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efemenaslectura:
This one is not an issue of unnecessary anger.even your anger is justified because if you don't protect yourself people will walk on you anyhow and take advantage of your kindness


I personally don't BORROW MONEY to people neither do I lend except if I just want to dash you the money without expectation of return

since the day I lent one of my neighbours a very interesting book so dear to me (48 laws of power) As a matter of personal principle i don't borrow because people don't care about integrity and it ruins friendships

Thanks bro....I sincerely admire your very strong character,I will definately buckle up,av really been had severally.

efemenaslectura:
what's your own business with his kidney transplant. They can transplant his phenese for all I care. Do they look like people who are considerate about your feelings. A couple that ran away with your money and when you call them they don't pick up


I don't expect you to be considerate of people who don't care about your feelings or care about INTEGRITY



if you are serious about getting that money back you'll do the needful since you've been civil with them.you sef get excessive patience

Thanks bro...I had serious anger issues while growing up in Lagos island,and I know what it took me to get calm,so I try as much as I can not to get confrontational,cos wen I start ,it takes special effort for me to stop.I will start looking for them next month.

staymore:
They've forgotten without you, their story might have been nothing to reference to by now.

If I were you I will trace them and cease that Camry.

Thanks bro......someone said the mans senior brother owns a church and that he will take me there.I will surely make out time .Thanks

efemenaslectura:
Op your issue is not a problem at all as far as I'm concerned



just pay police like 7k and get them arrested (both husband and wife) then the police should make them sign an agreement form officially stating WHEN they'll pay back and what should be done to them if the money is not paid


It's obvious the couple don't want to pay you back your money


next time don't lend the kind of money that if they don't give you back it won't pain you. Pele

I don't even know where they now live....and judging the man kidney transplant,not sure I can get the police involved.But I appreciate your advice.

elantraceey:
Sorry for your loss dear.


You know sometimes you can't really understand humans or way they act the way they do but don't let it deter you and stop you from helping others, you've been doing well ever since they refuse to pay you and now you'll do better, its their loss.

Well my dear...nowadays I only give out what I can easily forget.

I am really feeling very bad today,as I was going through my old diaries,I bumped into 3rd of July 2011,on this day I gave a loan of N300,000 (three hundred thousand naira) to my co tenant,whom both him and his wife lost their jobs in 2010(both were working in banks). I told them they can start paying me back after 6 months with no interest,as the wife just had a new baby.After 1 year ,they couldn't pay anything,unfortunately the man developed kidney problems ,friends and well wishers rallied around and raised money for him to go for a transplant in India,this was in 2012,Glory to God ,the operation was succesful. I gave them the whole of 2013 to get themselves organised,and in January 2014 they moved to a new apartment without my knowledge,I got feelers from a Pastor friend of theirs that they bought a camry 2000 model,and I was very happy for them,at least moving around would be easier. .I called and wished them well,and he told me he will start working in a new company by January 2015,and he will start paying me from February,I thanked God for his life and everything,but as I write this I have been calling his two numbers and his wifes two numbers ,since february till today,the 3rd of july and their phones will ring out and both won't pick...when I use numbers they are not familiar with they pick,but on hearing my voice,they drop. I am really feeling bad cos everyone deserted them at that time,and the money was for their rent,cos the landlord was almost throwing them out,.the few people I told made fun of me,because I,m from Anambra and they are from Ekiti...but I don't see them that way,rather fellow christians in need. I wish them well....it is well!

The whole world is just in a big mess

jpipe2000:
1st time ever 2 comment on nairaland

Go and collect fowl

egift:
Your great-grand children will still be Nigerians. We do not want any "Mexico" beside the "United States" of Nigeria

Our country Nigeria is the giant of Africa!

Mexico besides the United States of Nigeria.....really got me cracking ....nice one!

NeduLuiZ:
bit.ch have succeeded in making those kids fatherless


Let's see if her parents who never gave her the approval to return to her matrimonial home would sponsor those poor kids in school


And for the nigg.a who killed himself
Fvck you, you weren't man enough

The guy no get liver b4 e dey throw im wife n kids out! May he rest in pieces!

