ichidodo: I have. You cant keep a good dog down. But anyway where the parry at?!. Why wasnt there any e-party this weekend?, i wanted to show you my party-trick. Hmmm?

May be because am not really into parties.online and offline.I do it once in a while. Besides,parties are best attended when there is something to celebrate,you know,everyone would be in the mood.

So what are we gonna celebrate?

ichidodo: @carmelion.But it was official,kind of, because at a point in the relationship she was askin 'questions' and i gave her definite answers. Because of her i set up my business, so that i can provide for her without breaking a sweat. Even the thought of my future with her kept me strong during the lean days of my enterprise. As a young man of 23 back then, i pegged 27 as the age that i will be married to her and she knew all my plans. I have been to her family home in the village on three separate occaisions,most of her extended family know and like me (because i dey bring brekete for them). I just feel that maybe somewhere, somehow somebody poisoned her mind towards me. The point is that there are guys who believe in buildin, resuscitating and empowering their 'girl-friends' even when they dont have much it is in their nature to nurture.They believe in the beauty of love and romance, so they wait a long while before consumation (in my own case,nothing). Maybe you dont believe in the longterm,but i believe that longterm couples bond very tightly thus they have a better chance of a quality married life. Now my eyes don tear finish, though i am stil who i am except that i might want to shine that congo before marriage. After all, i learnt from you that If you 'truly' love someone sex cannot take that love away

Really sorry to hear this,If you actually did those stuffs and this babe treated you like this.Take it from me,She will come to beg you one day.

It might not be soon,it might be in 20yrs time.But she will come.

There is something called law of nature.You can't cause someone damage and then progress in life.No, it does not work that way.

Leave it to God.Your wife would come.

To the guys here,am really sorry about the kind of stories,I hear.@ Ichidodo,9 yrs?2sexy.net,5yrs?now this is serious.

Now I want to also tell the guys here,girlfriend and wife no be the same thing,lie lie.

I also want to let you into one secret. Some girls don't like DATING a man for so long.and yes if am to say the truth,I belong to that category.

Freaking 9yrs?,am so out. I mean why not make it official? Did you propose to those girls and they said no?Now I know you will say,you don't have money to get married but you can do the little you can,then you guys can discuss and hold on with kids. When things normalise a little ,you can turn to a family.

In my own opinion,guys should also ask themselves those questions I listed out for the ladies. It might help.

I know some guys wants someone that would toil with them but I have learnt that it is better to enter a relationship when you are ready,with someone who is also ready. Now ,you can't be ready and still wait 5-9 yrs.That a huge waste of time.

Besides I have learnt not to question some life events.In a relationship,men are the drivers,you are in control of the wheel.The direction of the relationship depends on you.Remember you are the one to propose?

However,If its not meant to be,its not meant to be. Que sera sera


Happy Sunday everyone,please be happy!

@pretim,sorry to hear about how your man treated you even though,you did not tell us much about you guys.Everyone here has said it all,ichidodo and temi4fash.And as you can see this,whole investment issue is a two way traffic.Even the guys have had a bitter experience.

Well I believe you have learnt your lessons ,cos once bitten twice shy.

Am not against ladies helping their man but I want all the dolls here to know that their is a great disparity between a husband and a boyfriend/fiancee.
Especially the ladies who are financially ok.

Am sorry to say this ,but some men feed on women. Its a big disgrace to the male folks. You need to see them,very lazy set of dudes. Its a different case if the guy was struggling and then things fell apart.

I mean you can give him a helping hand,it can happen to anyone .

But no!,some men just don't want to work. Them full Abuja here,lol.
All they do is dress well,you won't suspect a thing ,and yes they have cars,obviously a trophy they got from their past relationship .They tour the whole town on daily basis looking for who to devour. Kai! you need to see the way these guys groom themselves. hmmm.....babes can't help but fall.You meet them today,thinking you met a human being,the next month he will execute his plan.They usually start from money to buy ticket to travel for bussiness or money to clear goods from the walf,Lmao!.They behave stranded and you know as a 'their woman',u gas help.


