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Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 9:38pm On Sep 05, 2013
That's the spirit girl...I suggest you continue on the break.Take time (but not too much)and just be yourself.Trust me when you find your self inlove again,you will feel so refreshed.

Congrats once again.no matter the pay at least it would help you sought out some things finacially without the help of Mr A or Mr B cheerssmiley
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 8:41am On Sep 02, 2013
Its a new month,a new beginning...take time to make yourself happy,re-evaluate yourself.

You can't love someoneelse if you don't love yourself.Love comes from within.Go ladies!!!,make every moment count.At the end,remember its your life,you are the only one to live it

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Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 8:56pm On Sep 01, 2013
I think its just the way we are wired..but then this is where self discipline steps in.

But being in debt is a no no for me,even when I want to get something from the mkt and I don't have enough to complete the payment..I will just deposit money and still leave the item there with a promise to come back on a particular day.

There are basic things everylady should have ,no matter the quality

1)A black handbag
2)A black shoe
3)A black skirt/trouser
4)A hair piece
5)Body spray
Once you have these things,you can pair it with other coloured items and use it for a while,then you gradually get new ones when you can afford.No matter how many clothes and shoes you have,just keep it clean and well ironed too,You are good to go.

As for the hair segment,always go for hair styles that would last,but know when it has reached its limit.

Better to carry a natural hair,than a smelling hair.At the end of the day,just look presentable.

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Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 6:57pm On Aug 31, 2013
Maya2pretty: Hello dollssssssssssssssssssss, beautiful ladies in d house, ave finally gotten a job! grin am so so happy, girl power! d whole bein single thing is off my mind, I guess joblessness was part of d sadness den, am happy *dancin skelewu*

Look who we have here!!!

Where have you been?Congrats on your new job and welcome backsmiley
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 4:42pm On Aug 31, 2013
One dress,diferent ways for different occassions

Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 9:21pm On Aug 30, 2013
Hi babyloray.....how you dey na?I wrote out a lot of things which I wanted us to talk about but this antispambot thing won't just allow me.Its actually on fashion and grooming.

Wanted us to talk about how possible it is for a lady to live within her means no matter what her pay/income is.

I know that our major obsession is clothes ,shoes annd bags.But at the same time it should not lead us astray or into debt.

So the trending topic is #howtolivewithinyourmeanssmiley
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 9:37pm On Aug 29, 2013
missblanche: one of the reasons i'm so scared of marriage,what if he changes?what if?who will i run to?my mum is a verrrrrrrrrry lucky woman....*whew*

Quiet scary I tell you but the truth is that,change is the only constant thing in life.

Even you Miss blanche will change,including me.So.........
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 5:26am On Aug 29, 2013
@suzzie,I really don't know the kind of advise to give you.reason?

One thing in life I have discovered in life is that once its time to leave something...(work,marriage,bussiness,location,).we don't need anybody to tell us before we do it.The decision always come from our innermost being.

Being married to this man for 24 whole years,there is no advise you will get here different from what people must have told you in the past.

Please I will also suggest you open this as a topic in the family section.Perharps the married and matured folks there will help better.

Sorry about what you are passing.However I feel you gave room for it.When something happens the first,the way you handle it goes a long way to determine how long it will last.

Also read the story of our very own Tina Turner,her story will inspire you too.I wish you all the best,good luck Ma.
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 12:45pm On Aug 27, 2013
^^^,happy to see you too dearie!!!.

Miss you big timesmiley

Erm...I heard it was before the BBA show,but my main issue is what's the difference?

To me,there is no difference.
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 12:17pm On Aug 27, 2013
And so I heard that Angelo of bigbrother did not propose to his girlfriend,rather he just gave her a promise ring.....hmmm...So I want to ask

Is there really a difference between a promise ring and an engagement ring?.

Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 6:20pm On Aug 26, 2013
Dear aunty spam bot,

please don't ban me again

smiley
Entertainment / Re: Dillish Wins Big Brother Africa The Chase by carmelion(f): 4:42am On Aug 26, 2013
To worsen the mara sef ,the same angelo guy just proposed to his girlfriemnd sef,right infront of her.

You guys did not hear?hmm...I hipe beverly can survive this.Men play games,women take them serious

Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 12:53pm On Aug 25, 2013
Hi hi everyonesmiley smiley smiley smiley cheesy

Really feeling bad that I don't come here as often as I used to.I have a lot to write here but I also have a lot on my hands right now.sad

@ bukattyne darling,I see you jare.how is ' our' finacee doing?

