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IamD18:
Burna boy is very mad and a hypocrite.

Imagine a smoke addict ranting about poison. What in God's name is more dangerous t ones health than smokes?

Black Chyna should fvckin bring her cream to Nigeria, so long as she isn't forcing any lady to buy. She's good to go.

If the cream's negative effect start showing. The patronisers should bear the consequences and blame.

For cheap likes on Nairaland, you write this thrash. Selling away your sanity.

*Spits on you*.

Omo, rivers go bloody mehn'

Hunger and traffic is Bad...it makes you,..

Thats all I have to say.

Akin Ogunbiyi for Governor.

The rest are one way or the other known crooked.

cococandy:
Virginity means nothing unless you’re keeping it for someone who’s keeping theirs for you.

Ose'..
Virgin Atlantic.


Abraham Lincoln.
Knower of all.

sisisioge:
You will have to pardon me because you just wrote what I wrote in other words. I kinda follow the wife's thought line too, especially now that he's demanding to have his name alone on the title. Remember, the wife offered to put both their names on it now but oga sir refused! Again, you're gonna have to pardon me.

Hey, sisisoge...

It's understandable there are some ego issues. But did you also realise there was trust issue before ego issues.

Trust me, if madam had kept "Mr and Mrs Smith" on the title... He has no right to send her out.

If madam has kept, "Mr Smith" on the title... He still has no right to send her out.

Its agreed, on no account should you have issues to do it. He messed up there. Most times, you sleep over some issues.


But, she could have told him from the start.. why hide it all the way?.. Don't you see some faults there?. Haba' it's a marriage. Haba!.. not just a casual relationship.

It's okay to venge anger, but I think he should either agree that thier names are on it, or thier kids names, or they stay around the city in a newer house.

It's not about the house, sisisioge, (what if she inherited a house from her rich Dad, does that mean the man won't stay there if there are still struggling a bit, with plans to build another).. it's about trust.


Finally, I quoted you for to stop being irrational in your messages... Yours inst the worst, but of course.. I have come to realize your monicker for that. Not all things are jokes. You joke a lot.

dejol88:
We all have a red line , should my wife cross it I might act stupid. The wife was totally wrong in reminding him of his poor background. Infact a no no....

Oga the truth is that property itself was a product of marriage, so you can not lay exclusive claim to it, even it was built solely by you.

As a fellow married man, I will suggest you drop your ego and allow the name change to your kids only. Please move back to the house and forget about going elsewhere.

Mind you I am not supporting her rather am with you but go back to the house.

MAY TOO MUCH SENSE NOT KILL YOU OO, BUT WITH THE WAY YOU ARE GOING.. THIS SENSE IS MUCH.


I'D PICK JUST SOMETHING FROM WHAT YOU SAID...TO SAVAGE THE MARRIAGE.

Another option.

Which is they can both convert the name to the kids names.. and of course not inform the kids till they grow up.. during which they will have build another one.

I am just about saving the marriage.

Please OP.. dont ruin it. It's in your hands.. women can be... But just try compromise. I am certain you are hurt..

I know this is a last phase of the thread, but if you ever get to read this... Kindly take my advice. Also, this is to a lot of Nairalanders, let's not be hassles before dropping a descion, especially on families. To be honest, when I first read her thread, I just concluded that...I had to wait for another part before responding. Thank God you did.


Your faults:

You didn't confirm the house was not in your both names before moving in. You should have checked the documents. I am very sure if you knew the building was in her name from the initial stage you won't get this mad... You probably might not have moved in. Which again, might be understandable.
Even if it was in your name, sir... I think, you don't have the right to send her out of your home. Sometimes women needs to be completely explained to. You break it to peices for her...
Hey woman, this is me here.. be got nothing am hiding from you.. I am not cheating on you. It's obvious you still love your wife...but you need to temper your ego. It broke, be a man.. pick it up.. and bring up otions that are favourable for not just you, but her, and the people you brought in to the world. Knock it off sir.
Moving back to the house with her name on it might demoralize you, so don't...but if she agrees on changing it..to both of you, then do please. But not only you, c'mon.

Her fault:

You had this burnt anger long ago, hence you did it without telling your hubby.
You could have easily opened up to him.. sugar, you spent your money on Dad's health (note I said dad, not "your dad"...I will spend mine on a home, but it will be in my name... Trust me, any man in a situation trying to save his folks, will understand and agree with you. You didn't have to keep it away from him. (It's very sad you took advantage of his situation). Would he have left his dad's health to deteriorate if he had the money, and all he cared about was a home.
It's pretty sad that you betrayed your husband's trust, the least you could have intialy done was to let him know.. okay oo, this building is not in your name, it's mine.. if he is an understanding man, he'd have moved in with you, with a goal of building a main family home for you guys. It's not the name that is an issue, get it right...(I mean you could have easily inherited a property from your dad in your name).. it's not the name... But the trust.
C'mon, it could have been your dad who was ill, or bedridden... Don't take the advantage of your well to do family over him. Are you telling me, if it was your parents who were in that condition, he would start thinking my money, your money.
Wifey, you could have easily told your husband...long ago, that the house was yours.
Naturally, you pushed your husband to him asking you to get out of the house...(with your consistent trust issues) Which is wrong.
Your husband cares about you, that's one off...and don't listen to some opinions up there... He truly does. It's okay to be angry... Most men will ignore the issue, and move off your way.


