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At the end of your post you still agreed that immoral sex determines your success and failure.


Not everyone can handle sexual urges and treat it like they would headache.

Some people can lie, rape, steal and even kill to satisfy this never ending and ever renewing urge.


Right now Someone somewhere is sitting on the couch/bed watching porn, getting more hornier and looking for a sex outlet, isn’t that time and energy a recipe for success instead of “sex” that would gravitate the person towards failure?

I love sex, but I also found out that the urges should not always be rewarded. Learn to observe it, play with the thoughts in your head if you’d like and watch it wither. The next few seconds it’s out of your head, but coming back to tempt you again.


Sex is for procreation. If I have sex with a woman, I expect her to get pregnant and make me a father. Having sex just for pleasure sake is death in disguise.

23jerryking:
Lies upon lies
At 31 years of age, I still haven't been with a girl, I've always had a strict moral code and by the grace of God have been careful enough not to get my priorities messed up. No sex till date I'm telling you, and yet why am I not succeeding in all that I do?

Not having sex/masturbating will not automatically propel you to greatness/wealth.

Take for example a footballer will only acquire the necessary skills only if and when he trains on the field. If you aren’t training/sharpening skills and your mind, you become dormant and stagnant.

This is the major issue with Christian’s. Majority of Christian’s thinks being one is the only requirement to attain wealth and grace.

A very devoted and moral Christian tailor in the slum of ajegunle will remain in the slum of agegunle for the rest of his or her life if he or she does not “strive” to upgrade the skills.

Like the original poster said. Some people are slaves and will remain so until they break out of the cell.

Ourtruth247:
Think of sexual arousal as a power grid generating power.

Every time you orgasm the power generation goes to zero and you kill the grid. Literally you can't manifest anything into your life

It takes about a week or two away from orgasm for the grid to become active. During this period you need to have a conscious awareness of what you are doing and why. There has to be a reason and a conscious decision to avoid the temptation of orgasm

After about a week or two this grid can start generating energy from arousal. The longer you stay away from orgasm the more power you generate, and the easier it is to manifest your thoughts

Basically someone who hasn't experienced conscious orgasm in 6 months will generate power than someone who hasn't experienced conscious orgasm in 3 months and so on

You are using the wrong words. Orgasm isn’t the problem but ejaculation. Orgasm can be achieved without an ejaculation. It is when you ejaculate semen/sperm that all the benefits accumulated goes back to zero.


I also have a whole catalogue on semen retention and audios. You are 100 percent right on this topic but the problem is sharing it with those that self-services multiple times a day. It’s a waste of knowledge and information.

BridgetTexas891:
I believe Wizkid Career is Dying. He's been leveraging on Asake lately

What about you? Aren’t you dying as well. Is your health and age of yesteryears same as today? Why do you eat new food everyday? To remain alive and healthy otherwise you’d have stayed on the foods you ate years ago and survive on it. Since you guys are becoming brainless with envy on a young man making waves for decades.

Julibet:
Let Wizkid attack Seun and leave Fela's name out of it.

How can you say you're better than Fela? In which lifetime? Lol

If you had followed on how the feud started you’ll see that it was Seun that pushed wizkid to reply him “I am bigger than your papa, waten you wan do”

Wiz kid never mentioned FELA in the post. Even if we are to assume he was referring to FELA, Seun’s father in the post. What if seun is not fela’s biological son?

Nazgul:
Most men? How did you arrive at this assumption that most men don't dream. Did you carry out a study where you interviewed up to 10,000 men in your community to find out whether they dream or not?

If no, your assumption is totally wrong and therefore should not be used as a base of your argument.



The English definition of a succubus is a female demon who comes to seduce and sleep with a man spiritually. Any other definition outside this is not a succubus. Could be a prostitute or a hookup girl or nymphomaniac. But certainly not a succubus because succubus are demonic beings.

If you're told to define a tailor and you say a tailor is someone who sells clothes and begin to argue that all clothe dealers are tailors, you would be absolutely wrong because not all tailors are dealers as most sew on demand. While clothes dealers buy and sell they don't sew. Although they look similar, they have different meanings and roles.

