Klass99:


A woman like me, hell yes. Because I have longed for a man who can carry on a mutually exclusive relationship without sex involved. The thing has been like Ethan Hunt's mission impossible, but there are women like me who will go for no sex relationship and not pressure you to have sex to prove your manhood or call you gay for not wanting to.

Let's be honest pre-marital sex is one of the most draining and destabilising things we do, but try vainly to justify away. Haven't you felt good since quitting it? You have more power in deciding whether to fornicate or not, don't give that power or choice away to any woman you are with, if you don't want to do it.

It is more about you and what you want for yourself, than the woman you are with. Remember that!

If you are with a sexually active woman, the type who will tab you

Did you finish the bolded texts? I didn’t get what you mean. Please explain

Hideaki:
Imagine eating ogbono soup for many years and not tasting other soups


That's what it's like when you don't scoop other chicks



Op by the time you're married, you'll start from where you stopped

Your last statement doesn’t make sense. What’s you are actually saying is, I am pretending just to get married to this lady?

GenderMix:
One of the signs of maturity in man is to be able to have sexual urge and still put It under control. Nothing wrong with sexual urge because you are human.

If you see the right woman , you will be attracted to her in All ramifications including sexual urge. Infact it is what will drive your sexual appetite during marriage. So when you say you loose sexual urge , I suggest you check it properly. Sounds abnormal for a woman you want to spend your life with.

I am not saying you should lust after her continuously. There are other important things that should be happening beyond sex desires. You should be emotionally and romantically connected but you should put your emotions in check and focus on the bigger picture😉

Thank for your response. Lots of wisdom here.

I think I forgot to state that, my urge still remains, even stronger than before but the sudden will power to put it under control and instead channel it into other endeavors is my reason for creating the post.

You know when the urge for physical sex is instead transmuted to your brain and turns you into a romantic genius. That’s where I am at right now.

Klass99:
You've asked valid questions and even I am interested in reasonable people's feedback.

As for losing the urge to fornicate, I am impressed and I say seven blessings to you, because it is so hard to find a man who is willing to contemplate celibacy, yet alone practice it, after being sexually active. You need to keep it up.

I think you are maturing, and it has nothing to do with the woman you are seeing in particular. No one can change you, except you. She may be a good or bad influence, but you ultimately have the power of choice and you chose to no longer fornicate, so well done.

Thank you for this. Much appreciated.

Question for you, do you think this changes would have still been observed even if I was with a different woman?

Wawelexy:
You are taking a recess bro, you will resume after a while.

No no, this is not a recess but a gradual change of heart. But thank you for the response.

Ahmed0336:
I won't lie, I married my wife so she could help in adjusting my then way of life.
She's so spiritual and me? Na Nafdac Approved Fornicator
Bro, I studied her for 7years + and I just knew that I needed someone like her in my life if not na express I dey. Glad I did and I will say that's the best decision I have made in my life. Almost 18years in marriage now

I pray yours too will be the same

Gbam!! This is the definite response I am looking for. If I tell you the numbers of times I have prayed and fasted to change from fornicating lifestyle, I thought all hope was lost.

At a point I was thinking if the lady I am currently seeing don go lock me inside bottle but on a second thought, anything that can stop me from fornicating, I will highly welcome it.

Are you trying to tell me the sudden gradual change is influenced by the woman I am with?

Benekkk:
When I was getting married, I told myself one truth - what’s good for the goose is sauce for the gander I.e. I wasn’t going to expect from my life partner a standard that I couldn’t hold myself up to, no hypocrisy.
I didn’t even really look at her physical statistics because I was more interested in her mind. (The beauty I noticed in a woman was always the eyes - the window to the soul).
We’re still happily married after 30 years. I think it’s because I became a Christian.

30 years?

I have to stop engaging banters on this forum because we have elders here. Thank you very much for this response sir!

ahnie:
Can we at least sit on the fence and read comments,since this is strictly for married men?

I would have open the comments to all, both married men and women but it’s only a man that can give a definite answer because ……. (I don’t have to spell it out)

Please if you are not married, I don’t need your comment. If you are a single father, don’t comment either, if you are a divorcee, please save your strength. Only a happily married man should comment.

I have a question to ask, and I need a very good answer,

What qualities made you pick the woman you are married to?


Why I asked this question is, I used to think you must look out for your preferred qualities in a woman to qualify her for marriage.

Is it just the qualities or the impact those qualities are having on you?


I have been seeing a woman for some months now. I must confess that since I met her, the urge to fornicate has completely disappeared. I used to be a serial womanizer and fornicator. Everything is changing at a very fast rate and for the first time since I have been praying and fasting for changes in this regard, I am very much satisfied with my new found will power.

Is this one of the signs of the qualities a woman possesses or am I getting matured or etc etc?

But The idea of me getting matured is flawed because even married men young and old get married and still cheat with numerous women.

Sorry for the many questions! I just need answers to help me understand why I have started ignoring other women advances and sex invite. This is unlike me but don’t get it wrong, it’s my number one prayer being answered.

