ahnie:
Yes I think... remember when you locked married peeps from yours weeks aback?
Some of us had to sit on the fence to read comments

Lol. Okay na. Let me sit and read comments! Make I learn.

Is the thread only for married people?

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Gajagojo:


Sorry if you read clearly you would have seen OBVIOUS CONTRADICTION in the story

He claimed the man abandoned sister after daughter born and then said the opposite

No the contradiction in the story is that the OPs sister left her marriage and the OP and her family did not bother to know the real reason why She left. Some men are very cultured to the point that when a woman leaves her matrimonial home with her bag. The men would not move an inch trying to beg her to return because it is abominable for a woman to leave her marriage without any serious issues.


OP got to know why her sister left because her sister involved him by asking for his opinion. And the OP (I think for the first time) got in touch with the said man to find out from him. The OP even had to confirm the man’s account from his sister and his sister confirmed them to be true.

What do you suggest we do to ighalo?

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Nemesis0147:
go back and read the post again..
This time,,slowly.

Asin eh! As popular as the moniker is, I’m shocked She would attend to such sensitive post with bitterness. It tells a lot about some people on this sub!

Kobojunkie:
You are saying that the reason your sister abandoned this man for 8 solid years has to do with the man being poor? She chose to shoulder the burden of raising her 3 kids all by herself because the man did not have money. And now the same man is calling her back and she is considering it? Is the man now rich or what? Why exactly does your sister want to go back to a man she abandoned for a whole 8 years? The reason for the split does not seem solid.

OP, this story wey you tell get K-leg abeg!

Are you calling the OP a liar or you are simply not okay with the fact that the woman is considering going back to being a married woman?.

Beremx:
So it's because the man doesn't have money he's requesting for your sister to come back? Probably he has lavished all he had on women and he's now looking for his wife to come suffer with him.
Your sister should move on with her life and take care of the kids.
Nonsense

Some of you will just comment with bitterness.

You read it clearly that it was the woman that took her bag and ran away because the said man was broke which was “then” (8years ago) the OP sisters confirmed the man’s allegations to be true.

Why are you bitter?

temmyejo:


You're entitled to your opinion and as for your rude attitude, hope it makes you great in life..

I am forced to voice out the fact that idiots like you are one of the reasons people of other races think less of Africans.
A mannerless child like you deserve a spot at the lowest echelons of life so you learn humility..

**Cheers**

Who cares what other races think of your shithole Nigeria.

dinachi:

Have you finished embarrassing yourself because of your ignorance! You are bringing 1900 ideas to 2023! What can be more stupid?

Nobody fit help you like this! Our forefathers lived in their time and clime. This is our time and clime. Women in our forefathers times were married as virgins and died knowing only their husbands(sexually). The concept of lesbianism was non existent. There were no dildos or vibrators. Today, everything have changed. There are new realities.


It is the height of stupidity to be applying outdated ideas to modern trends. You keep proving me right at every twist and turn. You do not have any grasp of today trends. That's why you keep sounding like this and what makes it so annoying is you holding on to derelict fads.

MASTURBATION IS AN EXCELLENT COPING MECHANISM FOR MODERN TRENDS.

But I know you will never understand it. You can keep decieving yourself about going back to the 1900s, a time that will never come again!

You are a boy! For conforming to new trends, it makes you a boy. When you do your research you’ll see Dildos have date back to ancient Greeks and ancient Egypt. The Chinese had dildos too. same sex(lesbianism) existed far far back those ancient times. If you are too dumb to do your research. I’ll post pictures of ancient wooden dildos for you to see.


To show you how ignorant you are. The idea of sex has remained the same from the very inception of its creation. Nothings changed. Any change it has experienced is as a result of people like you. When the container that houses the sexual energy(your body) becomes contaminated and polluted, it becomes weak to hold in the sexual urges thereby leading to frequent urge to release the sexual energy through masturbation and sex. Through sex is understandable because it will happen between two partners, but when a man with a working dilck and two functioning balls results to masturbation because he is scared of approaching women and does not want to spend money and resources or scared of rejection, he is a pvssy.

temmyejo:


[Ladies mirror whatever we do If she's whining her waist, she's enjoying it meaning you have to make her whine her waist. I used to think we do all the waist work also till I slept with a lady who's a bomb in love making. In short, you want good sex, give good sex lobatan.