I heard about incubus and succubus for the first time in MFM when I went there for deliverance. And out of curiosity, I checked it up online and even watched various YouTube videos on their mode of operations. So trying to tell me that the dream part is where my understanding ends shows you have a very shallow knowledge of what you're arguing about.

Why not use your Google before you start writing epistle as if you are arguing with a nursery kid.

Alot of men do not dream. Some men have never dreamt before and don’t know what it feels like to dream. Please do a search before you start another nursery rhyme.

Nazgul:
@bolded.
That's not the meaning of a succubus. A succubus is a female demon that seduces men and have sex with them in their sleep.

A man who frequently has sex in the dream is under the grip of a succubus.

The result of such act isn't what you explained. It has a more spiritual effect on the man. He can loose contracts worth millions after having such dreams, he can be sacked from his place of work, he can become so sexually perverted that it can lead him to public disgrace and jail cos he might end up forcing himself on a minor...etc.

Most men don’t dream. What about that?

Real life succumbus is real. The dream part is where your understanding ends. the real life part is another dimension.

Nonexisting1:
Brother, I wake up every morning with dick as hard as a rock which is why I try to have sexx at least twice a week though I keep it simple. The aim is for me ease off though and not to satisfy any bitch. Again I ask you, how do you do it? You mean you hold sperm until you want to have baby? I don't think it's healthy but I will leave that for health professionals to decide.

A man that wakes up every morning with a hard rock dlck should thank his stars. He is alive and healthy. It should end there. Using ease off as an excuse to have sex is ignorance, the bltch is happy and winning.

For your info,
You don’t hold in sperm,
It’s the other way round, your sperm holds on to you, until when you are seeking to make a baby.

there is no health implications.

Leaving it for health professionals to decide is still ignorance.

There are two ways to know the truth about this.
Follow what health professionals says or
Seek for the knowledge yourself and experience it. You’ll realize health professionals are following a code of conduct laid out for them.

I apologize to the OP for derailing a thread She already closed. I’ll stop here.

EreluRoz:
If someone likes sex it doesn't mean they are having sex. You better check yourself

You are contradicting your post that made me quote you. You said you do not want to be having cravings when in marriage because of the man’s shortcomings.

Nonexisting1:
How do you then ease off if you don't release during sex? You masturbate?

Good question bro.

If you check my post very well I indicated that a lot of women have a very underdeveloped knowledge about sex.

A man can actually indulge in sex for several months/years and not release semen unless he is aiming to father a child.

Otherwise, there is no easing off. I am telling you the honest truth. Men have been fed lies about sex. Women made it even worse because they are the gate keepers of sex and they call the shots.

illicit:
Exactly

My brother don’t fall for this. It’s a trap. You’ll be drained and left for ruin. Even She does not have knowledge of what she’s saying.

EreluRoz:
You are just one of those men who thinks it's an abomination for women to like sex. Since you are a vegetable look for your vegetable match in peace and stop attaching names

You are getting it wrong.

It is your type that will turn a man to a vegetable and then start looking for a new man to replace the vegetable.

A succumbus is a woman that loves sex so much that She drains a man of his semen every time they have sex. This is not healthy for a man’s mental and bodily function. A lot of women do not know this.

When you come to understand the true function of sex, you will not make the post you made about being in marriage and having sex cravings. A woman that understands the true nature and purpose of sex does not crave sex. She is yet to tame her lust, She is still a LovePeddler.

A lot of women have turned their man to a vegetable with this underdeveloped mindset about sex.

I have been with women that gets angry during sex because I didn’t release semen. A man that understands the true function of sex should never release his semen unless he wants to make babies.

Please hear this and help the man you will end up with in the future, or else, you will turn him to a vegetable and begin to detest him.

EreluRoz:
What's the meaning of that? Anyways to each their own, be with who matches your energy that's all.

I won’t blame you because a lot of succumbus are unaware they are.

I can educate you if you want.