@miss blanche baby.fairest of all. How are you and how is cake planet?
I think ii can understand how you feel about weddings and weekends but you have to be happy and celebrate with those who have found their better halfs. Who knows 'he' might meet you therewink.Have fun,enjoy life


@ babyloraray,am right here dear,nice meeting you.

@nimonpint......lol,you make me laugh. Actually I just uploaded that image last week,don't worry maybe its poor network that is delaying my pix from showing.:p

Where is everybody o?
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 1:38am On Aug 20, 2013
Hi Jaynec,you are welcome to the threadsmiley
Find tips on how to dress for petite ladies on page 57.Click here-
https://www.nairaland.com/1182427/thread-single-ladies/57
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 7:49am On Aug 19, 2013
MONDAY,19th AUGUST,2013.

Learn to live within your means.Be contented with what you have,and work hard.Trying to 'meet up' will only send you extra miles(sometimes ungodly ways) insearch of money.

Also desist finding yourself in debt!.Goodmorning beautiful ladies.
Religion / Re: SCOAN Wiseman John Chi Is Dropped by carmelion(f): 6:55pm On Aug 18, 2013
Hmmm....
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 1:31pm On Aug 18, 2013
Happy sunday everyone!
Got some tips on how to do anything as a lady?.Bring it on let's see cool.Here is mine.Have a great week ahead!

Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 9:57pm On Aug 17, 2013
gbadexy: I am officially off the singles thread here as I'm hooked with smothly! Real names withheld.
Thanks to NL

Good to hear that.I wish you guys all the best!
keep us posted;
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 12:52pm On Aug 17, 2013
.......And so I listened to one of late Pst Bimbo odukoya's teaching on issues concerning singles/ married. It was so inspiring ,I learnt a lot from it but one particular message really caught my attention and I felt I should share.

Its about people especially ladies who assume they are in a relationship with someone,even though it was not verbally defined.


Many a times ladies just assume a guy is their boyfriend just because he calls her sweet names,buys you gift,always around you e.t.c. Personally I have listened to heart-to-heart programmes where ladies call in and cry bitterly that their best friend(a guy) is getting married to someone else. They even went as far being intimate ,so she that made her think that they were in a relationship. Apart from being heartbroken when the guy finally spells it out that you were never his girlfriend,keeping such a guy around you makes you loose your chances of meeting other men because they will just assume that you are in relationship.

My point is ,get your relationships verbally defined. If he is taking time to say it,ask him!Never you assume#word

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Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 8:48am On Aug 17, 2013
Lol,see ultimatum o!,hahahahaha.
Well I don't see it happening before then,but when its time,the house will surely know.

Happy weekend everyonesmiley
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 9:41am On Aug 16, 2013
Its been a while I have been here.Not so good but was not deliberate.Shout out to all the single ladies here,our thread is 7 months old and counting.We shall celebrate it in a big way come February 2014.

To the new folks,phew!,so many that I can't even write names,welcome and please contribute positively.


Aluta doll,You are best dear.Thanks for holding up.Babyloray thank you so much.Miss blanche dearie,I see you,ichidodo,Madridsta,Mobuch,
Temi4fash,Ayodot,I see you guys too.Thanks for your solidarity.


*Pumping super vibes in the air*TGIFsmiley
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 8:36am On Aug 16, 2013
ClassicLady: Hi all pls i'm new here and i'm happy to be here such a wonderful thread i must say. I believe the thread is for single ladies meaning single and not married yet right?

Pls i need ur advice on this issue. There is dis guy i have dated for 1year he has not proposed yet and we have not introduced ourselves to our family yet though he claimed d relationship is serious. Other guys that have been on my way i have turned down i have never cheated on him. I'm having a second thought as to keeping those guys on my rader till dis guy proposes cos i'm scared of d unknown and in my mid 20's pls wat do u all think i should do?

Note: i dont wanna create a topic on dis issue i prefer it here. Thanks all waitin for ur response...

Hi classic lady,welcome to the thread.though others have said it,I just felt I should point out one or two things especially the part where you mentioned keeping other guys on the radar as a form of Backup.

That will only distract you.It is either you are in a relationship or you are not.You won't enjoy it when you are divided ,besides that an act of indiscipline.If you are bothered about anything ,DISCUSS it with your partner.Afterall he is your partner.Let him know your worries and hear what he has to say.Don't be shy please.Let him also tell you what is keeping him.He must not build a house if his own before he gets a wife(just saying).