Its is a very big lie,all na wash!,just give him that money,2,3,4months,nothing has changed.He has spent that money and you dare not ask him about it ,or he will call it quit.Out of fake annoyance!,hahahhaaha.Babe ,you gas open this eyes

Before you assist that your boyfriend fianacially(in a huge way I mean),ask yourself these questions

1.How long have you guys dated?I mean you can't meet me today and tomorrow,you are requesting for money.What shorter way of convincing me ,you did not come for the money in the first place?

2.How has he assisted you financially in the past?

3.How deep have you guys gone?as in does any of his close friends or at least a family member know you?

4.What efforts is he making towards getting the money or is he relying solely on you?Is there proof of what kind of bussiness he was into before he became 'stranded'.

5.How often do you guys communicate before this money issue came up?If your relationship was healthy in terms of communication,he would not have travelled without letting you know.

If I ask myself these questions and stiil not feel comfortable with myself,then am sorry,I won't give that money. Unless my intention is not to get it back or at least expect his solidarity.

Pretim,I don't know how much you gave him but don't worry,more will come from where ever the money came in the first place. You shall not lack.

To the single ladies here,When it comes to relationships,whether you are in Lagos or not,Shine ya eyes wella.Use your head,I learnt mine the hard way.

The word'I love you'has so many sides.

madridsta007:

The person you eventually marry, will help make you or rapidly mar you.

I'd rather stay happily single than to be marred for life.

!!!

@misblanche,sorry about that,must be a technical fault.
i just resent it now,please check your inbox

@alutadoll. yeah right

@bukatyne and missblanche,nice to see you darlings again,welcome back .Miss blanche,hope you got my mail?

@aluta doll,you always speak my mind,nice.

@dagr8,I see you jare.

@boubou!,welcome back

@passionate,I see you too

alutacontinua:

I know there are sweet guys out der e.g. nbright , ichidodo , simayanki , passionate88 and others...

^^^^^,Its a code!!!!!,You guys should better ..........*clears throat* I need water

simayanki4real: Hello dolls & gents!

Our elders say when you beat a child with one hand, you draw him close with another! I am entirely grateful for this thread which although serves as a red line to the dolls, is an eye opener & a mirror to us gents to better see ourselves & correct whatever miss deeds we have done/are doing.

The dolls in the house starting with carmydoll have constantly hammered on the misdeeds of gents, how bad & evil we can be... And they have shared series of experiences to this end. I refuse to believe that all the dolls seem to have missed a gud experience with a gent, even if its JUST a date.

Please don't be quick to dismiss this as it is so important: Ever since we have been filling the beauriful minds of our charming dolls of how relationships have failed, guys are dangerous, love stinks...this is an opportunity to plant a seed of HOPE into some minds, like the thin tiny thread they need to hold onto. Let's not deprive them the opportunity.

So starting with all the dolls: please tell us of the MOST BEAURIFUL TREATMENT A GUY HAS EVER GIVEN YOU and possibly how single ladies can get same!

I hope i am inorder@carmdoll!

Lol,I know we have had enough sad talks,I also know that you,Phinalphantasy and Ichidodo have been pushing this forward for a long time but i have been waving it off *duurrrrh* .I think this should be pat of our therapy right?So yes,i will give way for it this time around.

I really have not experienced much cos i have had only two relationships that lasted for more than a year but all the same I will share mine.


But hey,its still a thread for single ladies

*off to look for a train going down the memory lane*Hey dolls,over here!,Its a Friday,lets do this!

nbright: Love is a GRADUAL thing not a one day thing..

One of the best things I have heard you say.

simayanki4real:

You write well but with so much pain and anger, you should let it go!

My apologies,I agree.I am working on it seriously.Thanks

nbright: I thought that's love at first sight?, that spark you girls are talking about.. That moment when you know he's the ONE ..

