Hey dolls,happy weekend

We must not be half clothed to be sexy.BE A LADY &SAY NO TO INDECENT DRESSING!!

Hi Rubi,

I use colour500 in MK and I use ZZ10 Zaron.

I bought it from one of their distributors so she has 'testers/samples'

I use alot of shades before I got the exact clour.I think you should do same.You can also check their website.All the best

lorddannie: Hi Forumites, can someone help with info on where to get the past questions for MSc accounting entrance examination of UNIBEN. I'm currently in Benin. Thanks.

Go straight to Uniben,ask for their postgraduate buliding.Tell the receptionist you want to buy past question paper.She will sell it to you.

Sorry,but I don't know how much it goes for.All the best!

@innocue,sorry about what happened.Each time you remember it,also think of what your children would gave passed through in the future.

Trust me,when you start carrying them around fromn hospital to burial ground,you won't even remember love again.

Its gonna be tough for now,but trust me you will be fine.It won't happen too fast untill the wedding finishes.Don't 'torture' yourself with his wedding pictures.And don't have anything to do with himn again!

Don't get close to him,especially behind closed doors,else.......anything can happen.By then you will be .......with a married Man.

This phase is transient, honey it will pass.Many survived, you too can.

Be strong,and lest I forget,welcome to the thread.Feel free

@Alutadoll,happy newmonth too

The picture is a professional wedding photograph. We are used to seeing pictures where couples run with their train just for the fun of it.

But this pix wowed me ,cos the photographer added displayed some creativity by placing that dinosaur behind them.

It's fake yet looked so real and scary. I love it. Wouldn't mind something like this.

#Fantasy

Hey dolls,seen this?lovely awesome and Scary

I think transripts MUST be sent by your school to ascertain genuinty.

Any other medium ,I fear will not be accepted.

If not people can easily forge transripts,give themselves better result.Who no like first class?

Pray and find out if there is room for later submission.theee is always a way around these things.Get close to anybody working there,that might help.That's the best that can happen.

Branding is simply doing what you say you can do.

Do not over-impress your customers.

itsgood: I have asked on several occasions the reason for the mood swing most times he would say I have nothin to do with it that's just how he is.r

Truly you have nothing to do with it.When next you notice he doen't feel like talking,just let him be.

You mind set is working against you.you feel you are being tolerated.No dear you are not.That's just him.
My ex once called on one of those days,I didn't pick,I was just there staring at the phone.He kept calling......I felt he was disturbing me so I sent him a text

"I don't feel like talking" and he replied"ok"

If you ask me what was wrong,I don't know but all I know is that nobody should talk to me.My dear,its terrible

Mind you we didn't quarrel o.But I told him about it so he understands and stays clear when its starts.That was back then,it has reduced now.

I apologise on his behalf,you might not understand cos you don't experience it.Its undescribable
My dear enjoy your man please ,no cause for alarm(if its truly moood swings)

@itsgood,welcome to the thread.

First I want to congratulate you on your engagement,and please hold on to it.33 years is not beans,you need to settle down.

Now I have a few questions for you please oblige us by giving us honest answers.
1.How long have you guys dated
2.Apart from the problem you brought fort,does he have other issues you feel you can't put up with?
3.On those occasions you cried and confronted him about his behaviour,what was his response?

If your answer to the last question is no,then please you might just have to accept it as one of those things. No body is perfect. All these couples you see looking happily married have one of two negative attitudes they overlook in their partner.

The worst is that some of these attitudes are developed after marriage,so what do you by then?

I believe Men get married to a girl for either of these three reasons

1.Love
2.Pregnancy
3.Money(gold diggers)

There is no such thing as"she was the only girl available".For a man to choose you out of multitude of honies around....then.........

If the last two reasons,is not your case,then this guy likes you. That attitude of his might just be his own flaw.

Also note that some men,sometimes need some time alone!to think and strategise. They do that a lot.

Sometimes I blank out too,but mine is cos of mood swings. In such moments,all I need is space.Just like me,am sure he might be trying to stop it,but you know,somethings are just difficult to stop

I wish you all the best.

Expecting to hear from you pls.

I also heard some departments would write exam.I am sure of business Admin and Management.Almost everyone wants an MBA,so they would use that exam to reduce crowd and make money too.This is naija.I also heard Engineering will write.I saw a lady when she bought the past question paper.I forgot to ask her how much.


Please do not relax waiting for the admission letter to enter your mail box.This is Nigeria o,do your thing.If you know anybody that make things faster,the better.

2kurupt:


This will sound funny but permit me, I just want to be sure.

Were you referring to the 'final submit' button on the application site? What about copies of your supporting documents, when do you submit those?

Yes am referring to the final submit button.When you gain admission to the school,You will be contacted via your mail,the one you filled in during application.That is when you will submit those credentials.For now,only your transcript is needed.

youthofnaija: I obtained my B.Sc. degree from uniben. And now, I have applied for the M.Sc. programme. So will there be need for me to request or send transcript? considering the fact that i graduated from the same school

I met another lady that came to make enquiries concerning admission.She said she graduated from Uniben so there won't be need to request for transcript.But just to be on the safer side,you can check the school's website for any phone number to call.

