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I can imagine what will happen if a man's friend reported the wife to him and accused her of forcing him to sleep with her. I can imagine how quick he will be to either throw her out or cheat on her in revenge.

But women will keep quiet like complete mumus and stay behind making excuses for their he-goats.
I wish women will stop seeing themselves as helpless and stand up to fight oppression. Nobody else can help us but ourselves.

Jumbus31:
5 ways to make your wife happy 1. Give her money
2. Give her money
3. Give her money
4. I said give her money
5. Give her more money. And thank me later

Is that so? How to keep your husband happy: 1. Give him sex
2. Give him sex
3. Give him sex
4. I say give him sex
5. Give him more sex. Don't mention.

Sounds like the he goat is going to rape her any small chance he gets. I don't know why many men don't have self control, always attempting to sleep with any woman they are under the same roof with.
Op, the girl in question should urgently seek a way to leave that house. She shouldn't waste time at all because from what you wrote the man has already started trying to force her. What if he succeeds and she gets pregnant? Let her leave the house ASAP. I am sure if she narrates the story to her relatives they will sympatise with her and help her raise money to live away from her aunt's house.

falcon01:
9. Don't use Nairaland for illegal acts, e.g scams, plagiarism, hacking, gay meetings, incitement, promoting secession.

Seun is an atheist so why is he against gay meetings? He supposed to support them like his fellow atheists.

Women like sex more than men yet ashawo population is 100 women to one man.
Whatever helps you men sleep at night.

jaychubi:
U sound like a stupid teenager n a complete learner, u will learn when u grow up surely.

I can bet my right hand dt the man loves his marriage but only wants to turn his ex to side chic for occasional knacking. Only a wise person will notice dt

I can bet that guy is socially awkward and addicted to internet that's why he says so much unrealistic bullshit_ . Alpha male ko, alpha female ni. They won't go out of their houses to know how real life works, just stay on the internet morning till evening writing crap theories.

perdollar:
usainnah ko husaina ni

Yup. His future wife

Gosh I just love this man so much. Usain Bolt come to Nigeria and ask me out, let me be your Usainnah Bolt.

@eco99 abi ecoeco,
Be careful of what you say. Don't tell lies against the dead.

And another thing; please don't tell anyone in real life about this issue except your doctor. Don't be tempted to confide in family and friends because people talk too much and they might start victimizing you. To avoid stigmatization from ignorant people just take your drugs and keep it to yourself. There are even ways to hook up with a positive partner and live a happy married life.

So sorry dear, I feel for you, I really do. Pele. Am sure the useless worthless idiot goat know that he had the virus but still went ahead to do it without protection. I had something similar happen between me and a guy, I was stranded far away from home and I almost left his place to book a room but he started swearing with God and promising that I am safe with him and he wouldnt do anything. I was a real mumu then cos I was young and naive and that was before I knew it was impossible for men to spend the night with you without attempting sex. In the middle of the night the idiot started dragging me and trying to remove my clothes, I fought back with everything and we broke so many things in that room. I am sure neighbours heard the noise and everything but nobody did anything. In the end I acted like I was going to cooperate and when he calmed down I gave him head to at least remove the urge from his head. I still feel so used and dirty even though it was just head. Take ARVs dear. HIV isnt a death sentence

I love usain bolt

Many male doctors are perverts, gynecologist or not. I remember two instances where male doctors acted like straight up horn dogs when examining me.

The first one was when I was 16 I was having chest pain from Angina Pectoris so I went for a physical exam. If you see how the disgusting doctor was f0ndling and massaging my breasts up and down in the name of chest exam, I felt so dirty and abused. I was traumatized for days, months even. I had done chest exam for the same Angina before and the female doctors who saw me basically just checked for heartbeat and touched top of my chest lightly for painful regions,so I knew the useless doctor was just abusing me.

