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Interesting. This must be a prophesy. If u dont understand, dont even bother to ask. @pres-elect. Your signature is damn outdated. Darfur is peaceful now. South sudan is now a reality. Get current boy!

All these replies, easier said than done. When two twin sisters become "TOO" connected, wahala dey oo. I once heard about a twin lady who refused to marry a man on the condition that the man marries her twin sister too. HOW ABOUT THAT.

Got some identical twin sisters in my area. They ALWAYS  move out together, ALWAYS wearing the same colour and type of dress. You literally would not see one without the other. I really wonder how it would be for any of them to marry and leave the other. Guys, would you marry such.

A young teacher wanting to tease her pupils, posed a question; children, on the day of rapture, what part of our body will we first use to enter heaven ? Young sandra raises her hand; auntie,auntie ! Yes sandra, said the teacher. The young girl answered, our two feets. The suprised teacher curiosly asked; and why do you say so sweetie, the girl answered; auntie, last night after our night prayer, i was woken up by the noise from my mum, on reaching the door, i found out that it was locked, so i peeped thru the key hole and saw my mum's two legs high up in the air and i heard her shouting " Aaaawww gaaad, im cooommiiiinng "

Sometimes, perception becomes everything. For the ladies, independent or not, try to be perceived right. Surely, independent ladies intimidates most, if not all the guys, but wearing a humble personality will do the magic for you.

What girls call bad guys are not really bad guys. They are only guys that seem to balance nature. Nature abhors extremity. One must not be all nice and also, one must not be all bad. If u can balance the two extremes, then u can be the toast of girls. Seem tough, look tough, be tough but mild. Thats what girls call bad guys, but they are only REAL MEN.

When it comes to romance, there is a cold war between guys and ladies, hence the frequent mud-slinging (girls are golddiggers !, men are dogs! ) Most men go into relationships for sex while most women go into it for money. Both genders hate to see it that way, yet they cant do without each other. I think the ultimate aim is to be loved for who we are and not because of sex or money, but we are all selfish beings, how can this be possible. The panacea should be; Guys, bring on the money ~ ladies, get ready for sex. But if u cant stand this heat, get out of the kitchen. The principle is QUOD PRO QUO. Let the game continue.

Gorgeous views folks!, just made a research on our subject. Olumba olumba was born on 18th Dec. 1918. By that, he should be 92 yrs old (if hes not dead by now). One question in one of the replies here tripped me; why would 90% of those that God wants to redeem be of efik decent- a minor ethnic group in Nigeria. Again, also learnt that they are vegetarians. Dont believe in killing any living thing. They dont eat meat, drink beer or even softdrinks. Seriously, this is alarmingly amazing.

My prediction. With the fall of atiku, The North will now rally around buhari in the general election, but that  will only amount to his CPC clinching some gubernatorial seats in the north and him coming second to jonathan in the race.

My prediction. With the fall of atiku, The North will now rally around buhari in the general election, but that  will only amount to his CPC clinching some gubernatorial seats in the north and him coming second to jonathan in the race.

I met this newly transfered colleague of mine at the office. I was later to know that he is a member of the OLUMBA OLUMBA. In trying to know what it is all about, he explained that olumba olumba is Jesus christ living among us today. He even went as far as quoting the book of Rev.3:12 as thus, " He who overcomes,i will make him a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go out no more. I will write on him the name of my God and the name of the city of my God, New jerusalem, which comes down out of heaven from My God. I will write on him my new name."  He further explained that jesus has come again as promised and he is bearing a new name which according to him is olumba olumba. Are there like members of this sect or religious group here on NL ? Lets get some more clarifications please.

Good friend, if ur mum or dad never played the role of a mum or a dad, would u have been loyal to them ? Im sorry to say this but ur views are unrealistic. I know i must be sounding nasty to some readers that will share views. But, what is the use being a philosopher if i dont provoke minds to REASON.

Philosophically, scientific proofs are just weak cos they proceed from inductive reasoning -iice is tall. Tall ladies are ugly. Therefore, iice is ugly. This is how scientists come up with thier findings. So pls dont ask me for scientific proofs. @ ur question, independent ladies are not a special case per se, rather im just writing with regards to the thread's topic. In order to make one loyal to you, you must, i repeat, MUST make that person somewhat dependent on you. Even God knows this, thats why we dont have every thing we need, hence we need Him everyday. Excessive women empowerment in America is the root cause of the high rate of divorce over there. Finally, if a woman is not somewhat dependent on a man materially, the man would simply not feel like a Man, either in a relationship or in marriage.