PaganTerrorist:


I'm hunk and my Dee is huge so I'd like a cute twink.

Is it up to 12 inches?

PaganTerrorist:



I'm not bottom

I'm the inserter

Why are you hiding your bottom from inserters?

What inches of dlck can you take in?

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JASONjnr:


You asked him why he made the topic all about the girl, yet you went ahead talking bad about her when you haven't heard from her side.

You don't even know if the dude is the one pouring everything inside her or he's just scared to settle down and you don't even know if the family of the girl will collect less than he's assuming to settle them.

You my friend do not know how to judge things neutrally. I castigated the OP and the machine aborting girlfriend. Don’t side one party.

If the OP is the one pouring everything inside, it means he and the lady are fools. I have been a fool too.

If he is scared of settling down, he is still a fool, it becomes a title at 40.

If he does not have the exact sum the girls family is asking of, he is still a fool for continuing to pour inside.

I cannot work for another man! Rich kid like me. With the amenities at my disposal in Nigeria, I do not see why I should continue to work for a man with a working penls as mine. Not forgetting some of them with erectile dysfunction.

Another important thing is. I cannot even jump queue anymore, in Nigeria I sit inside the car and signal to the security guard to take me inside the bank with 1k squeezed into his hand. Overtime they start making way for me immediately they sees me at the bank premises.

A lot of other things I cannot mention right now. Imagine a scenario where the Oba of Benin travels abroad and becomes a commoner. E nor clear na.

In 2022 I broke up with a lady because her job was to clean adult asx. The same adult asx She would not clean in Nigeria.

I am telling you this from fact, 99.9 percent of Nigerian men do not like abroad but Nigeria where they feel like a king. The majority that would care to argue this are the percentage that can sell you to a white men for mere recognition while the others are married men.

(Anyone that can guess correctly why I said married men has won the sum of 10 thousand Naira)

Please provide your answers with facts and statistics!

Your pull out game is top notch but you are on your 8 abortion.

Why did you make the title about your girlfriend alone? She is aborting your future.

You are dealing with a woman that will ruin you for life. A woman that does not want to give birth out of wedlock should be intelligent enough to lock her legs and throw the keys into the ocean until bride price is paid. The fact she’s blackmailing you with marriage, blackmailing you with free cheap sex and at the same time she’s blackmailing you with abortions. She’s not a going to make a good wife.

she is only mirroring you and your actions. Which means your ways nor clear. Na you nor get sense. Idiotic element.
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Jeon:
Clout chaser, come back if you can't cope. Canada and foreign countries are not for people like you and 80 % of Nigerians, cuz there is no chance there to show the low behaviors and mentality .

Is this moniker hacked?

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OP, kiNg0G

I just watched a clip of the burial on IG, there were so many celebrities in attendance. What exactly are you blabbing about?

Miller232:

Nobody send him papa too
Who him dey feed??
Onkr

So why are you guys pained about him and he’s way of life?

KiNg0G:
he doesn't have to.
This post was made in response to fans like Cynthia Morgan who were ranting online on is behalf.

Exactly the same way you guys are ranting on behalf of Davido. Did Davido send you to make this post?

Davido is being himself, allow wizkid to be himself too. They cannot be the same personality. Burnaboy is even worse than wizkid in this regard but the guy is moving hard and winning Grammy.

Samantha124:
What if this Wizkid guy is just an introvert and doesn't like being all over the place.

And what was he going to gain if all Nigerian celebrities attended the funeral? was he going to gain a golden award for it? I don't even know anything about Davido and the only song I know from him is dami duro from back when I was still in high school, but I know few of Wizkid's songs.

And also keep in mind that his mother was not a celebrity... Just because the son is a celebrity, it doesn't mean the mother's funeral must be like that of a celebrity.

Thank you jare. You have sense. One bottle of kiss for you.

The guy is just an introvert, he cannot be who you want him to be but himself.

I do not post on WhatsApp or instagram. Not even on my birthday, because of this, someone asked me if I am not a ghost. People nowadays think there’s a set standard for other people to think and act. They cannot phantom why you do your thing and move differently.

KiNg0G:
he nor send anybody we gree

Same way people didn't send him


Why are you fans complaining of low turn out of celebrities.

Fans you said. Did he, Wizkid complain? Did he post on his social media pages to complain?

You guys are sick in the head. Always trying to equate A and B to think and act the same way. Wizkid is not Davido, Davido is not wizkid. As if wizkid send anybody papa whether them come the burial or not. Tomorrow he’ll release another banger to suffocate your Davido and his fans.


Edited: I just watched a clip of the burial on IG, there were so many celebrities in attendance. What exactly is the OP blabbing about?

StPete:
270. Best price

You tried! I will wait for more offers.

Mckandre:


What firmware version is it?

This is what I am seeing!

Unexpectedfav:


Contact boss

Tell me how much you have for me, I will contact you!

meobizy:
A Nairaland billionaire like you? Dash me the thing.

Why do you think Nairaland does not have millionaires?

Noble3264:
250

Mr noble you can do better. Nice try though

Edimakan:
$150

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What have I ever done to you to deserve this?

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