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FamilyRe: Sui by Carcholce: 7:04am On Nov 30, 2023
It’s stealing! Stealing what does not belong to you. Stealing is crime punishable by law! Written and unwritten law.

“Thou shall not kill”

It doesn’t say you should not kill others. It says don’t kill anyone. Including yourself. Why take what is not yours?
RomanceRe: One Wrong Sex Fit Steal Your Peace For Life by Carcholce: 5:42pm On Nov 28, 2023
TheBillyonaire:
That is for people with conscience. Conscience is very expensive now.
Can you explain this further?
FamilyRe: How Do Married Men Hustling In The Diaspora Cope With Sexual Urges by Carcholce: 9:55am On Nov 25, 2023
Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!
For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months. I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the Middle East ?
This is a joke right? grin
IslamRe: Relationship Sunnah In Islam ( See Here) by Carcholce: 10:18am On Nov 24, 2023
Akhaz024:
The 'sunnah' refers to the traditions and practices of the Prophet Muhammad, which are believed by Muslims to be a model for them to follow.
Thank you
IslamRe: Relationship Sunnah In Islam ( See Here) by Carcholce: 9:34am On Nov 24, 2023
What does Sunnah mean?

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RomanceRe: MICROCHIMERISM: Why Virginity Is Important by Carcholce: 10:57pm On Nov 22, 2023
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FamilyRe: He That Findeth A Wife...... by Carcholce: 8:01pm On Nov 22, 2023
1TrippleCee:
Very fantastic question
You did not answer the fantastic question. Please bless us with a sermon on how to tap glories from our wives.
FamilyRe: He That Findeth A Wife...... by Carcholce: 7:40pm On Nov 22, 2023
1TrippleCee:
You are a prophet you should know. Every woman has untapped encapsulated glory. The problem is most men do not know how to open the glory and the benefit from the tapped glory deposited within. There us a hidden deposited glory that has to be released from a woman and when showered on the man, he will.be truly great.


It doesnt manifest because most men do not know it exists

Some men do not know.how.to.untapp the glory


Some men do not want to put in the work.


This is why most pastors become the beneficiary. They know it, they recognise it, they put in the work
What does a man have to do to tap this glory?
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Carcholce: 11:43am On Nov 22, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
How old are you? You can't be an adult to think like this

Truly kids have invaded nairaland undecided
Sarcasm my sister. Sarcasm!!! You and I know the OP can never do such!
RomanceRe: Christmas Breeze by Carcholce: 7:53am On Nov 21, 2023
The scent!!!

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FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Carcholce: 7:47am On Nov 21, 2023
Biisola:
For a marriage to be successful both parties needs to align as one only then will things move smoothly.

The sister in-law of this said oga contributed to this problems this couples are currently dealing with.
You are omitting the real problem. If the sister in law contributed to the problems, who gave the sister in law the leeway?
Technology MarketRe: Checkout These 5G Gaming Phones With 12GB RAM Memory And Above... by Carcholce: 6:50am On Nov 21, 2023
yemkoguru:
and $1,400 price tag right?
No. It’s. $200
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Carcholce: 6:48am On Nov 21, 2023
bdon123:
Dont ask sister inlaw hubby shit.Quietly claim u taking d child out for hangout n do a DNA test.they only need ur blood/saliva n that of d child to do it.
I hav done DNA twice ..both blood n saliva sometimes 2016 n it came back negative that i wasnt father of d child i was accused.ad of then it cost 70k
I was just being sarcastic with the last part though. I know the OP will not do that.
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Carcholce: 3:56am On Nov 21, 2023
deewhydoski:
@Unproudlife., the post is too lengthy try to summarize it. I read it to a certain point and I stopped. Nobody get that previous time to be reading long story. No offense pls
Let me summarize it:

OP married his long time girlfriend and taught her how to fish, She started fishing and started being disrespectful and not submissive. The thing vex OP. OP that was once a church boy was forced to start doing hookup and bending doggy inside his car. The wife noticed but She nor send OP. After OP have had his fill of hookup, he came to his senses and gave his life to Christ. It was after his eyes has cleared that he realized his last born resembles his sisters in law last born.