EreluRoz:
As often as you and your partner wants it. There should be no timetable for partners.
I can't marry a man that doesn't like sex and an expert at it. I'll always want to know how my potential partner likes sex so I can know if he matches my energy, he should surpass it kos I can't be in a marriage and be having cravings. If I sense a potential partner doesn't like sex a lot, I silently withdraw kos cheating isn't in my blood, so I would rather choose right than to demean myself and sleeping around is a dirty thing to me. So I'll want a full package and be contented.

Pretenders will come and be quoting me now with nonsense but it is what it is

You are a succumbus. You drain men of their life force. I know you type and I have been with several of them.

They come to drain a man’s enegry,

I mastered the art of draining their energy instead and they run away from me.

I should create a thread on this topic to warn men of your type.

southsouthking:
That is his problem, he wants you to call him to make enquiries.
I don't know why the call is so important to him, probably he has something in his mouth you wouldn't know.
I've seen some of his ads that interest me, but I'll keep searching till i get the ads with price that doesn't need me to call first.
Everybody with their own marketing strategy shall, but don't be diab.

I thought it was only me that noticed.

Some of you people on nairaland are agents of darkness.

There are something’s the mind isn’t supposed to imagine talk more of contributing to it.

Preciousgirl:
Yes

If he indeed ate the food, he’s not telling the whole story.

Candidlady:
This your imaginary husband

Oh,

The OP Dey whine us?

Did your husband at anytime eat the food She brought him?

1Sharon:
No. But how were they treating her? Did they help with the baby?

Why not ask the OP these questions to be sure.
It’s unreasonable to direct it to another person.

OP said his wife is not respectful of his family and you want to assume it has to do with how they were treating her and not helping with the baby.

It seems you are basing your experience with your in-laws to assume these questions.

Namaster:
You married a LEECH!

You are just a Sugar Daddy with EXTRA steps.

You married someone who OWES #40 Million and told you NOT to worry about it. And you believed her.

Then you REPAID the debts she told you NOT to worry about because she PRETENDED to be moody and DEPRESSED so that it'd affect her marriage and her Sugar Daddy would notice and pay it off.

And it worked!
I bet she's a stay-at-home Mum too.
A real Sugar Daddy!

You FORKED out money to fly her Mum and Sister to stay at your house for 2 months. You fed them and treated them like FAMILY.

YET when your own Mum came, your homegrown LEECH treated her HORRIBLY and made your mother feel like a NUISANCE.

Your Sister came for your assistance and the LEECH wanted her gone in less than 3 weeks. When you decided to finally grow a SPINE, she treated your Sister so TERRIBLY that you had to travel home to make EXCUSES for the BITCH you call a wife.

She treats YOUR family like GARBAGE.
But she treats HER family like ROYALTY.

On your dimes, too.

And you seem like a WEAK-WILLED man who can't take a HINT even if it's stomping on your head.

The same woman who threw a TANTRUM because your sister lived with you for 3 months wants HER mother to stay with you for an UNDEFINED period of time.

When you REFUSED and suggested that YOU pay for her mother's accommodation with your OWN money, the LEECH insulted you.

She ABUSED you because she didn't get her way.

Dude, you are a BITCH in your own house!

WHAT TO DO:

1. Tell her you will NOT be paying for her mother's accommodation.

2. She'll BLOW up at you.

3. KICK her out.

4. Get a DIVORCE.

5. Start the process on MONDAY.

6. BLOCK every card and account that she has access to.

7. Take your CHILD from her.

8. FLY in your Mum to take care of the child.

9. Don't NEGOTIATE with the leech.

10. DON'T take her back.

It is MADNESS to keep paying a woman and her family to make your life HELL.

Bros. This your violence this Sunday morning if you allow Angel Gabriel to see it, he will be forced to bring out trumpet and blow it.

Wahala.


How we go solve this one?

OP, is your wife by any chance an ibo woman? Precisely from Anambra, Imo, and the neighboring states. Those women are the most ungrateful human alien of all time.

The moment they notice you are not bending to their selfish whims and demands, they’ll run away from you. I have been with a few to notice this. Infact it feels like I have a magnet that draws them to me. The first one I started with approached me by herself. The Second one nearly use complains finish my life. Nothing was ever working for her. Then I saw a picture of her parents, her mother is very robust and glowing while her father is like dried fish. Meaning She inherited the complains and nagging from her mother, for the father to be looking that way.


