mouth, it's the fact.
Celebrities › Re: Davido: I’m The Biggest Artist In Nigeria In Terms Of Everything by candygist: 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2020
InvestorJerrie:
Space for sale grin
Talk true. If them put burna and David live on stage to perform. Who will you out your last savings on ?
Celebrities › Re: Davido: I’m The Biggest Artist In Nigeria In Terms Of Everything by candygist: 8:42pm On Nov 11, 2020
whytediamond:
No lies at all. Abeg tell me who rival 30BG Boss?
l
If them put fine boy Bella smulda and davido, live on stage. David no go see drew
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 8:22pm On Nov 11, 2020
MusaChukwudi:
So? Na una Lagos?
Slave. Na because say you no get any investment for Lagos na. What do you know ?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Reacts To Sanwo-Olu's Move To Cancel Pension For Ex Governors & Deputies by candygist: 5:21pm On Nov 11, 2020
sodiqapril:
Lol....scope man..the move is just official tinubu's salary will be paid unofficially, he controls toll gate, his son controls all the signage in Lagos, his daughter controls computer village, his puppet is governor, his stooge is speaker, Lagos state House of assembly, mc oluomo is dere....what else does he need? In fela's voice one day go be one day for those wey dy steal our money for this country one day go be one day..
Is daughter is not only controlling computer village but the entire market in Lagos.
Celebrities › Re: Lil Baby Regrets Featuring In Davido's Song "So Crazy" by candygist: 5:18pm On Nov 11, 2020
Nbotee:
Favourite? I don't even listen to any of dem.. I only bother myself with a few nigerian Artistes dat I feel are worth my while and most Nigerian Artistes aren't including both wizkid and Davido..
Then you need to listen more to Burna boy. You go love am.
Music/Radio › Re: Davido's Son, Ifeanyi Adeleke On His 'A Better Time' Album Cover (Photo) by candygist: 5:17pm On Nov 11, 2020
rocknation62:
Yeah! Exactly the noise that was Made In Lagos...

FEM...
Twice at tall is bigger than them all.

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