I agree with the spark,but that does not make him theone.IT MEANS SOMETHING CAN WORK OUT.

Assuming he is the one immediately is where that mistake starts.Ladies are mostly guilty of this,I don't know if guys feel that way.

simayanki4real:

P.R.O.-FOUND!!!

^^^^,this man where have you been,and what is the meaning of profound?huh?

I decided to write these things out cos I have noticed that ladies mistake a lot of things for love.I read threads with headings like"i am pregnant for my boyfriend of three months,what do I do?"


Just three months ?and you are already intimate with him in the name of love I guess?

Now I know that some ladies are quiet adventurous but I just hope you are ready to face whatever that comes out of it.

Both lust and infatuation might lead to love later but i just hope you know the difference.

When You're Feeling Hot, Bothered and in Lust

How do I define lust now?Ok,you know that dirty thought that comes to your mind when you see that guy with a six pack or that model on the runway with his shirt open?. And then you say meehn I love this guy!. Hush,it is not love dearie, it is LUST. You don’t love him, you just love his physique. What about his person? his character? If you're looking to catch someone as a prize or to get someone to go to bed with you, you're treating the person like a thing, and you're probably experiencing lust.

Evaluate how secure you feel.When you are in lust, security isn't important to you; you're more interested in the score and in how great it feels to be physical together. After you get what you want, you can take or leave the other person.

Think about how long you've been in the relationship. You may just be meeting the person you're interested in, or you may have known the person for a long time. In either situation, the relationship is more about fulfilling your sexual desires than it is about creating a partnership.

Observe how sex affects your feelings. You have sex with the person, and even though it's great, your mind has already moved onto something else. You wonder how long you have to hold the person afterward, and you're already thinking about scoring your next sexual encounter. Or you want to keep having sex with the person--at least, until somebody else comes along.

Analyze the way that you're thinking about the other person. You're trying to figure out what you have to do to get this person to invite you up for a nightcap. Your focus is on knocking down the person's guard so that he or she will be open to a sexual encounter.
Look at how you handle conflict. Who cares if you have an argument? You can find someone new without the hassle of bickering and fighting. The sex is great, but it's not worth the baggage--unless it's make-up sex after one of those passionate arguments.
Consider your feelings about moving the relationship forward. In reality, you could care less about getting exclusive with your partner. You're satisfied to date other people, and you don't care if the other person also has multiple partners. Even though you may feel jealous if your lover finds another partner, your lack of commitment suggests lust, not love.

Infatuation


This happens faster than love itself and though it is my personal opinion, I think we ladies(including me) are more guilty of this .You meet a man today, tomorrow you guys are already saying ‘I love you’ over the phone? C’mooon honey its all mirage. We get so carried away and end up opening our legs for the man thinking its love, sweet hearts its not!. It is often mistaken for love at first sight.

You know those butterflies you feel just when you meet that handsome guy? That’s a very big sign of infatuation. Now, you can’t really stop it from happening, but I want you to have control of things it would lead you to do. Hold your self no matter how tempting it might be to throw caution to the wind.
When you experience infatuation, your mind is consumed by thoughts of the other person. You're thinking not only about the other person but also about how you want to reveal yourself to the other person. You have an idealized vision of what this person is like, and your vision may or may not be accurate.(what if it is not accurate and you have made a mistake? ).Kasala don burst be that o!

Evaluate how secure you feel: When you are infatuated, Instead of feeling secure, you are thinking more about how to impress the other person. Your focus is on how to get the other person to like you, and you feel nervous because you don't know how the other person feels.

Think about how long you've been in the relationship. Your relationship is pretty new, and while you're constantly thinking about the other person, you're not confident that he or she has what it takes to go the distance
Observe how sex affects your feelings. Sex is exciting, but you feel tentative afterward. You worry about whether your partner found you appealing, and you worry about what the next step after sex will be.

