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debosky: Why? Am I not a qualified researcher?

Unfortunately this is a very complex subject that you can't conveniently 'classify' into nice guy, so and so guy, etc. However, because many guys (and girls) do struggle to succeed in relationships, folk are forever inventing 'categories' and 'descriptions' to help guys 'figure out' how to approach/be successful in relationships.

Graham123: ]
Being too nice to the point of being silly is the perfect recipe for disaster in any relationship. However, love itself can be silly a times. I once dated a lady I didn't love for almost 2 years just cause I couldn't bear to break her heart. During that period, I never cheated and I cared for her in a way only few people can match. I took my time until the relationship wore out naturally. That one was good but the circumstances which led to it in the first place is best to be forgotten. I know somehow my insecurity got to her but she knows my situation caused it. And if the love was real, she won't have eyes for someone else. Real love I believe is patient, understanding and will always prevail. I know some people will give me the stick for some of my actions but you haven't been in those shoes. It's better not to criticize her too cause you havent been in hers either. I'm surprising myself with how quickly I'm moving on although I wish I had done some things better.

debosky: #ResearchProjectInitiated

Danhumprey: True talk!!! But I wonder why some gals tend to be manipulative and would rather prefer a guy who would hurt them than one who would treat them for the weaker vessels the Holy book said they are. I'm just baffled. Why is it so?

debosky: You aren't strong willed?

debosky: Hehehe. . . .my strong willed townswoman I hail oh.

uj_sizzle: I think it's time we defined who a nice guy is

Ihedinobi: Gaddem! You is one angry girl

Why you want a debate if it ain't to insist that you is right and they is wrong?

Besides, you don't know me. If you did, you'd just pay a little more attention. I don't mind learning at all.

Again, you do know what "nice" means, don't you? What's being real? Is that the same as slapping a girl around? Or what exactly? I think you got this stuff inside out, honey.

debosky: Newsflash: Nice guys y'all also need to learn to play the game (maybe not to professional level though ) - if not, it will take you longer to get into a good relationship.

Davo93: I have sent you a message please. Thanks so much!

Ihedinobi: Gay? Heavens no! They're just two hurting nice guys I found around these parts. They and others like them and the lucky women that will eventually land them are why I made this thread.

uj_sizzle: NL is on a Nice Guy/Jerk wave currently

It'll blow over soon.

Idowuogbo: Toi! U talking toooooooo much.

Elenababie: @ idowuogbo am good nope am nt on medication yet...But I have located a place already

Idowuogbo: Yea yea! Na2day? Oldbie, I remember u dioooe! U've fecked wiv Y's moniker bck in da day remember? Dey dia dey jonz o! Anyways....I need ya help wiv somtin

Mynd_44: Use the Google link up there

Idowuogbo: Daniel, ur main moniker on nl starts wiv O right?

Mynd_44: Do what you like with your words boko but I prefer to be insulted real time.

Acidosis: Mr Hacker, no carry ur eye go see wetin you no suppose see for nairalander's emails

I can bet my life on the fact that you fainted when you saw dem mails especially Nadia S.A

austino10000: sherlock holmes

Mynd_44: And I maintain that you should not try to direct your subtle insults at me. If I am to be insulted, I prefer you do it real time.

Mynd_44: Excuse me.....did I direct a comment to you? If you are trying to insult me do so. I don't appreciate subtle jabs.

Now lemme take a list of those who saw the deactivation. You will be witnesses

ogugua88: I saw it as well.

Mynd_44: Who else saw it? Start talking oo