Lastly,the fact that you are in your mid 20's doesn't mean that you are ready for marriage.I feel the societal pressure too but trust me marriage requires a lot.Please take your time.My point is talk with him and things will be fine.Good luck!
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 8:54am On Jul 18, 2013
And so one of the reasons why some ladies take their time in saying yes to a suitor is cos of religious and cultural differences to avoid cases like this

My husband & I are based in hull United Kingdom & we love one another dearly during our dating time he knew I was a Muslim, we had our first baby (Kate) only recently he started actin cold towards me insisting I've 2change to Christian I was vry angry about it. I was angry because he never discuss this with me in the beginning, I need your sincere advice towards this issue HOUSE. Is it important for a wife to practice her husband religion at all?. Also I would be glad if this make it to the front page.

Thanks

https://www.nairaland.com/1360714/home-breaking

whats your take on this?
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 8:28am On Jul 18, 2013
fr3ddi3: I read from page 1-70......took me more than a week(coz i had to digest all the great advices dished out here), and i most say that U GUYS ARE AWESOME!!! Carmelion........i seriously admire ur guts, and i pray ur story will change for good. same prayer goes for every other contributor in this thread.

I'l continue reading from page71 at my convenience (as it not that combining studies, work, and personal stuffs)

Thanks dear,GOD has been so good.Amen to your prayers.

alutacontinua: ok, i give up!
Where the hell is passion
I'm missing him like crazy. angry angry angry
Carmie, causetrouble, ichidods, madridsta, where everybody dey?


Am alright dear,just that work just got more serious.I miss here so much.Happy times ahead smiley
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 12:16am On Jun 28, 2013
ichidodo: This goes out to some poor lost soul out there,somewhere and anywhere.
When you look back over so much time doing things that dont mean sh*t or things that won't help in your later life.You realized sometimes that you have also wasted sh*t load of time wiff people who were all after using,knowing you,gainin experience from you......Hell,you were taking those people as your priority but they were taking you as their option.It hits you that the people you was deeply in love wiff,had so so much hope of were just involved wth you for fun only passin time wiff you, a love on a mission where terms and conditions do apply.
You are at a different path now,all those stuff that was done in the past hopin they 'd turned up good whilst they 'd turned up very very messy,the folks you wasted time on,trusted and loved. All past tense now, to be binned in the trashcans of history. I don't believe you bear any regrets for all that in past because you was taught a lesson, wasn't you? Now you have to be careful with your delicate heart,the things you do, what people say to you,what you say in return and you gotta make decisions for the better cuz gurlfriend, you wont be living in ze past forever,hell, you can't forever be sleepin with a broken heart, no?
Now is the time to welcome new tins,new ideas & new people, you gotta think of other productive things that should take/shift you to another level of your life,come on, just give time to some other stuff you always wanted to do.The wellbeing of your life now rest on what you do today.Be strong dear friend, you will get over that pain & stress someday. Your life will be meaningful to someone one day. You will find someone who will love you the way you are. You will meet someone (hopefully not me) who be fearing to hurt you,to make you cry and to lose you.Its not the end of your life,just be focused, determined,clever,hardworking, GODfearing and every little thing will be alright.Pax Vobiscum.

Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 9:22am On Jun 22, 2013
madridsta007:


True. Missed you smiley

cheesy
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 7:37am On Jun 22, 2013
alutacontinua:

embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
MARRY ME! tongue kiss kiss

@ chikeorji,I know that you are seriously looking for a wife.Oya.....aluta has openly proposed to you sef.What are tou still waiting for?

Eh?be the first to roll in you invitationcheesy
Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 7:33am On Jun 22, 2013
Hi bukatyne,somehow your post sounds as if you are in support of extra marital relationship......but I think and hope you are not.

All those things you wrote there is for the 'big girls' in the game. Ladies who know exactly what they are doing and wants to go ahead to do it any ways.

I think Playgal was trying to advise the young innocent girls who believes anyone, who says the word"I love you" to them.

From experience,I have seen and heard some ladies seek 'solace' in the hands of married men when they suffer heartbreak or when they feel no single guy is serious with them. They feel an older partner would comfort them ,pet them. They mistake those expensive gifts as a sign of 'genuine love'.


For the big girls who are experts in the game already,trust me they don't need anyone to advise them. They know the consequences of what they are doing very well. All they need is financial gain.


To any single lady on this thread,who is thinking of towing that line,please read Playgal's post carefully and understand it.Do unto a man's wife ,what you want single girls to do unto you as a married woman.What goes around........ ?

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Romance / Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(f): 7:30am On Jun 22, 2013
Smartie gurl: Kai.....i miss this thread ohh! Where is Carmie?

Am right here Smartie.Been a while.
#work.

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