If u know what philosophy means, then every issue here on NL is purely philosophical. Again respect is the regard u give to just people around you while in special respect, it involves people that mean even more to you, maybe because of what u expect to gain from them or whom and what they are to you.

@iice. Baby read this carefully and get enlightened. It is in human nature not to feel that we owe someone a special respect if we feel that there is nothing material that we can get/need from him or her. So the same feeling goes on in independent ladies. The inevitable ripples of marriage makes them to realise that the only thing they need from thier spouse is just luv and maybe companionship. And when it aint coming, they damn everything, including the weak loyalty they ve been showing. Therefore, the more independent a lady is, the less her level of loyalty. Thank you. Im a graduate of philosophy anyway,

This young man knows that its wrong, but hes just looking for some1 to give him a reason to continue his abominable act, hence this thread. @poster. Even if all NL members give u a 'go-ahead' in this act, it will still remain WRONG. Just be a man about it. Thats all.

My brother, your no-lie principle here is worthless and empty. Again, let me ask, how do enjoy sex without some bits of emotions? Human beings are selfish in nature but must u make it obvious? We must learn to differentiate "i luv u" from "i will marry u". Dont be scared. If u cant help ur self,luv peddlers are available for ur dry-sex satisfaction. U are just a guy who is scared of a little commitment.

@poster.When two people luv themselves SO MUCH that they whole-heartedly want marry. God will never come between them. Love between a man and a woman is a great mystery that only God understands. If God, being omni-scient(all knowing) foresees problems in the future between them, he would come with the solution of that problem. That is why he is a loving Father. The problem with people is that when they receive negative revelations from men of God (both real and fake), they dont ask him for what to do to overturn it. Maybe they get stunned or scared. The prophet in question should say the problem and proffer a solution which excludes seperation of the two lovebirds. Every problem comes with its solution. To HIS power, nothing is impossible.

@poster. Yes, it intimidates nigerian men. Not just cars, a sophisticated apartment will also do more harm than good to an unmarried lady of 29. An independent lady that flaunts herself does not promise loyalty to any man/suitor from afar. And mind you, men dont joke with loyalty. I believe some men wont mind though, but then, they are really FEW.

Tanx everyone, i ll leave her and run for my dear life. @hamid. Dont take it personal man, when u start luving, then life begins. Invoking thunder in a romance section, Hmmmm. I rest my case.

Thanks friends. Its obvious that she needs help, but again, i really need to avoid her (at least for now). But where will this help come from if i avoid her. Her's is a case of a lady realising-rather late maybe- that she does not luv the man she calls her husband. Get me right, i sure would not go after a married woman. But how do u guys think she can be helped.

Well people, if u ve ever been wanted by some1 u truely luv but circumstances aint favourable, u ll understand how this is to me. @dyt, baby i dont want to do her. Im just wondering why all these are like this. Its just one year of marriage but she is confessing to me that she's regretting the whole thing. I really pity her too. Surely running away would not be it. Would it ?

I really use to trip for this girl years past but damn it, i probably did not measure up to the guys that were besieging her then. Well, i was jobless then though. mehn, i did truly love her but all i got was a pure RED LIGHT. She got married early last year. During the xmas period, we crossed path again, maybe she was stunned by the "upgraded-me". she poured apologies upon apologies to me for all she made me go thru (o boy, i really suffered). The problem now is that she said that she really wants me,she has offered to be my soulprovider all to get me. Infact,she's now as crazy for me as i was for her then. I still luv her, but why ? Why now that she's married. O GOD,i need your post too.

Carolece ? Omo, I havent changed name yet ooo.

@omolola1. Omo, even the blind saw it. E mail was exchanged, number exchange will follow suit via the e mail. At least, my question is in line with the topic. Just air ur plan. Feel free,

Omobaby and spclst900, tanx 4 derailing da topic. Now that u ve both exchanged numbers thru my thread, i want to ask, what are ur plans 4 eachother. I mean , Ermmmm, U know now,

@poster. This is the simplest thing you ll ever have to do in ur life. Just fix up a rendevous with her, and when u both meet, just look into her eyes and scream "wooooooooooo". ~~~~~~Anyway, the first reply u got is good to go. Cheers,