Even when She ran to another relationship, She continued slandering her man despite all his efforts to make her happy because the guy housed her, feeding her and taking good care of her but the complains still persisted and even tried packing her bags and running back to me.

The third one is another story. But I hold da one for neck because I became familiar with their tactics. The only thing I like about them is if you really understand the nature of things, you’ll see their behavior as a means to really focus 97 percent of your time and resources on your job and yourself. While you dedicate the remaining 3 percent to to making them happy. Otherwise, you’ll dry up trying to understand a creation God created.


That being said, from your write up, it seems you already know what women/your wife is capable of. I don’t know why you are still ranting.

The day you accept her just the way She is, and jokingly bring to her notice your efforts and her ungrateful behavior, you will begin to see changes. Also refrain from family visits. Na their all the problems deh come from.

Kingju:
on your browser type stream dstv in google, it'll direct you to their site where you can watch it via your browser

Just like that? I don’t have to pay?

ViceGovernor:
It's just an extreme form of Dutch courage.
Wine is another form of Dutch courage.

Both foolish and wise men do smoke weed.
Judas smoke eegbo....yes Judas that betrayed Jesus Christ, there's nothing anybody can tell me it's only a man that smokes eegbo that will betray a man who can change water to wine.

You should change your name to WiseGovernor.

With this information wey you share, e sure say you sef dey smoke Igbo, nothing you wan tell me

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blingxx:
Elon musk smokes weed Shey you know ?

That’s not true. He only did it on a podcast because the host was smoking and talked about its benefits. Musk only took a drag and said he saw no need/use for it. He does not smoke weed. Stop spreading false rumor

FitCorper:
Yes blooded. I just laugh when I hear them sing “my dealer I wan go Canada”. Many won’t make it back from that trip. The purpose of weed has been so abused that the country is home to dark forces. Prevention is better than cure. Very soon devil go come take him own

What is the purpose of weed?

Start by doing away with the stash.

Do tons of exercise.

Drink plenty of water.

Allow the anger and irritation to flow through you, it will pass eventually.

The urge will come, don’t worry, whenever it comes, smile and let the smile get deep down to your stomach. The smile is to let the urge know you saw it, felt it and acknowledged its presence.

Your brain will go dumb for a couple of days/weeks. Like things that were so easy before will not be so easy to feel, think or imagined. But be aware it will tapper off.

Food will be hard to eat, but don’t worry, after a while you’ll eat like you missed eating.

At last, sex will be hella boring. Very boring. But manage it like that.

It happened to me but I won’t lie, I enjoyed it. My first experience with a hairy pvssy. I was just cruising ontop of her but no actual penetration. The thing was sweeting the back of my head

Few days later Aunty started avoiding me after She gave me the forbidden fruit

All my tricks to get her into the bed room were ignored.

Aunty was running from what she started

Someone is there pressing the remote.

..

Natbrowny:
I agree. Lets asume i wanna be wicked.
I walked into a bank to obtain loan. They will sit me down and ask me questions ranging from amount, repayment plan, guarantor and collateral. And what happens if u default b4 granting anything.

I have said it many times. That money dey give u is Covid-19 relief fund. One wicked bastard chopped n swallowed everything and decides to monetize it by giving loans to people

The moment u get d loan, dey av record that they transferred money 2u. They make u think u are a loanee to them, BUT IN ALL SINCERITY, THEY SEE U AS A BENEFICIARY. Thats what they refer you as to make dem looks like dey actually disbursed that fund.

DESPITE THE HUGE DEFAULTS THEY HAVE, THEY STILL GIVE IT. THEY HAVE TO, SO THEY CAN CLAIM THEY GAVE BENEFICIARIES AS RELIEF FUND.. Its a grant/relief fund, but the WICKED PERSON TERMED IT AS LOAN.

why would a person default in 3 different loan apps and another one still grants his next request - whats up with BVN and NIN to redflag someone as a chronic defaulter (they obviously do not have access, they are not financial institutions.

You are saying nonsense.