Gelengelen:
[size=20] i joined nairaland yesterday. i dont have power to fight in politics section.


just welcome me with likes. just your likes to make me happy for joining this forum.


thank you.

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OK...you are welcomed,and av given u 1 like.But NL is not for the faint hearted,if u r on HBP drugs,better stay away and don't quote some monikers(you will know them personally soon) or else!...#imeanit

sexaddict08:
this is a Functional VP

yes...We Will see more of Osinbajo,and less of PMB in the nearest future,this is a fact!

Very funny thread.....Girls keep searching for SUPERMAN,while CLARK KENT walks pass them everyday

And the "I will,I shall,I must,I would" ...continues!

For the first time,Whizkid makes sense to me...#boybecomesman

Nigerians don't deserve all this play around at all....we've sacrificed a lot,haba!

icebebe:
Omg! And yet pple wnt jus learn n stop taking weed.


Weed kills,it destroys d whole system,making u a shadow of ur orginal being.




Jesss... d man was really cute den

And very talented,I tell u!

While we keep hearing,"we will,we shall,1e would"....looters of this monies will smartly disguise and move these funds elsewhere,enough procrastination already!

DaBullIT:
There's difference between helipad and heluport

http://www.bjtonline.com/business-jet-news/add-heliport-your-home
Here's a quote from a post over 2 years old

ok...Thanks bro...I appreciate this info!

Franzeez:
2 million naira cannot even build a fence talkless of a helipad. I see you love PMB so much that you can't think.

I didn't want to comment on this earlier,but am currently building a small duplex,and the thing is removing my boxers from my buttt,and someone says an helipad will cost 2m?

No man can fight or change nature....nature will always fight back and win....as if, if goats ,cows,fish ,pigs,cocks and co were ga.y,we will still have meat to eat....There is more to this ga.y rubbish ,that Obama is not telling the world....moreover ,how can I see Toolz,Omotola,Genevieve ,Beyonce,and all those Video Vixens in Nigerian Music video and be attracted to Bance,Asamoah Gyan and Danny Devito?.....Oluwa forbid

Ambode my man should face that isolo to ikotun egbe road before any other road,that area have really suffered!...there is a portion opposite Ecobank that is like a cave.

High goal can cause fight ehn!...good ol' days

nerodenero:
I support Oliseh's submission and I hope they listen. The Super Eagles need to see crazy fans display their madness to put pressure on them in order to deliver. I remember those days when fans get angry, pour urine in a pure water sachet and throw it at you. Eagles need to face these over daring fans for them to deliver and deliver well.

Again, for Eagles to return to Lagos, alot of repairs need to be done. National Stadium Lagos has been neglected for so long and it's a shame on our government allowed this to happen. Our bad maintenance culture is legendary and we need to change for our own sake.

Each time I drive past the National Stadium and remembers the good memories,I feel like weeping at what we call super eagles nowadays.....Win or Loose,we know we had a squad to be proud of and we have a home in Surulere.

Am guessing its because of the planned close down of open drug markets on the 1st of july...noting that Onitsha head bridge is a large pharmaceutical market.

All this high tech heavy weapons makes me wonder what oyibo people are made of....they build beautiful countries and cities and also build the weapons that can turn all of it to rubbles in a second.

Maddam should not just cry at all....am already saying sorry a billion times...crying scares the jitters out of me.

SUBMARINE:
So Buhari built power stations in 3weeks
Truly
Buhari is a great magician

I think u got my sarcasm

I have been enjoying daily 12-15 hrs of electricity supply both at home and work since u left sir!

Even Barcanista is terrified good for u....join real madrid and be a galactico !

Wardrobe allowance needed here ,sharp! Sharp!

Realdeals:
DSS have dent their reputation

Its the same every where in the world,the secret police is loyal to every sitting President,to a fault.Do you remember the American Journalist Garry webb who discovered that the CIA used cocaine money to fund the contra war in Nicaragua? This was during Clintons era and how the journalist was murdered and it was made to look like suicide....Me thinks Buhari should hand pick his own loyal DSS agents ,and stop acting as if he has scores to settle with the last govt...my opinion though!