MouthAction and some crazy innovations are women's ideas I repeat and men just chiped in for a good fun. Watch vintage porn and you hardly see a man giving a head but you see ladies do it. Ladies have been giving BJs since the sixties or even longer than that, when did men start?

Please try to be reasonably polite in your responses, it portrays intellect. I have respected you so well in my mentions even when we had different views to the same subject. The fact that I am right does not mean you're wrong so it's best we show each other respect when we interact.

Please take no offences....

Isn’t this the initial point I made that was causing all these rants? Men teach women sex, not the other way around like you and the other masturbator were promoting.

I’m not a polite person. And I take great offenses when dealing with men of little mind.

temmyejo:


She satisfies you and cool your nerves...
[/b]She's the one who knows how to twist a waist well enough for maximum pleasure...
Remember that the idea of "head" and doggy was their idea also....

What we invented as men in sex would be things like BDSM and sex tapes we keep to satisfy ourselves later on...

The thing is that you please a woman with your body and she does the same to you..
You enjoy the sex more if you focus more on what you can do to her while she figures a way to pay back...

The harder you hit her sensitive areas, the faster she wants you to cum as it's pleasurable pain especially when she's not wet yet..
Just imagine a soft tickle at the back of your spine when a light breeze blows through your spines.

I know how to satisfy my ladies and they reciprocate exactly how I want it, I may need someone from here for an experiment

Go and sleep. You are talking nonsense. Head and doggy were women’s idea. Were you in the council of women when they idealized it!

Perhaps you have not been using your waist well. A man uses his waist during sex more than a woman can ever do. A woman’s waist cannot do 20 percent of what a man’s waist can do during sex.

dinachi:
Em5pty heads like you easily fall victim to the well and ready sexual pleasures. It's you who have exposed yourself as a timid man who needs to beg for sex from a woman! Weak men like you beg for sex because they have no alternative. Strong men use the alternative to their advantage!

That's the difference between a man like you whose opinions and concept about sex is outdated and looks like something from a 1940 manual and me who have a deep understanding about sex gained via different sources and factors!

Men like you easily resort to rape because they can't manage their raging hormones! You go soon cast! I dey watch you!

You still do not get it. Real men do not beg for sex. There’s nothing like raging hormone. No matter how raging your hormone is, you bottle it in a container. Your body is the container. You do not allow the rage to escape via masturbation if sex isn’t happening. Women do not refuse me sex because I do not beg for it. It is readily available whenever I want it. You beg for sex because you are a peasant. Imagine a star like davido or wizkid begging for sex when there are millions of women ready to tear their pant for them.


I like the fact you said I am outdated (1940) it speaks so much of you and your gen Z sense of reasoning. Real men were born in the early 1900. How about that? Is it not on this same platform we were applauding our forefathers that they had the best of marriage and relationships? They were from the 1900s. Let that sink into your empty masturbating mind.

temmyejo:


Who gives the best sex education??
Who do we men satisfy during sex??

Men learn best about sex from women and women from men

You think women gives the best sex education because we have pvssys parading as men around us. The best sex education comes from a man. A man is in charge of sex. If you allow a woman to give you sex education, she’ll only educate you to her advantage. How to satisfy her and herself alone. In doing this you lose your senses to trying to satisfy her which turns you to her sex slave.


Who do we men satisfy during sex? If you notice my response to the guy above, I stressed on the point of sex enhancements. Sex enhancements are a hoax business strategy to make men believe they are actually satisfying their women sexually. Wonder why when you are sexing a woman and She tells you to go faster and harder? The question is

“how harder or faster can you go to really satisfy her”?

I’ll answer it for you. Whether you go faster or slower, harder or softer, a woman is never satisfied during sex. It is the same logic with the money we men spend on a woman. If you think you actually make a woman cum during sex, the truth is, you set yourself up for next time.

To get the best sex with a woman, you have to satisfy yourself, in return She feels satisfied. Her satisfaction lies in your satisfaction.

dinachi:

First of all, this is not an argument but a complete mental flogging! I have been schooling you since you dared expose your pathetic ignorance. You are so naive it makes me sick!

Nobody mentioned anything here about not having sex. Kai, this boy, you re so moronic!

We only said Masturbation is an excellent substitute especially for men with raging sex hormones and even those who needs to have a beneficial way to satisfy their sexual urges without running foul of the law.

Instead of turning yourself into a dummy for a lady because of your uncontrollable sex urges, you masturbate and clear your head. You make better decisions!