The second time was when I went for pelvic scan. The useless doctor was telling me to pull my trousers down further and further. I have done pelvic scan so many times before because of ovary cysts and I know you don't need to pull your trousers down to your public hairs. When I stopped the trouser above my public region, he forcefully pulled the trouser and just rubbed his hand on my public hairs. I slapped his hand off and hissed and got up. He started pretending to be surprised and saying "you women are very funny" as if he didn't know what he did.


If I have my way I will request only female doctors for any type of intimate exam.

I am a very vengeful person but people don't know this because I have a quiet face and I forgive a lot.
But when you push me too hard and I decide to come for you there is no length I wouldn't go to destroy you.

I remember in the University I had this course adviser that was always picking on me and always calling me up to answer difficult questions in class and then making jokes anytime I got them wrong.
Almost all of us in that level hated her as well, she was our course advisor but never gave us advice. Always barking at whoever came into her office and insulting us or ignoring those of us who greeted her when they saw her walk past them.

I hated her and plotted for a long time how to get back at her. I got her picture and registered her real name and real phone number on Badoo as a mature woman looking for casual sex. I did it so that many sex starved men would bombard her line with calls. I think they did too because she changed her line after sometime.

Another time I had a Co worker who was fond of running others down to get ahead in the company. She would point out your faults in front of our two HODs to make you look incompetent and stupid. She did this till one of our superiors started to favor her alone as the most serious member of our group. She was also a whor*e and was actively chasing a married man who had two kids in the office. She used to make eyes at him and try to have prolonged eye contact with him from time to time. That one was not why I plotted against her though. She did the worst by going around behind my back telling lies about me to other Co workers, through gossip and through whatsapp chats. One of them accidentally revealed it one day.
The day I decided to deal with her was when she asked me to buy bottled peanuts from my trip back from a other town. I opened the bottle and ran all the peanuts on all manner of filth. Then I peed on them and let them dry. Then packed them back into the bottle to present to her the next day at work. She ate them.
I saw her eat them right there. I felt so good watching her do that.

When I was a kid my elder sister used to bully me relentlessly and if we were given any item to share she would give me like 10% of the whole thing and when I complained of the injustice she would pretend she made a mistake. She did this over and over so many times till I got fed up one day and took her wrist watch which was given to her as a birthday gift and put it under running water till it stopped working. Nobody ever knew I did it.

Another time I dated a guy who took me for granted because I wouldn't have sex with him. Would always flirt with other girls in front of me and never call and was extremely selfish in the bedroom. I used to even spend money on him like a fool without him reciprocating. He also forgot my birthday and that broke my heart so much. The straw that broke the camels back was when I found out he cheated on me with my close friend who had been jealous of our relationship since forever. I didn't even confront him. I just travelled out of town to increase distance between us BUT I kept calling and pretending to still like him and still want the relationship. Then one day I tagged him on Facebook after I posted pre-wedding pictures of myself and another guy.

supo19884:
No worries, drop your no or bring it to Killato Technologies at 3 Otigba street computer village Ikeja

okay my number

pls call cos i am currently not on whatsapp cos my tab is bad

supo19884:
Perform a hard rest by pressing and holding the power and volume buttons simultaneously.

i just tried it. First with volume up + power and then with volume down + power.

It didnt work.

*crying seriously*

supo19884:
What is the model and the brand of your phone? I can teach you to troubleshoot first maybe it might work.

ok, its an itel 1701 tablet.

Thank you

I don't want to go to an amateur that will fry the tablet and damage it completely. I want someone that knows the job.

I was charging the phone last night and it just went off while charging and has refused to come back on.

I want to take it to computer village to fix it so I need reccomendations.

Thanks.

CaraJewel:
y..ok xo y una rush enter engagements...

cos he was hiding the bad side of himself before proposing

Sempumping:
Like chocolate

please dont encourage that wild animal

EmekaBlue:
u dating d SPITMAN

muchecheche

Prince16:
Having 'A' doesn't necessarily connote 100% o!
Remember "A" starts from 75%. So, if, as u confessed dt d guy is good in all other areas and dt ds 'spit' issh is his only 'defect', my sister abeg sofri-sofri o.
You may get a 'good kisser' (sic) who'll end up a cheat/wife batterer etc.