Did the OPs wife mistakenly fell on her sisters bed and rode her brother in law till he came inside her? OP is confused. So am I.

The question OP is asking now is “Who get the pikin”
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Carcholce: 3:26am On Nov 21, 2023
Wahala!!

I am not married but the points I noted from your post is that.

1. Don’t teach women how to fish, give them fish instead. When giving them the fish, make sure it’s only the head and the tail.

2. Most women will hate you if you are nice man. I don’t know where the hate comes from. It seems natural. You have to be cruel to them, always make them remember the wrong things you did instead of the good. They’ll love you more.

3. If your wife pushes you out with her nagging and disrespectful behavior, and you really go out and start cheating/fornicating, it’s a trap. When you fall into the trap, you’ll fall so hard that you’ll lose more than you can ever recover. This is the ultimate test most men fail

4. About your last born. Only God and DNA test knows the answer. Or you can simply approach your sister in law hubby and ask him if he mistakenly slept with your wife. Just be polite with the question.
Technology MarketRe: Checkout These 5G Gaming Phones With 12GB RAM Memory And Above... by Carcholce: 12:18am On Nov 21, 2023
The new Asus Rog 8 ultimate is coming with 24gig ram!
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Useless And Lazy. Claims Sickness Whenever I Ask Her To Work. by Carcholce: 5:48pm On Nov 20, 2023
Bliztzer:
Lol!!

Which boys?

We dey dere when him dey enjoy her juicy snail?
Abeg make everybody carry him load put for head. If him kick am out good, if him come let am stay is all well and good. But e for good make the guy seat her down and talk sense into her.
Her vjay will meant nothing to a man when she is a consistent liability
He said he wants to boot her out, I was only cheering him on. Na only im know waten e eye dey see.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Useless And Lazy. Claims Sickness Whenever I Ask Her To Work. by Carcholce: 5:30pm On Nov 20, 2023
Scientists:
kitten I d knack for more than a year now grin cheesy grin. She even told me to massage Her back when I came back. She's wearing only green pant. She doesn't know say Her time don go.
I will quote you tomorrow morning for update. Nor fall my hand Abeg. Do it for the boys.
Christianity EtcRe: Is This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 5:27pm On Nov 20, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:
Yes!

A virgin should remain a virgin and not guilty of fornication/adultety to make the kingdom of God.

And that if a virgin has desires for women, then he should marry rather than sin.

That is the scope of his message.
Thank you for your response.

Another question, does a fornicator that decide to go celibate and do away with the old life qualify for the kingdom of God?
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Useless And Lazy. Claims Sickness Whenever I Ask Her To Work. by Carcholce: 5:20pm On Nov 20, 2023
Scientists:
Normally I d Bleep any girl that comes my House. I fvck and move on. This one is ripe for marriage just like me. I don't know why she chose laziness at this point of her life.It is good to know who you are dating o, just imagine that I married this one. She even told me now that she wants to eat pan cakecheesy grin grin. She never know that she is getting booted out tomorrow morning
If she’s smart enough she’ll give you like 3 good round of sex to strip you of your senses. After you must have cummed repeatedly you’ll forget to booth her out tomorrow morning!
FamilyRe: HOW MANY PEOPLE STILL HAVE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MINE HAS GOTTEN GRAYWITH AGE by Carcholce: 4:46pm On Nov 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
I post what I want, no one tells me what to post.
Alright then. Don’t tell us, Nairalanders what to do!
FamilyRe: HOW MANY PEOPLE STILL HAVE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MINE HAS GOTTEN GRAYWITH AGE by Carcholce: 4:30pm On Nov 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
No I tell you say I no get privacy? You for say make i snap my nude show you.
No no no. I do not ask women for nudes. It’s only a man that is not getting “some” that ask for that. I would rather invite women to my house to strip naked for my gratification.