Rich4god: @Camelion... Thanks for the info. But, hoe=w do we know if the transcript has reached UNIBEN, just in case if the my school fail to meet up with the deadline.

I forgot to ask them about that,but i think the PG school has a phone number(on the website).I wil have to check that out cos I need to fin out if my own transcript has reached too.

For those planning to go to Benin,don't bother anymore.I went to great Uniben yesterday to submit mine but I saw an announcement pasted on the notice board of the PG school.

It reads

"Please Note that only admitted students would be required to submit a copy of their application form,referree form.

Transcript should be sent to the Secretary School of Post Graduate Studies P.M.B 1184,Ugbowo benin City,Edo State."



So it means that all you need to do now is to submitt online and then forward your transcript through your University.
When they give you admission,you will be contacted via your mail.


I went to the bursary to make enquiries as regards school fees but didn't meet the personb in charge(friday things).But I asked some of the people I met there to give me an Idea.From the replies I got,it's from 100,000 and above!.So make una begin ginger your swagaa.

I wanted to get some pix but my phone battery was not in the mood.I hope to do so when next I go.I fell inlove with the school immidiately I stepped in.Enough noise,plenty activity .

I wish us luck!

Where 'em dolls @?
Hope no one is hurting anymore?As for me,I have moved on,and I can say I am very fine now.No more depression,selfpity e.t.c


Anybari with new situation report?

Haven't seen these dolls in a long while Missblanche,Missblessin,Auntynurse,Eimuhb,especially Joyola(and the player guy)

Cowgurl

117-120 pages?Bukatyne,are we not done yet?

Una well done o!

cmega123: FEMINISM...
Outside marriage, the law protects women. You can be whatever you want to be.

That's is the gist!,If they are equal,then why should one side be protected?why?

And what or whom are they protecting them from?


We are not equal8)bite me

BeautifulNaija:

I think it's horribly sad that you think this way. You dehumanize and disenfranchise yourself by subscribing to the belief that you're lesser than another human being. You're far too assimilated into pathetic patriarchal gender roles that you have lost all sense of personal identity.

Honey that was harsh,that's just my opinion.Sorry if I disappoint you.

Ok,let's come to a middle point here.Which gender can courageously walk at least 10miles by 1.00am without being sexually harrased?

bukatyne:


Hi, morning

There are really 2 angles:

Everyday interaction
Marriage

Ok, Lets go to everyday interaction: You believe a man is superior to a woman? i.e. a random man is superior to a random woman because he is a man?

Yes!as long as they both have same opportinities-Education,Social circle,Same form of freedom,Same career opportunity, same everything,a man is still superior.

There are limits to what a woman.


Take for instance in the work place.I know positions like Customer care officers,Front desk/receptionists are mostly taken by women but,you might want to agree with me,guys do that also.

How many companies employ women drivers,especially those that has to do with inter-state driving? How about technical parts?Engineers?

Trust me when a woman manages to get to a 'masculine' positiob,it is seen as news.It is celebarted.


To me,the only thing feminine role that men are yet to play is everything that has to do with birthing.And that's because,of their natural inability to do that.

Please remind me,what else women can do which men cannot do?May be that will change my mind.

By the way,am digging aluta's style of arguement . I mean from the marriage angle. I never wan put mouth for that side. When I get there I will cross it,cos it depends on who I end up with.

I think mine is coming from the angle of our everyday life. The way men and women interact.

bukatyne:

I mean generally.

look at it this way, Sally and Sandy are two girls in a school.

Sally is taller, more beautiful, more brilliant than Sandy.

Sandy is more courageous than Sally.

Are they equal?

@Bukatyne,Yes they are equal,cos when it comes to beauty and intelligence,only one can serve while ,when it comes courage,then the other would lay back.Besides they are both students. To the point,just like men and women,they need each other to be complete.

But if within their class or school(marriage),any of them is commanded by the teacher(GOD) to RESPECT one amongst them(MEN,HUSBAND),then I think they are no longer equal,the respected one is greater.


There is a reason why that particular one, was chosen to be respected.

This is lovely,but he should add some classy touch to it.That way people can add it to their Art collections at home.

The edges are very rough,the paints on the body of the pencils are peeling off too.

Asid,these,thumbs Up!

I think the question should be,where are we equal?

Is it in strength?

Or in bravery?Courage?

Where please?

Whether Men and Women are equal?As in which side?

Hmmm......smh, no they are not equal o!..
I believe there is a reason why they were created FIRST. But nevertheless, each gender has its own perculiar role to play.

I believe this topic works hand in hand with women empowerment. This thing started because women were being maltreated by their male counter part. So the society sought to give women a voice,which am in support.