Analyze the way that you're thinking about the other person. You think constantly about the way that the person smiles, the way he or she says your name or the way that your partner looks at you. You think obsessively about these details, and you try to decide how the person feels about you based on these somewhat trivial qualities.

Look at how you handle conflict. The person you like disagrees with you, and you wonder if the relationship is over. You wonder whether you know the person at all or whether your impressions have been wrong all along.

Consider your feelings about moving the relationship forward. You want to ask the person to date exclusively, but you're nervous about what he or she might say. You're afraid that asking for commitment may frighten the person away. Your feelings aren't deep enough for love; you're probably more in the realm of infatuation.

Whether you're in a relationship already or whether you're admiring someone from afar, sorting out your feelings can be a real challenge. While there's no clear, fool-proof way to decipher your feelings for someone, there are certain ways to make the distinction clearer for yourself. Follow these tips to help yourself to know the difference between love, infatuation and lust.

Love
When you are in love ,you care for this person even knowing his or her faults. You are committed to sticking together even through the most difficult circumstances. You can tell this person anything about yourself, even if the truth doesn't flatter you, and you know that your partner will accept you.

Evaluate how secure you feel.You know that your partner will stand by you no matter what, and you are prepared to commit to your partner for the rest of your life.

You are in love if you have known the person for a long time, and you can't imagine life without him or her. This is why courtship is recommended because time reveals things
You are in love if after you have sex with your partner, you still feel closer to him or her(unlike in lust when all you want is sex,so once you get it,you are done). For you, affection and post-coital cuddling are just as important as sex, although you love to keep the flame alive.

Analyze the way that you're thinking about the other person.Something funny has happened to you at work, and you can't wait to tell your partner. Alternatively, you've had a bad experience, and you want to talk to someone who will understand. If your partner is the first person that you think about when you want to share your innermost thoughts, then you may be in love

Look at how you handle conflict. When you have an argument with your partner, you keep working until you're able to find some common ground. No argument can erase your commitment to one another, and you appreciate your partner speaking the truth even when it's painful.

Consider your feelings about moving the relationship forward. You feel comfortable with your partner, and you feel a strong bond of trust. Moving in together or getting married feels natural and logical.

To the single ladies here,there is a very thick line between

1.Love.
2.Infatuation.
3.Lust .

Be sure of which one you are feeling.

nbright: If you say no sex till after marriage then desist from anything that leads to it..

A hug?,a peck?Holding hands?.I feel if you both agree not to do it,it would be easier.

Tell me more.

nbright: Great things start from little things... Let me tell you a secret about "MOST" men... When the romance is ongoing and the lady stops it, the guy will get angry (He might not show it out).. Especially if that isn't the first time you have done that... He might force himself into you... If you say no sex till after marrige then desist from anything that leads to it..To me I still stick to my principle of taste and see unless she's a "V" then I might wait or I leave.. But if I do get married and find out she did it[b] just once yet still claim to be a "V", God help the both of us that day.[/b]

LMAO at the bolded. That is sheer wickedness on her part if she tries to deceive you.I have seen a thread where a guy comes to complain/threaten divorce cos he discovered that his wife was not a virgin after he made him wait.In as much as sex is not everything in marriage,If i discover my partner lied to me,that's it,things would fall apart and when we come back,it wont be the same again.

i hate deceit.Even if down there is as wide as a b*****le,let him accept you for who you are,See,people should understand that there is more to marriage than lying down on the bed o.Am an advocate for virgin ladies,but there is more to a wife than virginity


Nbright and other guys who believe in taste and see,I wont and can never be against you.Everyone has a choice and sometimes the decisions we make in life are being influenced by experiences/our upbringing.

My own decision was obviously influenced by my experience.I mean i have been there, and it did not work for me,Such is life.

I know it might be hard to find some one who would understand that 'crap',but its my decision anyways. Goodluck with yours.I think am more interested in the ladies.

nbright: No. 12 kinda contradict what most female posters here believe in...