Kindly weigh ur options well-well o. some of ur 'friends' advising u: "God forbid''," leave him", "me, I can't take dt o" bla-bla-bla will end up marrying him once u fall mugu o.





Juss as good wife-material scarce, good husband-material scarce like dollars o
I rest my case!

@bold, I agree 100percent.

In short good people are scarce generally. Not just wife and husband

EmekaBlue:
hahaha...so how does he fvck u? I guess he first oil ur pvssy...That nigga must love to add spicing to his food

He likes using spit as lube when we get down. I found the whole thing disgusting so I told him to start using cream instead

Prince16:
Be no longer unsettled;
Dental dam to the rescue!


http://www.ekekeee.com/mysexuality-how-to-keep-yourself-safe-during-oral-sex-by-greatise/

hahahahahaha

lwkmd
so i should wear mouth guard before kissing him?


Maybe thats what I will do sef so he will finally get the point that I hate the whole spit kiss thing

CaraJewel:
cuZ of birthday?..syds is it nw ur engaged dat u knw hez a fuckboi?

No ooooo, its not birthday alone. Many things about him have tired me.

FinestPINACLE:
I knw him though. his name starts wit a D. he has I in his name too.

tehehe

eyaaaa

sorry but you is so wrong boo

his name starts with H

thats all I am saying about it canLt give any more clues

Beamborla:
Lols...ba3 was low last night and had some other amebos to do else where. Lemme attack you now

First, I've been in and out of one or two relationships. Loving and the one you used is relative. We might not see it the same way. Sadly, I won't be satisfying your curiosity

Number 2: you would be mad he didn't remember your birthday. Agreed, it can be a lil disappointing (thanks to nollywood and telemundos) Bet before you act on your anger, is your birthday really about you Should it really be about you What about that women who was ready to sacrifice her life for yours on that very day? That women who was between life and and death just to give you life? Have you ever on your birthday told her thank you for your sacrifice and love? Have you ever bought her a gift on your birthday? Have you ever given her any special treatment on your birthday?Does she cross your mind lovingly on your birthday or you just see it as another day to get gifts and special treatment from her and should she fail, you keep face like say you chop shi*t?

If you have never done any of those, you have no right getting mad because someone forgot your birthday... Before I forget, have you ever thanked your dad for not running away?

In conclusion, a giraffe's coffee would have turned cold before it reaches the bottom of its throat. Ever thought of that? No! You only think about yourself

#Stop the selfishness#

Lmao

thanks for giving me a reason to laugh very hard this morning

aw probably share this on my watsapp friends group so they can laugh as well

CaraJewel:
Yyou and dis ur fiancee sef.

He's not going to be fiance for long cos am breaking up with his fuckboi ass very soon.

vizkiz:
It's as simple as ABC if he forgets then remind him. Stop being a damsel in distress

Abeg carry your yeye bro code advice from here. How can he not know the birthday of the woman he proposed marriage to and wants to spend the rest of his life with? This isn't even about forgetting the date, he clearly doesn't take her seriously enough to remember.

I adressed the thread to ladies I don't know who send all these misogynists to reply sef

byvan03:
The next time he tries anything weird, take it from there and break up for good.

kk will do.

missyadorable:
Only broke girls and those with weak emotions get upset or angry that their lover forgot their birthdays.

For me,its not a big deal..Am sure of having a really good time to even remember if he remembered or not

But one thing is sure : for him to forget my birthday is the ticket for me to forget his birthday for life.

This is what we call talking out of both sides of your mouth.

Are u not indirectly saying you are a broke girl with weak emotions cos clearly you must be very upset to react so strongly over what he did and forget his bday for the rest of your life.