It helps you to have sex with a woman at your own terms. For instance, even though you are a aroused and need to have sex, you won't belittle yourself to beg your girlfriend who is giving you attitude because she knows you like knacking. You ignore her, satisfy yourself and keep your dignity as a man. And then watch her come around!

That's the whole point Masturbation is a very safe and beneficial alternative to physical body sex between a couple. Get that into your head!

HAVE SEX ON YOUR OWN TERMS!

I see where you are coming from. You might even be an ex rapist. You beg for sex and if you don’t get it you masturbate. You are a pvssy, I’ll say it again and again. It should be the other way round, women beg for sex and should are ever ready to satisfy you when you want it, even on their periods they want it even more. It’s only weak men that beg for sex and result to masturbate when they don’t get it. You are a pvssy!

Especially Canada.

I don’t see the hype. I lived like a king in Nigeria.

dinachi:

Another moronic submission from an outdated scallywag . I hope you know calling a woman a pussy is insulting to women, just like a lady calling men dicks? Gosh you have such a very low standard for women. I believe it hides your utter frustration at not being able to perform ( I mean sexually)🙂🙂

I think I have finally decoded your problem. Railing at women to hide your sexual and personal inadequacy won't help you.

You do everything to talk down on women to impose your masculinity! Well I hope you don't extend your low opinion of women to your mother and sisters!( Won't do you any good though).

Your ideas about sex are encapsulated in derelict and outdated concepts. Sex is beyond moronically thrusting your pelvis at women. It's majorly in your mind. Arousal starts from the mind!

So, masturbation is a safe way to keep raging sex hormones in abeyance. Women know it l, some men know it and it's just the truth!

Only foolish idiots like you rail against their own gender because of your personal inadequacy!

MASTURBATION IS A SAFE BET FOR MEN AND WOMEN! You can keep decieving yourself while dildos, vibrators and now flesh lights keep selling in humongous proportions.

Arguing from now till tomorrow won't change the facts!

Arguing with you is pointless. Arguing with someone that will beat his meat probably 3 to 10 times in day is demeaning to me. Go into your shadows and enjoy your masturbation, stop telling others to join your party. When you finally grow up, you’ll realize pvssys with warmth and juicy wet are out there waiting for you to plough, until then, enjoy your private meat beating party.

dinachi:

I just schooled you about the ubiquity of masturbation for both genders! You are just capping. Empty barrell. Keep decieving yourself.

MASTURBATION IS SAFE AND GOOD FOR BOTH GENDERS! FACT!

I still put it to you that masturbation is for pvssys. A woman is already a pvssy, a man that engages in it is automatically a pvssy. You are a pvssy!

Sex shouldn’t be a man’s problem, talk more of resulting to masturbation.

What do you masturbate with? Porn? 😂

Another problem! Your life is in your “hands”

You are comparing women that their pvssy is always scratching them to a man.

A woman’s pvssy that is very prone to toilet infections hence causes itching is what you are comparing to men’s.

A woman that can go up to 2 hours of sex and not get tired is what you are comparing to a man that will become flaccid when he cums after second or third round, some men can not even go more than one round.

A woman that does not need any sex enhancement drugs, alcohol etc for sexual performance is what you are comparing to men.

Your brain is paining you.

dinachi:

You just still exposed your stupid naivety! So, women do not count as other people? You are so stupid it makes me sick!

And then what do you have to teach about sex, absolutely nothing. You are empty!

Ask me any question regarding sex, I’ll teach you what your 10 generation from now will never forget.

dinachi:

The best men learn from women and add to what they already know as men! You don't learn from women that's why you are so shallow! You are not just a pussy but you are also a stupid pussy! Because only a man who has no value for women will boldly say he doesn't learn from women. Go to fucking hades! Your stupid post was made because you don't even know that most women openly masturbate with dildos and vibrators and openly endorse it! They gain from it. They are able to twist and turn you around because they don't need you to release their sexual energy unlike he-goats like you who will be exposing himself and wasting his almost non existent resources to pursue a woman.

Learn the secret of successful men who can't be manipulated by women!

Masturbate responsibly. It will save your heart, your health and your resources.

Why are you foaming over masturbation?

E vex you coz you are a serial masturbator. The successful men you mentioned do not waste their time and vital life force on masturbation because most successful men have a woman they engage in sexual practices with and not rely on masturbation to relieve themselves.