Yeah that was why i added the red part.for me no sex(hmmm,did i just say that?) Lol.

Romance would do and that includes a peck on my chin or my fore head.,a hug,a special hand hold.

AND YES,AM A SUCKER FOR ANY ONE WHO LISTENS TO ME!

my opinion though.

For single ladies here who are in a relationship .I just saw this on the front page and i agree with almost everything there.Use it and checkmate your man.It truly hurts when you discover that you and your man are not on the same page.

To you ,you guys are in serious relationship,
building your future together,walking to the promise land.

To him,you are just a side chick.One of those girls to quench the sexual urge.
It hurts more when you have turned down a lot of other guys.

Go through this and know when something is not right.He must not do all,but when he is guilty of most of it,all i can say is hmmmmmm................

https://www.nairaland.com/1243856/signs-he-just-not-into



On the physical and emotional levels, a guy who will not share just doesn’t want to go too deep. That can be fine for a fling, but it’s not worth making an emotional investment on your part.

No matter what age you are or level of dating experience, reading men’s interest in you can be a struggle. Many men prefer to remain a mystery, opting for privacy in all areas of their lives until they are ready to make a major commitment. God bless the fella who will tell you his intentions up front. But for most men, catching on to their subtle (and not-so-subtle) cues can be an easier way to get their message and avoid unnecessary heartbreak. If you are wondering if your guy is on the fence, but are unsure of whether you should jet, here are 14 telltale signs that he is just not that into you. If anyone you are seeing exhibits a significant number of these traits, it is time to tell him to move along.

1. He takes forever to text or email you back

In this technological age, there is nothing easier than sending someone a quick email or text. If your male companion takes hours — or even days — to respond to these simple forms of communication with even one line of acknowledgment, it’s time to kick him to the curb. This is not only lazy — it’s also rude. He might not be sending you a text message, but he is certainly sending you a clear message of another kind. On to the next one!

2. He maintains physical and emotional distance

Does he often break eye contact, even in private? Or withhold sharing personal details about his life? On the physical and emotional levels, a guy who will not share just doesn’t want to go too deep. That can be fine for a fling, but it’s not worth making an emotional investment on your part. If you have had your fun, it’s time to move on to brighter horizons.

3. He never comes over to your house

Men don’t like to go out of their way — especially if they are not that into you. A guy who likes you wants to make efforts to show you are special to him. Someone who won’t even drive to your house or take the subway can’t be expected to give much in the long term. There are other top-notch fish in the sea. Trust.

4. He avoids touching you in public

If your guy friend loves to embrace, kiss and cuddle in the privacy of your home, but won’t even hold your hand on the street, this is a major warning sign. Either he doesn’t want to be seen as being “with” you, or he is scared one of his other lovers (or his wife!) will see you out in public. Drop this dude if he won’t even hold your hand.

5. He rudely shoots down your ideas

A guy can disagree with your way of seeing the world and still care. If all he does is disrespectfully disregard your perspective when communicating, he likely doesn’t think much of you. You don’t want to be with someone who can’t treat you nicely, especially when you are simply talking. Next!

6. He only sees you after midnight

It’s hard if you really like someone to open your eyes and admit to yourself that to him, you are a booty call. If you can handle that, more power to you. But don’t expect this relationship to go anywhere. If you want more from a man, it’s time to search elsewhere.

7. He won’t let you leave things at his house

If you are at his place often, a guy who is into you will be happy to let you stow essentials there. But if someone you are frequently dating won’t even let you leave a toothbrush at his house he is either a) an obsessive compulsive neat freak, or b) trying to hide you from other women. In either case, you might want to distance yourself.

8. He attends major events without you

Friend’s house party? Parents’ anniversary dinner? Maybe even his own birthday? Sometimes a man wants to maintain his independence. And at other times he wants to ensure that you don’t get too involved in his life so he can move on any time. If he never wants you around at a time of life that’s meaningful, you don’t mean that much to him. You also have better ways to spend your time — with family and friends who really care.