*******

Let's look beyond the property. Please...

Something happened that triggered the issue. His dad was ill...that's the wrongest time to start deciding your money my money.

I can only imagine how terrific it was if it was her dad Ill, and he starts throwing this sort of things to your face... How would you have felt?.. once you are married, all parents become 1.


Again, sir... To be honest I think you have some ego issues. In my opinion, thier are 2 things that you can accept.

She changes the name to Mr and Mrs.. you accept it. Or, she leaves the house and moves to a newer place with you, within the city. (Within)

I can understand your vile by asking her to change it to your name alone, but you messed up by not checking the details initially... So let it fly.


*****

My last advice, please don't listen to some Nairalanders.. and it goes to madam too.. please. I beg you. You guys have kids.. if you don't love yourselves enough, you won't come online to venge your anger, you obviously do..

And both parties are looking for some sort of sympathy... But in the process, don't let Nairalanders mislead you. Please.

Thanks.

Good afternoon,

FRAUD MEMBER ALERT!!!!


In a bid to buy some items from this member here.. nifemi120, I sent half the transaction money to the account.

Hoping that the goods get delivered to me... And when it does I will pay the balance.
Till date this woman have failed to deliver my order. It has been putting in lies upon lies.

I had since asked for a return of the money, all to no avail.

The details are with me.., her Facebook page is known, all the necessary documents I need to nail her is known.
Below is her phone number.

However, I am giving this as an opportunity for anyone who intends doing business.. please don't.


NIFEMI120 is a fraud!!!. Please, dont do business with the moniker. Plan on scamming nairalanders.

More revealing facts about this moniker to be posted soon, also i will be posting a recent chat with the moniker.



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tojahh:
You actually pay before you even beheld what you're buying? In a faceless forum?

Anyway, sorry for your loss, do what you can to get your money back.

i wonder how people think this world lives now.. in 21st century?.

Taiwo20:
Who doesnt know that scammer are fond of the word ''Iyanumasele" i.e wonder go happen,


anyway, that doesn't mean i'm calling her a con artist yet

...
Dont just do business with her..
funny person still claims to be smart.

will post screenshot of the convo soon..

Good afternoon house.

FRAUD MEMBER ALERT!!!!


In a bid to buy some items from this member here.. nifemi120, I sent half the transaction money to the account.

Hoping that the goods get delivered to me... And when it does I will pay the balance.
Till date this woman have failed to deliver my order. It has been putting in lies upon lies.

I had since asked for a return of the money, all to no avail.

The details are with me.., her Facebook page is known, all the necessary documents I need to nail her is known.
Below is her phone number.

However, I am giving this as an opportunity for anyone who intends doing business.. please don't.



NIFEMI120 is a fraud!!!.

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nifemi120:
32 inch lcd Toshiba TV for sale
Its LCD not led
30k or near offer
Working perfectly with 3hdmi ports.
Akure/WhatsApp or call number on my profile
Happy sunday

Hi Nifemi.
3 packages

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Total 75k.

If agreed, let's talk.
I need your WhatsApp number.

O ma se oo..

haymekus:
And if he scored and you don't post it, ull run mad before the end of this month.

Lol...
Lmao.

You haf vex?..

HonSuQMaDIQ:
That motun like an exhumed body

Oh my God.
You are evil o.

Oga o.

Things wey person no no for this life, too much..

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Hush hush.
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LifeIsGuhd:
300L Eiye supreme leader (cultist) nkor?

Lol, we no want.

Building is fenced.
Good water.
Light.

Yearly rent is 300k.
But agreement, commission and co, down to 160k.

Total 460k.

Also a post graduate student or NYSC member is welcomed.

Location: Onike.

Accessible to the Main Road...to connect island.

Call: 09096622272.

Hello Guys.

I need a prospective flatmate,(Male)...to rent a Mini-flat with me.

Total Package 460k including caution fee and co.

We split it 230k each.
I am a peaceful person, and homely. I am an Architect as well...so trust the place will be well refurbished over time.

Person should be within the age bracket of 23 - 28.
Preferable working class.

Thanks for calling..

You can also WhatsApp me.

Affordable..Ford explorer..

No agent, no serenren..

You are dealing with the owner directly..