But women should know their limits. Personally,I don't measure shoulders with men,cos most times,it robs someone of her feminity. The only place I would not mind contesting with a man is in maybe academics,every other thing I give way, as long as it doesn't de-humanise me(Violence/battery)

@passionate,thanks,I have heard you

@bukatyne, ,good to see you again.

Hmmmm......this debate hard o. Besides am yet to understand that word 'feminism'
Is it the same things as women liberation?Women empowerment?

Please I need to be cleared before I can contribute. Anybody?

passionate88: Feminism sef una no dey practice am well. Una think say na only for husband house una go start the feminism?, why una no start am nw?, check out most feminists, dm no marry bt dm co-habitate wit man, some dey toast guys, sleep with guys, even do three some, buy things for the guy then dump him and go for other guys wey dm dey admire. Why e b say una go shout feminism yet una go dey talk say una no fit toast men, say men are hunters let them toast me. Na hypocrisy b that na. Shey what a man can do a woman can do better?, no b so una talk?, make una show workin na, no b to stay for house dey type for nairaland say feminism this, men that. If una no understand feminism nd wat it entails make una read am up. I b man, nd I no go like wn e b say if/wn I cm marry woman go cm open her mouth dey talk anyhw wn e b say na only me pay her exorbitant bride price.

@ passionate,I really don't know why my turnoff is becoming a topic. Perharps you have one of the features.

Well,If that is this case. You have nothing to worry about. No matter how one looks,somebody somewhere likes you like that.

I don't Dig fair guys but are girls not 'dying' for Ramsey Noah,Van Vicker, Majid Michel?

I went for a friend's wedding sometime last year. I could not believe my eyes. Her husband's teeth was so-not-it. When they said "you may now kiss the bride",I closed my eyes and shuddered cos personaly I can't stand it.

But guess what? That's her choice. She is just 21, so its not even a case of desperado.


Talking about stretch marks,I saw a couple's wedding pictures on Bellanaija.The bride was wearing a tube gowns,and her arms and chest were full of aggressive stretch marks. You know those type that looks like a scratch from a wild animal.

But guess what again,you should see the husband was hugging her. He doesn't mind,where as some guys won't even look at a girl twice,once they see those stretch marks.

So, my dear Passionate,one woman's poison,is another woman's meat. I won't discuss this again. Its adding to the volume of this thread and I don't want that.

passionate88: God create u wit stretch marks ni?, u no fit shave d hairs 4 ya body?. Abegi. U fit justify yaself 4 oda ppl side bt as 4 me, I knw say u b

Passionate please come and enlighten me on this topic:Causes of stretchmarks. Since its not natural.lol

Shaving the hairs off abi?So there is a solution afterall?.Where are the dentists o!? You are highly needed here!

This is becoming interesting!

passionate88: See where u think go?. U hate hw he was created (in God's own image) so they say, but u prefer sm1 wey dey extravagant. Ok o. Nw I get u. Is ok.

Sorry o,but that's my own turn off.how about guys who see stretch mark and hairy skin on girls as a turn off?That one no be God's image?

Please spare me that sermon.Turnoffs has to do with our psyche.We don't choose it!

No need for na wa. And I don't have issues with you,so I want to accept the fact that I was not clear enough.

I meant,when you meet someone,weigh/compare the things you like about them,with the things you dislike about them(there must be one or two).Find out if you can cope,then make a decision whether to go ahead.

Also note that there is a difference between turnoffs and dislike.

Bad dentition turns me off like mad(I won't even get close,so no need to weigh anything here ).I dislike extra -vangancy/wasteful spending but it doesn't turn me off.You gerrit?

Goodmorning house!

passionate88: Me jst dey talk as I see am o. She talk smtin b4 nw she dey change mouth. E no good, make she stick to her word.

Coming from you,am not surprised.You are always in a hurry to attack me,so you like reading my posts in a hurry,then rush to comment.Read the part below,it will help you understand.

carmelion:
Weigh your likes over your dislikes,then make a decision.)

For every intending partner that walks into your life,there MUST be something/somethings you won't like about them.

Things you wish you could change but sadly you can't. No one is perfect.

Weigh your likes over your dislikes,then make a decision.
Give love/someone a second chance

Happy weekend, house

Has anyone gone to Uniben to submit hard copy of those credentials?kindly gist the house.Am planning to go next week.

@2sexy and any other guy here who believes in I-wont-tell-you -my-plan theory.

I don't subscribe to that. Though it might work for you but let it not be a platform for you to know who really loves you/or who will make a good wife for you.

When you are in a relationship,(a serious one please),give your girl a sense of belonging by letting her into your life. Every woman wants her man to be successful. You might not want to be 100% open with her,but let her know you are working towards something. Who knows she might even have one or two links .Just maybe.

If am in a relationship and my man(a corp member)and he keeps me in the dark about his future plans,I would just assume he is lazy. C'mon I want to see some efforts. You are the man

Well,if he does not tell me,I would ask,and If I don't get any reasonable answer,I would suggest Ideas.

He better starts implementing mine(since he cannot come up with his own),else I would start seeing you as unserious.