9. He refuses to make future plans with you — short- or long-term

Does this guy squeeze you into the corners of his life? Refuse to plan weekends away? Keep his schedule open weeks in advance? If he only makes last-minute plans with you, while cramming in other activities with friends, he is just not that into you. Sorry, but you deserve better.

10. He flakes out on plans you do have at the last minute

This is another clear sign that he does not respect you or your time. Make room in your life for someone who does.

11. He’s already involved with someone else

This man might say he loves you, but if he is seriously involved with another women, he can’t really be giving you his all. He is a man divided, so how into you could he be? Worse, even if he did leave his mate for you, he has lied to her. He will likely lie to you. You don’t want that. Stay strong and carry on to another man.

12. He doesn’t seem that interested in intimacy(romance)

If your sex life with dude is little to nothing, he is basically saying that he can do without you. This is rude, frustrating, and a little cruel. You don’t need that. Do what you’ve got to do for you, and find that man who makes you feel desirable.

13. He pulls a disappearing act

When you don’t see a man for days, weeks or months at a time without explanation, he is just not that into you. He might be seeing other people, or simply doesn’t want to spend his time with you. If you aren’t seen as life-enhancing by this man, take the time to find someone who cherishes you. Your time, energy and love are worth it.

14. He encourages you to date other people

This is a sure sign that he wants to be totally free, and is not in a mind to commit himself. You probably won’t change him, so why waste your time? No guy is worth it. You deserve a man who wants to spend quality time with you, and reflects back to you your own self worth. There are people out there who will treat you with loving respect. If your significant other exhibits many of these behaviors, take the hint and resist investing another minute. You deserve the best in life. Keep striving until you find the love you deserve.




WARNING!,If he is a player,he can still bypass most of these ,meeeehn,we need binoculars

ok,I know that this thread was opened for brother Goshen to give his response but i hope i can post mine too?.

Am a christian,not a stunch one though but i strive everyday to do what is right.So help me God.

To the poster and whom it may concern,I want you to know that the end is near,and the devil is seeking for more members by the day.One way to do this is to push you to find reasons to start seeing wrong as right.Remember what happened to Eve in the bible?.

Even after God's instruction,the devil cornered her and gave her reasons why she should eat the fruit.And she did,what later happened?I heard of a pastor that said masturbation is not a sin but the same pastor said your body is the temple of the holy spirit.Am not here to argue ,but when you do it and you are comfortable(as in not guilty),then go ahead.


I want you to know that in our everyday life,the devil is near,as in very near,in all manner of way,just to get you to his trap.


i know what you want you hear now."OK,FORNICATION WITH YOUR FIANCEE IS NOT A SIN".And then what happens after that?you go on a fucking spree?


Let me tell you the easiest way to find the answers you seek.When you accept fornication as a way of life,would your mind at peace?can you still look up to the holy cross or feel comfortable when you enter the church?


If your answer is no,then it is wrong,but if it is yes,then go ahead and do it.I am saying this cos i have been there>


Your conscience is your religion.

thehunted: Camelion,god will provide that person very soon.

I don't deal with gods neither do I deal with anything that deals with them ok?

bye.

Thanks Dagr8 and biolabee.Happy Easter

mabebe1: @carmydol, u've said it al. No need 2 put presure on urself unnecesarily, I've seen so many gals dat got maried at d age of 30,31,32...God's time is d best. Hapi easter dolls

Am not putting pressure on my self doll.Just people around me!.

This is a special Easter shout out to Bukylois and all the single ladies here who are under pressure to get married.

I am sending this shout out cos I know that Easter is also a season when so many marriages takes place.

I can guess how many wedding invitations you must have received this Easter period. Personally I have 3,one is today by the way.(My cousin)

How about those times you hear marriage bans in church?You wonder how those people did it. Right?