A man that is scared of having a woman because he does not want to lose resources is a pvssy. You are a pvssy dinachi.

Real men have women chasing them left and right, resources or not. If you spend all your time wasting your magnetic force on masturbation, how will you get women? Pvssy!!

Adewale1603:
I do post lots of different funny memes with different captions, vawulence memes on social media status, be it Facebook or Whatsapp. It's just for jokes and fun, it doesn't in any way applies to me or to my personal life. Just for fun and laugh over it.

You still do not get it. Whatever you post is relative to how you think and function.

In Christian teachings it is said that, you do not speak or say things that is against your faith and beliefs. Not even for the fun of it. Because it contradicts your beliefs. It applies to all right thinking persons, be you Christian, Muslim or not.

Adewale1603:
it doesn't mean, it's just for fun. It doesn't means one shares that same sentiment. There are lots of things people post on social medias, doesn't mean it's about them personally or applies to their own life. Its actually meant for other people going through those ordeals or encounter

You are saying trash. Whatever catches your interest on social media and even warrant you to take it and post on your page is of sentimental value to you. You share same belief. That is why on Facebook, instagram and the likes they have an option to filter what do not want to see on your feeds.

advanceDNA:

Lol. The guy obviously has no use for the stick he wields in between his legs.

OP don’t mind those two people up there. Go to your woman, kneel before her and beg her to take your dlck and give you her pvssy.

temmyejo:


Experienced you mean??

The wisest people learn from other people's experiences!

“Other people’s” experiences you say but the person I quoted is telling us to learn from women.

Imagine a man with two hanging balls telling other men to learn masturbation experience from women!! I spit on his head!

dinachi:

You are a foolish fool! And here is the problem I have with most men. They are so fucking shallow minded!

Women have practically made dildos and vibrators very normal this is because they are by far smarter than some idiotic men like you. Dildos and vibrators are electronic masturbators. You will never see women rail against masturbation. But men, idiots like you condemn male masturbation! What the Bleep is wrong with you?

If masturbation is not good for men why is it good for women? Why are you so stupid?

Gentlemen, there is nothing wrong with masturbation. It's better to masturbate rather than to rape or even to waste money on prostitutes.

And your stupid argument that even if he masturbates that his dick will still stand is not just a foolish statement but also inherently so naive! Even if you Bleep I million women right now after a while your dick will still stand!

So whatever happens it's the same thing.

Guys save your money and life, masturbate responsibly. Learn from women They don't make noise. Almost all girls have dildos and vibrators. That's why they do you shakara! Be wise!

I don’t have need to respond to a man that is learning from women. Such a man is a pvssy.

Bornboy4:
Please do!

Fortunately I am no longer running away.

Bethcomm:
Holier than thou Nigerians will disagree with you while reasonable once will always rely on wanking to relieve themselves of sexual urge.

You are a weak man that is why you masturbate.

Even as you typed this, your brain is not functioning correctly. To show you that masturbation is never the cure. If you like masturbate 10 times a day, you’ll still wake up with an erection the next day. You are just wasting your vital life force with your own hands

Standing under a cold shower for 3 to 10 minutes will deflate that erected dlck within seconds.

Hitting the gym or a 50 to 100 push ups will divert the heat in your erected dlck and supercharge your muscles within seconds.

Take 5 pieces of bitter leaf and chew when your dlck is erect and watch the erection deflates as you are struggling to chew and swallow the leaves.

It is only a weak man that sees masturbation as a cure.

Yes ask again and again and again. Just turn it to cruise. But if She gives you don’t save it. When next you meet ask her for the number again.

Since She wants to play hard to get, you let her know she’s not important.

SIXTEENTH:

After all this things you jotted down, even if a man did all "a cheat must be a cheat" nothing more.

Fortunately the post is not talking about cheats.

An opportunity presented itself for you to know the kind of woman you are dealing with, you messed it up. If you are really honest you do not have money to give her for Christmas, explain things to her, let her know things are not so rosy but give her hopes when things get better you’ll make her happy.

Sit back and observe how She reacts afterwards, if She starts acting up and use her hand to spoil the relationship, it’s even better. But if she’s sticks by you and shows maturity about it, she’s for keep.

Rich4god:


Confront ke.... it's not like they were dragging the ladies I to the hotel.

So why are you creating a thread about it? You saw men that are doing what you despise, you did not confront them, you came to Nairaland to warn us instead.