Let’s get serious again. Only your passport data page can make me believe you and your birth age. After you post it, I’ll post mine.
FamilyRe: HOW MANY PEOPLE STILL HAVE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MINE HAS GOTTEN GRAYWITH AGE by Carcholce: 3:42pm On Nov 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Post it, I'll know but why post a fake cert though? Why are people especially blacks and most especially Nigerians ashamed of their age? Ha... Me I can't o. Well maybe because I was brought up raised among the whites who don't see sharing their life and experiences as anything. I grew up with that mentality that's why I seem to be the odd one on Nairaland.
grin

Okay let’s get serious. Post your passport data page then I’ll think about posting mine.
FamilyRe: HOW MANY PEOPLE STILL HAVE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MINE HAS GOTTEN GRAYWITH AGE by Carcholce: 3:27pm On Nov 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
This one looks like Forged one to you? You need medicated glasses.
I am not saying yours is fake. But it can be forged. If I post mine how will you know it’s fake or real?
FamilyRe: HOW MANY PEOPLE STILL HAVE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MINE HAS GOTTEN GRAYWITH AGE by Carcholce: 3:18pm On Nov 20, 2023
Birth certificate that can be forged with a token is what you are foaming about?

You are not serious human female.
Christianity EtcRe: Is This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 5:45am On Nov 20, 2023
Dvea:
First of all, Paul said that, and he did as part of a long teaching on being good Christians. It was not as though this is law from God; this was simply his advice to Christians as a father and apostle. If you check and I'm using Good News as a yardstick, the translation for that verse is two. Good News places a reference for that verse. At the bottom, the optional translation is

'You say that a man does well not to marry'

The optional translation is more of him restating a point someone has said to him.

Anyway, Any sensible person who reads the entire chapter 7 knows what Paul was trying to do. That being said, Abeg, when you are reading the Bible, remember that it is a translation of a translation of the original copy, so there are translation flaws, also remember that there was a culture, understanding, and pattern then, also remember that to read between the lines, a lot of texts have a deeper meaning than what it looks, and by God, stop picking a verse and concluding. What led to the verse, what led away from the verse, what was the entire topic about, what was the culture at the time, who is speaking, who is being spoken to, what are the related verse. All of these are important. Stop picking one line and concluding that the Bible said this. If that is so, then the Bible also said kill. so...
Please pardon my ignorance! You will agree with me that even an acclaimed man of God standing on the alter do also desecrate the holy bible talk more of a bloody pagan like myself. I needed help to understand what the chapter is saying. “To marry or not to marry”

Thank you for your input!
Christianity EtcRe: Is This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 9:57pm On Nov 19, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:
So even as you see people are running away from marriage, you do not see the good of not being married?
Actually I thought the union of marriage was a biblical tradition.

Is the chapter trying to say a man is expected to remain celibate to enter the kingdom of heaven?
Christianity EtcRe: Is This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 9:53pm On Nov 19, 2023
Kobojunkie:
What mistake? The same Jesus Christ who confirmed to you that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God in Luke 20 vs 34 -36 assured you that instead those who would choose to live as Eunuchs for the Kingdom of God have God's special blessing/Permission to do so. undecided
The question here should be why do you want it to be a mistake? undecided
I’m lost. If the chapter is against marriage because it is of this world, does it support the idea of birthing children without the union of marriage?

I apologize if my question sounds silly!
Christianity EtcRe: Is This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 1:24pm On Nov 19, 2023
immortalcrown:
That verse doesn't say "It is best for a man not to marry". So, use your brain.
“It is good” it says.
Christianity EtcRe: Is This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 1:12pm On Nov 19, 2023
oranget:
It is not a mistake, and the writer is not high on anything. You simply refused to read and understand the whole chapter after you got the verse you were looking for.
“8 Now to the unmarried[a] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion”


Pardon my ignorance, is the verse telling us to remain unmarried regardless or to marry only when we can’t control the urge immoralities?
Christianity EtcIs This Part Of The Bible A Mistake? by Carcholce(op): 12:52pm On Nov 19, 2023
1st Cor 7

“It is good for a man not to marry”


Was the person that wrote that verse high on something? angry angry

What is good about not getting married? To think no bible scholar/teachers have touched on that verse is fishy!

Is that verse a mistake?
Kobojunkie, have you seen this bible chapter before?

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