You also wonder what exactly you are not doing right or why your own story is different. Some ladies even start feeling cursed.


Sweetheart,you are not cursed. Your own will come.

I want you dolls to know that you are not the only one feeling the heat. I feel it too.

But I know that very soon we will look at this thread and say"I WAS here"

Wait did I say soon?. Is soon a date?.Lol,I can't find it on the calendar o. hehehhehehe

But while we are still single and searching,let's keep doing our thing

Now let me give you a break down of what my life is like now

My grand mum would be 80 in a few years time ,she is planning it in a big way.

In fact she wants to invite the whole of Africa .And guess what she has been telling me?

"I don't know what you are doing o,but I want pictures of my great grand children in my brochure"She said it jokingly though,but I got the msg.

My sweet Mom

"I won't force you to do what you don't want to do o,but be sure of what you want. Don,t be too selective, time does not wait for anybody especially women".

My Cousin(females)

"Baby,when are you calling us na,our asoebi is ready"

My sister

Big sis,I had a dream that you got married this year december o.

My Sister on BBm

"Check out this picture,I saw it on bellanaija(online magazine),so I felt you should save it. We can use it for your trad outfit"


Aunties & Uncles

Carmelion baby,our cup is ready o,where is the drink?

One of My Ex(text msg)

"I just tot of you today,its been so long Carmelion,I have really missed you. How are you?

Facebook

A friend/classmate uploads picture of baby(My bundle of Joy)

Text msg from a friend

You re cordially invited to the traditional marriage between.......,,
...........Please be there.

Music stations/Radio
Adele -
Someone like you.Kai I don't like listening to this song)

My Mentor

You need to get a higher certificate,do it now before you get married. Once kids roll in,you won't have time again

The Devil

"Hahahahahaha,this is just the begining.You have not even seen anything. You think you can run away from me?Stop deceiving yourself with that nonsense thread you opened,nobody will listen.

I will get them all. Better give these rich men a chance at least you will have financial freedom"


MY OGA@THE TOP

Mattew 11:28-30,Ecclessiaties 3:1-15

On my way back from work

"Hello excuse me ,Sister you are invited to our singles programme*hands out flier*.
Please come o,you never can tell. You might meet him".

My Boss

Hmmm....Carmelion,I saw your Memo,(request) seeking permssion to travel.hehehehe,are they coming for introduction?I invite us for the conclusion o.


Phew ! only me ?One of these things I mentioned above happens every month.

But in all this,I have choosen to live my life the way I know how to. And I want you to do the same. If you follow the way this pressure falls on someone's head,you will marry the next man that would come,not minding his character.

The only person I like gisting with now is my Dad. That man is not in a hurry to see me go yet


When pals comes up with questions like"when are you calling us".I just smile and say to them "soon".

But in my mind,am like"hmm.....this people are asking of moi -moi,when I have not even bought the beans".


In the mist of all this,you still hear cases of Divorce,you read threads about marital violence and maltreatment.

I know that these things should not stop us from taking a leap,but then it just gets me confused some times.


Do your thing,ladies,this life is once,don't spend in a moody way.

There is no second life here on earth. !


Happy Easter to you dolls. He lives!!!!

nbright: Thank God with me... My sister gave birth to a baby girl (her first)... at around 5:46 pm.. Both the mother and child are healthy... That's a wonderful Easter present to the family..

I rejoice with you and your family nbright.I key into this blessing.It shall be my turn sooner than I can imagine.

Congrats latest Mum
Welcome baby girl
MAY HIS NAME BE PRAISED!!!!!

Eze Promoe: Where is CFCfan and Acidosis
Are they afraid of Eze Ogbunike

Here comes the group of death!What?!

sexkillz: Don't be speechless. . . Open your mouth and remind him to buy fuel. Else, una go piss for tank tire.

Lol,he does not buy fuel,he is an oil magnet.He is on post paid.hahahahaha