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Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by pafegs(m): 6:04am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Learn to say No. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by hustla(m): 6:04am On Jul 09, 2015 |
KelvinC1: Take am go chop for McDonalds then |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by xordik(m): 6:04am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome:oga no give that man money oo out of the blue now u com sabi ur neighbour u sef won do am u knw..c-begging |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by cvibe2: 6:05am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Op, You really don't need to come on here to rant about your friends and family. Take charge of your situation. If you are in a position to assist, assist! If you cannot, simply tell them. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 6:10am On Jul 09, 2015 |
zeezahbee:$15 * 15 hour per day is how much ?? Multiply it by 5 days a week What's your answer ?? Then multiply your answer by 4 weeks a month. Do you know if i do other jobs ?? Do you also know the nature of the jobs i do ?? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by caprini1: 6:12am On Jul 09, 2015 |
OP stop feeling so important,a primary 6 certificate trader in Alaba,,Ladipo and trade fair gives more than this and nobody hears of this,there's this young ibo dude in lekki that runs an IT support outlet to telecoms companies,that pays house rents and school fees of his junior staffs,like drivers and gatemen.....so please park well,when you make good money,u can start ur charity work ...All this attention seeking noise makers! 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by front247: 6:13am On Jul 09, 2015 |
I always say it, staying in abroad does nt guarantee u being successful but 3k is 3000naira 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Jarus(m): 6:14am On Jul 09, 2015 |
persius555: Lol @ this strategy. Makes sense. I'm not so good at saying NO too. What I do is ignore. I hardly pick calls, don't reply facebook PM etc. As a young man that justed started working in Lagos years back, my father xmas disposition landed me in serious financial crisis. Now, other than my parents, a couple of siblings,family members once in a while, I no dey share money anyhow again o I don't even pick calls, as I know 90% of calls from certain people are to ask for money which I find difficult to turn down. This doesn't however mean I don't give. I actually do, probably more than an average person, but I've become very selective. I strongly believe "it took a whole village to raise a child" so that child must give back to the "village" (I.e family). As a student in school, I know how I also taxed my brothers and uncles. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 6:14am On Jul 09, 2015 |
monsieursam64:$15 * 15 Hours per day is how much ?? Multiply your answer by 5 (number of days i work in a week) What's your answer ?? Multiply you answer by 4 (the number of weeks in a month) Tell me what you get. Do you know if i do rack up some hood deals ?? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Belmot(m): 6:16am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome:Your facebook posts will say a lot about you.... May be you show off mostly in your posts if you think they are not monitoring you on facebook you are deceiving yourself....... If you keep a low key profile and not show off they won't bother you. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by midolian(m): 6:17am On Jul 09, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS: |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jaybee3(m): 6:17am On Jul 09, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20: 15 hours a day * 22.5 working days a month * $15 per hr =$5.06k per month That's the gross pay and 75 hrs a week is not sustainable Stop telling porkies |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jaybee3(m): 6:20am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Jarus: Alabajo Lool |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by caprini1: 6:21am On Jul 09, 2015 |
flyforall:I don't know why u bother giving advice to this people...when people give and complain,simple!.........they don't have what they r given out,but out of pride they still give to announce "I have arrived" 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ashmark(m): 6:22am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Kizyte: Family of 4 does not mean 4children. ...And you have insulted the guy.. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Aybamdbay(m): 6:23am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Well, we are in the same shoes. My Jss1 English teacher calls me frequently to send card and buy him some others. My siblings my dad and pals too. According to one man advice (he's just a pal to me on the street), he said, you can give if you know it wouldn't affect. But, if it would tell them the gospel truth.Indeed,they will hate u thinking u have but dont want to give. If them ask of 3k and u can only give 1k and it wouldn't affect u. Why not? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jasmines(f): 6:23am On Jul 09, 2015 |
StOla astrodome I could write an epistle here too. Think over this, if you say yes to everything and everybody, you will say yes to the devil and poverty. Here's how I handle mine. Every month, I divide my earnings in %s, 10% is for Charity, when ppl come to me for money I give to 1st come/the most desperate case, the rest must wait till next month. Even if the sky in their village is falling, they must hold it with a bamboo till next month. Then those I'm giving, I tell them I cant dash them the money and they must payback, within 3 - 6months max (just a trick cus I know 80% won't pay back). All those who don't pay back have never received more than 10k after that from me. I tell them point blank that I can't loan them more cus they weren't faithful in d last one. I dont make enemies, I don't spend stupidly. Meanwhile do u know that $3,000 can get u a nice plot in Lagos every month? 4 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Jarus(m): 6:23am On Jul 09, 2015 |
jaybee3: Now, you know the reason for my very poor phone call habit. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by kokobi99: 6:24am On Jul 09, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20: 15 dollar per hour is not up to 6k per month even if you work full time. Some people can lie eeh |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 6:25am On Jul 09, 2015 |
jaybee3: Nigga I run the streets of Chicago if you know what i mean |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jaybee3(m): 6:27am On Jul 09, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20: Yet another lie dingbat You are actually too dumb to be a drug dealer Don't let me catch you lying on this board again 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Chubhie: 6:29am On Jul 09, 2015 |
They will start hitting you with juju. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by brilliant5(m): 6:29am On Jul 09, 2015 |
u feel obliged to meet all need dats y. ur primary responsibility is ur immediate family, at least does ones wld undastand. for others plan how much u giv out in a month, ones u HV given up to DAT amt u post dem to next month. if de ain't OK wit it de shld look for d nearest transformer. u can't giv to ur detriment broda |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jaybee3(m): 6:30am On Jul 09, 2015 |
jasmines: Where? 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by eojepa: 6:30am On Jul 09, 2015 |
guy try help . God will c u tru |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ashmark(m): 6:30am On Jul 09, 2015 |
caprini1: I read your comment and am like ''Can you imagine what this guy just type""..So giving out to people when is not convenient for you is PRIDE, Uhhhhh.People can be very funny, am learning everyday. So this is what people think about me when I have to go out of my comfort zone just to help them. ....Such is life.....What you just type eehen change me. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jasmines(f): 6:34am On Jul 09, 2015 |
jaybee3: Ibeju Lekki, on the Island |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jannies: 6:37am On Jul 09, 2015 |
overdrive: This got me laughing so hard! You tho |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by caprini1: 6:38am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Ashmark:in summary,you can't give what u don't have! Read one thread I posted,I gave a couple 300k for their rent since 2011 ,they've not paid me back,so I don't lend out monies,I can't let go anymore.........when we were in school,our parent pay our fess and bills ,convenient or not and they don't complain,because of love,giving should be out of love and not social status! |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by domido(m): 6:40am On Jul 09, 2015 |
overdrive:These are the reasons why I come on Nairaland. Nairaland all d way. Funny guy. So so Spontaneous. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jaybee3(m): 6:40am On Jul 09, 2015 |
jasmines: Able to send me details via PM? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 6:41am On Jul 09, 2015 |
jaybee3: Sorry. Please, I won't lie again |
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